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NRI here. Please make a video on NRIs who save every penny and send all their savings back home for several years and now the parents and siblings think that the NRI child has money and does not need a share in the inheritance. As usual, parents have favoritism towards the child who is living nearby. Adding a gender factor here that nobody has addressed. The father spends all the money sent by the son from abroad according to his own will, mostly to increase his status in the family, the kind of money that he has never seen before. All this, thinking that everything that the father owns will eventually go to his son anyways. But now the sisters want a share in the inheritance which rightfully belongs to the son because the father spent all his money and gave away properties bought with that money to the sisters already and the rest spent on distant relatives. More than the money, the unfairness is real. This is not a one off example. There are many NRIs who have suffered this and are suffering.
I am 28. I made up my mind. If my brother becomes successful and ask me to sell the parent's property and divide it 50/50 among us. I will agree. I take my 50% buy a small house instead and enjoy my life peacefully. There is no need to waste your life for a little more
Great one snd eye opener, people running after jobs don't realise how much worth old properties have, entire lifetime won't be enough to secure that wealth
I am an NRI, but worse than that, I am a daughter. My parents have openly discriminated against me from day 1. So, I knew right from school that I was like an orphan and must become independent. Otherwise, there would be no hope for me. My brothers were ALWAYS supported by my parents. They are well settled now. I am still struggling financially, but hopefully in the future, I will be well settled. 🙏
You should speak up about your stance. If you do not speak up, you will always live with regret. And your children will be watching your actions. They will observe how you gave up on your rights. I say it’s about time that daughters start to cut ties with parents who discriminate and treat them like they are below their brothers. Girls think that if they revolt against injustice, then their family won’t support them. But how exactly are they really supporting you anyways? We are on our own anyways. So might as well stand up for something that hurts us so much. Maybe people will finally start to change when their daughters start cutting them off their lives
I am an NRI. But none of this resonates with me. Reason simple- I don’t care if I don’t get a penny, let alone real estate from my parents as inheritance. God has been good and given me enough and my children are settled too. What will I do with more money and property? It has never felt like a “loss” to me if my parents left me nothing. Also if they called their son/daughter in India their favorite, I don’t have a problem either. Aakhir jo bachche kaam aate hain unko favorite banaaya to why should I be jealous.
NRI.I am going through the similar situation. My father is not ready to listen to me.He loves me a lot but when I want to talk to him about the property division, he becomes stubborn. He has prepared his will in such a way that there are 100% chances of conflict. When I try to explain about the potential conflict in future, he says - Both the brothers should live with peace, give respect to each other. Why will you fight with each other over the property? He brings everything to morality. Lecture about moral values blah blah. He is simply driven by the emotions.
@@RKY1411 everything has been tried out. My sister and mother also tried to convince him a lot but he is not ready to listen. Maine unko bola ki I will take 40%. Give 60% to my brother but he does not listen.He does not want to do the clean division. Poora raita faila rahe hain. Bolte hain ki mere marne ke baad apne aap kar lena clean division. Main to aise hi karoonga
Pls make more videos about the righteousness of character for parents/ siblings.Your effort is greatly appreciated in showing clear clean path to the society.Thank you.
I'm an NRI and your videos are very relevant. Would love to see more videos about people who stay away from their home in general on various topics. I live outside India and the problems you mentioned everyone faces but are more amplified for non-residents due to lesser frequency of travel.
Indian middle class ke gharon ka issues . rights vs responsibilities. rights claims and responsibility avoided. Some are carried away by this confusion. parents don't live there life and children fighting for the inheritance. a consultant is badly needed.
Sir you have brought such a a unique topic and a very common issue most NRIs are facing with siblings in India. Really appreciate your effort. As an NRI I have supported my family financially whenever they needed money for any big or small requirement. However now when I am asking for my property share in India they say you didn’t stay with parents so why you should get. If I would have stayed in india with parents, we would have still struggled make ends meet. And staying away from family is not easy. Like you said we do not have support system here in abroad. So yes being NRI is not a wrong thing.
Aapne bada achha topic uthaya. Mere husband ghar k bade bete the. Aur ittephak se bahar job karte the. Mere husband ka chhota bhai jo parents k sath rehta tha usko hi hamesha support kiya gaya. Aur mere husband k retirement k 10 saal baad bhi parents k ghar me unka kuchh nahi hai. Chhote bhai ne sab kabja kar rakha hai. Uski wife teacher hai aur uske bachcho ko dekhte the parents. Par mujhe ye kah kar badnaam kiya gaya ki maine apne saas sasur ki sewa nahi ki...... 😢😢
Well, here are the three most interesting additions to my vocabulary... Babribuch: Which I don't want to be, Pisa: Which i am working hard to earn and Mandwali: Which I want to master.... Looking forward to a lot more interesting words...
NRI - need more videos from you for us! Thank you Guruji 🙏🏼 also no one replies on the WhatsApp messages 😢maybe manpower issues currently 🤷🏻♂️ but content is solid👍🔥
Awesome topic. Sharing a unique scenario: We bought property for my retired parents (when father's age was 58). 2/3 paid by me and 1/3 by them. They promised to write a will to give to me once they pass away. It has been 7+ yrs and they are living in the property but deny to create any will (saying koi jaldi nahi hai). I am tired asking them to get the will created but they don't want to do it. My sibling knows and understands property belongs to me and there is no dispute/difference of opinion there. But my parents are not ready to create a will. And so it will be far too hard to get the paperwork without any will. Do you suggest a solution for it.
It's your mistake to invest in a property which is not in your name today's reality is parents can cheat there child also I'm facing a huge loss because of the cheating of my parents
@@Dilip1600it's a will, and can get executed only in their absence and that's what a will is for..so ideally there should not be any insecurity for the parents!
@13:16 This is very true 😂 That's why I never want to get married. And I have flipped my family situation now where my mother listens to me and takes my advice. 😉
Sir, please make video about distribution of ancestral property between brother and sister - what law says and what is your advice for amicable settlement.
Sir yeh local level pe gaon mein bhi yhi hota hai. Agar 2 mein se koi bhi bhai bahar nikal gaya, jaise mere papa chote bhai hai aur mumbai chale gye. Fir jab wapas gaon Jakarta rehna chaha toh bade bhai aur gaon walo ne bohot natak kiye. Bohot ladaiya kari tab Jakarta kuch mila. Gaon wale aaj bhi Hume bahar ka bolte hai aur unka favor jyada karte hai
my partner is also in govt service. he has already told everyone in the family ke usko koi hissa nai chahiye mummy papa ka. mummy ko monetary support wahi deta hai and 4 bhaiyon aur behen ko bhi keh diya hai jitna hoga main support karunga mujhe kuch nai chhaiye. bhai logon ne guilt mein aakar (kahin unko paap na lag jaaye aisa sochkar 😄) thoda sa hissa dene ka waada kiya hai) . lekin mere partner ne bol diya hai jo hai sab aapas mein baanth lo . amrish puri banke bol diya hai 'jaa simran jaa jee le apni zindagi'...😄😄😄😄
... nice one facing it since 15 years... mother & unmarried sister teacher by profession stays in the flat bought by my father.... i moved out because of my wife behavior but on practical grounds i only know how difficult i am going through financially ... when ever i talk of selling parents thing i want to through them in street ....
