ONLY YOU MAKE YOU HAPPY | CHOOSE UNCONDITIONAL HAPPINESS - Bashar Wisdom 

I am so sorry for your losses😢❤😢 I have had lost so many close beloved ones in my life so I can truly and honestly empathise with you ❤ (lost beloved ones in this incarnation, definitely. But I remember, clearly, losing loved ones in previous incarnations too) I can recommend you, with respect and love, to watch some non-dual teaching videos from Rupert Spira and other quality non-duality/tantric path teachers. This teaching explains the fundamental human experience: that real/true, eternal and infinite happiness comes from the liberation of the illusion that things and beings are separated. It points out our common and basic experience that our true nature is one-beingness/one-consciousness. ❤😊❤

I empathize and sympathize with your losses. I am in the same situation. I am not sad all the time, however the grief does return regularly and when it does I cry and feel it and then do something to shift the energy, I will miss those I love and lost especially my dear husband for the rest of my life but I know I am growing through experiencing these challenges and do my best to love myself as much as he loved me. It is extremely challenging. The pain is so intense at times I wish I could join him and the others. It is not our time, therefore we need to do our best to accept the experience. A book that really helped me find acceptance is called “Your Divine Lens” by Sue Frederick” It is the best book on grief I read. Sending you a big virtual hug. 🤗💜

@@carlaa.1617 Sending you a big virtual hug also, and thanks :) really needed it, i will check out the book also :) much thanks and sorry for your loss and pain also, its so awful - esp with insomnia i got since n never had trouble sleeping :( but refuse to take antidepressants, but may consider after a yr comes n goes :( trying my best, wish us both luck n love :)

@@violaevavenczel8378 thank you with much love n hope for the both of us, :) I will check him out :) thanks ..Micheal singer is a good one also, that helped me, wish us both luck n love - the pain is truly awful - everything helps

@beatleme2, Bashar has spoken before about grief. One way to view it (and this does not in any way mean that your grief is not real and i completely understand), is that the grief, at times, is because you have felt you are left behind. But, they in their society do not grieve for they know that when that person "left" they are still in contact with them. Your wife, is still with you, as you are playing out your theme, in this reality. She never leaves you, because only a small portion of you projects yourself into this "reality". You are there together and she is waiting for you, when you "leave". So, imagine if you can ,if it was you that left...how would you want her to "feel".. Allow the grief and transform it, into the joy, knowing you are an eternal being and that connection never leaves you. Ask her for signs, and I promise you, she will give you signs that she has never left your side. When my Dad transitioned, he sent me signs all the time. It gave me peace...so grieve for how long you need to and then know you are powerful and will continue on, to finish your theme and join her when you are done. Much love your way..