To this man, you said that Linda & you seems like has so much in common sense so the two of you can be a perfect match & able to paddle one boat without having any issues! The fact was that dating was different conversations than husband & wife! Well! Linda neb lub boat is about sinking down under now! Thank you for sharing your story, there are differential ideas between the two persons but goes with the best options when decision are making. You don’t realize that when two person becomes one couple there are issues but txhob cheating xwb, it’s seems like you are the one that Cheated on your hard working wife with Linda because you see the grass greener at Linda side but it’s actually more brown grass!!
When you turn to the outside to get opinions about your life, especially the opposite sex, you are setting yourself up for trouble. If you have issues with your spouse, that’s the person you should address it with. It’s no body else’s business. Thank you for being a good example of “the grass is not always greener on the other side”👍🏻
Brother, I think the issue isn't about your hmoov. You started an emotional affair with your coworker. You started looking at the other side instead of tending to your own. Believe in the saying that the grass isn't greener on the other side. Good luck to you, brother!
Hihihi! Thaub no mas npwb tiag tiag. Piv tsis tau aib pog tus ntiv tes rwg qab. Thaub npwb, yog koj paub tsis txog tias yuav ua cas luag thiaj qaum tsis tau koj cov personal or business money ces mus kawm ntxiv nawb, tsis paub txhob ua ruam tsab ntse li ko.
I guess you were not as smart as you thought yourself to be since you gave up a perfectly good life (& wife) in hopes that your life with Linda would be fantastic. This gamble was never a guarantee, just like Linda's gambling (fyi, the casino wins 90% of the time against the gambler, ALWAYS). I don't understand how you were college educated but have a very old fashion mindset about not liking your wife to have opinions of her own, especially when you know she's right. You only wanted a wife who would defer to you on all things. That's ridiculous, especially in this day and age! A truly successful marriage is one where both people contribute and support each other. I don't feel badly for you at all. You did this to yourself because you actually believed the grass was greener on the other side (rarely is it ever true).
Yus lub neej yeej yog yus hmoo thiab tabsi the choices is also ours to make. In life Peb xaiv tsis tau txoj hmoo los yug tabsi peb xaiv peb txoj hauv kev thiab. Cheating is a choice it’s never a mistake. It’s too sad that you made the wrong choice. Koj tus xaiv tau koj txoj kev ntshaw lawm ces txhob khuv xim koj tus qub poj niam os. The grass isn’t green on the other side.
All the comments being saying what I was thinking😂. “ Grass is not EVER greener on the other side!!!! “Be happy with your KARMA. It got you and Linda very very good. 😮
Ruam dhau lm os tus txiv neej hmoob koj siab me dhau lm os koj qia dub dhau lm koj ntawv tas lm os tau tus poj muaj peev xwm li no koj nriav g laib lm os
Tus mi txiv tsev aw, koj ces 💯 tauj 1 phav nrauj tus hmoov zoo lawm tiag hos yuav!!! Qhia koj tias tej laus yeej hais tias nyias mam kawm nyias tus kheej, nyias mam qhia nyias thiaj paub, thiaj ntseeg no muaj tiag laiv yom?!!! Txhob tu siab mog. Qhov zoo tsuas rau yus ib zaug xwb es cia fab lwm tiam mam los ua dua es txhob nqa lo lus tias paub li lawm nawb!
The grass is not ALWAYS greener on the other side. Sometimes, people think that if they marry someone just like them, then life would be perfect, that's wrong😅. Don't regret your decision. Live with it. 😂. Things would never work with your ex and you too because you don't appreciate her difference.
Thaub aw! Tim koj lub siab dev vwm xwb os. Poj niam txiv nej ua hauj lwm ua ke los yeej tau kawg, thaum sib ntsib los tsuas say hi xwb es nyias ua nyias hauj lwm xwb es cas koj ho mus hais lus thab lawv tus poj niam ua dab tsi naw!
The start of your issues isn’t your wife wanted a shared account. The problem is you telling others your martial issue. Issues at home need to resolve at home. The grass isn’t greener on the other side.
Brother, I think that you think you’re educated but you don’t have goals. Your wife, nws muaj hom phiaj so she’s gonna go far. You did wrong by destroying your marriage for some one that you only know from the outside. Good luck to you.
Neb txoj kev npam los mas pog linda neb muab neb 2 txoj kev txawj ntse coj los khoo neb 2 tug txij nkawm es neb xav tias neb ntse2 li ces neb sib tau ces neb lub neej nim yuav zoo tshaj no ntag
The grass isn’t greener on the other side. Also you should be supportive of your first wife & her business. I believe in what the fortune teller tells you. It’s your loss brother.
Cov neeg uas tawm rooj plaws es tsuas tias muab yus tus txij nkawm rhuav rau neeg li koj thiab Linda neb ob tug ko ces kawg tog rau qab thu dej xwb tiag.
When you first started talking at work you both were cheating on your spouses…no such thing as friends….grass aint greener on other side. You both got karma for being selfish. Marriage is about partnership not being individuals. You both threw a diamond away for a rock.
Uarca e neb ho mu raur dabteb lawm e neb hor tsi mu saum ntuj ceebtsheej kom raw lir neb txoj kevjhawr. Koj ce thiaj tseem yog mhoov ta lawm. Koj tu pojniam qub yog neeg nquag xwb e koj ciarlir dxub nw koj thiaj taur txai kevkhaum. Koj tu niam tshiab lo tibyam thiab.
Tus txiv siab phem li koj yeej tsis sawm muaj. Koj tus poj niam twb yog tus khwv tshaj lub neej thiaj sawv los koj tseem xav tias koj yog tus zoo. Cia kom koj paub thiaj li.
Tus phooj ywg aw hais txog nyiaj txiag ces nws yog hmoov xwb nawb hais txog nyiaj mas nws tseem ceeb tiag2 li nawb sim neej no yog hmoov tsis haum mas yeej tsis lam yuav khwv tau li nawb kojsim xav saib ma yog koj yuavkwv tau ib pob nyiaj mas tsis yog nyob2 ces cia li lam khwv tau nyiaj ua ntej koj yuav tau ib pob nyiaj mas koj yeej ua npau suav zoo koj thiaj li tau nawb nyiaj mas yog koob hmoov xwb yog hmoov tsis haum mas koj txawm yuav khwv tuag kiag los koj tsuas txaus noj txaus haus xwb es koj tus niam tam sim no ces neb txoj hmoo nws tsis yog hmoov nyiaj nawb peb ua neej nyob mas ib tug neeg nyias muaj nyias ib txog koob hmoov koj tus niam tam sim no mas tej zaum nws zoo mus rau lwm yam lawm od es txawm li cas los puam chawj sib sau tau la ces kav tsij sib2 hlub xwb es tsis txhob muab tej nyiaj coj los ua teeb meem tsuav khwv txaus neb them nuj them nqi xwb ces yog qhov zoo lawm estsis txhob muab tej nyiaj coj los ua teeb meem loj2 tsam neb lub neej puas ntxoog nawb.
Brother first this is what we Hmong called ruam ntsib nruam ces zoo li no. Second you don’t proclaimed yourself to be smart. Third your wife is naturals smart you are school taught - school teach us to work not free from work. Business mentality is what free you from work. The only good thing about you is : you finally acknowledge your problems. Your wife is what Hmong call. Ntsuag kub
Ua cas es kuv tab hnov nej cov pheej tuaj muab nej txoj kev muaj nyiaj khav rau hauv RU-vid no hais tias luag tej nim paub tias nej yog neeg muaj nyiaj. Puas yog nej pheej mus khav rau qab zej hauv zos hais tias nej muaj nyiaj no nas?. Yog yus tsis hais tawm tib neeg yuav tsis paub hais tias yus yog neeg muaj nyiaj pob los? Kuv tus no twb muaj txog half million dollars cash saving tom bank los twb tsis muaj leej twg paub hais tias kuv yog neeg muaj nyiaj li nev. Kuv tus no muab nyiaj khi tib neeg tes mas tsawg kawg $60 mus rau $100 xwb los twb tsis muaj leej twg hais li cas rau kuv li nev. Mus party mas kuv yuav tsheej niag case beer rau tib neeg chiv rau sawv daws haus los twb tsis muaj leej twg paub tias kuv yog neeg muaj nyiaj li laiv. Kuv xav mas nej khav theeb dhau lawm xwb pob los.
Yuav ruam tsis ruam, yuav ntse tsis ntse ces zoo li no lol. However, I do not believe this guys a bit. He planned to cheat on his wife from the starts, and wanted to sleep with the other lady for a long time. Nobody believes you, dude. You're not professional with a wonder eyes.
Sounds like you and Linda are the tsuam tsab ntse. U should know as an "educated" man that no one is going to agree with you 100% all the time. Everyone has their own opinion. But u just need to respect each other. Sounds like u did not respect your first wife cause u think she is uneducated. Anyways, it's not your wife hmoov, it's her hard work and your karma.
Yus khav theeb ces mus yuav tau tus neeg phim yus ces kob huam xwb tiag vim neb yog 2 tug ntxeev siab rau neb tus txij nkawm nes muaj kev npam os ua zoo ua phem tau phem xwb hmoob aw
Ntuj aw UA cas kuv nyiag txiv los lub npe zoo lis koj thiab os. Es nws lub hlwb Xav ces tsis txawv koj lub maib kiag lis os. Yog Hom neeg es Xav control yus xwb os. Yus twb pom hais tias koj UA tsis yog, Tiam si koj tsis nyoo xiam piaj es sij hais tias koj yog tus yog lis yog xwb no os. Koj yog tus ruam tsab ntse os. Koj tus Poj niam nws tsis kawm ntawv siab los nws muaj zoo tswv yim UA lag Luam. Koj yeej ruam os. LaM kawm tawm xwb tsis kawm tiav os !
If you have a business incorporation then it should protect you and your personal assets. You didn't put in any time to help with your first wife. She worked hard so that she can retire early and you screwed everything up. It's a good thing you divorced her because she deserved better.
Tsam no koj puas tau paub tias koj thiab Linda neb yog ob tug ruam tsab ntse nab? lol lol lol. Neb tsuas kawm paub tus ntawv xwb, nej tsis ntse li laiv, qhov kuv pom nas. Neeg ntse mas nws twv tau lwm tus tib neeg lub siab kev xav, nws twv tau kev phom sij rau ntawm nws lub neej. Koj tus pojniam thiaj li yog tus ntse nawb.
Koj poj niam ua lag luam huam vam li ntws es koj pheej tawm tsam nws xwb nes. Tej nyiaj lag luam nyiaj haujlwm xauj vaj xauj tsev Np body can't touch Sir You're not well educated. Koj poj niam zoo tshaj plaws 1000%
You're not as smart as you think you are. There are so many ways to protect your personal financial from your business. I do not buy what he has to say. Liar.
Yog vim li cas es koj thiab Linda neb pheej khav qhov neb ntse2 xwb nas lo....yog ntse npaum li cas hos ua lub neej txom2 nyem thiab nyuaj2 siab npaum li koj lawm thiab lo...yus txoj hmoov yeej play ib qhov role nyob rau yus lub neej thiab mas...tabsi yog koj ua neeg siab phem lawm ces lub ntuj thiab txoj hmoov yeej tsi pab koj li nawb Ib khub ntse2....lo yog tsab ntse xwb mas......haha...
Don't give up advice peb ua neej nyob. We are not you, so don't call your ignorance ua "peb". Guy, we also don't learn from bad person like you. So don't tell story as a lesson for us. There are many stories and books we can learn from, not from you. You claim that it's a "yuam kev". No you intentionally divorced her so claim this excuse of mistakes.
Old always said tau tus zoo thiab xav ua lub need nrog koj tab koj tus kheej stupid and you only see what you want to see that why you make mistake and karma follow you and that why you get what you deserve vim ntuj muaj qhov muag tsau yog koj tsi muaj qhov muag xwb
Idk why u think just because u worked for the city means ur so much more superior lmao. It's not ur luck. It's u. U got what u asked for (a working partner instead of an entrepreneur) and here u r still complaining. Time to realize the problem is you.
In the beginning of the story I know you are at fault. In America if you don’t have business of your own, you will not have enough money but pay check to pay check.
Neb ob niag ruam low low education ko ces khiav qav ntsib nab Raj khub sai ntsib kiag mes mes tau plev mas plev mob nkig nkuav tau kub mas kub ua nwg neb nqaij yaj tsheej thaj mas mob khawb kawv rau neb ob lub niag nruab plawv tshaj hluas taws hlawv NAWS 🤮🤮
As far as the bank account for thepp store goes. The husband isn't wrong. It's a practical business move many make. Anyway, this dude asking for too much. Seems needy as hell. I'd be happy to be left alone to do my own thing.
U thought the grass was greener on the other side, so u went and saw that it was not greener, then u realized what you had and lost forever. I hope u learned ur lesson.