It is so depressing having a child with modern day woman or wife. It is so depressing being a man, many times. Lord have mercy. Our fathers suffered so much. We the sons are suffering in the hands of women. With all the labour of my father, how much did he enjoy before he passed on 2years ago? It is my mum enjoying the children now and looking younger than her age. If you are a man and can do without women or having kids with women, count yourself blessed. Your peace, happiness and progress is 1000% better than multiple selfish and ungrateful children raised by a manipulative woman. The odds are against men in every sphere of life. It is well. This world shall end one day. And that is a consolation. Vanity upon vanity, all is vanity. Will go back to regular reading of the book of the Proverbs.
That's not entirely true. 8 out of 10 times, it's the mother that takes away the children and if she's financially capable, she even prevents the man from being responsible for the children's upbringing just to take all the credit. A good man tries to find a way to get in good terms with the children regardless of the relationship with the mother. How exactly do you want a man to behave when he's not in good terms with the mother of his children? This has nothing to do with the arrogance of men. If the children refuse to be wise enough to understand, GOD will judge the matter in heaven. Peace.
Yinka, I disagree with you. Baba ni, night Baba ni. Father is father. Women from Africa are greedy in the diaspora. Women can not try their greedy diaspora behaviours in Africa. Yinka, you are too subjective here.
Western civilisation is destroying marriages. The west is paying for it with higher rate of divorce. The children of the diasporas will pay for the sins of their parents here in the West. Watch this space. Many of these children will not go back to Africa. And only a small fraction will ever enjoy good weather and lifetime fulfilment in the West. We are just in denial. But God is not bothered by the manipulation and atrocities of the finite human beings. Life is too short. And there will be a relief when we leave this mortal body that we spend so much energy and resources to maintain. Lord, let thy kingdom come. The totally depraved human beings are not getting better.
