Online Dating Nightmare: The Dirty John Story 

Kendall Rae - Ahhh I missed your videos 🥺🦋

The little doggies in the back ground😌💚😍

Thanks so much for the upload! I know you work hard and I really appreciate that!

You should do a live stream, it would be really enterteining for us while being on quarantine🙇🏻‍♀️🥺

Do a video on the betz sphere!!! I’m surprised you haven’t!? Lol

Periodt

I thought the same thing! BADASS

Mullet Mayhem yes!!

😂😂

Terra is amazing !

"She grabbed that knife and started to stab the fuck out of him" :D

She got the crazy white girl in her trying not to get demonitized. 😂

"this guy was like a damn cockroach"

Riiiiight

@Kristian Alexis 🤣🤣🤣🤣

😂

Add a spoon of sugar to the mix 🍵

@@alexagurrola170 period😂😭😭

💩

And he’s a fuckin cockroach 😂😂😂

RIP cash ❤️❤️❤️❤️🐾

So the dog barking distracted John or did it bite him?

@@MikeyReadman Attacked him! ^^

Omg this made me tear up 😭😭😭 we dont deserve dogs

Where did you hear that? I'd like to hear that story too.

I thought the same thing lmao

Lmao

balmain addict glad I wasn’t alone lol

Exactly my internal monologue lol

Casey O'Leary lmao kinda like dora

@Jenny I remember after my dad left when I was a child, my mum started to date again. And her first boyfriend was amazing! So kind and caring, he ended up having a heart attack after around three years of them meeting. My mum, my siblings and I were devastated. My mum didn't date again for around two years, and her next boyfriend was an abusive jack ass! Hed lay hands on my mum all the time, and she eventually got rid of him, only for him to stalk her for a year. Eventually he broke the restraining order, broke into her house and held her hostage for two days and was jailed, he left her alone after his release. My mum has been with her current husband now for eight years he is a lovely guy. I worried so much for her and her love life after her psycho stalker ex, but thankfully she met the kindest guy. I hope ur mum also finds her Prince charming! I think it's hard for us to imagine any guy potentially hurting our mum, but I guess she has to find her own way. And all we can do is be there to support and love her.

@@alexcarlson4344 I'm so happy that things turned around for you guys

Smart move

Kamarca Lol... funny 😄 but wait....yeah, she DOES need to watch this

Aww please don’t be mean to your mom try to do everything to make her happy she’s probably so devastated right now❤️

I was just coming to say this. 🤦🏽‍♀️

Tell Tara she is my hero! I saw her story on some ID true crime program and was amazed by her courage.

I’m so sorry this happened to you and your family this is no joke people are dangerous out there know telling who they really are

Jesus! Sorry this happened! John is a major POS!

Joe Momma yesssss I know this all too well

Yep, I've experienced that as well. It was a huge red flag for me when she mentioned that.

Yep. Smh. If only..

Isn't it crazy how they are all the same? All the same tactics...love bombing, gas-lighting, silent treatment. Kendall is so right, listen to friends and family, because they see what you can not!

Joe Momma yep I thought this immediately too! Classic

I literally huffed loudly enough at that part that my husband texted me from upstairs and asked, "did you just 'humfph'? Why'd you say 'HA!' twice?" That part was so ridiculous

Amen Sis. I once dated a guy that everyone said nobody has ever broke up with him. Next day, i dismissed him lmao

Lol right? Haha I'd be like..dude..you don't know my life. Hahah

Happened to me. He continued to say it. I found out he was lying about so much. Important things

@@kimsmith819 1

One of the lessons of this tale is that even an extremely successful, highly intelligent person can routinely slip into a mode where their considerable intelligence isn't even being used because they're on emotional override in how they see the world. Just like all the extremely successful, highly intelligent people who got scammed by Bernie Madoff. People see what they WANT to see. Or what their psychological debilitations NEED them to see.

Wow what a true story.

They were adult women with an issue overstepping on her personal life. Stop with the "children" bullshit. She is a WOMAN and a mother, not just a mother.

Yes!

Trin Esparza its truly so....disturbing....my friend was raped for 5 years by her stepdad and her mom was like jealous and i think she lowkey knew and once it finally got out she told her she probably liked it because she didn’t say anything sooner....she was 10-15 !!!

Same. Its sickening. I'd choose my children over their own father or anyone... ANY DAY I actually had a friend in my early 20s who once told me her husband would be nmber one over her kids because he husband would be there first and because he made them. Wtf🤦🏽‍♀️ not sorry we stopped being friends. Not because of that but because she was a compulsive dirty lying person.

Same, It pisses me off so much.

@@flxwercxrpse1871 your poor friend hope she is doing well now.. best wishes for her

In these abusive relationships they are usually so brainwashed that they choose the abuser before anyone else. That's why these situations are so dangerous and sad.

Riiiiiight

@Jenny Unfortunately, they wanna stop the wrong people from having kids

I agree, but your RU-vid name is all i can think about...lol. Love it!

I honestly can't understand that. Disgusting

Think about how her daughter felt... oh

“A cornered rat will bite a cat. One who is cornered will fight a devil.”

​@@Cure_Hana💜 AMEN 🙏 YES, WATCH OUT FOR US QUIET ONE'S! WE WILL FIGHT!

Gladys Andrade deadass😭

Fr tho

Gladys Andrade lmfao glad I wasn’t the only one low key offended

😂😂😂😂😬

I legit screamed haahhahhha 😂😂😂

me while the girl was stabbing him: *yaaas queen get into it*

we have no choice but to stan

J J I wish you had posted a spoiler alert!

It was hard to miss your comment because it was at the top spot.

@@melodymeyers-spears4181 sorry! I edited it.

😆😆😆

I need friend like you in my life 😭❤

@@lavenderlovee Bad luck finding decent people friend?

I cheered and fist pumped the whole time! I'm just glad she didn't face any legal ramifications.

That fact that she says her watching The Walking Dead made her feel like she could fight him off made me so proud! TWD is LIFE.

@@MaryTheresa1986 EXACTLY what I was thinking! What if there wasn't a witness? Would the D.A. then play devil's advocate, flip the script and attempt to convict?? With our unjust justice system, it wouldn't have been surprising.

Did you say stabbed 13 times 😨

I cheered.

If you see your boyfriend going off on your daughter the way John was going off on Tara that should have been game over get your stuff and get out of my house.

The Lonely Hearts Club is a dangerous membership to have. A simple background check would've headed all of this off at the pass. This woman of immense resources could've found everything she needed to know about this dude out before the first date. But she was so desperate for love and attention.

This is why you don’t underestimate the “nice/quiet” ones! I’d bet good money John thought that since Tara was the more docile one of her children she would be the easier one to kidnap. Jokes on him!!

Everytime I think of her I think of Connie Britton who played her lol

@@PrincessKarrah in the show the mom was always telling her daughters to forgive their men

She stopped being a victim in my eyes as soon as she took him back after finding out about who he actually was.

Unfortunately women, in those days werent raised to value themselves. Neither my mom or grandmother had any semblance of self worth.

A woman who divorces 4 husbands and has a safe for pocketbooks pretty much knows her own value. And as for John, it doesn’t matter who raised him, it matters that so many women fell for his line of BS.

@@deanjacobs1766 The devil can be quite cunning.

Debra's mother didn't value her own daughters.

Lmaooo Ricky Dillon the heck

Yo it’s really Ricky Dillon lmao

Who is Ricky?

@@owlq3574 I was jus about 2 ask the exact thing???

Woah karen did something okay

Please stop saying Bruh. Sounds so unintelligent.

Paladium lmao. The comment section isn't an email to a teacher or boss. It's a RU-vid comment section. Slow down.

@@palladium607 bruh

Paladium bruh

@@palladium607 B R U H

My sister is a CRNA says the same, she works with John's first wife Tonya

CRNA School is so tough to get into that this criminal with addiction issues and criminal background got it and passed so easily

⁠@@rubinaameeralican’t explain specifically this case. But that doesn’t diminish the fact that it is tough to get into CRNA school and that it is a lot of work.

mimo 3433 same here

mimo 3433 It actually got me upset😡

it's a dumb thing to do but also Stockholm syndrome?

annie hall thank you, a lot of people who are hating on her have never been in or have never seen what a toxic and abusive relationship can do to someone. Especially how mentally manipulated they become

@@claudiahelen1 Yup! And it's so unfair and victim blaming to say that, you don't know if he bribed her with expensive items or cars or whatever. We don't know what went on, don't assume :)

MissPopeyes22 i know it’s not the same thing of course, but i just binged the netflix series tonight, and that scene where he said that was so unsettling, i just can’t imagine what it was like in real life. just cannot fathom how crazy this was and i am glad that terra is okay she is really brave

MissPopeyes22 right about her in the first place she was married four times.

jared diamond what’s the series called

Noe Moneytoya Dirty John on Netflix. It’s pretty good!

ALEA LOVE thank you!

And what makes it worse is the fact that the so called “mother” still is constantly trying to play the victim and tries to justify her actions. (Not yelling in caps pointing out) In a book she wrote she said she KNEW her kids would be angry and would disown her if they knew she was living with John so early on yet she went right ahead and moved in she lied and tried to hide it and was caught HOW DOES THAT MAKE HER THE VICTIM? After Thanksgiving she wants to whine because the kids where not coming to visit her but yet SHE TOLD them if they wanted to come over and see her they had to get along with John and her attitude was they HAD TO ACCEPT that John or live with the consequences. How does that make her the victim Despite the fact she knew her relationship with her kids was at there breaking point she clearly didn’t learn that lying to her kids and hiding things from her kids does more harm then good she married John and hid it from them. How does that make her the victim? She wants to whine about Christmas being a disaster yet she the one who told the kids John is coming and if your gonna start drama over it then it be best if you not come and she the one who refused to stick to the agreement she made with Tara and said her kids where acting childish how does that make her the victim? Yet somehow she was blindsided when the kids refused to see or speak with her and wouldn’t let her see there kids how does that make her the victim? She wants to whine and justify her actions because her kids didn’t like anybody she dated before she met John yet she been married 4x and dated man who used and abused her is it any wonder they had 0 faith in there mom ability to pick good guys? She SAW John going off on Tara at a time when all her kids w

When you really have no overwhelming want to be with anyone else That’s really the way to be ✨

Lol exactly

I died

She goes what fucking doctor dont have a car lol

@@rebeccaweeks2498 lmao!

Lol scrubs are pretty comfortable tho, just saying 😝

Thank u dr. 👏🏻

someone who move too fast in a relationship. someone who say i love u too fast or just praise u too much. man this guy have all the red flags.

thought the same. it's such a clear indicator right from the beginning and almost as clear to recognize as if they would have written it on their foreheads :-D

Yep, shirtless mirror selfies and pictures of them holding dead animals. Run as FAST AS YOU CAN in the other direction.

so true

Good point

You mean her daughter's husband ....

✨No victim blaming please✨

@@pretzeldough2959 I don't believe that you should believe "victims" whatever they say or do. Adults have responsibility to care for their children in the beat possible way. And she and her mom failed theirs. Psychoanalytically she seemed to have learned that from her mom, and your "woke" stance here is irrelevant

@@Hera4 Excellent point, and I totally agree. The whole "victim blaming" thing wants to absolve every victim of responsibility, even if whatever terrible thing happened to them was a direct result of really bad, stupid choices. These people should be used as examples to help other people learn from the victim's poor choices and not make the same mistakes. Deborah IS to blame for everything that happened, and what she did almost got her daughter killed. She was responsible for her daughter being attacked and almost killed, and she was responsible for her daughter having to kill a man in self defense.

😂😂 this comment made me laugh so hard, I nearly spit my coffee out

@@fallingforyoudarling IM NOT WRONG THO!! 😂

Shawna Alice_xo red flag💀

@@dylananthony It's sooo true!!! 😂

Why did she not see it?

Then his sister called their mom and said "Hes dead! Let's have a party."

Celebrating someone's death is awful, no matter the circumstances.

@@MikeyReadman I don't think so, now Deborah and her daughters can finally live peaceably without having to worry constantly about their safety and lives... Isn't that worth celebrating?

@@MikeyReadman Mikey, buddy. You're defending a man that was extremely abusive. fuck. off.

I hope you have been able to live your best life and not let it affect you too much. And yes, your mom seems to be an awesome person. ETA: Wow, good for you, becoming a nurse. Thank-you from someone who practically grew up in the hospital.

Crazy!

You're a bad ass

I'd love to hear your input about him. Wishing you the best💗

Love to you, sweet girl! 🥰

Love does blind some people. Others simply choose not to see and ignore *ALL* the red flags. Those are the ones to cry the hardest once they end up in a messy place.

🚩🚩🚩 👈👀 🏳️‍🌈🇬🇧

Me af

Ahhh so true

@@_lb_0911 I just can't respect a "man" who would carry the purse in public.

@La’Rae M. I probably shouldn’t be laughing so hard! Huh! 🤭

Right ?

@@janetturner1931 same

I wonder how her husband treated her.

For real. :-/ Her mom is a piece of work.

Jacklyn was sassy, strong and took shit from no one while Tara looked weaker and more of an easy target that’s why he tried to kidnap her instead of jacky who he hated more but boy oh boy he underestimated Tara lmao her daughters are savages

Yes! She is definitely bad ass. Beat a big tall dude and saved her own life. I'm proud of her

John was a pussy, picking a fight with a girl. That's shameful.

@@satob7690 That's my kind of woman!

@@bibleguy1207 TELL EM KING

Awareness to who?

I can’t stand Debra lol I bet she was so sad he died and I bet she’s getting duped again today

It made me laugh...It is still taking my girlfriend over 10 years 😂😂 but no rush we have talked about it. it is also b/c we both did grad school and more so in these times of need I am in no rush but to save 😂😂

😂 😂 😂

That's a huge red flag honestly. Be wary of anyone who's extremely eager to jump into marriage, moving in together, etc--thats not how honest/psychologically healthy people behave.

Hahahahaha honestly though. I have been with my fiancé for almost 6 years. And we had talked about getting engaged for a while. But we only agreed it was time when we had been together for 5 years

I’ve been engaged to John for 25 yrs! 😂 We discussed dates on 2 different occasions. Keep in mind we had both been married twice before. We’re both comfortable in our arrangement and know we’ll always be together so I will just remain eternally engaged. Actually have 2 engagement rings 💍. 😂. Still getting to know him and not wanting to rush into another marriage. We are both in our early 60’s now. I think if we actually did get married, our kids would think we were kidding. 😂😂💕💚. Growing old together has been pretty cool. ✌️

I mean, her own mother chose her other daughter's literal KILLER over her...so she clearly didn't have a great example.

I mean, loneliness pushes people to suicide. They're probably just happy their mum is alive. Imsread of agreeing with an ignorant victim blamer 🙈

Don't justify what you said by sayimg Kendal agrees she literally said we can't judge her

@@kirstybrown1185 There's a difference between victim blaming and holding people accountable for their actions.

@@waste_of_grace do you know the person to hold her accountable or are you judging a stranger while not knowimg what you're talking about? You aren't helping her so get your head out your arse.

Right 💀💀 fully grown woman. Idc. She needs to take accountability for her decisions. ALL these red flags and you still carry on with him??? 💀💀.

I'm glad she's safe, but she put her kids in harms way for a man she knew was a psychopath. She doesn't get sympathy.

BWC make girls go crazy

Absolutely, I have zero respect for this woman, such a joke

I completely agree I don’t buy for a nanosecond that she didn’t see any red flags ( NOT YELLING IN CAPS POINTING OUT) I BELIEVE SHE WAS SO DESPERATE for male companionship that was WILLING TO IGNORE THE RED FLAGS SHE SAW. She heard him yelling and going off on her youngest daughter before she married him. THAT ALONE SHOULD HAVE BEEN ENOUGH FOR HER TO KNOW THAT HE WAS BAD NEWS SHE HEARD HIM SAY THAT HE WANTED TO TAKE OUT ANOTHER DAUGHTER WITH A GUN. Yet she went back and TRIED TO PLAY THE VICTIM BECAUSE HER KIDS DID NOT WANT TO SEE HER AND DID NOT LET HER SEE HER GRANDKIDS.

@@jimtaggert42 Sorry, Jim.....what is BWC.....?

@@wet_jojo1015 No, dummy. If I knew I wouldn't have asked. Bye.

Well why waste the electricity? HAHAHAHAHAHA

Yeah, why take up a hospital bed for that piece of crap.

lol!

@Mary Lee 🤣

If the sister pulled the plug out of malice, she will answer to God.

Totally agree!!!!

I can’t believe he was gunna abduct her. I’m so happy she won that struggle. I’m so tired of listening to true crimes of abductions :/

This should be made into a movie called "Women sure know how to pick`em"

@@planetfourthreich3022 the guy was literally a psychopathic manipulator and y'all will STILL find ways to blame the woman...

👁 👈👀👉🧠 🤔👍

Mia Draper random but yeah

Lmao yes i thought the same

Jordyn Lopez he set that up, but yes, I’d be traumatized!

No cus I dont have a tv in my living room for that exact reason

Literally the worst part

great advice!

That was remarkably wise advice! I'll bite off a chunk of that! 😎 Mmm. I imagine good advice tastes crispy, like a good apple. Juicy, too.

Yes! 💜

I’m going through a rough time right now.. that was nice words I needed to hear. Thank you so much keyoka.

BLOOP

Yes!

This would’ve gone completely different if they wasn’t in her life.

Tara is a BEAST!

Yes

I think she looks like Jennifer Aniston

A Karen we respect

Don't piss off your next of kin!

TurboCMinusMinus lmao what?did you watch the whole video 😂

@TurboCMinusMinus....I know where you are coming from with that comment and I would normally sympathize. But, in this particular instance, this guy got what he deserved.

TurboCMinusMinus 🥰

Lmao! Ain’t that the damn truth!😂

Lmao right hell’s no this is just plain scary

That's what I said!

Question Your World hahaha 😂

It was always in the eyes, listen to your gut pipl

those boots should be credited

me scrolling thru the comments tryin to find spoilers like

👁 👈👀👉 🧠 🤔🤣

He died in the hospital not from the calloused hand of a man, but by the soft hand of a woman! LOL!

@@janetwestwood9194 Imagine if Hitler had been killed by a woman and she had killed him in the same way that Terra killed John! LOL!

ikr i’d be so bored without her videos🥴

same ❤️

Me rn.... 1am and i cant sleep

Sameee

the office and curb your enthusiasm as well

And he died four days later in a hospital bed, unconscious and knocked out from Terra stabbing him!

Good. He deserved no fuck to be in him. Good riddance, throw the whole man out.

@@_rainey right

Dont forget that she called him a damn cock roach lol

I was so hyped at that part. Yes Terra!!

I love that she stabbed him to death, and I hope that Terra is well and happy.

And he died in a hospital bed four days later!

The only time "Philthy" is an acceptable nickname is in rock n roll. Motorhead.

@@roxannemoser His nick name should be CRAZYJOHN!

She didn't say "this guy wouldn't die" I'm lil confusion

@Crystal Lewis I know right! lol 😂

I laughed so hard to that :O)

Yasss i died laughing😂😂😂

Puhaha

Shes hard to watch in some interviews. Sometimes it seems like she misses him. Watching the show on Netflix drove me insane. I had so much anxiety watching this woman be so blind to abuse. I know abusers have this weird control over their victims, but she only knew this guy a few weeks before they were married, and there was already red flags from day one.

Yeah, for being such a successful woman she wasn't very smart.

Ugh watching the Netflix show, I got sooo anxious and would yell at the tv lol. Listening to her on the podcasts was torturous. If I were one of her daughter's, I'd find it hard to forgive her. I guess ignorance is bliss. Lol

It's not just you...

i kinda feel that way too, but i figure debra will punish herself for the rest of her life, and doubt that she’ll make that mistake again :””) your opinion is perfectly valid though, i completely seems where you’re coming from

hi ! My name is _________ what ?! Who ?! like its fucking GTA or something

They included that part in the show too and it seriously made me laugh way too hard

hi ! My name is _________ what ?! Who ?! Fr i imagined a crackhead lmaooo

I’ve been watching you since 2016 and I swear there has not been one single sit down video without a pet in the back

My FAV kind of background lol

That's my life too lol

I love how she was inspired by the zombie TV show and I guess went for the headshot so to speak I think that saved her life and I’m so sorry that happened to her and that she has to live with that memory but good for her good for her strength I think the TV shows name is The Walking Dead

I’d have gone for the nuts but that’s just me.

@@nhmooytis7058 That's not a killer blow.

@@bibleguy1207 but fun to watch the ensuing pain.

Cristie Hatcher also he got six years on a drug charge and five for murder. What the fuck

its unconstitutional to give a child a life sentence

@@ellamiller6889 Unfortunately, that's not true. In 2012 the Supreme Court ruled that minors cannot be sentenced to life _without the possibility of parole_ . They can, however, be sentenced to life imprisonment.

@@walkabout123 sorry thankyou for clearing that up

Beth B uuuuuuuuuuu

Heather Countryman Lmfaoooo

Hahahaha

OMG LOL!!!!! (But kinda sameeeee?)

😂😂

There is no trust at this point 😂😂

Wow! What a small world!

that’s fucking crazy ! glad they are sweet and turned out better than their sperm doner

Aww haha

Omg that’s crazy

Wow!

Sophie Daly littaraly same

Sophie Daly Ik righ

same, i love it though 😅

Was just thinking the same. Perfect timing! Overthinking about work tomorrow 😢 stay safe everyone 🙏

I wouldn’t be able to watch videos like prior to going to sleep lol!

@@Megan-bk5kd what is it called I wanna watch it.