@@dvdortiz9031 Depends of the terms of the marriage. Traditionally adultery is considered a breach of the terms of marriage. However knowingly misleading someone with false information that leads to their financial or physical harm especially if benefiting from that harm can be thought of as fraud.
People have always been cheap We just learned how to find lies easier Did you honest to fuck think people were more loyal in the past when it was HARDER to get caught?
People were always cheap I actually think it is better now but that is only if you look a upper class if you go middle middle clas or lower you are completely right.
@@johnconnor2753 it doesn’t, but at least it doesn’t ruin a marriage…? Idk, it’s really dumb to cheat, even more so after a fight… all couples fight, seems more like a retarded choice to make to instantly need to cheat, idk I haven’t seen the show but that would be my take based off of this clip
Fully agree. It would save a lot of trouble. For example, if the dad is suspicious but doesn't know it. If the woman never cheated, demanding a test could put a strain on the relationship. If they always did the test by default, it would be much more practical
@charles13773 it's literally under 100.00 bucks to get a dna diagnostics test done from Walgreens with a mandatory test costs could be about 50.00 bucks or in hospital terms the cost of 2 aspirin
@@albertphillips3313Maybe we should let the medical staff prioritize real issues instead of wasting resources on something meant to deal with guys trust issues.
@Felix_D. or we could make it an issue because there's an issue with children not biological tied to a male whom would have ended up paying for them, I'm sure you heard about the guy went to jail for 5 years for not paying child support and the child wasn't his, but I'm guessing your ok with him going to jail
@@Clara1717 if I remember correctly, House’s father isn’t his biological father. His mother did the same thing with either a family friend or a neighbor who was House’s actual biological father.
I was blessed early in adulthood to have been cheated on. When she wanted me back a month later saying she was late, I said a paternity test would be required to be back in my life at all. She blew up with the 'how could you say that' and never heard from her again. They'll claim they're hurt, guys, but typically it's because theyre lying.
@@JulieDupuisthis is unironically some how some women think now. Speaking out against cheating is misogyny. Well your words and labels don't matter. A cheating whore is just that, a disgusting cheating filthy whore. And it looks like this truth hurts you, wonder why?
@@JulieDupuisAnd yet she never returned , once he asked her for a paternity test. There's only 2 choices here: She's willing to deny him access to his own child because she's insulted , or she knows the baby's not his and doesn't want that fact revealed via testing. To you that amounts to misogyny. I do not think you know what that word means. There's no evidence it applies in this case.
As a nurse I hear this exact story alot. Alot of relationships wouldn't have to be ruined if people stopped having second guesses about their current partner and cheating on them with their exes. And honestly, I don't feel sorry for people that cheat. I've been cheated on my share of times and there is always some clever excuse.
EXACTLY! I also hold the other party just as accountable. Unless they truly don’t know. But hell any man that DM’s me I scope his profile out. Or if they come onto me I go into detective mode to make sure they’re not in a relationship and I never buy the whole “I’m trying to leave but she won’t let me or she won’t leave” BS
@@geraldinelafayette1838the family is ruined by the cheater. Stop the classic "I hate the affair partner but forgive my partner" narrative. If it is so despicable to you that someone sleeps with a married person but you can find sympathy for the cheater you are a hypocrite.
And started way way back in history. Hence the whole white wedding/virgin bride thing. Might be easier to go to a matriarchal society. Always know for sure who the mother is for the surnames.
@@elizabethjansen2684 you must be out of your mind lol. Is that your lame excuse for supporting matriarchy. Truly a women low IQ moment. A woman saying go to matriarchy is something like offender saying go to patriarchy.
@@elizabethjansen2684 lmao you must be outta your mind. Is that your excuse for supporting matriarchy. Truly a women moment. A woman saying go to matriarchy is something like a criminal saying go to patriarchy.
@@scottys1423 nah its normal for a girl to search a partner that has traits of the dad and for a boy of his mom. Its weird if they don’t cuz it means something is messed up in there heads
I'm a woman, also working jn the psychology field. I agree with others that it should be illegal or an offense for women to lie about the baby's father and make another man believe it's his. You have no idea how many cases of such I came across with, you have no idea of the great pain you cause a man of making him believe he's the father then later on take that away. For me, it's pure evil to do such!
If you had a full understanding of marriage then you'd understand why this works. Unless you want to break it early, which in some cases could be worse. She should have never gotten married. His fault.
@arifkimy4700 Yep, shouldn't have gotten married, especially with all the knowledge, warnings, red flags, and valuable information out there. At this point you're rolling the dice 🎲. So if men still take the chance, I'm not blaming the women. He put it on himself.
Dad used to say, "Son I was there when you were born... I may have even been there when you were conceived" Edit: He said this as a joke because given our shared appearance and other factors it was extremely unlikely/impossible he was not my dad
Have three kids and an unfaithful wife. Two of them look like my family, one more like hers. After finding out about the affair I decided not to bother checking. I raised them, they're all mine. Plus, legally wouldn't I still be financially responsible...under the oppressive Patriarchy? 🙄
@@mfawls9624 Think the bigger question is why stay in the one your in? I mean to each their own but my dignity means something. I know my worth. My foundation is intact. I couldnt stay with someone who cheats. Personally though I will never get married. Never. Promise rings are just as good and a lot less costly all around. But hey if you are happy then good for you.
This is why I believe all children should be given DNA birth certificates at birth. Makes father's responsible makes mother's accountable. And the children have the right to know for their children. This is a decision that you make but you don't realize it affects more than just you.
Wouldn't it be simpler if people have sexual relations only with their spouse within a marriage and stay away from adultery and fornication. There will only be one man and one woman in a contract that holds both responsible and accountable and secures each other's rights and no complications with the parentage of their children
You are doing the same thing he does. You are projecting your weakness on others. Maybe that is "the truth" for you but that is not the truth for decent people.
This was on this forum a while back. The guy was before a judge who informed him he was not the paternal father of the boy in question. He had just done five years for non payment of child support. The judge addressed the mother and asked her whether she knew who the paternal father was. She said ' yes I talk to him all the time'. The plaintiff went and hugged his 'son' The mother yelled at him and said - ' 'get away from my son' The judge interceded and said ' He is just saying goodbye' Is this not typical justice for men nowadays 🤔
Nobody is doing five years for "missed child support". I've known some "dads" that missed years and pretty much got a slap on the wrist with garnishments. And even then they just take a job paying under the table to avoid paying support.
@@stanloona67 why? don't want cheaters to get caught? defending them? sounds like one of them 💀 edit: & moreover being cheated on means the cheater is the problem you tryna gaslight and turn this around really shows something
Been there. They were "gay," then later change it to "bi" after we broke up. But I am faaaar happier now, even her parents seemed to think I was better off without her.
That long blink. Every time one of us fellas hears something like this we die a little bit more inside no matter how dead we already are lol. I felt that long blink.
In the UK out of all the men who requested paternity test it was shown that 30% were not the fathers. That’s 3 out of 10. This is also out of the guys who requested which means the number could be higher in total. It’s also why the UK tried making it illegal for Drs or medical workers to ask the father if he wanted a paternity test.
Not sure if it would be higher. Those requesting probably have some reason to doubt which would mean there would be a greater percentage of cases where the husband/partner was not the father. In the general population, the number is probably lower, but not zero. I suspect it would actually go down to about 2 in 10, but that's just my guess based on other numbers I've seen.
@@buffuniballerI agree with your logic that the number could be lower. Should be lower. But these days...I think more women are less worthy and more men are clueless so I would not be shocked if the number was still higher
In the state I live in the USA, it's been proven that 50% of men paying child support are doing so for children that were KNOWN not to be the biological fathers of the children AT THE TIME OF THE COURT PROCEEDING.
I am always astounded by this scenario....You break up with your partner for a few days and the first thing you do is sleep around. Why? Is your relationship only about sex? Are you an animal devoid of emotions and feelings? Hooking up with whoever is available is so crass.
How can people cheat on their loved ones if they are not interested they can just tell them before cheating and breaking their heart ..and how can you able to live with that guilt life long... Being honest will bring happiness and lead to a peaceful life .... And most successful relationships are based on 'Honesty' not lies!
He was bein sarcastic whn he said "most successful marriages are based on lies" and at same time subtly hinting at the sad fact,tht what society perceived this whole time as "perfect" or "good" marriage,was actually created thru lies tht overtime got so romanticized and sought after,and ingrained into the subconscious of most ppl,I mean watch any romantic or even romantic comedy movie and u will see wt I mean,tht these movies,keep pushin this idea of "perfect love" into our brains whn it's all bs,all of it
@@AnnaRajasekharan tho in my opinion what's so difficult about this conundrum is the fact the subconscious is a bitch and a half whn u try to alter its contents so to speak,like this idea I briefly explained,gave birth to many bad apples in society,b it soyboy beta males,or toxic women,etc etc,now hw to avoid all the drama? U just gotta cut out the idea tht started it all outta ur subconscious,but it's easier said thn done,it's like tryina cut off a limb with a butter knife,but not impossible
This happened with my dad - his mom shacked up with someone else and had him, then passed it off as if it was her husband's kid. When her husband found out, he killed himself. My dad in turn never found out who his real dad was until after his mom died. Thankfully his real dad is still alive and they have built a relationship over the past few years.
Very interesting that you didn't take revenge on your mother for having done that. A good soul has left this place because an evil soul did him dirty. Disgusting.
Suicide is an absurd reaction to the situation. Divorce woould be reasonable; adding in therapy would be great. But suicide over a lie? Even a big lie. I've spent extended periods in deep depression and suicidality, and I cannot comprehend that.
That’s the Moas - the mother of all secrets. “How do you live with the mother of all secrets? You don’t. It consumes you, it eats you like a cancer, from the inside. First there’s the guilt, and then there’s the excruciating urge to blab your secret even though you know it’s gonna spell your doom.” -NCIS
Dude you have every right to be pissed off and never speak to her especially if she lied to another man and you for all those years. Ignore these captain- save- a -whore types. She did something unforgivable
Forgiveness I'd easy to weak minded people. She alienated him from his father and made him a useful idiot. Him abandoning his mother is karma for her stealing from the father. If she did that to the father she must've been a piece of work as a mother. Delusional Disney minded people never understand and prefer happy endings over real life.
I understand exactly what he means. How many married men happened to flirt with me or the women I know or even women that cheat on their husbands/partners and they posted on social media how their spouse mean the world to them. So yeah they portrayed a very successful marriage and posted in social media with their lies. Disgusting 🤢
No men can lie force woman to raise his kids with other woman.. Woman are always 100% she is biological mother or not.. But father don't have that privileged.. Father can never be 100% sure that he is the biological father.. Most people say you should trust your partner if you don't trust then why in relationship.. But cheating and betrayal is often done by someone we trust..
Pregnancy math ain't that exact. If she had sex with the husband any time within a week or two before that big fight, it could easily have been the husband's kid. That whole 9 months/40 weeks stuff was always meant to be ballpark, not pinpoint.
@@SnowDog080 He can’t tell the husband the child might not be his. So he’s making sure she knows that she’s basing her marriage on lies. He’s being honest with her.
Imagine loving your husband soo much, giving him everything you have emotionally and physically. Then he screws someone else because he's impulsive and stupid.
This episode of house really sucked The most successful marriages are based on truth, like all things that work, truth is paramount Paternity tests should be mandatory at birth
@@steverogers__ the husband cheating dosent result in an 18 year liability for the wife, Cheating is bad no matter who does it but you're comparing being stabbed to being flayed alive.
@@isaacselvaraj9573 the sh!tty logic we manage to come up with with that pea brain of ours… 🤦♂️. Somehow monetary loss trumps everything else! It might not be a 18 year liability for his wife but it’s for someone else’s husband. Or did you just want to dump everything on a woman no matter what?
It's sick that there are women out there that wouldn't tell their "significant other" that they were impregnated by someone else, and just let them raise the baby....
@@princeemishi245 A quick google search gives some statistics that more men cheat than women (*but only marginally*). For perspective, there are also groups of women on social media who are similarily vocal about the fear of being cheated on. My faith is that Christ takes us All out of the flesh to instead live by the Spirit, so that we can be free from sins such as deceiving a partner, and comforted from our fears.
Right. Because men NEVER cheat and will stare at anything with bouncing tits that walks by when their wife and kids are standing right next to them. Give me a break.
I have no problem with a mandatory paternity test that the father can decline if he wants. He has the right to know for sure, and a faithful woman wouldn't be offended by him not declining.
Yeah just found out the girl I’ve been with for 10 yrs has been cheating for the last 3 months, so I basically wasted 10 years on bitch that’s not worthy, now she wants me back, because I was good to her, the new guy beats her and leaving bruises all over her. Not going to waste more time on her though, I’m done.
Damn bro. I’m sorry to hear that. Same thing happened to me though we’ve only been together for 3years. Part of me still wants to get back together coz I really loved her. But in the end, parting ways was for the best, at least for me.
Fellas, there are good women out there that honor loyalty, love, and respect. They exist, just smothered beneath the heels of the pretenders. If you want find someone like that, it may take you a while to navigate through the others. But when you find them, it is so worth it. Trust me.
@@AriCircuit I think your wife cheating on you, leaving you and making you pay child support for a kid that isnt yours is pretty radical too And mgtow isnt incel. Mgtow means youre done with bs like this
After one "big" fight, she decided to break their promises when they got married with her ex? Manz shoulda gotten a woman who could stand strong and not wither like a leaf
I always giggle watching house. Almost every time a couple is introduced the answer to the mystery is "Affair". I have to wander what's going on in the writers minds that makes them think that "everyone cheats". Not having sex isnt hard. In fact its the easiest thing in the world, I'm doing it right now! Yet this show acts like affairs are way more common in relationships than the alternative. And weirdly quite often acts like they are no big deal! An episode springs to mind where a guy finds out his fiance cheated on him and leaves her for it and cameron chases him out the door to give him shit for it. "It was just a mistake", "get over it", "its no big deal", "you're over reacting", "everyone cheats". Seriously, the writers have either got cheated on by every partner they've ever had, or are crazy adulterous themselves... I cant think of any other reason why every other episode has an "affair" plotline.
One of the best shows of the Dubya era. This show allowed me to cope with the insanity of a world lead by liars, and corrupt politicians. It gave me the illusion that eventually reason and love would always win.
@@TheKingTywinLannister I'm not talking about the video. I am talking about why you put a 🤮 to the statement "we were on a break". It makes me think that you hate friends show
@@rocktheconqueror6903 “we we’re on a break” is the primary excuse for women doing horrible things. I think that sentence is just triggering. I thought you meant the same.
When ever this topic comes up theres alway a group of people that defend it, even though this has to be one of the most evil things you can do to a man.
Nah! They were already having troubles. Not pleasant, but not devastated. It's the trust that's devastated and she'll have to work hard (including in bed) to rebuild that.
Dear God, how could a man do that to other man? If I was a doctor and I found out about a patient doing this. The first thing I'd do is stay quiet till the paternity test, then call her husband if the baby isn't his. Honestly, you'd save that man from a lot of trouble.
You wouldn't care about losing your license to practice medicine? Any idea how much time and money it takes to become a licensed professional such as a doctor, lawyer, vet, or pharmacist? I certainly wouldn't endorse covering up the infidelity, but sometimes your hands are tied.@@narasimhashelar6745
