I don’t blame you as a wife. You’re a good person and don’t listen to old and uneducated people who said bad or negative to you. It’s not all your fault.
I’m sorry to hear of your loss. I hope your sister inlaw finds peace and happiness again! We can’t control others actions but our own. May your brother rest in peace! So unfortunate, such a young and beautiful couple!
Sorry to say this but her and her parents did say to the kids their mom does not love them and that’s why her mom left and then heir dad is dead. So it’s lies. They should not have said that to the kids. They themselves blamed the sister in law first that is why everyone started to blame her. I always knew it was not her fault caus I heard the mom say he was a druggie and that is why they yelled at him etc. then they mentioned he was mean and hit the kids. Sorry but if you can hit ur kids then if you are a druggie u are hitting your wife. Not only that she his was not the first time he has hit her. An abuser just does not me day become an abuser. She has been protecting him for a long time until she can no longer do it anymore. Poor sister in law. She and the kids are the true victims here. This is the brother that graduated and would not allow her to attend the graduation. She only came because other family members told her to go to the graduation and she was sad when that happened. I know it’s sad he is gone but it better cause he is a druggie and abuser and that is definitely not a good mix.
No this is the oldest brother. The one that graduated and didn’t want his wife to attend his graduation is the 2nd son and he is currently in Korea working. The 3rd son is married but no kids yet. The youngest is the one that pe niam tij.
@@jasmineflower7115 ok so confusing but either way. He is wrong for getting high when he has a family and then have the nerve to beat his wife. Sorry but mental health is not widely acknowledged there. Sad but seems likes these brothers don’t know how to live their wives
you’re mistaken this brother with the second brother. Um the mom never said he was a druggy. She said they yell and lecture them on things like don’t be druggies doesn’t mean he was a druggy. Their fight was about not letting him go to Korea. He is wrong for hitting her 100% but you can see in their RU-vid channel he really loved his kids and worked really hard. He was a good person that made wrong choices and I think that is what the Nyab is saying here. To not put the blame on him or her. This is just a sad tragic.
Niam kuam tsi txhob xav ntau2 nawb es rov qab mus thaij duab es thiaj li pom nej cov me niam tub ntsuag nawb nrog koj mob siab kawg thiab os nrog koj khuv xim koj tu me txiv kawg os❤❤❤❤
Txhob tu siab os tus nyab aw…nws yeej yuav mus nws mog. Yeej tsis muaj leej twg xav kom tau txoj kev phem li os. Saib xyuas koj ob tug me nyuam kom zoo thiab hlub koj tus kheej nawb. Nrog hlub nej cov niam tub os ❤️
Me viv ncaus aw cav koj yuav hay koj lub neej zoo li kuv lub thiaj os ta si nros koj tu siab koj tus txiv tau tso nej cov niam tu tse os tsi tshov tu tu siab mo😢😢😢❤❤❤❤
Hlub hlub nej cov me niam tub li os. Txhob xav ntau ntau os mog. Nyob raws yus txoj hmoo xwb os. Tus mus lawm ces nws tsis paub lawm es nej cov nyob kav tsij sib hlub xwb os mog. Thov Vajtswv foom khoob hmoov rau tus nyab kom muaj dag muaj zog ua neej mus xwb os
Neeg tseem yuav hais li cas los yus tu kheej thiaj li paub hais tias nyob hauv yus lub neej muaj teb meem dab tsi no so tsi txhob xav ntau2 thiaj li tsi mob tom hau nawb niam kuag hlub nej cov niam tub ntsuag nawb ❤❤❤❤
Sib ntau lo muaj kwv muaj tij thiab ua qhov tub kuam tsi nyiam ce yuav tau pauv vim koj tsi pauv es tu kuam thiaj tuag thiab koj yeejtsi pauv thiab ne . Pab tu siab kawg chim no ce pab tsi tau lawm os
Viv ncaus txhob tu siab os tsis muaj neeg paub hais tias yuav zoo li ko. Yog txoj hmoo es thiaj li hais tsis sib haum es nyias yuav mus nyias kom txhob nco xwb xav tias yog txoj hmoo xwb mog os mog koj yuav tau ua niam ua txiv xwb mog❤❤❤ hlub nej cov niam tub kawg nawb ❤❤❤
☹️☹️😞😞😔😔🥹🥹🥹😢😢😪😪😪…hlub2 koj tus nyab kawg li thiab os peb ua tib neeg nyob ces yeej muaj qhov phem qhov zoo es tsis txhob xav dab tsi ntau2 tus me niam tsev aw..😢😢😪😪😪🥹🥹
Neeg siab phem ces tsuas yog av thiaj lim tau lawm xwb os…yeej tsis muaj hnub yuav zoo li os txawm yuav thov tsaug lwm rov los los yeej hlub tsis tau li.
Niam hluas neb sib sib hlub nws ntshai tsam nws mus ces koj ho nco nco nws, nws thiaj ua kom neb lub neej muaj teeb meem koj khiav mus es koj txhob pom nws txoj sia tu xwb os. Txhob tu siab os
Tsis yog tim ib leeg xwb yeej tim ib leeg ib qho es thiaj zoo li no. Ua niam txiv nyob ces yeej yuav muaj sib cav sib ceg tab sis tsis txhob siv dag siv zog. Tus txiv txhaum qhov ua tus txiv ntaus tus niam lawm tab sis ua ntej tus niam yuav mus tus niam yuav tsum ua zoo xav thiab. Yog nws txiav txim siab tias nws hlub tsis tau ua lub neej tsis tau mus ntxiv lawm no mas mam li ua npaum no tab sis yog nws tseem hlub tseem ua tau lub neej ua ke mas txhob ua npaum li no. Tus txiv twb tuaj tos ob peb zaug lawm ces kuj rov qab los. Yog ho xav kom sib tham sib kho tso mam los no los kuj ua zoo hais rau tus txiv kom nws muaj kev cia siab me me tias yus tseem yuav rov los. Ib lo ob lo los pheej hais rawv qhov nrauj xwb ua ua ib tug tuag kiag lawm es zoo li cas. Hnub no mam tig khuv xim ces twb lig lawm tsuas yog hais tau lo lus tias “paub li hnub ntawv” lawm xwb…
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤hlub koj nrog ob tus me nyuam kawg li, yuav tsis pom nws thiab hnov nws lub suab lawm xav hnov ces saib tej video uas neb mus ua qos pem niam tswb nkawv cov teb qos lawm xwb
Lawv aw txog txij niam txiv tsis xav nyob ua ke lawm ces yeej kawg kev uv tsis taus lawm es ntshe tus txiv no los siab luv2 ti2 es thiaj li ua tau li ntawv lawm os
Hlub koj kawg thiab nrog koj khuv txim koj tu txiv kawg lis os los koj yuav tsis tau ib txiv zoo nruag lis koj tu txiv lawm os niam hluas aw hlub koj heev lis os los ❤❤❤❤❤❤
txhob tu siab os me nyab aw tej zaum nws txoj hmoo yeej los li no lawm tsuas yog khuv22 xim neb ib niam txiv zoo22 nkauj zoo nraug sib22 phim kawg li os tuag tsis tuag los twb tuag lawm es ua ib siab nawb peb hlub nej cov niam tub os
Koj nyab thiab dab laug nkawv zoo sib phim kawg li . Tsam no tuag tag lawm ces tsis xav yuav los yeej tsis tau yuav lawm .zaum no ces kav tsij nyob kaj siab lug xwb nawb ,tim nej tsis ua neeb kho li es muaj dab los yob nws lub siab ntev lawm.
nyab aw tsam no ces yus yuav raug lub teb lub chaws cem yus li lawm os yus ua zoo los luag cem yus ho yus ua cem los luag cem yus li lawm nawb kuv twb ntsib tej teeb meem no los lawm os tu siab tshaj plaws li qhia tsis tau rau leej twg li os mog chim siab los ua twj ywm zoo siab los ua twj ywm lawm xwb os zaum no tsis muaj leej twg ua koj luag li thaum I li lawm os thaum I es yus tus txiv niam ua yus luag es yus tsis tau luag los nws niam hais tias kom yus txhob ntshai nws twb nyob ntawv ua yus luag no es yus lub siab niam loj zog hais tias nws twb nyob nrog yus ib sab ua yus luag os nyab aw hlub hlub koj kawg thiab os mog
Nyab aw hlub nej cov me niam tub kawg li os. Tsis yog Tim leej twg tej zaum nws txoj hmoo thiab nws yeej los nyob txij li no xwb es hlub2 kj 2tug menyuam nawb mog hlub2 nej cv me niam tub kawg li o. Av tsiv ua kj Tus RU-vid es peb mam pab txhawb nej pab me niam tub ntsuag os lov.. txhob muab lub txim pov rau ib leej twg nawb mog. Kv ntseeg Tias tsis yog Tim nws txoj hmoov ces yeej yuav muaj txoj hauv Kev pab tau nws los yog yeej yuav muaj Tus los pom lub sijhawm ntawd os lov.
Ua cas ib ntsais muag xwb es tseem siv zoo li no lawm os. Zoo li ntxim yog npau suav xwb os. Nyab Kuam aws, pab hlub nej cov me niam tub dhau lawm os. Ib sij huam xwb zoo li no lawm los txhob tu2 siab os.
Khuv xim kawg tiamsi yeej tsis tim nyab. Ua neeg nyob yog koj ua phem rau luag tiamsi ho xav kom luag hlub koj ua zoo rau koj nyob uv koj xwb tsis muaj leej twg ua tau. Txhob xav tias ua phem es yuav tau luag txoj kev hlub. Yus tus poj niam tsis yog dev es yus xav cem li cas los cem xav ntaus los ntaus. Tsis sib hlub ces nyias nyob nyias xwb mo es pheej yuav phem ua luaj tiamsi xav tau poj niam thiab. Kuv tsis nkag siab cov neeg ruam li no. Tsis muaj neeg xav nrog ib tug neeg ntxim ntxub nyob. Nws twb tswj tsis tau nws lub siab ceev2 es nws txoj siaj kiag es thiaj li tsis txuag. Kuv tseem ntshai tsam nws muab me nyuam poj niam tua cov neeg siab ceev tsis meej pem no na
Me nyab aw koj yeej zoo kawg lawm vim li cas kuv ho hais tias koj zoo vim tias koj twb yog tus chim siab tshaj dab laug tuag lawm los koj twb tseem rov los zov rov los quaj poob lub kua muag rau dab laug os es ua siab loj2 nrog 2 rug me nyuam nawb
Nyab Tswb yeej nrog koj tus nyab tusiab kawg tiamsis Tam sim no lig lawm kom nws nco ntsoov hlub nws tus kheej thiab ua ib leeg zoo niam 6 ob tug mi nyuam. Txoj kev no yeej g muaj neeg xav tau lios. Koj tus nyab yog xeem dab tsi os nyab Tswb aw...
Tsis tim koj os me nyab aw. Hlub koj thiab koj 2 tug me nyuam kawg li os. Tsis txhob mloog cov neeg cem koj nawb. Feem tau yog cov hlub koj xwb es khaws qhov zoo zwb os mog.
Koj txob hais tias koj hlub 2 no tuag lawm koj lam dag koj Tus kheej xwb os kom ntiaj teb qhuas koj no os koj yeej ua nruj ua tsiv rau nws thiaj tag kev cia Siab lawm thiaj tuag os
Hais Kom nyab txhob Xav ntau Tsis yog nyab yuam nws noj tshuaj nws noj tawn nws tu kheej xwb neeg yuav hais li cas lo kam laim lawv Tsis paub yus lub neej kv Yeej saib nej ntev ntev lo nyab kawm ob leej yeej yog neeg zoo
kuv nias neb tus yus thuj pab neb tus sau ntawv ntau 2 yog kuv vim kuv chim tias neb tus dab laug zoo nraug kawg es thiaj chim siab tias cas yuav tuag lawm no khuv ximheevfrom USA
Koj tus txiv yog ib tus neeg siab noog. Twb yog koj tsis los es, nws ho txo nws txoj sia lawm xwb. Yog koj nrog nws los ntshe tus tuaj twb yog koj, vim nws yuav muab koj txoj sia txo.
Koj tus nyab zoo2 nkauj yog nws tu nws tus kheej mas nws tseem hluas thiab zoo2 nkauj os es txhob tu siab ua neej nyob ces ib leeg muaj ib txoj kev nyuaj siab thiaj xav tias thaum tseem noj qab nyob zoo ces yog tsis haum xeeb los nyias mus nyias zoo dua tsam sib2 uv nyob ua ke ces ib tug ho yuav zoo li no es ntshe thiaj li ua li lawm xwb los tseem ho poob rau qhov yus tsis xav tau es thiaj ho rau los kavliam mog nyab tswb, txhob xav yuav rau nyab thiab os, peb cov poj niam ces yeej xav tias kev xav txawv tsis deb nawb mog
Paj Kub did mention in one of the videos right after he passed away that he was always their grandma's favorite and spoiled as a kid. I wouldn't doubt that he was narcissistic, otherwise he would have thought of his kids before ending his life. Mental illness is a serious thing that many Hmong people refuse to accept, which is why there are so many homicidal and suicidal occurrences within our community, both in the US and abroad.😮
@@lher6714I agree! Our Hmong community needs to do better when it comes to mental illness. I think her brother was depressed because he wasn’t able to make money and didn’t want to farm. They were fighting over him going to Korea to work. Which resulted with him beating her and she leaving him. He was already suffering and with his wife leaving, he felt he had nothing left. Very sad, but he had a choice and wanted the easy way out
Because mental illness is considered taboo for hmoob ppl which is sad, its time for hmoob ppl to realize and admit mental illnesses is and always have been a big problem within the hmoob community and we all, especially the elders, the over seas need to address this issue, teach and support ppl who are suffering from some sort or mental illness, depression, suicidal…
Chim no ces yeej kawg qhov lig dhau, paub li paub li lawm xwb tiag. Ua siab loj os mog ua li koj hais os kav tsij rau2 siab mus khwv kom nej cov me niam tub tau noj lawm xwb tiag.
Hlub koj tus nyab heev os. Mloog ces tej zaum koj tus dab laug muaj kev txhaum loj dua ua. Yog nws tsis coj li ntawv ces koj tus nyab yeej yuav tsis khiav thiab os. Tu siab tias thaum kawg no txhua yam ua tau tshwm sim no yog vim nws tsis txhawj hlub koj tus nyab xwb. Li cas los zoo li no lawm ces kav liam lawm xwb tiag. Pab koj tus nyab ua RU-vid es peb mam txhawb nws thiab 2 tug me nyuam os.
Txawm li cas los nws twb nrhiav txoj hau kev kaj siab lawm ces nws mus nws mam saib seb kj tus nyab ho yuav mus tau tus zoo npaum li cas xwb os phooj ywg zaum no ces nyaj kj tus nyab siab nqig kiag lawm xav txog lig lawm tsis thas los piav li lawm os
Kav tsij nyob hlub koj tug menyuam xwb es cia ua ib sab ua niam ib sab ua txiv os txawm koj mus yuav lwm tus los lawv yeej g nrog koj hlub koj tug menyuam nawb mog
Yog koj ua ib siab mus yuav lwm tus los lawv yeej yuav g hlub koj ob tug menyuam li koj tus txiv hlub vim g yog lawv yug es kav tsij nyob hlub koj tug menyuam xwb g paub tias txiv neej lub siab li muaj cov zoo thiab cov phem os es lam nyob hlub koj ob tug menyuam xwb nawb
Ten zaum nws twb yeej yuav los nyob txog txij no xwb es nws thiaj li ua phem2 tau koj mom koj th siab es koj txhob los lawm es nws thiaj li zoo Mus xwb os. Neb muaj2 teeb meem neb tsi ua neeb kho nws ne. Tej zaum 21:13 muaj dab choj nws lawm os. Khuv xim qhov nws tsi ua neeb kho nws xwb os.
Tus twg los tsis yeem swb txoj kev sib cav sib ceg hauv lub neej ces ntev mus zuj zus yuav tsum tau sib nrauj thiaj suaj kaum taus lub neej. Nov apply rau txhua nkawm niam txiv. Case no mas tuag lawm yuav phem dua li nyob tab sis nkawv lub neej yuav tsum raug sib txhem ib hnub twg xwb.
Tus tuag ces yog tus swb lawm. Txhob xav ab tsis Ntau mog. Yeej yog nws lub siab tsis zoo es nws ua siab mus lawm koj nyob hlub koj 2 tug me ab xwb. Muaj tus zoo tseem yuav Los ok.
PajKub, zoo qhov koj txawj xav es tseem ua daim video no txhawb koj tus Nyab thiab. Tsis yog tim ib tug twg. Yog tim ob leeg tsis txawj sib hais tsis txawj sib yoog sib hauv es thiaj muaj teeb meem. Txawm koj tus Nyab khiav lawm los nej twb hais tsis tau nej tu tub kom ua siab ntev os. Hais rau koj tus Nyab tias cov neeg cem cem tias tim nws ces yog cov neeg tsis muaj kev txawj tse thiab lub siab lim hiav es thiaj txhob txwm ces koj tus Nyab xwb os.
Zoo qhov koj tus nyab los hais qhov tseeb rau sawvdaws los yog cov neeg es pheej muab lub ntxim liam liam rau koj tus nyab na...txij thaum tus dab laug ua li los yeej muaj teebmeem hauv lub neej es thiaj zoo li no lawm es txhob muab lub ntxim rau ib tug ev xwb mas tsis yog lawm.
Tej tus poj niam hmoov hlob li no es yus tej tus tub loj zoo nraug ntxiag siab ntshuas li ntawd es tuag rau nws dab tsis ntxhoo lawv es tej tug me2 qig2 taub li ntawd luag twb tsis tau hais txog qhov yuav tuag li naj tus poj niam zoo li tus no xwb tsis yuav yus los nrauj pov tseg mam yuav dua xwb naj yus tuag ces yus swb xwb
Paj kub aws..hais rau koj tus nyab tias peb tais tau xav li cas rau koj tus nyab li no mog..vim yog koj tus nus nws lub me.siab ceev thiaj twm xeeb dhau lawm xwb..
Yog tim tus poj niam tsis muaj nws lub nceb rau nws tus txiv txiv neej taij2 los tus poj niam tsis paub peb txiv neej yog tsis tau nceb ma nyob tsis tau tau nceb tag ma siab kaj lug tsis muaj kev sib caj tsis ceg lawm
Tus nyab los hais qhov tseeb ces peb to taub zoo lawm mas, tsev neeg pheej muaj teeb meem sib ceg li no, yog tim sab kev ntseeg lawm, txawm li ca los yeej lig lawm, nrog koj ua Nyab tu siab os. Li ca los yuav tau rov pib lub neej dua mog. Niam Tswb koj los hais ntau heev tab tsi to tau koj li naj!! Xav kom koj hais saib koj tus nyab yuav los nyob lub tsev kod los yuav rov mus nrog neej tsa nyob?
Koj cev tsi tab seeb es tsi xav kom koj quaj2 chim2 os paj kub kuv yeej yog tus hai tias nyob tsi sib hlub es tuag lawm mam tuaj quaj2 tab sis kuv tsi yog hai cem nyab nawb mog hai tso rau saum no kom peb txawj sib hlub xwb nawb
Hais rau koj tus nyab kom txhob tu2 siab nawb txij no mus rau yav tom ntej ces xav kom muaj neeg cem yus los yuav tsis muaj lawm hos neej tsa los xyov luag puas yuav txais tos yus lawm. Kav tsij ua lub neej raw li yus lub siab TWM ZEEJ nawb. Thaum kawg no thov hlub txog koj tus ua TUB ua tau ncaim peb mus MUS ZOO KOJ MOG peace be with you 😢
Yog ua cas yus tus nus tuag dai ncuv yus ib lub kua muag tsis poob es tsuas yog xam cus ciav rau ub rau no thaij kom yus tau RU-vid xwb es nej hmoob nplog hlub thiab ntshaw nyiaj dua koj tus nus los, kuv tsis to taub nej li lawm, thaij txhua2 yam tseg kiag qhov nej xa quav xa zis thiab qhov nej sib nce thiaj tsis thaij xwb, nej tseem hais tias kom pab txhawb nej, peb yuav txhawb nej pib txog xaus los yuav yog nej thaij tej yam tsim nyog saib thiab peb thiaj saib, tsis li es nej thaij tsis muaj laij es peb nim yuav saib pib txog xaus thiab os, tab tom ua rau nkim peb tej wifi thiab fais fab os. Thov tsum tau lawm thiab lau nej tej RU-vid thaij tsis muaj laij no na.
