Hi Shelly ,what if our SP is not showing interest at all ,where words don’t match actions , shall I just walk away instead of manifesting him ? Please explain more this case as most of us has this issue . Thank you from Morocco ❤
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to move on, I really loved her so much i can't stop thinking about her and the memories we shared. I've tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail. I'm frustrated, and i don't see my life with anyone else. I've done my best to get rid of the thoughts, but i can't. I don't know why I'm saying this here, but i really miss her and i wish i could get her back.
have been in such a situation. My relationship ended about three years ago, but i could not let her go. So i had to do all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back. We are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.
Finally! A decent message from a LOA teacher that if someone is mistreating you, you need to cut ties!! This is what more people need to hear. Thank you. Also, I love the filmography of this video. Beautiful colors and tone.
Isn't this contradictory to the idea of manifesting? By this she's saying that we can't manifest him changing his behavior towards us so it's better to forget all about him so then where's the power of manifesting and the laws? 🤔
@@emmabellaqueeni agree.. assuming that the person can change. But these "loa" coaches become dating advice coaches when it comes to manifesting an sp that one has history with. Saying "take them off the pedestal, move on, focus on yourself" instead
Chosen thank you so much for your kindness it would help if you could please make a video of age gap difference between you and your sp ❤sending blessings to you and your beautiful family 🙏
@@ShellyBullard Thank you so much!!❤❤ Your videos make me feel more and more motivated to get my SP and to claim the love that I truly feel is somewhere for me too!!!❤❤❤
Shelly, I love all of your videos. You are clear and straight to the point. Could you please consider doing videos on the 4 attachment styles and how they affect your relationships? It's likely part of what you have studied as a therapist. I know your videos would be amazing on these topics.
🤔 Your delivery has changed so much from a few years ago which use to be so calm and sweet now it's more like you're shaking someone as your talking to them like forceful but the message just as good.
That was just something stupid some guy made up and a bunch of people treated it as if it was scripture or some law of the universe. You’ll probably start to notice that everything in life contradicts that premise. Unless me and my comment are part of you, pushed out. LOL.
I think certain things can be a reflection but sometimes spiritual ideas are taken so literally. Things are more nuanced. Yes if you attract a bad person maybe it’s yourself wanting to learn to set boundaries or choose self love. People are reflections/ but also learning experiences.
@@keekssss all the manifesting teachings are like that. LOL. And then they act like this lame guy, Neville Goddard, somehow possibly knew how the universe works. And then they give the dumbest examples of someone manifesting something. It’s always people and material BS, in a way that treats people like material objects to acquire. It’s never about manifesting a happier disposition or overcoming an internal struggle or anything like that. And there’s no advice for dealing with abusive people. It’s weird how everyone believed that Neville Goddard knew something. I can’t figure out why. I first started listening to this stuff to get out of a major depression but it’s often so stupid I can’t make it through a video. I wish the teachers of this stuff would stop putting Neville Goddard on a pedestal. It doesn’t seem loving to oneself to have such faith in some narcissist’s lies he clearly made up to make money.
I believe some people are you pushed out (reflections) or they are projections and reflections of who THEY are. So everyone is you pushed out, but some are reflections of themselves aka a reflection your a version of you with a lower self worth& self concept! That’s why you don’t accept someone that is showing up the way they should be for you!
Ok shelly you confused me here by saying if he's not showing for you is this is really a person you want to manifest into your life Isn't this contradictory to the idea of manifesting? By this you are saying that we can't manifest him changing his behavior towards us so it's better to forget all about him so then where's the power of manifesting and the laws? 🤔
The energetic s are off if someone is toxic/ treats you badly. It’s wired into your subconscious. This you cannot override. Plus forcing something does not manifest/ it’s great to have self respect and walk away instead of using all your energy trying to change someone. It’s just a waste of time. If a person doesn’t show up for you why would someone want to manifest them in the first place? That’s the bigger question. People need more self love and self respect. Being alone is ok until you meant the right one who will treat you well.
@@naturaldyeryou can totally override your subconscious, that is what this body of thought is all about! The point is to realise it’s you that has to change their thoughts, not sure why people would be listening to manifesting/law of assumption videos if they weren’t open to this concept…
@@Emesc2326 huh? I do believe that you can absolutely override subconscious. I was just stating that it can be near impossible to do so when dealing with toxic and negative energies from the desired person. Also why would someone bother their energy with someone who treats them badly?
@@naturaldyer it’s not near impossible that’s the whole point, omg…the key is to remove yourself when people show up poorly and only entertain the version that is great. You need to also take responsibility to change your subconscious beliefs or it will result in the same experience repeating with other people if not…
He reached out to me today. After ghosting me for 1 5 months, but only to ask for his stuff back, I only have keys to his apartment and his glasses, but he somehow managed to live without them for that period. So I'm trying to assume he just needed some reason to contact me, because i’m the prize
How do I manifest winning a prize home competition? Being repeating saturating daily all year in absolute belief. To be honest I've list interest in it and feel ready to manifest something new. I'd thusvready to come in to fruition when I feel like I'm done! Or do I just keep going until its manifested
I meet my sp, he I manifest quite often. We've talked now and then by saying hello, I don't quite know if I should dare to communicate anything more with him or if I should wait until he contacts me. Every time we meet, we notice each other and often make eye contact. It's an intense atmosphere, almost like we're just waiting for one of us to take action. Sometimes it can also feel like ignoring, perhaps because both are unsure of how to proceed? Could it be that we manifest each other? I don't quite know what to do, but I probably feel a safe and good connection there. Have had some opportunities to make contact, but have not done so on the deep level.
So step 4 is after we've done the first three and they still aren't showing up? But if you have the self concept that they will show up for you then they will, right?
To me, (my opinion only) walking away means that I failed in manifesting my person. And I'm not willing to do that. When it comes to my SP, there is no second best! That simple!
@@ShellyBullardyour video that remains in my heart as my very favorite is still the one where you say: "You practice! Practice, practice, practice! Be relentless!!!" ❤❤❤❤
I have been manifesting my sp almost two months. He do call and check up on me everyday but don't prioritize me. We used to go on dates and that stopped. I have been doing my self love and affirmations daily but sometimes it get so difficult when I see him doing everything without me. I'm really trying to focus on myself and give myself the love I deserve. When he calls I pretend that everything is great and I'm doing fine and he needs to fix himself. This just sucks.
Nothing is working. Been trying manifest an SP for 2 1/2 years and love in general for 4. I don't really have the money for coaching. Any advice? The more I try to feel chosen the more aware I am that I'm not.
I'm worthy I am perfect I am the one being chosen All the girls love me I am not chasing girls girls chasing me because I am the perfect man on this earth I have good heart am good person I am confident man I love my self That is it
What about “dealbreakers” and not being chosen? Can we manifest dealbreakers away? Like my SP says that not having mu drivers license is the dealbreaker and refuses to date me over it, even though I am working on it. Can I still manifest this person?
