I 100% agree on how it doesn’t matter if you fold before putting clothes in a bin.. I totally washed them anyways too 😂 my girls are 20 months apart and my oldest is in 3T and youngest is already in 18 months, as I watch them getting closer in size I’m thinking they might be in the same size sooner rather than later!! I do the same hand me down method but I started passing everything we are done with to my sister in law since my husband feels done with two kids… part of me is a little sad, but the other part is glad to declutter!!