If only I had kids, I wouldn't have to worry about my future as a geriatric person. But I'd still prefer my single lifestyle bc as this lady mentioned, the majority of the men nowadays are only into girls and money. Plus, the hassle with dealing with in-laws. Better to be by yourself, less stress and worry for yourself.
Sister, I applaud you for being a strong woman and stand your ground. Every man controls his own destiny, and how he wants his loved ones to remember him when the time comes for him to leave this earth and his family behind…a very good learning lesson for Hmong men who don’t appreciate their wives and children that they have…👍🤠
Happy to hear that you & your children turned to God when all else failed! Keep your Faith strong in the Lord as you deserve to have a happy ending even after life on Earth.
Zoo siab tshaj rau koj li os tus me niam tsev koj hais yog tshaj plaws li os hmoob yeej hais tias maum dev tsis co tw ces txiv dev yeej tsis nce no Kuv yeej ntseeg li koj hais kawg os. Tos niaj Hnub no sawv daws tej neej muaj muaj teeb meem los twb yog maum dev niaj Hnub co tw thiab ne tos txiv dev nyob tsis taus es muaj muaj plhus na.
Holy moly.... He cheated and at the end he under ground. That is pure karma! Should have burned instead of buried. Hmoob traditional sucks. Wasted so much money for funeral!! 🐍💀👽
Awesome story... Goid to see another hmong brother fall to desires of men. Way to go for this woman. She made it. Her kids made it. Who needs a culture when the culture doesn't want them. Im proud of this lady and her children to stand up to what's write and not outside influences ruin their lives.
Zoo kawg rau cov niam pog txiv yawg uas cob cob tub na thiab cov txiv neej ua siab phem li hiam li tus txiv tsev no mas tsim nyog kawg nkaus li lawm os
Hate people like your ex mother-in-law who's always on their son's side even though they do wrong. Your ex husband deserves everything coming his way. I'm glad you stood your ground.
you have some manly sons!! they don't let their dumb relatives screw them or you over!! 👏👏👏👏 this is what "txiv neej yawg" is! so proud of your sons and kids "txiv neej yawg" is not how many women you can get, or how abusive ans controlling you can be. A true "txiv neej yawg" stands up for what is right and defends his family to the max.
Tsis kam ua li kwv tij hais tab sis mus vaj tswv poob nyiaj heev nawb..nej yeej them nej lub hleb thiab qhov ntxa txhua txhua hli lawv thiaj suav yus nawb..tos kwv tij lawb nej los tej zaum nej yeej tsis zoo tiag tiag thiab
Tais, Koj mas ua taus niam tiag tiag! Tus ib txwm ntshaw thiaj siv yuav los ua neej. Hnub no twb tsi hlub Koj, cia li txaus siab rau yus cov menyuam. Thaum yus tsis taus, tej menyuam Tu yus los thiaj tsis Tu siab. Kuv tus txiv hlub hlub kuv ces hnub no nws tuag lawm. Kuv txiav txim siab tsis hla ib nrog li Koj thiab os. Muab lub neej tso pluav rau Vajtswv hlub Koj nawb.
Nyias ua rau nyias tus kheej xwb kav liam vim txiv neej siab phem dhau lawm thaum lawv tus neeg ua phem lawv twb hais tsis tau lawv tus neeg ne tsis k li os
Tus me viv ncaus aw tus txiv dev siab phem lim hiam zoo li koj tus txiv dev no ces nyuam qhuav haum xwb me viv ncaus aw leej twg tsis taug txoj kev zoo li no leej twg thiaj paub os me sisters aw
What!! Cas peb hmoob tsis hais neej tsa los kwv tij are still so stupid wow. I'm so proud of you, koj yog ib leeg poj niam puaj peev xwm thiab tse thiab hlub koj tus kheej and your kids. You do the right thing.
Ua neej nyob sib xawb cai nyias qhuas nyias qhov zoo mloog koj lub neej no tiag ๆ neb twb tsis tau sib nraiuj li sub sav puas yog Koj cov me nyuam tsis hlub lawv txiv lis tej zaum yog koj ua tus txw thiab txwv hais ub hais no kom me nyuam tu siab rau lawv txiv lawm Kev sib nrauj tsis yog me nyuam li teeb meem kuj tsis tsim nyog qhov lawv ua li ntawd
Hmoob mas lim hiam tshaj plaws, thaum lawv tus tub ua mas lawv ua tus hais tsis tau tab sis thaum nws txom nyem thiab tuag kiag mas nias kom tau yus los tha nws. Hmoob tsis hais xeem twg yeej phem
Kuv xa li koj hais thiab..yog tsis muaj nyiaj insurance mas tsis kam thas los yog lawm..tab si twb muaj pob nyiaj ib puas tawm phav es coj li tus niam tsev no ces nws yeej siab phem kawg..
@@tshajlijhmoob9875, hmong religion is not stupid, just the people that don't respect it are stupid. If it's practice properly and the right way then it's not stupid. Please leave the religion alone. Judge the people, not the religion. Thank you. Peace.
@@Pajdabtsi Oh ! Yes, it's the religion that makes the people stupid. Niag neeg limhiam npaum ntawd es tseem yuam kom tej tub ki teev hawm thiab, that's a stupid religion, those that practice that religion are all dumbed by it.
@@tshajlijhmoob9875 , I am not sure what you are implying but like I said it's an individual. But if you're not happy to be who you are and where you're from then thov kom lwm tiam txhob los yug ua Hmoob lawm xwb yog hais tias muaj lwm tiam vim koj xav tias Hmoob Kab lig kev cai ruam dhau. Peace be with you.
Yeej yog li tus niam tsev nov hais lawm os .yog yus tus txiv mus tham hluas nkauj yuav niam yaus lawm ce yus siab yeej tsis ntev li los ma .cov niag niam pog zoo li nov ma cia yog nws tus txiv mus yuav niam yau kiag seb nws ho zoo li ca thiab ma
Mus church America es tseg kiag cov hlwb 75 no kaj siab tshaj. Cov hlwb 75 no tsis qualify ua hmoob tus coj nawj. Lawv tsuas paub los kav lawv cov niam yau xwb os.
Cas koj yuav ntshaw txiv ua luaj nas niag pog ntshaw txiv aw. Cas koj yuav tsis muaj siab muaj ntsws li nas. Luag twb tsis muaj chaw mus thawj thiab es luag thiaj rov qab los. los,tseem rov qab yuav dhua cas yuav ntshaw txiv tshaj plaws li nas.
Koj cov tub ua tsis yog lawm. Txawm lawv txiv tsis hlib lawv los yog lawv txiv ib zaug lawm muaj lawv txiv thiaj muaj lawv. Tsis tas li lawv Pam koj tis txiv yog Pam kom lawv lub neej tom ntej lawv cov tub cov kiv thiab hlub lawv thiab kom ib txheej txhob ua rau Txheej ib tusm txhob ua rau ib yuam xwb os.koj ua niam koj xav kom koj cov tub txhob raug kev npam mas koj yuav tau kom lawm pab tha lawv txiv kom tau luv ntees zoo dog dig.
Should've taken that trash back. Now he has to rot and smell all over the place. Please marry and be with the one you love and who loves you. Life is too short to live in misery.
Koj cov menyuam make wrong decision tsis thas lawv txiv. Yus niam yus txiv yus tsis faus mas ua neej tsis zoo nawb. Kuv paub neeg ntawm kuv cov kwvtij, tus tij tsis nrog tus kwv faus tejlaus nim no nws lubneej puastag. Good luck.
Hmoob mas 1 qhov 2 qhov los npam xwb. Tuag chaij rawv hluas nkauj mas thiaj li yog tuag zoo... li kuv hais, tuag luag txhis. Nej muab xav, txhua tus tibneeg kawg tuag es yog thaum tuag ne, nej xav mob2 tuag hauv tsev laus los hauv hospital los nej xum tuag caij rawv hluas nkauj. Kuv tsis paub nej tabsis kuv xum xaiv tuag hluas txhis vim kuv tsis xav mob ntev2 es mam li tuag. Tabsis cov mob ntev nej txhob siv hmoob lub qhov ncauj loj tias mob vim npam no thiab. Yog nej tsis txawj mob tsis txawj tuag li nej mam li hais tsam txog nej hnub nej tseem mob heev tshaj thiab ntev tshaj.
Koj niam pog txiv yawg thiab koj tus txiv yog ib tse neeg siab phem tshaj twb paub tias tsi hlub thaum ntej ho yuav koj lo khuan koj lub neej ua tsi ..cov neeg phem no yeej tsi tau lub neej zoo os
Just the individual that malpractice the culture and religion. Some women suffered because of the their unreliable husbands but overall the culture and religion are beautiful.
@@Pajdabtsi I don't see that the culture is beautiful at all. When a man lead a few other men to kidnap a girl into his home and use the religious ritual of limqaib, then the spirit of that home will occupy her soul that she cannot go back to her parent's home. That man then rape that girl into submission, you call that BEAUTIFUL ? I call that EVIL. Hmong culture and religion is nothing but evil.
Wow…menyuam tsis kam tha lawd txiv mas yog neeg siab nyoos kawg. Using their mom as an excuse. Nco ntsoov hais tias phem thiab zoo ntawm nej niam thiab nej Txiv los, thaum kawg nej tuav nej txiv lub npe thiab xeem, tsis yog nej niam lub. Nej txiv yog lub kaus rau nej thiab nej cov menyuam mus tag ib tiam. Txhob txwm ua phem lub ntees…menyuam yuav paub lo. How selfish of the mother. And I’m sure if the father was still alive, he would have his side of the story to tell. And just because he was a horrible husband, was he actually equally a horrible father? Unbelievable.
Niag poj hmoob ruam, koj dab laug tus ntxhais tsam yuav hlub koj ib niag pob au. Tus nyab no lub neej twb tsheej lawm nas, ua cas koj tseem yuav txw lawm nplog teb?
I don't understand why u let others, your side of the family, forced u to go back and married him? If they're not your immediate families, u should have reached out to your immediate family.
I don't get why women are still allowing relatives to force them back into a Loveless marriage? This is the 21st Century & we live in the United States!
Txiv tsev ruam siv tswv yim yuam ua neej nyob kob huam yog koj tus txiv no ntag. Hais txog ntawm koj tus txiv lub ntees mas tsim nyog koj thiab cov mi nyuam yuav raws li kwv tij tham vim neb twb tsis tau nrauj kwv tij, neb tsuas sib nrauj neb xwb. Koj yeej phem xws kiag koj tus txiv thiab ces hnub no koj thiaj tws kev khiav mus ntseeg church lawm. Ib hnub twg koj tau kev tws dua, koj mam tig khaub zig txog koj cov kwv tij ces hnub ntawv lig zog rau koj lawm.
It’s okay to not want to remarry him but it’s cruel that you can’t even spare a penny for his funeral expenses. Have some mercy and forgiveness as God forgive all of us everyday. I mean he is the father of your children.
Sister why you think the mom and her kid's should be responsible for his funeral. He did not want any part of them, cut ties with them and said at the beginning to his relatives that they will not be responsible for any part of his funeral expenses. Karma to him for not wanting them in the first place. Now that he is dead he is supposed to be important and they should cover his funeral expenses. No that's not how it works. If he took responsibility and help her cared for them then the kids would be at fault but not in this case. He may be responsible for bringing the kids into this world; but did not do his due diligence as father to them so they owe him nothing in return.
