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And tell girls don't rape too, and don't put mollies on the drinks

Better yet how about, " Hey kids, don't do crimes".

Not really school was telling the truth don’t dress like a how and boys don’t rape simple she cutting corners it’s normal for stupid feminists to do that

BruceTheCreator ‘ no

@@mooders7960 and apparently u don't know what a feminist is,so STFU🤦🏻‍♀️

Remeber that aziz ansari with non verbal cues

I can’t believe she even said that.

Sometimes it’s not as easy as a yes or no. Even an ‘I’m not sure is still a no.’ Sometimes a lot of people feel pressured to give in and it’s hard to give a simple no.

@@aakritisinha2144 An 'I am not sure' is still a no because it is not a definitive 'yes.' If someone does not give clear consent or if one is unsure if they have consent, they just shouldn't do anything at all.

@@afantaesy9981 exactly

Bc it's ODAAT

@@hage8945 I've seen this before but i still cried and got chills i miss this show

@@gungunx9064 same so happy it's returning

SAME!

Sameee 💔💔

Is that a good thing or a bad thing? I don't speak english so thats why

@@sharmarliesbrinkman5741 underrated means its needs more popularity

@@Iflmv_ ooh thank you!

Netflix,(said like mom when you want something real bad) please renew odaat because I love it soooo much

Kid wtf is wrong with you

Eipa lo que estoy biendo es que en todas las series de televisión siempre ahí un homosexual y ese personaje no tiene que ser necesario? Por que siempre tienen que poner a un homosexual en las series

Para mi aquí (en esta serie) no es innecesario. Elena es homosexual para que la gente vea lo complicado que es salir de el closet, cuan confuso es tener sentimientos hacia el mismo sexo, tener una relación con el mismo sexo y especialmente la novia de Elena que no se define con ningún sexo en específico que es algo que nos encontramos más y más en estos días. Esta serie es más como para abrir los ojos al que está viendo al mundo real que nos rodea y tener más conciencia y humildad con las personas que son diferentes a nosotros.

Joker Cuba no es en todos los show, pero la verdad es que siempre en la vida va a existir alguien de la comunidad. Aún sin que uno se dé cuenta. Y fingir que no existen no es sano. Este show hizo algo genial al ver como Elena batalló con ella misma antes de salir del closet y como su familia tuvo que enfrentarse a eso. Vimos desde reacciones casi que inmediatamente buenas (abuelita), hasta reacciones donde completamente la rechazan (el papá). Ella sirvió como un ejemplo muy bueno. Es como si te quejaras porque ahora están hablando de depresión y ansiedad. Lupe es un muy buen ejemplo de cómo mostrar esos casos. Son situaciones del día a día que vive la gente y este show las está mostrando de una manera muy buena

I completely agree. Plus there are also other topics that need to be more representated like depression. Too many people still don't know at all what it is and what makes it so dangerous and hard to deal with for people who don't suffer from depression. I liked how they showed this topic in one episode of the second season. But I would appreciate more of that.

@@70ren Exacto, además vemos como su faminia muy religiosa la acepta y abre su mentalidad, en especial su abuela

How awful, why can't you let people do their thing it's not affecting you.

ok.

Oh

This is so concerning.

@@Sergio-zh3dd I did that, I was accused of wanting people dead

@mitre991 hj she isn't being a bitch. She is opinionated. That's all. That you do not like her does not mean she is a bitch. She's just not your type of friend. That's all.

@mitre991 hj she's not a "bitch" she is the other part of the story, ODAAT shows that Alex is always welcome because he is male and Elena is a nerd bitch because she cares about woman safety. If you see HER as the enemy, then thank you for justify misoginy.

mitre991 hj Also describing as just one bad experience is kind of underselling, don’t you think. They were Litteraly being harassed by men and were scared to death. Just saying

She wasn’t being a bitch she was telling her side of the argument how women shouldn’t be treated this way

the real problem with society is we have people like you who have no grammar and can’t spell sad Chile- anyways

I like ur profile pic

Right

I feel bad. It was 444 likes and I changed it to 445. Also elena is so amazing and inspiring!❤❤🌈🌈 #pride

Sadly there isn’t gonna be ome

:(((

Remember her pronouns are Ly, Di, A

@@ipostedthiscomment. this always gets me

"Girls don't walk alone." "Men don't rape." News flash Rapists DO NOT GIVE A FUCK ABOUT RULES!!! Here's what needs to be said "Girls - understand and accept the fact that there is evil and perverts and human traffickers and pyschopaths that want you and desire you (in some cases even women - Katherine Knight of Australia and Karla of Canada) Embrace the fact that as women you CAN NEVER OUTPOWER THEM And are willing to harass or lie to your face, spike your drink and even abduct of force themselves on you. Learn what to do (scream fire instead of help) Never leave your drink Lock yourself in your car STAY IN GROUPS have your phone charged and in some cases whatever emergency number dialed in and ready Lock your doors Research how to read people And USE WEAPONS AND GUNS!!!!! And men - Gay men will do the same to you if they are rapists

@@life4fireforever273 ? I don't understand

@@life4fireforever273 the thing is, rapists dont get the consequences of the rules either. and we are talking about the "traditional" definition of rape, like a guy who abducts someone in the middle of the night and rapes them -marital rape for example is just considered the partners duty most of the time-. for instance, there was a case in my country where a 18yo girl was raped in a party by 5 guys who (if im not wrong) had all antecedents (and they took a video of it). a terrifying amount of people justifyed it because "she had kissed one of the guys before" or "she was acting like she wanted it" or even because "she wasnt traumatized enough", as they paid a private detective to follow her and she still went to parties. you know what the sentence was at first? sexual abuse. because the judge saw the video and said it was not that bad. it wasnt until 4 years later (in which the guys were free btw) that they were sentenced to 9-15 years. for traumatizing a girl. 5 on 1. in my opinion, that is a shitty sentence, but do you have any idea of how many girls dont even get justice? there are judges who take a miniskirt or a thong as consent. because rape is the only crime where "she was doing whatever and i couldnt resist" is taken as an atenuant instead of as a confession tldr: dont pretend like it is not a systemic problem just because its easier for you to accept the status quo rather than questioning whats wrong in our education that makes grown men think they are entitled to women's bodies

Your right this is beautifully said underrated comment

Doesn't matter he's beyond redemption and is required to cut off his rape instrument

Exactly

True I don’t like how people says she’s annoying

the actress portrays her so well

I totally agree however because there's not enough people watching ODAAT they are not confident about a s4 so pls tell all ur friends to stream it and rewatch it!!

I love this show so muchhh but they need to stop with the plot holes

Right after this vid it was canceled

@@kevintapia1760 buttt it’s on Poptv!! Season four is awesome

oof this aged awfully

Yet giving him no answars just do better Even contradictors first Elena says it has to be an enthusiastic yes then says women pretend to enthusiastic because they don't know what else to do . . And if women always blamed themselves and men never took responsibility . Men wouldn't be identified as the perpetrators and wouldn't be identified as the victims .

The cancelled it a couple days ago

"Girls don't walk alone." "Men don't rape." News flash Rapists DO NOT GIVE A FUCK ABOUT RULES!!! Here's what needs to be said "Girls - understand and accept the fact that there is evil and perverts and human traffickers and pyschopaths that want you and desire you (in some cases even women - Katherine Knight of Australia and Karla of Canada) Embrace the fact that as women you CAN NEVER OUTPOWER THEM And are willing to harass or lie to your face, spike your drink and even abduct of force themselves on you. Learn what to do (scream fire instead of help) Never leave your drink Lock yourself in your car STAY IN GROUPS have your phone charged and in some cases whatever emergency number dialed in and ready Lock your doors Research how to read people And USE WEAPONS AND GUNS!!!!! And men - Gay men will do the same to you if they are rapists

Life 4 Fire Forever you don’t understand the point. Rapists and sexual assault is not always men violently attack women or spiking there drinks. It’s about men not understanding no. Not understanding what constant is. Setting actual laws that make lines less blurry. Actually prosecuting and punishing men that rape. That way if morality isn’t enough to turn some one away from rape at least fear of punishment helps. Also the language we currently have around rape. It puts the blame on the victim not the rapists. Now to be clear I do think it’s also important to teach people how to protect themselves. Because teaching consent isn’t enough.

Life 4 Fire Forever So you’re saying that not a single woman in the world can fight back? Why should woman have to be so worried and go through all these precautions?

This didn’t age well

Same, I have already rewatched it like 3 times

Me too I finished it in 21 hours

I finished it in one

i finished it in 12 hours lool

I finished it in one day 😂

Amen👏👏👏

Wouldn't switching burden proof be who accuses who first. And what the election is any actual evidence this most secure election in us history especially with revelations Bill Barr lied under request of Mitch Mcconell . And Findings of arizona Fulton county Georgia audits. And sharpies have a paper trail . But back rape investigation I think they should change the decor of the room where they ask witness and victims for details . And a more comfortable share and. Looking at other Trauma survivors. Going trauma and memories is more helpful . Document reactions breaths facial expression color the walls green make it comfortable. Have memories flow

Rapists don't care about consent the problem isn't they don't know that it's that they don't care. I'm a first degree black belt and I feel safer knowing self defense than just expecting people to not attack me

Except season one Victor. He sucks

@@that_one_fangirllol1444 but season 3 Victor is a cinnamon roll

Teddy Hudson True. I have to give him the benefit of the doubt.

@@that_one_fangirllol1444 What's wrong with Victor?

@@Sergio-zh3dd did you not watch the show? Lmao

I gotta agree a bit. I personally don’t think it’s funny at all but there are some people who actually do. Also, I agree with you on the aspect that people just shouldn’t rape. No matter what gender you are, sexuality you are, race you are, everyone can rape and they shouldn’t do it. I believe it should be enforced more in schools, maybe even starting in the 5th grade because it’s honestly ridiculous now. I’ve seen guys at my school being sexually harassed by girls and they play it off to not look weak in front of their friends. No one should have to go through that. I’ve seen girls at my school being groped by guys and looking very uncomfortable but too scared to speak up or say anything while with his friends. No means no. You should never touch someone without their permission. It’s disrespectful and wrong. These “prison rape” jokes truly gotta stop. It’s just that now in this century, for some idiotic reason, if you complain about someone “making a joke about rape” you’re seen as a snowflake, or an offended feminazi, or something stupid like that. It’s a messed up thing to do yet people still make jokes about it and it’s not funny in my opinion.

@Alex Meggoe no one is saying guys don’t get raped. We need to address it for both yes, but way more women get raped than men and I’m not saying that to diminish it because I completely agree it should be addressed but there’s a problem when people like you always say “but what about men” when a woman is trying to talk about her experiences

@@mariafausti3128 There's difference between acknowledging a women's experience and to blatantly say that "Men don't rape" as if it is just men being rapist. There's difference in focusing to defend women and blame men. Know the difference. Women can rape and traumatise women too albeit it might not be as much but that doesn't mean it doesn't happen.

"Don't lock your doors, people just shouldn't be thieves" "Don't look both ways before crossing the street drivers just shouldn't hit people" "Don't learn self-defense people just shouldn't attack you" "Don't ignore Nigerian Prince scams people just shouldn't con others" I used to believe in that mentality too I thought because it was a new idea it was good but something felt wrong, then my friend (who was raped herself) points out all you're doing is demonizing men by insinuating they're rapists from birth and ones who are rapists simply won't care.

If women always blamed themselves and men never took responsibility. Men wouldn't be identified as perpetrators and women wouldn't be identified as victims . And how about teaching boys not. Deal or bother themselves women in the first place.

Um...no, can we talk about if he learned his lesson or not?

Lorenzo Nelson he did, he apologized and does better than most men his age.

Nexus good for him. As he should be.

@@amalinaalisha5965 exactly in the season 3 episode 12 he helped Elena through her anxiety attack and more

@@babe6835 of course he did... that's why they are calling him a good brother. Boys his age usually ignore things like this and think it's okay.

You have to be 35

@@mf6598 it’s an exaggeration lol

Yeah

If women always blame yourself a and men always take responsibility . Why are men identified the perpetrators and you women as the victims. Look the censorship . If you really were so oppressed you would so widely mainstream able to talk about how your oppressed ..did you pacifically protest the red pill documentary out threatens while claiming it's your voices silenced . And yes it was you Don't give me that all women 💩 if a man is traumatized by a women. Me talliy abused . By his mother manipulated teachers activist. Who tides him out or falsly accused out revenge .isn't it you're responsibility as a woman .

She full of Collage 🐂💩 men face 60 longer prison sentences for same men at worse. Lett harrassment go . And. How she dressed when was that ever an actually legal defense even when how women dressed was more regulated a rapist would get his 🐴ss kicked by other men the Put in jail . . And ever heard spontaneous arousal syndrome . It's a condition that affects women. . they an uncontrollable need for 😘 and those sane feminist who say men's are men's and against having sympathy girls like Elena all of a sudden have sympathy for women with rare condition of how men normally are . Oh and did you know alchole actually. Lowers male😘 drive while making women more grabby. And if women always blamed themselves and guys never take responsibility how come men identified the perpetrators and Women the victims . Have you though maybe the reason the manophere 😡 women because they realized every thing taught to 😡 about men themselves eachother was actually more in women often the very women. Who tell them those things .

How old are you

@@Mandy-qn1wq why does that matter

1. WOmen can be rapists too 2. That's implying men who are rapists simply don't know what they're doing is wrong not that they don't care or think they can get away with it.

That isn't being feminist, that's common sense. If your parents think that's feminist, then they really need to get to this century. Not trying to be mean or anything, but your parents need to learn that this kind of stuff isn't feminist, it's common sense that people need to remember. I'm sorry if it sounds mean, but that's the truth. And this show covers a lot of those basics, which is good because people need to start remembering basic common sense.

@@jyrosstories1021 nah its fine. i literally cant stand my family. Thx btw

You're welcome. 😺. Wanna be friends? 😆

There's nothing wrong with being a feminist. That only means that you care about your own rights. Women need to be feminist, otherwise they won't be able to accomplish anything.

@@Ariel_is_a_dreamer lol that isnt true at all it used to be good but throughout the years femminist have just began to be bitches and men haters

clever!

Hahaha it’s gonna be difficult though.

Me too

Only one day at a time? Seems unrealistic. I binged the whole series in like 5 days.

For real

She is great, a little annoying but cool

How about no rape in general because Men get raped too.

@@Sergio-zh3dd why do you feel the need to make everything about men? No one is saying men don’t get raped we know they do and it’s terrible but stop trying to make everything about men because it’s been that way for centuries

@@mariafausti3128 does men rights not matter?

@@mariafausti3128 it’s funny how every time somebody points that out you have people like you throwing a fit “wHy aRe YoU mAkInG tHiS aBoUt mEN” like it’s already about men isn’t it? You want men to not rape so at least tackle their actual issues while you’re at it. Make the world a better place in two ways at once

Don't lock your doors and put up a sign telling people to not break in

So Elena. Jumps her mom for sympathizing with his problem and looking a solution. But not her grand mother flat out encouraging it . . And how about guys don't obsess or both to much at all . And if women always blamed themselves and never took responsibility women would be seen perpetrators and men as victims . And lastly i keep thinking of them as a gu couples themselve thinking being encouraging . Women make stories to yourselves it happen me when was watching video on a train about proof of heaven and the phone in her general direction and she even went through my private pictures. To make sure i wasn't pictures of her in a pubic space with her in general direction of the phone

Over Starter Clearly you watch too much Netflix

omg she did 😂

Delmi Cortave I'm sorry that happened to her. Is she ok?

@@wildwesley9328 yes she is fine, thanks for asking. When she talked to the police mall, the man leave.

Delmi Cortave good. Glad she's safe

So she doesn't get be called sexist

*how

MAXTRAXv2 #welcometotheasshole everyone has their own opinion please keep yours to yourself when you wanna voice it don’t voice it to me ... bye

Ikr I was really sad when it was cancelled

Get over it.

@@ipshita154 this show isn't cancelled

Bye

do you know what episode and season this is

Maybe thought they were being supportive

iGoProToday 🇨🇺🇵🇷🇨🇴🇺🇸

I was walking to store with brother and some girls walking behind us said look at their booties. So I experiences exact same thing. Abd speaking get incels losers . So why should have any sympathy for women

@@Smartass012 um

LOVE YOU!

Not all guys r like that

Idc about Ur feelings that's not even remotely what she was talking about. Making a blanket statement doesn't mean every guy is a creep, it's just a blanket statement to mean the guys who are. Saying well not all people are like that is unnecessary to say if you are secure in the fact that you are not like that. (I'm not saying you are or aren't, I'm just giving you something to think about because statements like that detract the conversation away from an important issue to discuss something that is obvious).

All genders should watch this. Any gender can suffer offer scenerios such as this. Just because some guys are nasty and cruel doesn't mean "guys should watch this and think about it".

EVERYONE should

Maybe they thought they being supportive

Nah grandma is hands down the best

❤