I'm glad O knows how to deal with things that go on in his life ,it's good to give a man his space because he really needs that in his life and he needs his peace of mind
I think I finally understand whats happening in O's life from these. Might be wrong cause we dont know every inch of their lives but I think the people who are mad with him, feel abandoned by him because they look to him. If that makes sense. He has a leadership quality that makes people depend on him being around and I don't think he understands that. Maybe he does but doesnt know how to navigate that because that shxt can be draining.