Love this story! I praise this woman. She is strong and independent that is why she raised successful children. I hope all women will be inspired by this woman. She proves that women don’t NEED a man. May God bless her!
I have to agree. The girls do love the parents more. Even if they go get married and the parents are sick. They be there in a heartbeat don't matter how far they are. Sad that I can't even have one for myself.
You are right tus niam tsev. You did an awesome job raising your kids. They came from very poor, humble roots and fatherless to achieve the “American dreams”. They came from disadvantage background to make something for themselves. So proud of them.
A lot of Hmong practices that need to change... Hmong condemning family members contacting law enforcement for domestic violence. Hmong favoring boys over girls. Treating girls inferior. Married Hmong guys still acting like they’re single...
Tus niam tij koj zaj neej neeg no yog ib zaj tu siab kawg. Tiam sis ho txhob tu2 siab thiab yog koj tsis raug kev txom nyem npaum no xyov koj tej me nyuam puas muaj hnub no mog, yog koj tus txiv ho hlub koj xyov neb cov me nyuam puas muaj hnub no cov txiv neej hmoob ces feem coob tsis muaj kev txawj ntse yeej coj niag cuj pwm zoo li no ho txhob tu2 siab thiab tsam no yog yus zeeg lawm ua zoo rau tus neeg tsim yus mas lawv thiaj txaj muag rau yus mus txog hnub tuag ua txoj kev zoo thiaj yeej txoj kev phem nkaus xwb vim koj cov me nyuam yeej yog nws roj nws ntshav es yuav tau zam txim pub tus neeg phem thiab,kuv ntseeg tias yog nej cov niam tub ntsuag tig hlub koj tus txiv cov kwv tij txaj muag rau nej cov niam tub ntsuag tshaj plaws no thiaj yog qhov nej yeej mog, tus niam tij ua ntej yuav peem tau txoj kev zoo mas yeej raug tsim txom raug kev txom2 nyem li ko thiaj peem tsheej tau mus ua neeg zoo mog.
Wow 😮👏👏👏😊I give you a lot of credits. You are a very strong person and a mother and a wise woman and a role model for women whose went on the same path as you. Those men or father that selfish like your doesn’t deserve to get love after rejected their own genes no need to give love but just don’t curse them that’s all. A job well done 👍 to you sister. Wooooo!!!!!!! 😁😁😁☺️☺️😁 love this story 😁😁😁
This is the one thing I hate about Hmong people... blaming the wife for not having sons... using this to be a reason to cheat and marry another wife, leaving the woman to suffer al0ne with all his kids.. it angers me when I hear stories like this all the time... I'm happy to hear that through your struggles, all your children are now successful in life. You are definitely a supermom! Thank you for sharing your story...
Tu viv ncau aws koj ua ib leej niam zoo kawg li lawm os nawb. Nrog kj zoo siab tia koj tu tau kj pab me nyuam txim txiaj txhua2 lawm mog. Dhuav2 siab txau lawm ces kawg coj li koj tu kheej kov coj tu cwj pwm ko xwb mas kuv yeej nkag siab kj txog txoj kev tu siab ua raug ib tu txiv neej hmoob txim poj lub siab os mog. Txhob tu siab nyob ib leeg thiaj kaj siab os mog.
Thov qhuas ib leej niam hmoob tus zoo lub povhaum rau koj cov menyuam nce nto tsag thov kom lub ntuj pom thiab koj yuav muaj sia ntev dhawv txog koj hnub xaus, thiab thov qhuas niam ntsuabteev ua yog tus cev lus, hais tau zoo kawg li, ua tsaug.
I think these type of stories are mostly from the much older generation. The newer ones aren't so much like this anymore. Actually most dads now days are more protective of their daughters than their sons.
So proud this mother! 👏👏👏👍 Agreed 100% with her come back. Also very proud of all her successful children, definitely made their mama proud. As for the daughters not allowing her dead beat father walking her down. 👏👏👏👍 As a daughter, I wouldn't have done it any other way. You definitely did the right thing not allowing him to be part of your special day. He definitely didn't deserve to walk you down. You all did absolutely nothing wrong! ❤
What a great mom you are and you raised your children right! You did a great job and all your children are successful! Be happy, life may not turn out this way if your loser husband stayed with you and abused you.
The old ways only benefit the men to keep them “in control” of women. Do you wonder why there are so many divorce women, because they aren’t putting up with men’s shit anymore. Women have learned to depend on themselves. Fathers who don’t recognize their daughter and see them worthless? Don’t claim us when we succeed without your help. Women can succeed on our own, men only pleasure themselves! Love equally and you’ll receive equally. The old ways will die out because in this country, both boys (and nyab) and girls (and vaus) can help their parents. Be grateful that your children are healthy and strive to make their lives easier and better than yours.
Kudos to your son and daughters, but please don't let them do whatever they want too. You need to set boundaries, and if your kids can't accept it then they need to grow up. Loving your kids is one thing, but being a mother is also another thing. You are one out of many parent that is lucky with such educated children with such an easy heart like yours. Most parents with your thinking and philosophy in life will have their kids end up being lost in the world. Other than that, power to you lady.
Peb cov txiv neej hmoob muaj lub siab dub siab phem siab txia ntshav, txawm tau ntxhais xwb los yog txoj hmoo, kuv zoo siab uas tus vivncaus koj tau peem ib lub neej uas nyuab 2 kawg nkaus es tej mi nyuam thiaj hlob tsheej neeg tiamsis ib qho uas kuv pom tias koj ua tau tsis zoo mas niam lawv yuav tau ib lub tsheb rau koj tus ntxhais es koj ho tsis charge kom lawv them nqi tshoob, lub tsheb twb tsis yog yuav rau koj, yog tias rau koj mas yeej yog, tiamsis lub tsheb ho yog yuav rau tus ntxhais xwb, koj twb ib sab ua ib sab ua txiv tu es tej mi nyuam thiaj hlo tsheej neeg, cas koj thiaj tsis charge tus ntxhais nqi tshoob nawj? Koj ua tsis yog lawm!! Kuv zoo siab uas koj pab, koj hlub cov mi nyuam dhau tau los tsim txiaj lawm, koj tus qub ntawd tsis yog ib tug zoo txiv
Cas yuav txaus tu siab ua luaj li os hmoob lub niag neej no na. Tsis tsim nyog nej hlub niag txiv dev laus ntawd lawm os mog. Qhov nws thiab nws tsev neeg rau nws cuab kwv tij sawv daws tsis nyiam nej ces twb yog vim tib qho tias nej niam yug tau nej yog tib pab ntxhais xwb es lawv thiaj saib tsis taus nej thiaj muab nej tso mus nyob tsis nrog luag muaj pab muaj pawg li ko. Ua neeg nyob yuav tsum txawj tu siab ris siab txhob rov ntseeg cov neeg siab phem tsim txom yus li lawm os cov me nyuam aw...Hlub hlub nej niam xwb thiaj tau koob hmoov. Txhob ntshaw ib niag leej txiv lim hiam li ntawd los ua nej txiv lawm tsam nej tau kev ntxhov siab os mog.
20% Man is bad ass and bad man. But, 80% are very good man. That's why this world is so good and powerful. It depend on your destiny to find the right man. Don't curse or blame them. You don't need this curse to come back to harm you on this life or next life. For give them, Life is in your hand. You will be more powerful women. The bad man will abandon you and all the innocent kids. The Good man will help you all they can. All women, now you lived in the educate world, you have to learn many thing in life. Women you need to learn how to fight, and fight on the legal system way. All men, always remember " If you are Strong man, You need strong women behind you" that's what we call life. Without the strong Women, you are shit! You are nothing, no one will impress you. I am so impress and proud of your women. You are so good and strong in mind.
Merry Christmas to you and your family! Thov kom Koj thiab Koj tsev neeg txhais kev noj qab nyob zoo. I love listening to your stories. Thank you for your hard work and dedication!
Good story. I'm so glad all your daughters are not the typical Hmong individuals that try to be heroes and crawl back to the abuser. May you and your family continue to enjoy a blessed life together.
Kuv thov quas tus niam tsev zaj neej neeg no, nws yog ib leej niam ntse heev, xav tau dav pom deb tshaj li, tsim nyog cov menyuam hlub nws lawm, cov menyuam thov nej hlub nej niam kom txog hnub nws tsis muaj nws txoj sias nawb mog, nej niam muab nws txoj sia khi rau nej cov menyuam nws thiaj tsi kam mus yuav txiv, nco ntsoov hlub nws tsis txhob pub nws lub kuas muaj poob tias nej tsi hlub nws no os mog. Kuv muaj 5 tug ntxhais kuv mam tau tub tabsis kuv lub neej txawv koj niam lub deb heev thiab, niaj hnub niam no los wb cov ntxhais vauv yog cov hlub wb tshaj, peb ua neej nyob kuv tus kheej niaj hnub hais rau tej neeg txom nyem hais tias tsis txhob thaum lawv, hnub no nws txom nyem tabsis tsam tagkis nws ho yog tus muaj, ua neej nyob tsis paub xyov zoov yuav ntsuab leej twg sad thiab ntu twg, es tsis txhob khav yus tus kheej es thaum lwm tus tsam zoo li tus txiv tsev no, tsam no xav lees luag los luag tsis kam lees yus lawm tus siab rau tus txiv tsev no, tabsis kuv zoo siab heev rau nej cov niam ntxhais nawb mog, BIG CONGRATULATION RAU TUS NIAM TSEV ZOO NO NAWB.
Wow awesome job mom. Being mothers are the hardest and most frustrating job in this world especially if you are a single mothers. God blessed you and yours children. Many more happy years to go. 🤗❤❤💋💋👍👍
Cov txiv neej es pheej hais tias tsi muaj tub thiaj tsi hlub nim yug tau ntxhais xwb thiaj nrauj tu siab kawg txawmyog ntxhais yog tub los yeej yog neeg ib yam os thov cov txiv hlub cov ntxhais thiab nawb
May nyias muaj siab nawv mog qhia rau nej cov poj niam ua siab loj thiab kev txiv neej ntsaw tub los vim tsis xav kom tsob ntoo qaug ces tas lawm nawv mog tub ntxhais los peb yeej hlub ib yam tab sis tsuas tsis xav kom poob noob xwb, Tej tus txiv neej los yeej tsis txawj hais lus thiab hais tau tej los lus uas tsis zoo mloog los sis siv tsis tau kiag li es nej cov poj niam thiaj tu tu siab nawv. Txhob tu siab nawv mog.
Koj hais yog lawm os tus viv ncaus..nyob li koj kaj siab dua nawb cov neeg nrauj tag pheej yuav yuav txiv yuav poj niam mas vim lawv nyiaj tsis txaus them nuj nqis es lawv xav need neeg pab ces lawv thiaj li yuav xwb mog ho yog yus them taus ces tsis tas yuav zoo dua nawb yuav los ua mob hlwb rau yus xwb
What a wonderful story. I feel bad for your husband but then again I'm not. He didn't deserve the good from your kids. I'm happy all your kids have a good life now
Tus mi niam tsev pab kj zoo siab qhov ua nws khiav tawm ntawm kj mus lawm es kj ib leeg lawm xwb es kj thiaj li qhuab qhia Tau kj pab mi nyuam tsim txiaj tas Lawm os, thov qhuas kj nawb
Zoo kawg li uas qhov no yog koj txoj hmoo os tus muam. Ua cas kuv ho hais li no,. Vim muaj coob leej ntau tus niam txiv twb sib tso ib yam li neb thiab,. Tiam sis tej me nyuam ho tsis mloog lus kawm ntawv twb yuav luag tsis tag highschool tej tub mus ua me nyuam laib , tej ntxhais mus ua poj laib ua dog dig twb tsis mloog niam lus , twb tsis fwm niam . Niam tseem yog tus poj niam mas tsis hais tub los yog ntxhais yeej tsis ntshai niam li yog li kuv kuj thov qhuas koj thiab cov me nyuam uas lawv yeej hlub koj thiab muaj lub zeem muag zoo thiaj li los txog hnub no zoo kawg li os mog
Kuv pab koj zoo siab kawg tus me niam laus ua cas koj yuav tuag liag kuv txoj me kev thiab os txhob tu siab peb pab nrog koj zoo siab txhawb koj pab me nyuam
Cov txiv neej hmoob uas saib tsis taus cov ntxhais li es niam hais tub li tub xwb na, nej twb tsis tau paub hais tias xyov tom ntej no nej cov tub yuav yog cov zoo los cov ntxhais yuav yog cov zoo nawb, thov kom txoj neej neeg no us 1 tug qauv rau nej cob txiv neej lub paj hlwb hmoob ntawm nej kawm mus rau tom ntej no, thov nej t txhob thuam2 peb cov me ntxhais lawm txawm lawv yog ntxhais los lawv yeej yog peb yug peb yeej hlub2 lawv kawg li.
Tsis yog Tim koj li os tus muam koj niag txiv yeej tsid xav hlub koj xwb mog ua neeg xav tsis tau os yog Xai tau ces neeg tsis xav kom tsu raws li siab xav lasmas xoo heev uas kojmuab ncaws tawm lawm yog li hnub nws sain koj yuav tau zoo lawm vimkoktud ntxhais tsu Dr. lawm hnub no tchob cia thaub txiv dev los ua vij ua swv rau koj tej me nyuam mog tsam tej me nyuam tau kev txom nyem ces me nyuam ho muab koj pov tseg tsid muaj chaw tuag mog txhob lees thaub ntsej muag Liam no los nej lub neej lawm nawj tsis aib mo loj yeej tuag lawm thaum thaub no khiav txog hnub no koj twb tsis tuag
Cov ntseeg Vajtswv feem coob, Nim no txawm tsi muaj mesnyuam, lo si tsi muaj tub. Lawv yeej tsi Yuav niam yau lo si is hlua. Vim lawv muaj txoj kev hlub.
Vim nwg phem ne cov txiv tsev phem ces txawm ua li cas los nwg yeej ntshiav txhua txoj kev los tib kom nwg muaj cai tas zog li xwb hmoob txoj cai tsi zoo niaj hnub no kuv muab xav los mas hmoob yuav tsum kho hmoob tej kab lig kev cai thiaj tsi los cuam tshuam txog txoj kev ywj pheej hauv hmoob tej teeb meem thiab tej kev haum xeeb.
Lub neej kos tus siab tshaj li os txiv neej ces thaum tau lwm tus poj niam lawm ces yeej tsi hlub yus tej me nyuam lawm os cov me nyuam aws ziag no ces thov tau nej noj ces hai li kos os tabsi yog nej hai ib los lus ces cem foom tej me nyuam xwb os mog txhob tos vim lawv mus hlub luag lawm xwb os
Niam lau aw yog li zaj dab neeg no lawm o kuv niam yug tau peb 5 vis ncau kuv txiv yeej g hlub kuv niam peb li txij thaum kuv paub tab los ce yeej pom kuv txiv tham hlua nkauj los txog tam si no li o 😭😭😭
i only hear one side of the story, i want to hear the other side of the story as well too. Qhov tseeb tiag ntshe thaum koj muab nws kaw ntawv koj twb ua ntawv tiv thaiv nws 4 xyoos lawm ne, ces menyuam yog ob leeg li muaj plhus ces nws so plhuav rau xwb. Nws ua tsis tau licas xav saib menyuam los menyuam yeej raug txw tag lawm thiab menyuam los ua ib nqag ib nqag nrog koj lawm ces nws thiaj li ua ib siab lawm xwb os. Tabsis hnov ib tog lus xwb tsis hnov ob tog lus. Vim teeb meem nyob lub tebchaws no mas muaj ib txhia poj niam mas muab menyuam cais tsis pub pom tus txiv li tabsis ho mus dag rau tebchaws tias tus txiv tsis saib tsis xyuas thiab. ntau yam hais tsis tag txoj kev lim hiam siab phem uas txiv neej raug poj niam tsim. hais ces xav daws laj npawj lawm xwb au.
