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Living with Obsessive Compulsive Disorder is not about having tidy, color-coded closet shelves. Living with OCD is like living with a monster, driving the afflicted to extreme behaviors that compromise quality of life. As mother to an OCD daughter, Tauscha Johanson describes their family’s discovery of how to starve the monster, making it weaker in the process, and everyone’s life a little better. People have questioned Tauscha Johanson’s unconventional approach to life since college where she studied zoology, pre-medicine, then re-directed her attention to her family instead of going to medical school. Obstacles and negative opinions didn’t sway her when she fought to get treatment for her daughter’s OCD, rose to leadership in pharmaceuticals, or chose a risky, but tremendously successful career in direct sales.
What’s not in question is whether she knows how to lift, edify, and teach to empower others.
Tauscha’s biggest concern is making a difference and having a positive impact on the lives of others - beginning with her family. Her faith and her family are the most important things in her life. Tell her she shouldn’t do something significant and she’ll show you the Righteous Rebel who can This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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@juliastaat
@juliastaat 5 лет назад
I hate the fact that OCD has become a trendy thing when it's nearly ruined my young life.
@Blank_sp8ce1234
@Blank_sp8ce1234 5 лет назад
Babygirl Jules girl I completely understand. I’m 21 but I’ve had ocd since 14
@timothy4016
@timothy4016 5 лет назад
I’m 22 and I’ve been dealing with it since I was ..... maybe 9? I feel it getting worse , maybe it’s a rough patch maybe I can get through it, but a lot of people don’t take ocd seriously. To be honest the only mental illnesses people take seriously are probably schizophrenia, bipolar, and multiple personality disorder. Every other mental illness, the general population’s attitude toward it is: “it’s a quirk, it’s not a big deal, it’s all in your head.” It’s not right and I think videos like this is great, it helps people realize how serious they are, that it’s difficult , and it’s something that has to be dealt with as soon as possible
@hannahm.7426
@hannahm.7426 5 лет назад
You're not alone. Ocd has taken over my life and has almost costed me my relationship and my sanity. I've ripped door knobs from doors because i kept yanking on them thinking they weren't locked correctly. I've spent 2 hours checking my alarm I set for in the morning, terrified that I'll miss it and get fired from my job. It makes daily life full of fear and worry. I hope you can find something to help calm you and slow down your mind a little bit.
@yowhattupitzbigchungus4971
@yowhattupitzbigchungus4971 5 лет назад
I have had it since 5. 5 years old. It only started to really interrupt my life in high school and now im 22 in med school. I keep my ocd a secret but its there....its always there. Always.
@crice3329
@crice3329 5 лет назад
im pretty sure it ruined your life during the time you had it
@jagodaadamczyk282
@jagodaadamczyk282 5 лет назад
Living with OCD is an EVERY DAY BATTLE.
@leonidaskyrris8546
@leonidaskyrris8546 5 лет назад
Try the linden method it cured my ocd once and for all:)
@trtlduv07
@trtlduv07 5 лет назад
Yessssss! It's awful!
@pandupullen4047
@pandupullen4047 4 года назад
@@sash6882 tq
@thesoccerjunkie5433
@thesoccerjunkie5433 4 года назад
I know
@gunjandalal2154
@gunjandalal2154 3 года назад
@@leonidaskyrris8546 hi how can we learn that please explain i need help to overcome it
@je187u
@je187u 5 лет назад
Ocd is no joke, it's a nighmare , it's death,it has crippled me but i'm fighting back Don't react to the thoughts , you can slay it !
@Spazlites
@Spazlites 5 лет назад
🙏🏾We’ll get through this....ignoring it is hard but it definitely works
@joshuagloriani6186
@joshuagloriani6186 5 лет назад
Yeees. Fighting also
@samuelchisholm4039
@samuelchisholm4039 5 лет назад
I’m going to ignore the thoughts too
@MdMobashir
@MdMobashir 5 лет назад
My sister is also suffering with the same..
@samuelchisholm4039
@samuelchisholm4039 5 лет назад
So hard to not react to the thoughts
@billwilson1079
@billwilson1079 4 года назад
Ocd is like having demons following you everywhere always
@billwilson1079
@billwilson1079 4 года назад
This was my twin Scott who posted this comment. I do not have ocd
@samuelchisholm4039
@samuelchisholm4039 3 года назад
Bill Wilson yes exactly
@MaevrickOfficial
@MaevrickOfficial 3 года назад
EgFREAKINGzakly
@powerinnaturealinaf.muntea8878
@powerinnaturealinaf.muntea8878 2 года назад
because they are demons,....
@Thewindycityy2070
@Thewindycityy2070 2 года назад
It is satan playing tricks on you
@LionelProductions
@LionelProductions 3 года назад
OCD feels like I’m being forced to share my house with someone I don’t like and who doesn’t like me.
@jonathanaxel9643
@jonathanaxel9643 3 года назад
I know the feeling. Keep fighting, it's not true!
@justinneal4661
@justinneal4661 3 года назад
this is so damn accurate. For me its like im living with every bully i ever had in my head, except it has the energy of a toddler
@alicesky2636
@alicesky2636 3 года назад
literally!!!!
@michelerusso9745
@michelerusso9745 3 года назад
and the guest who doesn't like you is actively trying to destroy you and kick you out
@cb906
@cb906 2 года назад
Wow. That is such a great analogy
@jackiegreen4022
@jackiegreen4022 5 лет назад
I'm glad this is here. I despise my OCD. It is like constantly fighting your own mind and people do not understand how tiring that is.
@jackiegreen4022
@jackiegreen4022 5 лет назад
Well for Pure O anyway.
@jijitzuehd3936
@jijitzuehd3936 5 лет назад
Exactly
@IMissMrKitty
@IMissMrKitty 3 года назад
Yes! It is EXTREMELY exhausting.
@melo7825
@melo7825 2 года назад
they don't. they honestly don't.
@senorsimon986
@senorsimon986 2 года назад
Can't you fight your thoughts even if you clearly know that it is excessive and not really necessary?
@SandyTheDesertFox
@SandyTheDesertFox 5 лет назад
Living with OCD has brought me to some of my darkest moments, and excruciating is definitely the word I would use to describe it
@timothy4016
@timothy4016 5 лет назад
WellHiThere if you need anyone to talk to I’m here. I have ocd as well.... my darkest moments were all because of my monster living inside my brain
@satminderkaur5344
@satminderkaur5344 5 лет назад
Go and try,Brad Yates EFT for OCD ...it's very very helping
@marciodamin4126
@marciodamin4126 5 лет назад
excruciating is the right word for sure
@jameseserra
@jameseserra 5 лет назад
I can definitely relate to the dark moments and excruciating, overwhelming pain OCD has brought to my life. I am currently disabled due to my OCD, Anxiety, and Depression. Believe me, I wish my OCD was just about organizing and keeping a clean house.
@valeriab-6126
@valeriab-6126 5 лет назад
WellHiThrre Do u feel better now?
@itsjustmyopinionbut1671
@itsjustmyopinionbut1671 2 года назад
Ocd is not about cleaning … it’s about fear and uncertainty that you cannot control
@Catemossa
@Catemossa 2 года назад
Starve the monster is a great advice. I suffered from OCD from 18 to 27 years old, with ups and down, of course - we know it is not a constant state but more one that comes and go, more or less intensely depending on the period -. I am now 33 and have not had any OCD related thoughts for a few years. The scars are healing and I can tell you, if you are reading this and going through it: it is possible to get out of it. Starve the monster, be gentle to yourself and be on your side. You are a sensitive person, so altruistic that you get worried by even having bad thoughts. Learn to be a bit more selfish, and fight for your own happiness. You truly deserve it!
@vanshikakaushik6497
@vanshikakaushik6497 Год назад
Hey please help me with a few quick questions if you can I was different with OCD at 22 now I'm 24 I'm pursuing my masters in English I fear that if I do my PhD and work in a college I may start to date a student I fear that if I continue my profession (writing) I will become an alcoholic I ask people that were there any sober writers I feel if I stay with smokers I will smoke like there's no end is this also ocd?
@vanshikakaushik6497
@vanshikakaushik6497 Год назад
Pls help me I've missed many career opportunities bcs of this I didn't complete my education as I was feared about dating my student I didn't switch jobs as felt I will start smoking is all this ocd?
@Indomitable_Alykat
@Indomitable_Alykat Год назад
"You are a sensitive person, so altruistic that you get worried by even having bad thoughts." As someone with OCD, this statement brought me to tears. Thank you 😭💖
@timschiff8600
@timschiff8600 Год назад
Thank you. It's been three years now - I'm 25. I've seen a few Dr's that wanted me to try SSRIs and SNRIs but I don't really want to alter my brain chemistry in that way.
@Only_-_Yours
@Only_-_Yours Год назад
@@vanshikakaushik6497 yes this is OCD
@krystalwhispers
@krystalwhispers 3 года назад
To anyone and everyone reading this right now, I wanna let you know that your OCD isn't gonna last. Believe me, it may be hard, but every moment, you are getting closer to that one day when you'll conquer your mind, free your soul, and that day is gonna be one of the greatest days you've ever lived through. Life will have meaning. I care about you, I love you, and there's nothing else that matters 🥰💖
@krystalwhispers
@krystalwhispers 3 года назад
@@firex.6273 im super glad i was able to help. keep starving the monster, i'm going through this phase too, so i say lets do it together :) lets both come back here one day and claim our victories over our monsters 💕 keep going, im so proud of you!
@draidenb3250
@draidenb3250 Год назад
Your the best💕
@graceelena6832
@graceelena6832 Год назад
sobbing as i read this 😭 thank you for your kind words, you have no idea how much i needed to hear that
@rajarshiacharya7943
@rajarshiacharya7943 Год назад
Whoever you are, wish you the best and love you back!
@Soundofharmony1
@Soundofharmony1 Год назад
How do you know? Are you suffering from ocd? My 6 year old son is and I’ve never felt this helpless in my life. I don’t know how to help him. There’s no cure so what are you talking about? Plz share
@joesphulrich4054
@joesphulrich4054 5 лет назад
wow, I almost cry, only those who have monster, know the true suffering and mental prison
@danielhirschberg876
@danielhirschberg876 5 лет назад
It is a prison my god I ought to know!!!
@maxaxcel2650
@maxaxcel2650 4 года назад
@@danielhirschberg876 yeah man, i hate this so much
@laurenbrooke_96
@laurenbrooke_96 4 года назад
It really does feel like a prison. It feels like an isolated prison, because it’s so hard to talk about.
@maxaxcel2650
@maxaxcel2650 4 года назад
@@laurenbrooke_96 No one understands, it's almost like it's pointless to talk about this.
@likioplin1537
@likioplin1537 4 года назад
i wish i could stopp i wanna dieee when i think about it
@shanellewarner6873
@shanellewarner6873 5 лет назад
It is so annoying to see people use OCD so easily. OCD has ruined my life and it just hurts to see people use that word so easily.
@chanduwaitingforamiracle..2537
Exactly
@leonidaskyrris8546
@leonidaskyrris8546 5 лет назад
Try the linden method...it cured my ocd:)
@sunnymanvoy
@sunnymanvoy 4 года назад
@@leonidaskyrris8546 Can u plz share me how linden method helps you? I want to do it at my home without having to go anywhere. Please share their secret!
@goofball2228
@goofball2228 Год назад
Ikr same
@WickerSticksSinema
@WickerSticksSinema Год назад
I feel the same way. Like it’s another trendy buzz word… It’s more than that.
@Paul_Michael
@Paul_Michael Месяц назад
I was diagnosed with OCD 18 years ago as a teenage. Spent my whole life fighting OCD. I suffered severe depression and mental disorder. Not until my wife recommended me to psilocybin mushrooms treatment. Psilocybin treatment saved my life honestly. 8 years totally clean. Never thought I would be saying this about mushrooms.
@Ronkaja
@Ronkaja Месяц назад
Congrats on your recovery. Most persons never realizes psilocybin can be used as a miracle medication to save lives. Years back i wrote an entire essay about psychedelics. they saved you from death bud, lets be honest here.
@Malikrooney-hq5jj
@Malikrooney-hq5jj Месяц назад
Can you help me with the reliable source 🙏. I'm 56 and have suffered for years with addiction, anxiety and severe ptsd, I got my panic attacks under control myself years ago and they have come back with a vengeance, I'm constantly trying to take full breaths but can't get the full satisfying breath out, it's absolutely crippling me, i live in Norway. I don't know much about these mushrooms. Really need a reliable source!! Can't wait to get them
@smith23652
@smith23652 Месяц назад
YES very sure of Dr.benfungi. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.
@Edennnn926
@Edennnn926 Месяц назад
100% agree I used to have Psychosis and paranoid thoughts like "people thinking about me talking about me etc. Very odd behavior after getting off Adderall from 7-16. Antidepressants at 18-29. 31 now. I took way to much, but took about 20g of Gold caps (Psilocybin containing mushroom) I analyzed my entire life. The emotions that came out helped me understand behavior etc more. Wont ever need to do it again because I'm happy and contempt forever, but I wish more people did this to alter their perception of reality. Would help with healing much trauma
@Wimruther-hk4zn
@Wimruther-hk4zn Месяц назад
How do I reach out to him? Is he on insta
@baishalinag8591
@baishalinag8591 4 года назад
this ocd destroyed my most valuable and enjoyable age .
@mmmmmm6543
@mmmmmm6543 4 года назад
baishali nag mine to, throughout my 20’s I’ve had it really bad
@romaniangamer1
@romaniangamer1 4 года назад
How many years my man?
@annaf.8165
@annaf.8165 4 года назад
I can understand those words that you said. I'm fighting with this thing since I was a little girl, it never leaved me alone. I never feelt alone in my own head. People like us should talk about this feelings more often so someone with ocd can know that he is not alone. Because when I was a little I was think that I'm alone.
@Bawaal_Videos
@Bawaal_Videos 4 года назад
@@annaf.8165 same. Sending hugs.
@MrMelvinkennedy1
@MrMelvinkennedy1 4 года назад
Its my 30s its taking from me by causing agoraphobia
@AllieBee00
@AllieBee00 4 года назад
OCD has me questioning ever moment and second of my life with intrusive thoughts that constantly have me on fight or flight
@AllieBee00
@AllieBee00 3 года назад
@@chelzyramirez3663 pretty good tbh just let them be thoughts and move on
@theboisreact2033
@theboisreact2033 3 года назад
Same bro
@gokulnath8043
@gokulnath8043 2 года назад
@@AllieBee00 how
@alexandraestre1731
@alexandraestre1731 2 года назад
Same same
@moo_jessye
@moo_jessye 2 года назад
@@gokulnath8043 I just put my hand on my chest breathe and remind myself that these thoughts aren’t me and that I’m a good person and move on.
@zunedkhan418
@zunedkhan418 3 года назад
I feel so relaxed reading these comments. Its like im not alone. People are fighting it with me.
@yourbrainongod244
@yourbrainongod244 Год назад
Me too!!
@lizatbl7364
@lizatbl7364 Год назад
Me too!!
@reneeperez274
@reneeperez274 Год назад
Me too!
@WickerSticksSinema
@WickerSticksSinema Год назад
You aren’t it makes me feel better too
@luxiiien
@luxiiien 10 месяцев назад
I feel the same way. struggling with ocd can be such a lonely experience.... knowing there's people out there that understand what i'm going through makes me feel better
@cesarguevara3362
@cesarguevara3362 5 лет назад
As a OCD patient, tears coming out of my eyes as we are such caring souls and our main concern is to repeat things in order to not harm or secure the safety of others.
@xeniagorton
@xeniagorton 10 месяцев назад
😢🖤
@TitanicConcerts
@TitanicConcerts 5 лет назад
Your daughter is lucky to have a mom like you. As an OCD sufferer I can tell you that it's most unfortunate to have no one in my family who is capable of being there for me during an episode. They are too wrapped up in their own lives and problems and they've made it clear that my issues are a burden on them.
@MykeG
@MykeG 5 лет назад
JC Morton have you joined the nocd app yet?
@Niuniany
@Niuniany 4 года назад
Mike Griffiths Thank You for the info and wishing all of you full recovery🙏
@luctuosaluctuosa5360
@luctuosaluctuosa5360 4 года назад
Zoya Moledina I feel for you.💛💛💛
@martinw245
@martinw245 3 года назад
@@zoyamoledina2969 Exposure and response prevention works. Make it your number one priority. After 54 years of OCD, I can tell you that.
@TrizzyH
@TrizzyH 3 года назад
Keep fighting, WE MUST FIGHT! This is a war for your mind, and we need to change the relationship we have with anxiety. It will use every tool in it's arsenal to trick you. Don't let it win, be comfortable with the uncomfortable. I am striving to do the same!
@sunnykasmr3910
@sunnykasmr3910 Год назад
I say yes to starving my monster, but then the “what if this time something bad happens when I don’t check the house/room 35 times before leaving?” You’re 100% correct about feeding the monster and making it stronger. Each day for the past few months I’ve been feeding it & it requires a new ritual, a longer ritual, a more ridiculous intrusive thought pops into my mind and a new fear added to my list. Starving the monster is literally the only way. Now I just need to start
@goodmorning2386
@goodmorning2386 Год назад
Hope you’re doing well! Another added analogy to the monster, you feel so anxious momentarily when you don’t feed it, excruciatingly so, but this is because the monster is angry and trying to lash out at you as you aren’t feeding it, but you keep that up and that horrible monster will wither, weaken, and die
@CelebrityGossip_
@CelebrityGossip_ Год назад
I've been suffering from ocd for 5 years, with ups and downs. It feels like every day is a stuggle. It keeps me from doing everyday stuff like taking a shower, brushing my teeth, even making the breakfast and eating. Everything I do is filled with unwanted thoughts and it causes me to do compulsive actions over and over again. Everyone says I'm lazy, but they don't understand that I waste all my energy fighting the thoughts and I don't have motivation to study and do other things. I'm trying hard and I hope all of you find the strength within yourselves to kill the monster!❤
@pavithrajanarsan1940
@pavithrajanarsan1940 Год назад
Hang in there..there are plenty of resources and help and take one step at a time...I am in the same battleground too
@Zoe-rw6vp
@Zoe-rw6vp 2 года назад
I suffered OCD from 6 years old to 16, when I finally killed the monster and it never came back. I never told anyone, and the trauma of feeling so scared and alone scarred me so much. I just want everyone to know that you are not alone and that I know someday you will be able to kill it.
@cristinamartinez5654
@cristinamartinez5654 2 года назад
how’d you do it?
@johnvandijk1399
@johnvandijk1399 2 года назад
Thank you, I lost all faith but hearing someone believe in someday gives me strenght.
@zabintasrik4488
@zabintasrik4488 9 месяцев назад
That's not how it works, this type of advice doesn't help one bit. Thanks for the fiction btw.
@chris1806
@chris1806 8 месяцев назад
Why should the sane feel compassion about the mentally ill if the mentally ill makes the sane's person life miserable ! so why should the mentally sane people suffer because of these mad people.
@brittanyborja8572
@brittanyborja8572 4 года назад
My OCD has taken over and caused me the worst torture of my life. I am not who I want to be.
@rabiazafar5815
@rabiazafar5815 3 года назад
same with me, I have terrible thoughts all the time and they do not stop, i had big hopes and goals to achieve but due to this vicious moster I am not able to. if you want we can share our thoughts with each other and the coping techniques.
@brittanyborja8572
@brittanyborja8572 3 года назад
@@rabiazafar5815 that would be great! My Facebook is Brittany Catherine Borja. I am doing better but it is for sure still there.
@Conceptcenter-ut4yi
@Conceptcenter-ut4yi 21 день назад
What is your condition now have you recovered yet
@brittanyborja8572
@brittanyborja8572 21 день назад
​@@Conceptcenter-ut4yithank you for asking. I am getting much better. Evolving with it for sure. 😊
@ikemeawogu7563
@ikemeawogu7563 5 лет назад
OCD for me is just PAIN. I don't know how to explain it but yeah just pain
@breakthestigma
@breakthestigma 5 лет назад
ikeme Shitshow can i help u in anyway ??
@sash6882
@sash6882 4 года назад
"overcoming unwanted intrusive thought" on amazon that book helped me alot.
@breakthestigma
@breakthestigma 4 года назад
@henri fenix i too suffered from this .. its just take your life away.. but now after medications .. i can say .. i am completely fine
@breakthestigma
@breakthestigma 4 года назад
HENRI fenix Yeah i do have alot
@breakthestigma
@breakthestigma 4 года назад
HENRI fenix If u want i can send u
@MaiCohWolf
@MaiCohWolf Год назад
It feels like every time I tell somebody I have OCD, they always go "me too!" and go on about how bothered they are if their house isn't clean. They never talk about sitting in bed, unshowered, in tears, unable to eat or breathe, writing a letter to their internship supervisor from 7 years ago about a perceived wrongdoing that their OCD is now blowing wildly out of proportion.
@IainRayiru
@IainRayiru 5 лет назад
This woman was so articulate explaining the story of her Daughters problems with OCD. Really helped me with mine. Thank you!
@thedman454
@thedman454 4 года назад
Iain Rayiru really...the material and substance of the talk is amazing but her presentation and manner of speaking was personally extremely difficult to sit through
@TheApdancer
@TheApdancer 5 лет назад
As the survivor of a brother who lost his battle to the monster it makes me so angry when people make it a joke. The jokes make harder to accurately identify uncommon presentations from the outside. Every joke feels like knives
@RahulKumar-de2rw
@RahulKumar-de2rw 4 года назад
@@rebeccaj7164 i feel sorry
@juliettatorres821
@juliettatorres821 4 года назад
So sorry for your loss ❤ sending prayers your way
@lyndamackenzie6476
@lyndamackenzie6476 3 года назад
I am so sorry for the pain that this monster has caused you and your family and so many others😔
@Lucifer-jl9vh
@Lucifer-jl9vh Год назад
All my love and prayers to you and everyone❤💐🙏
@chris1806
@chris1806 10 месяцев назад
so why should the mentally sane people suffer because of these mad people. These mad people can easily lose control grab a knife and attack you..they should be treated just like drug addicts - locked in a special hospital and treated accordingly.
@sergsfault
@sergsfault 6 лет назад
i have kind of something like ocd....obssessive thoughts that need to be calmed down by reasoning all the time and its a drug ...a mental drug when you finally calm down your mind by reasoning you get a huge sense of relief kinda like an opium high....and the very next second the monster comes back and demands that you calm him down again.....one practical advice....the monster loves caffeine!
@noneyabiz9320
@noneyabiz9320 5 лет назад
Look up Pure "O" OCD.
@williamdiament5276
@williamdiament5276 5 лет назад
Anna Greer is pure ocd in the dsm?
@robertwoodrick1052
@robertwoodrick1052 5 лет назад
William Diament it is ocd. Just as much as any just with repetitive thinking as a loop to decrease anxiety. Same game slightly different twist.
@catejones3843
@catejones3843 5 лет назад
I hope you get over your caffeine addiction
@GAbutterfly8211
@GAbutterfly8211 4 года назад
"Pure O" is really a misnomer - you still have compulsions, they are just in your head so they aren't seen as the stereotypical physical compulsions (handwashing, checking, etc.) that many people associate with OCD. I have several OCD themes where both the obsessions and compulsions are completely mental. Rumination, thought review, mental checking, self-reassurance, self-punishment - all of these are compulsions, and all of them are done mentally. It's all just OCD. If you have thoughts/images/feelings/urges (obsessions) that take up a significant amount of time or have a marked negative impact on your life, and you do some kind of action (compulsion) to alleviate the anxiety caused by them, you likely have OCD and would benefit from seeing a specialist trained in Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP) and possibly Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT).
@TinaFa912
@TinaFa912 5 лет назад
I would do anything in the universe to take away my son's OCD! It is just awful.
@paulbyrne586
@paulbyrne586 5 лет назад
Pray
@billyelliehilburn
@billyelliehilburn 5 лет назад
Me to
@ThanasisVydouras
@ThanasisVydouras 5 лет назад
i tried homeopathy eventually helped mine 80% no joke. I wish you the best
@romaniangamer1
@romaniangamer1 4 года назад
God help your son!
@IMissMrKitty
@IMissMrKitty 3 года назад
Try Niacin (Vitamin B3) in larger amounts- about 500 mgs. Get the flushing kind Nicotinic acid but be sure to taper up to that amount slowly. And make sure he's also taking a B complex vitamin as well, as large amounts of one B vitamin can cause deficiencies in all of the other B vitamins. Make sure it's immediate release.
@ElizabethGonzalez-jt7ns
@ElizabethGonzalez-jt7ns 3 года назад
I just wanted to take some time to share my experience. I had a severe “pure o” ocd episode that lasted a year. Then, I was ocd free for one year ❤️ ☀️ and words cannot express how happy I was to be free of mental torment. It felt like I was freed from prison. I was a normal, happy person again. Then, one year later, unfortunately OCD came back in a whole different theme. I’m currently struggling with it. I think OCD it’s making its last attempt at me. It’s making me recount all the mistakes I’ve made in my life and punishing me for it pretty severely for it. This is what is called “real event ocd”. I plan to fight this monster the same way I fought and beat the other monster. Stay in the fight everyone. You are not alone in this. 💕
@chelzyramirez3663
@chelzyramirez3663 3 года назад
I think I have pure o I have been struggling like 4 months and I’m scared that the thoughts and feelings won’t ever go away but you overcame it for a whole year! You can do it! And I hope I can too
@ElizabethGonzalez-jt7ns
@ElizabethGonzalez-jt7ns 3 года назад
@@chelzyramirez3663 , what has helped me is what I call “breaking the loop”. I took a week and overbooked myself to exhaustion, every single day, and surrounded myself with lots family, friends and coworkers. Get as busy as you possibly can and like that you won’t focus on the thoughts. Humans can’t multitask and focus on two things at once. Stay away from your home and only go there to sleep. This will break the loop! I’m feeling 80% better already. Trust me in this... it may be difficult but it will help you.
@chelzyramirez3663
@chelzyramirez3663 3 года назад
@@ElizabethGonzalez-jt7ns all I do is stay home though :( I’m 17 I don’t have a job which I’m hoping I get one soon and I do online school at home so it’s going to be so hard but I’ve been feeling a bit better for three days so far I haven’t reacted or question my thoughts and I’ve been feeling better
@bloop1335
@bloop1335 2 года назад
@@chelzyramirez3663 we can talk if you want to. Trust me I have the same situation as you and I am also having online school. I can give you my insta id here. I think having someone with similar situation and whom you can talk to will help both of us.
@Ashish-nd3xj
@Ashish-nd3xj 2 года назад
@@ElizabethGonzalez-jt7ns has the loop come back. I break it only for it to come back.
@robinsmith4958
@robinsmith4958 5 лет назад
Excellent!!! I'm going to start starving my OCD Monster today! Thank you!
@cecilgoosen7405
@cecilgoosen7405 5 лет назад
So........how'd it work for you ?
@aak_june23
@aak_june23 4 года назад
Yes! I'm starting today. Let the monster eat himself!
@sameraboyaseen1455
@sameraboyaseen1455 4 года назад
How exactly??
@ronj5407
@ronj5407 Год назад
Did this work out for you?
@dennissvistun922
@dennissvistun922 Год назад
@@sameraboyaseen1455 it's all in your head. Don't let the monster control you, you must control it
@deborahhattel172
@deborahhattel172 5 лет назад
My beautiful 29 year old son has sufferd for over a decade with severe OCD, Insomnia, and depression💔my heart breaks for our children.
@romaniangamer1
@romaniangamer1 4 года назад
God help him!
@borninjordan7448
@borninjordan7448 4 года назад
He has my sympathy...
@lyndamackenzie6476
@lyndamackenzie6476 3 года назад
My son is 27 and is suffering worse for the last year than he ever has in his life. He has several types of OCD along with chronic pain and depression. It makes you feel so helpless as a parent to see your child completely debilitated. I am desperately trying to seek help for my son. Thank you for sharing.
@kristymarie6065
@kristymarie6065 2 года назад
@@lyndamackenzie6476 I hope he is doing better
@lyndamackenzie6476
@lyndamackenzie6476 2 года назад
@@kristymarie6065 thank you. He is doing better! Not great, but thankfully he has more ok days than bad ones. 🥰
@orhason6155
@orhason6155 5 лет назад
Your voice is so calming and satisfying....its like a meditation
@lovelyliz17
@lovelyliz17 4 года назад
Part of my OCD is voice triggers, and this woman’s voice is like nails on a chalkboard. It makes me sad that I can’t even listen to this whole thing ☹️
@sirswede8969
@sirswede8969 4 года назад
Lovely Liz Exactly! Her voice gives me extreme anxiety and I don't even, usually, get that anxious anymore.
@charleycurls_
@charleycurls_ 4 года назад
Make a difficult decision between living for a short time in an extreme and excruciating amount of discomfort and anxiety or living a lifetime with the monster roaring. These words will forever stick in my mind. So so powerful. Thank you ❤️
@zoefloreus7066
@zoefloreus7066 4 года назад
OCD intrusive thoughts are so bad. I have struggled with it for so looking. It feels like I'll never win. 😓 this definitely gives me hope.
@janefaceinthewind6260
@janefaceinthewind6260 2 года назад
Have you tried the amino acid n-acetylcysteine? It's helping me so much. Just sharing my own experience and wish you luck, you can beat this!
@rahulpagidimarri4677
@rahulpagidimarri4677 4 года назад
Guys I recovered from Ocd, just be courageous it is very important, and never do compulsions ur brain tells to do don't listen to it, take deep breath and do other work, never ever think of it again, if ur compulsion reason is high then think and do compulsion of not doing compulsion it helps to some extent, but don't ever try to do compulsions if u dont do compulsions u can recover easily, have courage and sit in sunshine for 15-30 mins(for serotonin) and read books, I read bhagavatgita it helped me a lot do read it ,u will get some courage(u can find it online ) in that god says to fight and gives u courage to fight and says many more things about mind, keep ur self busy don't think too much and do the work more and also exercise and don't respond to your thoughts
@learningtolive284
@learningtolive284 3 года назад
What was the theme of your OCD?
@lightningbolt5888
@lightningbolt5888 Год назад
OCD is not just a chemical imbalance. It can be caused from many things, including trauma.
@innocentmagongoa1488
@innocentmagongoa1488 11 месяцев назад
Trauma can trigger/ cause a chemical balance. Her point is that the basis of OCD is due to a chemical imbalance, whatever the cause might be
@1stabletour
@1stabletour 8 месяцев назад
Indeed. I think firstly one needs to look at parenting. I do wonder about this speaker.
@kellaphotography8167
@kellaphotography8167 5 лет назад
I hate when people say they are like I am so OCD today, like as a person with OCD that's so annoying. I hate OCD. OCD is not clean your damn room or your bathroom
@peeyaboobiya9157
@peeyaboobiya9157 7 месяцев назад
I suffer with ocd in the form of health anxiety. It crippled me for years and in turn my husband and family. The time I lost obsessing over my health. The worry, the ruminating thoughts, the body checking and the reassurance seeking was endless. I fed the monster kept it alive and strong. I am now a lot better due to starving the monster. It does rear its head and it has been trying to come back recently, and it takes a massive amount of self discipline to crush it all over again. It's a battle, but I am winning.
@tauschajohanson26
@tauschajohanson26 4 месяца назад
Love this!
@morganedwards7936
@morganedwards7936 4 года назад
Living with ocd is a mental, physical , emotional battle .. it’s not some trend....
@morganedwards7936
@morganedwards7936 4 года назад
It has ruined me but I am fighting every day...
@Conceptcenter-ut4yi
@Conceptcenter-ut4yi 21 день назад
Are you okay now how is your condition now after 4 years
@maijaliisaspeaks
@maijaliisaspeaks 6 лет назад
You brought reality into the room.
@cecilgoosen7405
@cecilgoosen7405 5 лет назад
Your name agitates my ocd *Lisa*
@cecilgoosen7405
@cecilgoosen7405 5 лет назад
But I feel it has to be *Lica* for some reason
@cecilgoosen7405
@cecilgoosen7405 5 лет назад
But than again is it pronounced "Li-ka" , "Laaika" or "Leesa" if spelled "Lica" ??
@annak3325
@annak3325 4 года назад
@@cecilgoosen7405 please look up OCPD.
@cecilgoosen7405
@cecilgoosen7405 4 года назад
@@annak3325 My mother has OCPD but she doesn't wanna hear it I know Its bad I have OCD and it's bad But so is her OCPD She thinks her Obsessive Cleaning and "perfectionism" Is normal and everyone Is Like Her
@timcook4552
@timcook4552 4 года назад
This is what I did when I was young. I starved the monster and it became weak. I still have it sometimes but it's something I can just starve easily unlike before, I would spend hours checking on something just because my brain tells me I didn't do what I had to do . This can be healed trust me. Hardwork and perseverance and you will be cured.
@umarjanbhat3819
@umarjanbhat3819 2 года назад
How are you now?
@oliviayoung4519
@oliviayoung4519 3 года назад
I don’t think very many people truly understand how excruciating and painful OCD is. It has ruined so many days and led to so many tearful nights. I wish I had the support that Breland’s parents gave her.
@oliviayoung4519
@oliviayoung4519 8 месяцев назад
@@chris1806 the way you talk sounds like you need to be thrown away exactly how you describe, you sound like you live in the 17th century. mentally sane people can also struggle with mental health disorders! i won’t waste my time trying to educate you because clearly you have no basic foundation of what it is to be a human in the first place
@sambordon9383
@sambordon9383 5 лет назад
I have struggled with OCD since my 14. And even before seeing this video I always visualised it as some sort of monster and indeed I have found out that you have to try and ignore the compulsions and realize that the intrusive thoughts are not thoughts you want, it are just random images, when you however show fear towards it, the mind believes it to be important and latches on to it.
@lutfiserbetci7049
@lutfiserbetci7049 4 года назад
I've been suffering since I was 15, now 28 and still fighting..I have pure ocd which is also causing me anxiety and depression.ive always felt alone, but it seems like so many people suffer with it. Insallah I will keep fighting and I hope you do so too.
@yasminm7157
@yasminm7157 3 года назад
Check out OCD Recovery on Instagram. The guy is Robert Bray. Honestly, he is the best out there. He is recovered but had it for years and understands it so well. You can recover inshallah! 🙏🏼💓
@martinw245
@martinw245 3 года назад
My daughter suffers from pure O. And I've suffered from a different form from the age of 8. Now 62. 54 years of OCD. :)
@Onibaudelaire
@Onibaudelaire 3 года назад
I feel ur pain cause i’m going through the same thing and its killing me😕🥺...we will overcome this
@lutfiserbetci7049
@lutfiserbetci7049 3 года назад
Thank you everyone for kindness. It gives me strength knowing that I'm not alone and that I can talk about it here
@martinw245
@martinw245 3 года назад
@@lutfiserbetci7049 Yep, nice to talk to others. When I first suffered from OCD 54 years ago nobody had heard of the condition. Now is a well known disorder and we have the Internet and social media to talk with others.
@VoiceAndPianoByChristaFord
@VoiceAndPianoByChristaFord 5 лет назад
I am at work right now and watch this video in between during a break because I needed it so badly. I've been battling the monster of OCD since about age 21 and I'm now 43 and the mother of six beautiful children and the wife of a lovely husband. OCD tries to dominate my entire life and this video gave me hope! My ultimate hope is in Jesus Christ and he is the ultimate healer and will heal all of our minds and souls in heaven with him if we believe in him as our Savior and Lord and repent of all of our sins you forgive those who sin against us. Thank you so much for this video
@CANAN12354
@CANAN12354 Год назад
And u make another 6 Ocd sufferres cos Ocd is genetic, bless u u r a monster as well! 😏
@DeladisKythera
@DeladisKythera 4 года назад
Am grateful for this. People don't realise how disabling and also strange and random OCD actually is and that it can be many different things that are often deeply embarrassing. My OCD has in the past made me do things that are so bizarre I feel deeply upset about and ashamed of them
@Draco19970125
@Draco19970125 10 месяцев назад
I feel you. My OCDs are often so embarrassing. I hope I can find the strength to win over them.
@gracie1901
@gracie1901 Год назад
This talk had me in tears the whole time. OCD is so insanely painful and can tear families apart. Thank you for this presentation
@amyrose8782
@amyrose8782 4 года назад
It’s heartbreaking and it’s ruining my life, this touched my heart because I understand.
@efernandezgerard6643
@efernandezgerard6643 6 лет назад
Excellent. As a sufferer I found this very helpful!
@magnificent2646
@magnificent2646 3 года назад
I haven't been diagnosed yet but I swear that's what it is. No one understands. I feel so sick and disgusted with myself. My anxiety is through the roof everyday. I can't even focus on work. I can't focus on good things or positive things. My parents don't understand they don't think I need help but they don't know what's going on in my head. I wish that someone could cast a spell and it just be gone forever. My heart goes to everyone going through this. Stay strong and remember you are not alone ❤
@kylehill9121
@kylehill9121 3 года назад
I'm in the same boat. ❤️
@ahlinad1221
@ahlinad1221 2 года назад
The part at 7:00 brought tears to my eyes, fighting back the monster almost feels impossible, but we're left with the choice of either giving in to the compulsions and suffering, or starving the monster and living a happy life
@goodmorning2386
@goodmorning2386 Год назад
that’s the thing, the monster will be angry at you since you aren’t feeding it, but if you keep starving it it’ll become weaker, quieter, and die
@i0am0a0fish
@i0am0a0fish 5 лет назад
I think by far one of the greatest take aways from this is how dedicated, compassionate and open she seems to have been with her child with this disorder. It's incredible the amount of benefit, or detriment a parents actions and words can have on a child, and especially a child with mental illness. It is truly unfortunate that mental illness has been tabooed, and it is even worst that there is such a lack of access to education for a lot of parents in regards to mental illness. I have severe OCD and grew up in a household that did not understand this disorder, and the consequences of that reverberated into every aspect of my life for years. My OCD was crippling and I suffered silently until I was 25 years old and was able to finally fight my way to access and education. Had I been shown just a hint of kindness and compassion, or had more access to help and information, things would've been so different. It's important to remember that OCD causes massive amounts of doubt and guilt, so reassurance, empathy and compassion are especially crucial in a person with OCD's life. Keep this in mind when interacting with a person with OCD, whether that be a stranger or a person near and dear to your heart.
@farky42
@farky42 5 лет назад
So true, from fellow awful OCD sufferer
@angie8088
@angie8088 5 лет назад
Well said. My parents were very cruel towards me any time my OCD was visible. My little girl has it, and I am on a mission to show her nothing but love and compassion, and help her work through this.
@stacyfarmer7656
@stacyfarmer7656 5 лет назад
I am literally in tears I so needed this prayers for Breland.
@kasthurinathan8885
@kasthurinathan8885 3 года назад
To all the people who are having aggressive OCD like me , don't worry , we can all get through !
@zirilli3
@zirilli3 Год назад
I am a 54-year-old man. I have been suffering with OCD since I was a child. This presentation is excellent, and helps others to discover what I have had to discover on my own treating this situation. I like how you have separated "the monster" from the person. Because it is 100% true, that this monster is not the person. It invades my thoughts, interferes with my actions, it's everything you have described and I felt heartbroken for your daughter. In realizing that the monster is something separate from me, I have recognized it and learned to dismiss it: as you noted, starve the monster. It is always there, always, but if I acknowledge it and realize that it is misleading or misguiding my thoughts, I can beat it. My OCD has been crippling at times, where I have a thought about something bad happening to a family member if I do not perform a task in a proper manner, or if while I'm performing the task properly I have the monster give me a negative thought about my family or pretty much anything in life going bad or wrong. I can only emphasize separating the monster from our real selves. The monster is not who I am, and I can starve it best when my stress levels are low or when my medications are working properly, lol. Even doctors have a very difficult time understanding this disorder. When I feel well, I can dismiss the monster easily. When I am stressed and under a lot of pressure or anxiety, the monster sees an opportunity to feed. I do not know anything much about OCD in the social media venues that you mentioned. But I would like to know more about the group you discussed and the website you discussed so that I can read more about our disease or disorder, and help me understand that I am not alone. Thank you very much for what you have done.
@mayelyaxume
@mayelyaxume 4 года назад
I suffered from OCD since I was 6 and my family would always make jokes because they saw me counting they thought It was a habit of mine or pretending my parents would get mad at me every time because I didn’t stop they didn’t know I couldn’t😣and I really thought I was the only one in the world like that I started hiding it and my anxiety got worst when I was in high school. I had never heard the word OCD. Until I saw some one on RU-vid explaining exactly the same rituals and feeling I always had that gave me hope. I started practicing meditation and praying this has helped me a lot. I pray for those who suffer from OCD can overcome and defeat that monster you are not alone🙏🏻
@tofujelly
@tofujelly 5 лет назад
For those of us who are suffering with OCD, there is Obsessive Compulsive Anonymous and it really really really helps. G-Dspeed
@warriorv9359
@warriorv9359 5 лет назад
How do i contact t them
@10minutesofheechul58
@10minutesofheechul58 5 лет назад
this is smart, I got rid of my OCD the same way
@danielwalker2381
@danielwalker2381 5 лет назад
First it was anxiety, then it was derealization, then it was back to my normal anxiety, then to OCD :/ started a month and a half ago.
@isabellawillberg3872
@isabellawillberg3872 3 года назад
How are you doing now
@Baff0000
@Baff0000 2 года назад
@@isabellawillberg3872 Good question. I didn't know derealisation was part of OCD. I had that when I was younger. Before my OCD developed.
@bribodypiercing5281
@bribodypiercing5281 5 лет назад
I'm happy to have found this video. I, being a OCD sufferer from when I was a child, am happy to acknowledge that there is a mother so involved in learning about OCD and trying to help her daughter. It feels like a prison because it is a prison. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy is the right approach. Don't be ashamed, it's a disorder. Intrusive thoughts are just thoughts. Actually very bad ones but they don't define any of you. I send an hug to all of those who, just like me, are tortured everyday. Have faith in yourselves
@chris1806
@chris1806 9 месяцев назад
We the sane and mentally strong people have to bear the emotional burden caused by weak and mentally sick people
@kofiadjei4375
@kofiadjei4375 4 месяца назад
Thank you I'm also a sufferer just recently noticed my repetitive actions. I'm scared that it'll interfere my academics. Please I just need someone to talk to cause I don't know who to share it with. I'm constantly suffering and mindgraines. Please can we talk?
@AA-kd4kd
@AA-kd4kd 3 года назад
I have OCD and I cried while watching this. I realised at 22 that I have been suffering from this. I don't take regular therapy and haven't been diagnosed but my therapists keep on saying I have "obsessive thoughts" and "compulsive behaviors". I have had suicidal phases because of my intrusive thoughts. I have started meditation daily which has helped me considerably. Hope I can get rid of it someday.
@payamyazdi7672
@payamyazdi7672 5 лет назад
in order to fight my ocd I just think about the face my heart can stop any second without any prior warning and that makes me so calm.
@learningtolive284
@learningtolive284 3 года назад
You're daughter is so Lucky to have such a great mom , it's difficult for non OCD people to understand the pain of sufferers
@chrismarshall8441
@chrismarshall8441 Год назад
OCD is a real nightmare, i live with a spouse who had OCD it's been a hard life. My entire family is suffering because of it. It's not a joke, people who joke about the condition, doesn't even understand the gravity of this illness.
@jamessanchez5611
@jamessanchez5611 3 года назад
It’s crazy how many times I fake a smile and let no one know what’s wrong but on the inside I’m constantly fighting with myself
@Ashish-nd3xj
@Ashish-nd3xj 2 года назад
Boy, that's me that's me
@ewamajcher1409
@ewamajcher1409 2 года назад
it drives me crazy when people say "I have got it too!!! :)" - like they win jackpot; they have no idea how suffering OCD is
@christineguerrero5678
@christineguerrero5678 3 года назад
This is SO good. ERP therapy is based on this principle. It is so true. ERP has helped me tremendously.
@courtneycarroll4294
@courtneycarroll4294 4 года назад
Her voice is so relaxing I can listen to her talk about something I hate but she just makes it sound like “you’re ok”
@christianolive769
@christianolive769 Год назад
Listening to this brought a couple of tears to my eyes because I go through the same thing with my own OCD.
@davidlucey1311
@davidlucey1311 3 года назад
She’s right Mental illness is never a choice and it certainly is not trendy
@tinalyons3964
@tinalyons3964 4 года назад
One of my Intrusive OCD negative loop systems of thought (going round and round) that controls my time, controls my mind is thinking that things i do are never good enough. I struggle in trying to perfect things over and over again until it makes me feel so tired i fall into a deep despair as nothing is ever ACHIEVED to my satisfaction. Pure 'O' takes a great toll upon my body it leads me into depression and the stress causes my limbs and bones to ache very painfully .
@MrMatif9
@MrMatif9 4 года назад
Its the compulsion you have to stop by thinking that nothing bad will happen if you don't do that. By doing that you could be able to starve the monster. Try some medication alongside.
@user-hx7mi7ml8u
@user-hx7mi7ml8u 4 года назад
You are “good enough” even though things will never be perfect. 💕
@tobearsir
@tobearsir 5 лет назад
I totally agree, I use the analogy of feeding a stray cat with my ocd. the more you feed it the more it comes back but it's never satisfied
@tauschajohanson26
@tauschajohanson26 5 лет назад
That's a great analogy!
@johndima8583
@johndima8583 2 года назад
OCD has crippled me more than I could ever imagine, I care so much for people and try my best to do kind things for them yet I still keep finding ways to torture myself and it kills me knowing that i’m doing this to myself but can’t help it. The intrusive thought part of it is one of the hardest struggles I ever had to deal with, fears and constant thoughts of hurting others or hurting myself when in reality all I want is to see the people I love succeed. If you’re dealing with this just know that you’re loved and things will get better as long as you keep fighting ❤️
@tauschajohanson26
@tauschajohanson26 Год назад
First of all... I have to tell you that YOU ARE NOT THE MONSTER. You need to call that monster out and externalize it so you can see it for what it really is. It is not you! And you can starve it.
@chris1806
@chris1806 9 месяцев назад
weak
@serene3175
@serene3175 7 месяцев назад
@@chris1806wtf is wrong with you?
@serene3175
@serene3175 7 месяцев назад
@@chris1806 i hate to break it to you…. but you don’t seem very mentally sane. seems like you’re at the very least lacking a lot of empathy for others.
@sm-eq6rm
@sm-eq6rm 4 года назад
It is like you spoke to me, I’ve struggled and still do daily. Thank you for this video.
@clubtcb
@clubtcb 4 года назад
Had the same affliction for years during my childhood to late teens . It is true; the more you perform the "rituals" and give in to the anxiety, the more it starts to take over your life. When the OCD was at it's worst and the anxious toughts consumed most of my mind, the rituals, had less effect and became more numerous. Ultimately it took hours of every day doing everything just right, just so that the anxiety would subside. But the slightest thing could make it flare up again. I never told anyone in my family and did my best to hide it, since I'm not particularly proud of it. In the end at 18 years of age, I decided I could not go on like this, life was miserable, and I stopped performing the rituals. The fear one faces then is a mortal fear, you no longer have control, the mind constantly wanders to the bad things that will happen. But I bit the bullet and kept ignoring the unimaginably strong urge to perfrom the rituals and take back control and eventually the anxiety, the dark toughts subsided, when it became clear they did not become reality. Now, years later I still have a very mild form OCD, where I will sometimes check and recheck things many times just to make sure, but it only comes in periods and it's manageable. Looking back on that whole period I've come to the conclusion that it was an attempt to have control over things, life, death, tragedy, that are actually beyond my control and the only solution was to accept that they are beyond my control, ignore my anxiety and take life as it comes.
@clubtcb
@clubtcb 10 месяцев назад
@@chris1806 I don't think you really really know what OCD is. They have the same negative thoughts everyone has every once in a while. The difference is, OCD sufferers can't get over those feelings so easily and really think something bad is going to happen unless they do some kind of ritual. They are absolutely scared to death of harm coming to their loved ones, hence the rituals. They aren't any more dangerous than a person without OCD.
@chris1806
@chris1806 10 месяцев назад
@@clubtcb Did you even read my comment and try to understand my point! Do you have OCD ? it's a simple thing, you either harm those around you or don't. The OCD people are so self - absorbed and egoistic that they don't realise how they harm those around them. Not fair ! So you are just trying to force me to understand them and accept their toxic behavior but you ignore the feelings of the normal poeple. Those with OCD or mental illness should be segregated from society and placed in a mental asylum/hospital, receive adequate treatment and once they recover they can be released. This what happens to criminals and that's why we have jails so that criminals can change their behavior and not harm others. Another analogy would be Covid if you wish or someone who has a virus. The infected person should isolate so that he/she doesn't infect others. Simple! It's the same with mentally ill people. They need to seek medical attention as soon as possible and do something about it rather than make excuses all the time.
@timscully4941
@timscully4941 4 года назад
This fine lady is spot on. I suffer from OCD and know it can be an ongoing battle. But her suggestions of not feeding the monster is exactly what we must do; as painful as it can be.
@kt54
@kt54 3 года назад
I’m pretty sure I have ocd. My intrusive thoughts convince me that either I’m dying, someone I love is dying, or I’m gonna be the reason someone dies. It stresses me to the point of panic attacks.
@youtubeismyspiritanimal2058
@youtubeismyspiritanimal2058 2 года назад
I didn't get diagnosed until this year (I'm 29). Lovely to see that this girl grew up in a supporting family and was diagnosed early on in life
@torythewild6409
@torythewild6409 5 лет назад
OCD makes you a prisoner in your own body. Controlled and never satisfied When I gave my life to Christ in 2008. That Monster was killed and I’ve been free ever since
@smirkovs120
@smirkovs120 5 лет назад
DID YOU IGNORE IT OR FACE IT? PLEASE HELP😢
@torythewild6409
@torythewild6409 5 лет назад
smirkovs I could never ignore it because it controlled my life. When I found out that it was a battle in my mind. I knew it wasn’t good and it wasn’t from God. Jesus gave me freedom over it 100% and it’s like that mindset was broken in me. The voices stopped and I could finally live my life free.
@AssasynCounterExtrem
@AssasynCounterExtrem 5 лет назад
@@torythewild6409 I'd love something like that. To simply fade away. But I don't believe in god, what to do?
@claire2237
@claire2237 5 лет назад
@@AssasynCounterExtrem Talk to your GP, they'll refer you to therapy if they think that it will help you x
@andrewgoodwin9385
@andrewgoodwin9385 5 лет назад
@@AssasynCounterExtrem start believing. God is real. So is Jesus Christ. Go to a good church. Not a political church. Bible believing church.
@charleycurls_
@charleycurls_ 2 года назад
Back here again after my ocd decided to flare up. This always helps
@ghadasabbegg6072
@ghadasabbegg6072 5 лет назад
thank you so much you spoke from the bottom of my heart. i've been suffering for 7 years now and still .. your words are so sweet i could feel their warmth ... i have just gone through that anxiety i rushed into the net for some support speech i swear your words have compensated the harm .. thank you for caring this much .. it really means a lot 🌻
@evamurillo8213
@evamurillo8213 2 года назад
Thank you sharing your story. My daughter has been going through this for several years and this gives us hope.🙏🏼
@yoyomaa473
@yoyomaa473 2 года назад
Brought me to tears. Suffered this far too long myself. Thanks for sharing
@borninjordan7448
@borninjordan7448 2 года назад
I’ve lived with it for almost twenty years now. But I now believe that it can be defeated.
@kvnd.2708
@kvnd.2708 2 года назад
I overcome ocd !! Recovery is possible, if I did it, you can too
@karenromero2194
@karenromero2194 3 года назад
I almost cried. ❤️ Thank you very much! You and your daughter are a Gift! ❤️❤️
@eddiearcher7018
@eddiearcher7018 5 лет назад
This really helped me the mind can take you to the moon and back good luck to everyone who has OCD we can do it 🙏🏻
@omnamahshivaay15
@omnamahshivaay15 2 года назад
I didn't know what is ocd until my young brother who was 16 year old had sucide few months ago after his death, we found out that he was suffering from ocd. No one deserve ocd. Ocd had robbed out my young brother enjoyable years and life. I pray for all of them who is suffering from ocd, god may heal u. But plss don't do it like my brother because it give us lot's of pain to my family and me also😭😭😭
@benjaminmorgan1662
@benjaminmorgan1662 3 месяца назад
I'm sorry for your loss my friend. God bless you.
@debsmasters6124
@debsmasters6124 4 года назад
this starving the monster concept was so incredibly helpful! thank u for this beautiful talk and for raising awareness on the true monster ocd is xxxxx
@dhruvinshah1994
@dhruvinshah1994 3 года назад
I had OCD many times in my life, it took me months to realize that its all fake. I can live normal life! OCD can get cured.
@TigerLadyO7
@TigerLadyO7 3 года назад
How did u achieve it?
@chelzyramirez3663
@chelzyramirez3663 3 года назад
How did you do it?
@chelzyramirez3663
@chelzyramirez3663 3 года назад
@@forum4u452 many people have overcome pure o. And even if you have ocd you can still undoubtedly live a full wonderful life with it.
@learningtolive284
@learningtolive284 3 года назад
@@forum4u452 please don't say such things like you can never overcome OCD there are many examples of people who have have evolved good techniques to deal with intrusive thoughts and are living a good life
@rachaelallen3296
@rachaelallen3296 5 лет назад
This was a beautifully done TEDx. Thank you for sharing this story.
@wills2652
@wills2652 Год назад
It’s not a trend it’s real life and it’s hard to have! It has taken me years to get to a point where I can manage it with therapy.
@ninejot
@ninejot 5 лет назад
Thank you sooo much. This gives me faith that someday somehow I will be able to starve and slay the monster which has been destroying me for the past 16 years
@sheelalingling8953
@sheelalingling8953 5 лет назад
This is making me cry. Every single sentence.
@louisewatts8547
@louisewatts8547 4 года назад
Beautifully articulated. This is the reality of OCD. Thank you for this video.
@amyrobertson1233
@amyrobertson1233 5 лет назад
I love love Love this talk!! You have helped me to stop feeding my monster. I’ve had it since I was 8 years old. We didn’t have names for it back then as I’m almost 50. But in recent years, I’ve tried yoga and supplements which work best for me. But this talk and not feeding the monster, not doing the compulsions and rituals is so helpful. I have watched others talk about this, but something about your voice and the way you present the material soothes me and makes sense.
@myrmendoza9903
@myrmendoza9903 4 года назад
what are the supplements did you take?.
@triciahagerty8410
@triciahagerty8410 5 лет назад
My 12 year old is showing signs and it is HEARTbreaking. I am right there with you Tauscha. xoxo
@jimmymccormick6744
@jimmymccormick6744 4 года назад
Very insightful and inspiring. My son and our family battle OCD. God bless you and your family.
@er-s428
@er-s428 Год назад
Thank you so much for talking about this so strongly. It makes me so irritated when people say "Everyone is a bit ocd" like its nothing. I hope people understand ocd a little better after watching this.
@neverforgottenful
@neverforgottenful 2 года назад
This is the sweetest voice I've heard ever, I can listen this for hours. Thank you for your talk!
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