One Wife and Her Three Husbands: How is their Life? The Polyandry Culture in Tibet(Full Documentary) 

So don't take women quota in government sector.

You can go and live there.

The woman has no income and has to do the house work for 3 men, instead of one.

@@CC-ls1pl for you not to see a woman who owns lands and farming animals and getting one man to look after it, the other to educate her children and another to look after the wellbeing and health of her family, I think she is winning . What you saw and perceived her to be is how the little minds sees and reduces the status of every woman.

@@muhammadbukhari2329 I don’t think I need your permission 🤪

That's what I saw .she is 30 and look 10 years older because of all the hard labour

My heart bleeds for her. Every husband taking turns to do work. She has to work with all

It's a major pitfall in sociology to view other people's cultures through your own perspective. It is called ethnocentrism and also shows arrogance on your part. As someone who is not doing your own primary research you will not have a clear idea why they distribute work the way they do, and whether they think it's fair to the respective parties. Notice how sheepherding is typically done by men and not women in Tibet. These are questions to be asked, not for you to make assumptions as outsiders. Also to the responder who talks about her age: the Tibetan sun is extremely harsh. I know because I have personally felt it myself. UV light ages people far quicker than they should. She's not the only one looking older than her age, her 31 year old husband looks 45.

wonder if there is jealousy and cheating outside of the marriage. real question, not trying to be disrespetful. we are talking about humans here....like.. besides for materialistic gains (to keep taxes down, money in the family, acccumulate lands/livestocks), what about basic human desires? is there no jealousy? I want see see an interview about this in polyandry. i want to understand how the woman and the men really feel and think.....and then the children.....that kind of interview would be so interesting to watch!

Lubna, what are you suggesting? That she should be the Dr, the Vet and whatever work the other ones does(appears maybe accounting/money management for the family) AND her housework? They are providing in ways that she does not have to. She is able to enjoy her children more, knowing she doesn’t have to be worried about provision. The husbands all actually seem very respectful and happy to be with her in her chores and family caregiving. I agree with GV 💯

Modern women work all day and come home to work all night. it's no different.

As long as she is able and happy, no problem.

Including the matrimonial roles to the husbands ...too much work

She owns wealth. Husbands help her with chores. Their cultures respect women. Ours does not.

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it would be nice to have this relationship represented in movies or animes. Like a typical love triangle that turn into a polygamory between one woman and two men. We havent got those in YEARS 😊

God will not bless this

@@HienPham-ow5ky cause it's an abomination

not possible africa

I don't mean to despise other people's culture but nothing looks healthy here. Unless I don't know the meaning of the word. I find it difficult to see polyandry as a solution to their suffering. Infact it's the opposite. See how finished this woman is!! Doing almost everything alone. No time to rest. The kids aren't anywhere near living a healthy life.

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and 3 husband too hard

@@samsonmeskele4630 How does she get rest coping with the three sexual appetites of three husbands?

@@user-vo8io9zk4g is that all you can think of out of the entire video?

@@Palmetto-J as a woman it would be a nightmare for me.

True they all are happy that's what matters

@SG convinced that this is why this became a custom, of course.

The Bible and God disapprove this union .it's one wife one husband

@@inezclahar9748 What do you mean by Bible and God? The Bible says it's wrong and God also says it's wrong?

Very nice people.

😂😂😂😂

Totally works for me !!!

Can I apply if there is still a vacancy?

Your insane lol keep dreaming.

I think it’s a combo. Big Macs always come with the pickles. The three husbands always come with an outhouse with multiple latrines, no washing machine, and kneading cow dung.

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Thankyou very much making this video respect every religion so kind of you 🙏👍😁

@@TibettravelOrg dear author, can you come up with a video of mila sekhor or the great milarepa tower ? I also wish to see Dengkok, the birth place of my soul dilgo khentse rinpoche. Any of these in future pls

i agree with this 100%

你意思是女性没人权呗

And NOBODY is whining about what they DON'T have and think they are entitled to❣️

I loved the way money did not exchange hands.. its butter and wine (like Barter system) for her ox..

Too much

Thousands of years. Not, hundreds! It's been an ancient culture.

I agree with this 💯👍

i wonder if there is jealousy and cheating outside of the marriage. real question, not trying to be disrespetful. we are talking about humans here....like.. besides for materialistic gains (to keep taxes down, money in the family, acccumulate lands/livestocks), what about basic human desires? is there no jealousy? I want see see an interview about this in polyandry. i want to understand how the woman and the men really feel and think.....and then the children.....that kind of interview would be so interesting to watch!

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@@baonguyenxuanthai711 Draupadi of Mahavarata was married to 5 brothers.

I love it for a change. We see men having two , three wives.They all are so good together. That’s the way to survive in that harsh place . Beautiful though ! 💟

I KNOW, RIGHT ?! They seem to be working together in harmony and thats what i love about them.

Got to teach your kids. They won't do it on their own

I wish I could weave the clothes 😂😂😂😂 Good domestic tasks with 3veryone involved.

It's common dear

It's not uncommon don't know where you live

Especially no cell phones

I see they have tv

I remember when I bought my first radio, it was treated as a sin in the village.

@@suzanneevans1522 i saw one of the kids drinking a can of coke; it was when the were eating the dried meat and the grandfather was singing

@@sunnyromano6862 thanks. Can't live without tv and can't live without coke. The simple things in life are often the best.

Definitely

She builds walls of cow manure. That’s some sh!t.👍🏻

She works so hard for the family.

@@generalnguyenngocloan1700 and with the same hands she prepares the meals 😁😆

And the most EXHAUSTED too lmao xD

Agree, same thing as polygamy, i'm all for polyandry if all people involved consent and are happy with it 👍

Absolutely 🥰

I hope to keep this positivity and respect towards a man with 3 wives

I agree with this 💯👍

i wonder if there is jealousy and cheating outside of the marriage. real question, not trying to be disrespetful. we are talking about humans here....like.. besides for materialistic gains (to keep taxes down, money in the family, acccumulate lands/livestocks), what about basic human desires? is there no jealousy? I want see see an interview about this in polyandry. i want to understand how the woman and the men really feel and think.....and then the children.....that kind of interview would be so interesting to watch!

That's exactly what I'm going to say about the three husbands! There is no jealousy among them! They all support her and their children! They all (husband) say it brings more wealth to the family! So all their support helps them to survive in the family and they will never go hungry! Which is great! 🤗 In some of the area where there's no three husband! Jealousy is part of the way! We fight for one person! We don't want any other person's life but just one! Jealousy brings divorce paperwork! 😥

It does make more work on more hand as all women know, BUT she is wealthy in some ways because she has all those animals, and she definitely needs help. They did seem to work together well and it was really nice to see!

She had more help from her husbands than many women do here. They all work hard at their respective jobs

🤣🤣🤣 laughing at your 2nd & 3rd sentences...

Because they are born to believe that sharing a woman is normal. maybe that’s why In Muslim culture some wives don’t get jealous as well. It s because of tradition

Lol

No jealousy? No hate? How did this video prove that?

Three slaves of the Queen

No jealousy No hate No killing NO PROOF It is only 20 minutes of their lives

So you like it

Polygamy is marriage of more than one person Polygyny-marrying more than one woman Polyandry-marrying more than one man

From? Me mauritius

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That's incredible

@@jameelahshermohamedkhan202 i'm tasked to analyze this film. please help me

Are we welcome

Perhaps only in the video shooting. !!

Completely agreed.

Only the wife gets to work constantly..

In Asia, men helped with the chores or they hire a maid for the wife. Not just one but a lot.

Nothing to inspired .

@@frankyluikhor5044 if you are a capitalist lover you wouldn't get inspired.

@@comradeleppi2000 yes this is disgusting videos ,I bet this type of culture practicr will abolished in short years to come

Pefectly, respectfully & brilliantly said! 👍🏼👌🏼👏🏼😁 I as well, thoroughly lived seeing the landscapes of their home, the beautiful pictures 📸 of their home! So cheerfully colourful, which reflected the happiness & smiles 😄 of the family themselves! Several people (viewers) have mentioned that they disagree with "HOW" this family is living, the "WAY" they're bringing up their adorable kids & people also have stated they disagree with the daily lifestyle and/or treatment of the wife in particular & her relationship with her "multiple" husbands! I really loved 💜 several rebuttals to those comments that reminds us that THIS way of life is not our own, not what we're used to, that this video is an incredibly fabulous opportunity for us to "respectfully" LEARN about how other people around the world 🌎 live, their culture, traditions & history! I'm quite positive that "if" that family was shown a long video of a TYPICAL western family & how it lives they would be enormously shocked, disturbed & NOT like it at all! For example: those lovely kids were so tremendously respectful of their parents & elderly! Yes! many kuds today are to a point, but the majority of kids hugely spoiled compared to those kids, they are extremely assertive insisting on doing or saying what they want to! It quitecoften results in families now in days not eating together at all! One or both parenrs are occupied with work, social activities, charitable work, many times doung necessary things at home. The sane for the kids too! After school jobs, going out with friends/over to friends homes, preferring to be in their rooms etc. Plus, the Tibetan family would probably be schocked & very disagreeable about the common frequency of marrage breakdowns (divorce), affairs, single parents raising kids alone, teenage pregnancy, all the current young generation violence: from disrespecting adults (parents teachers authority), to way more serious things like bullying other kids, stealing, robbing, vandalism, rape, planned/premeditated attacks against parents or personal friends or as we have recently seen so tragically & heart wrenchingly - school shootings & murders! So BEFORE we as the Western culture "we" are go judging, criticising this very interesting, loving 💜 family ? I only respectfully suggest we look in the mirror & just for a miment imagine HOE they would react to seeing ALL of what I mentioned about the typical society of today! What young kids feel they NEED & MUST HAVE too live their everyday lives? Computers, tablets, iPads, cell phones, iPhones, of course the internet for all those electronics, movies, music, sports equipment, make-up, jewellery, the "in fashionable" style clothes, most imperatively now in days....... the outrageously costing, newest sneakers on the market! I just saw a documentary about THAT. It's absolutely genuinely ludicrous! Then for adults the "fever" to have your home with the latest, most popular interior design styles, electronics too! ex: Alexa, remotely controlled by your phone - cameras, pet feeders, household controls etc. The newest cars, BBQ's, A/C, TV's, sterio systems, also in style clothes (NOT handmade by them!) I picture in my mind the Tibetan family's reaction to viewing ALL this on the video of "our" way of life & culture AND their reactions to it all? The polluted water, air, garbage dumps? Their reactions to viewing insane, congested traffic jams on freeways & city streets as well as the crazy, thick pedestrian traffic in a hurry, pushing & shoving so unkindly & inconsiderately as they rush to wherever on busy city streets, people whistling/shouting loudly to hail a cab/taxi as cars speed by so fast & the morning commutes of people vying for a seat or even a standing spot on to a enormously crowded subway! Can you for a minute, imagine their faces & reactions of "seeing" 👀 all these things that are just NORMAL life to us?? 😱😲 When I watched the Tibetan family all together so very happy 😄, loving 💜 each other respectfully & taking the time to pray 🙏🏼 & be thankful for their blessings, it proundly touched me so deeply at how beautiful & truly magnificent it really was!! NO! It was not at all the same faith as mine, NO it is not the same belief system (lifestyle) that I believe in but it IS wonderful as a few viewers stated to "learn" & educate myself about how others who share this home 🌎 with me live their lives! Learning, becoming educated is one of the best ways to stop racism, prejudice & hatred! When fear what they don't know that's when trouble begins! The other "key" tool to peace & equality is kindness! We on this earth 🌎 are ALL "ONE" race only! The human race! Within that race it is in spectacular groups of different cultures that we just need to learn about! To become friends with! I sincerely apologise for the long comment! My heart 💜 was so full of thoughts after watching the video & reading all the comments that "my" comment just came flowing out! I hope that even a few of you will have foubd my thoughts & feelings to be positive! 👍🏼😁

Hey, there. This is more than an animalistic. The woman is simply a slave, and a sex machine shared by three men. Whose children are the youngsters, for example?

Thank you

Lol

"The definition of a woman"is having three man in her bed and call it marriage?and I'm not talking about damn religion, how on earth her poor body manages to keep all three men satisfied?

@@angellintaylor4899 i think the three husband are gentle...make it smoothly and guietly..they maybe take turn...and discipline.

@@lennabalun4338 she must have been some sort of mass murderer in her previous life to be reincarnated as a woman who gave birth to countless children, has to do all those damn chores and satisfy 3 men. That is not a healthy lifestyle. Also those 3 men work, she should be living in the lap of luxury!

Wow different stroke 4 different folks👈 your information was well informative 👌❤🇯🇲🙏🏽

Walmart? You need to travel more. No Walmart is common in the world, especially modern countries.

@@rlud304 here in Philippines the Walmart was just 15 minutes away from my home...

They didn't talk about there sex life

Hi

A life I dream of for sure!

I know, right ?😊

She have 5 childrens, who among her 3 husband's are those childrens belong?

@@magdalenaticsay5067 Everyone praises their life so much and is jealous of the woman. Who gave her a choice in life? she did not have it and does not have it.

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Is this the culture of Tibet or that's the only one family in Tibet.

you need to find good pier of friends

I don't think you're worth that much

Do you want three husbands Madam

No way! What do you love about her? She is a slave to those people. No thank you!

Agreed !!! she does so much hard work - the husbands benefit more than her

@@selini7774 agreed .. a wife like that doing all the work is welcome anywhere 😏

Unimaginable for me,lol!! but seems like they're all happy in their simple ways & surroundings, I'd not be able to breathe @all with all those household chores she is doing, cooking , washing, weaving, making the 3 husbands happy....just too exhausting looking @ her, bless her heart !!its just too much for me.....I wonder if they ever have an argument/disagreements or not.....

Ufff!

I will be happy to have three husbands

@@almaz-rudy8793 i might be happy with one. who knows?

@@almaz-rudy8793 😂😂😂😝

@@almaz-rudy8793 probably possible to be happy or unhappy with three or with one..hahaha!

Isaiah 5:20 Woe to those who call evil good and good evil, who put darkness for light and light for darkness, who put bitter for sweet and sweet for bitter. That life style is evil and not at all " beautiful families " Evil, just pure evil.

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Will you accept more husband as well?

You are welcome

Educational video, Strongly recommended for kids 🙂

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Hi.... You will get quite a few volunteers.... lol

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Did you bother to notice the poor wife who is overworked and does more hard labor than the three men combined? Younger tibetan women see this and are trying to escape the relentless housework by going to university.

Would you know this personally??

All women work harder..they are in charge of the kids.

Did you read what I wrote....reread. Harsh environment....

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@@TibettravelOrg l would love to be able to travel there 😊

Wait, nobody told me there was a place like this It's perfect I would have loved to have a husband for everything 🤗🙏🏼

@@isabelespinoza4893 Good luck! Just make sure they own shoes!

3 hubbies at once..x 1..forbidden case..❌❌❌

@w4csc yes but they have no other way to get around it, and the amount of CO2 in my opinion with their lifestyle is way less compared to an average American household

i wonder if there is jealousy and cheating outside of the marriage. real question, not trying to be disrespetful. we are talking about humans here....like.. besides for materialistic gains (to keep taxes down, money in the family, acccumulate lands/livestocks), what about basic human desires? is there no jealousy? I want see see an interview about this in polyandry. i want to understand how the woman and the men really feel and think.....and then the children.....that kind of interview would be so interesting to watch!

Unlimited love and great cooperation in bed too. Amazing family. I wonder if a western people will go for the same deal 🤔 😉 😏

@@dinodire7576 i dont think that will happen anytime soon, but we can dream haha

She is getting a Lot of Buck but very little Respect !!!! Passed around like Furniture , Hey Tim I am done but John wants Seconds you can have some after him !!!! Lots of Peace and simple dedication with out greed !!!!

She’s the boss

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Why do the cheeks of the kids have that colour?

@@lerokarto7705 it's because of the harsh climate and UV light. Everyone who grew up in the Tibetan highlands living the traditional lifestyle will have cheeks like that

@@owlofathens3288 For children's eating at least spoon of oil or butter 2-3 times a day and putting oil on the chicks will help. Kind regards from New York 🐞🍀❤☀

@@lerokarto7705 I believe it's from high elevation, strong uv and uvb rays, cold wind, low oxygen, high protein diet. Basically environment and diet induced.

Same

Gang bang

How many the outside ones

So proud of this vlogger,thank you so much, for sharing this video,,, happy watching, very nice place

I am guessing there might be other benefits with more than one husband?

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What happen to other girls & women in the village? If there are 200 adults (100 Male & 100 Female), Only 33 Female can get married, the rest 67 of them are cursed with no husband (If each woman has 3 husbands like this woman). This practice is practical & applicable only if in Tibet the sex ratio is 30:70. Else this is injustice done to some...

I’m sure you could find western men like this but it’s very hard to do. Very very hard to find real brothers lol I’m trying.

Same... I'm gonna book my flight sooner or later 🤧

Good luck

@@della9837 I am ready

@@inosuke523 please don't make a mess there too

Exactly her life seems like a maid to this family very sad.

She is not the one working 3 good masseurs

I wondered the same. All that work during day time, making sure her children are tucked in, warm and then boom the shoes by the door. Another job. She looked exhausted.

Wonderful Family.

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Women having good life i wish this custom should follow rest of world

Q

Why you not make your mouths happy woman to make 2 more mirag