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Its time for a Q and A! In this video I will be answering your questions from my perspective as an Orthodox Jewish Homeschooling Mom of three. I will be sharing facets of my Orthodox life as I answer your questions on a variety of topics. The questions and my answers range from can Jews adopt? to how do you handle Diabetes on fast days? and Do we celebrate Christian holidays with my extended family? also How do you know what kind of Jew you are? and can you wear leggings under your dresses? and how do you handle the Mikvah during Menopause? and what is Kosher? And what makes a food kosher? And many many more! I answer each question based on my personal knowledge and experience to the best of my ability :)
Hello and welcome! My name is Chana, I’m married to my best friend, and we have three wonderful children together. We also happen to be Orthodox Jews and we homeschool our kids. This video is a sneak peek into our daily lives :) You can see how this particular Jewish homeschool mom sets up her days, rolls with the punches, and gets it all done. Thanks for watching!
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@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

If y’all have any follow up questions, feel free to let me know here and I’ll do my best to answer! Thank you for watching and I hope you are having a wonderful day!!! 💖

@anjahorn 2 года назад

My question: when do you plan, to come to frankfurt to drink a coffee with me ? :)

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

@@anjahorn I love that! Hows this, while I have no travel plans now, when and if I do make it to Frankfurt, we will absolutely meet for coffee!!!

@dreaG45 2 года назад

I’m curious about why milk and meat cannot be eaten together. Thank you for your time. ❤️

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

@@dreaG45 it stems from a verse in the Torah "Do not cook a kid in its mother's milk." This verse appears in the Torah three times, twice in Exodus (23:19 and 34:26) and once in Deuteronomy (14:21).

@dawnbaker9274 2 года назад

Do you mix fibers in clothes?

@kaitlynwert6673 2 года назад

I really respect how there are certain things you hold back on, yet others where you're an open book. I appreciate that you always have the forethought to pause and really think through your answers to ensure you're not putting anything out that would be devisive. There's such a level of respect for other cultures. For example, I notice that you tend to hold back a bit on stuff relating to your parents and family, when it is an answer that is incredibly deep and personal, like your beliefs vs. their Christian ones. It's a delicate balance to put your life out there for the public, but to also keep a handle on how much is too much. To simplify my point, we have freedom of speech. But just because we have it, doesn't mean we have to exercise it and let everyone know every thought we have. Exercising restraint and not sharing things that might hurt or be sensitive spots to others shows how much you respect them, and ultimately, love them, which is the basis of what both of our religions believe. People like you are so refreshing to me. In a world that praises outspokenness as authenticity, and restraint in conversation as a threat to individuality, you are an example of how to walk and speak gracefully and preserve peace.

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

Thank you for your kind words :) I respect my family greatly and would never want to intrude on their privacy just because I chose to share about my life here :)

@lafemmerouge4271 2 года назад

Have you considered writing a novel of Miriam’s story from her POV? Your eyes really lit up when you talked about her and I think you may be a storyteller at heart. 📚

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

That would be an amazing story!!!! If only I had the time!!!

@lisachatham8690 2 года назад

In this all I can say is that if you really want to do something and it is important to you, you will find the time. It may take decades to get done, but starting is the key. You are AMAZING and I would love to read the story from your point of view.

@thecatlady6 2 года назад

@@jaroffireflies you could always wait until your children have grown up some. As they get older, they'll need less "hands-on" from you and do more independent work. This gives you some free time while they're doing their schoolwork. Even if it's only an hour or two a day, it will get done! I would love ❤ ❤❤ to read that book!

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

@@thecatlady6 one day then perhaps :) There is literally a stack of book ideas in my head that I would love to write!

@thecatlady6 2 года назад

@@jaroffireflies and I'd be happy to read any and all of them!

@cathy2142 Месяц назад

Awww and now you have 4 children❤. What blessings

@jaroffireflies Месяц назад

Indeed :)

@elizabethgrogan8553 2 года назад

I've always yearned to know as much as I can about other Cultures/Religions. It makes living in our multicultural world easier for me. Whilst there are those I can easily set aside because of Cult like practices, I learn so much from others. I had some preconceived notions of Judaism in my early life, I now love the principles. A keen interest in history, at school, led to my visits to the concentration camps a few times. That is a tragic and sobering encounter. I've been to Ann Frank's attic accommodation in Amsterdam and devoured books on that era. Your videos now open up the family situation to me. I love the happiness you exude. For a brighter, safer future, we must learn from the past. So many communities have contributed much to society. I like to respect others, even though our backgrounds and cultures are poles apart. I want my daughter to be without prejudice, so that she can gracefully proceed. You are a shining example of your culture.

@KerbyKast 2 года назад

Agreed! So many rich cultures to learn about.

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

Thank you so much for your lovely comment 💜

@lisachatham8690 2 года назад

I also love to learn about other cultures and religions and such. I am currently searching for a good fit for me in relation to religion, I have been LDS since I was 16 years old and recently found I had more questions than answers in the Church. I am exploring all and your channel is helping me with the Jewish side of my journey. I just am not sure about the holidays and the Shabbat part because my husband is Southern Baptist and most likely will not convert. I just don't know where I belong yet and it makes me very uneasy because I feel the second coming is very close and I feel unprepared.

@roseyc.5846 2 года назад

P.S. Chana, I totally agree about classifying "Harry Potter" as, 'fantasy'. At the end of the day, it is purely fictional. And, I love it! 🙂 Rosemarie 💖

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

Exactly!

@amelianoire4619 2 года назад

I agree 100% as well. To me, it's no different than mermaids, unicorns, or dragons. I was raised in a rather strict Christian household/ community and as a child, I wasn't allowed to read/ own the books, or any books/ games/ movies that were along those lines. I absolutely adore Harry Potter and couldn't imagine not sharing that wonderfully whimsical world with my children now. I wish that more people, especially those of religious backgrounds shared these views. The world is serious enough as it is; let the kids (and us adults as well) dream and imagine.

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

@@amelianoire4619 totally agree! Thank you for sharing your perspective

@dianneblake8101 2 года назад

Good morning from Maine! Seeing your notification of a new post always makes my day! I have a head cold right now, too. We teach our kids to share and then they give us things like this, lol! Hope everybody is healthy and happy soon!

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

Oh no! I hope you feel better soon! It’s the worst to have these headcolds! Like it’s not so bad that you want to stay in bed all day (as if we could lol) but we need to rest to get better lol

@tiagorman1553 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing more information about our Jewish culture with everyone. Being culturally aware helps aid all of us in understanding and encourages dialogue and hopefully respect for every culture.😊

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

You are so very welcome Tia! Thank you so much for your kind and encouraging words 💜

@cmgobin 2 года назад

Enjoyed the content and your matter-of-fact way of discussing issues like adoption and menopause. Thanks for sharing!

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

Thank you so much Crystal! And thanks for being here!

@vsibirsky 2 года назад

One of fondest memories growing up in an observant family was tearing the toilet paper for the family and visitors before Shabbos. At 5 years old I couldn'took or clean or polish the silver but I knew how to tear things up!

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

Ha! That’s awesome! Thank you so much for sharing :)

@rayniebee 2 года назад

I think it was really neat how you mentioned that sometimes your doctor would give you the all clear to fast, but your Rabbi would err on the side of caution and say you shouldn't. It's lovely how that duty of care is taken seriously and in your best interest.

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

I agree :)

@_tardigrade 2 года назад

I really appreciate that you want to be a foster parent for teenagers in the future ❤

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

Thanks :) I used to work with CPS caseworkers and I just have such a place in my heart for all those kids especially the teens 💜

@trishpolk640 2 года назад

Oh Chana!!!! You are so awesome! I want to give a shout out to you for speaking about fostering and adopting teens. I was a caseworker for that age group. They are a tough bunch and rightly so. They have been through the wringer. Anyhoo, you are wise to wait until your kids are older than the new child's age. It can really cause many issues. I think you guys will rock at it!!!

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

Thank you so much Trish! I used to work with CPS caseworkers and I met a lot of the kids as they were entering care (I was usually a caseworkers first stop because the nonprofit I worked for supplied nice new bags, new clothes, new toys, new stuffed animals, new shoes etc) so I’ve heard so many stories and I just want to take every single one home with me! But like you said, better to wait until my kids are older :) I’ll get there!

@debbiebrookover5189 2 года назад

Thanks for answering so many of my questions. I am not Jewish but it is wonderful to learn. Thanks for teaching me the value of cleaning up the kitchen. It really lifts my spirts to clean up thoroughly once a week and then keep it clean the rest of the time. You are so talented. I would love you to show the hanging on the wall that has the birds. I love it. What are your favorite candle smells? What is the candle at the end of Shabbot? I love the chicken soup recipe. I make it all the time now. Thanks for keeping your site going. I love watching you.

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

Thank you for your kind words! I love sweet and home smelling candles :) the candle at the end of Shabbat is for the havdalah ceremony. I have a couple videos about it here: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-w74LbV5sQGM.html and here: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-fbaFF1TtR3Q.html enjoy!

@debra333 2 года назад

Hi, sweet Chana! I love this informative video. And any child, natural or adopted, would be a lucky soul to be raised in your loving home. 🫂❤

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

Thank you so very much Debra 💜

@winnieewing7730 2 года назад

You answered the questions very clearly. Enjoyed everyone. Ireland.

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

Thanks so much Winnie!

@RochelWaldman 2 года назад

Hi Chana, Love your Video's Thanx so much! I am a Diabetic (I am in my 50's, and have been a Diabetic for about 10 years.) I do not fast on most Fast days, excluding the 9th of Av and Yom Kippur. I always speak with my rabbi before those fasts and if I feel ill, I drink water( a certain amount called Shiurim).every 9 minutes when needed. Of course I really do not want to drink but I need to really watch my sugar stays at a healthy number on these days. I do what is needed.

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

Life always comes first! As we say, we live by the Torah not die by the Torah :) Thank you for sharing your experience with us

@gailresko8315 2 года назад

Chana, This was marvelous! Thoroughly enjoyed and learned a lot. Thank you. I look forward to every episode. It's like meeting with a dear friend every time. Much love to you and your family.

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

Thank you so very much Gail!

@jackandpicklesvlogs 2 года назад

This video touched my heart. My husband and I are in the adoption process, so you gave me butterflies 😊 Hugs, Chana ❤

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

Oh SQUEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!! 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜 I cannot love this enough!!!!!!

@jackandpicklesvlogs 2 года назад

@@jaroffireflies We will be waiting a while, but we've got names already picked 😁

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

@@jackandpicklesvlogs so amazing!!!! I be praying the wait is short!

@MediocreComedian 2 года назад

As always, a video upload from Jar of Fireflies makes for a better day. I love that you share with us so many things since I feel we are a village. Have a great week Chana ❤️

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

Hooray! So glad that you enjoyed :) Hope you are having a wonderful day!

@joannamugliston9853 2 года назад

In short: just love your stories. Q and A session was very interesting. Thank you for sharing your life with us.

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

So glad you enjoyed! Thanks for being here Joanna!

@estim7641 2 года назад

I recently came across your channel and now love watching your videos. I grew up in (and still am a part of) the orthodox community in NY, I am sephardi as well. I love the insight and the perspective that you bring. Living in the orthodox community in NY is very insulating, so I love seeing how you bring everything and everyone together. I always wanted to visit Texas, I know there is a wonderful community there. Sending lots of love from NY

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

Hello! Welcome! I’m so glad that you are here! Ya I am wayyyy out of town here in Texas :) Bit it’s a beautiful place! The people are amazing! You should definitely visit if you get the chance!

@sklugmann7206 2 года назад

my son-in- law is a diabetic father of four and a paramedic. Medically speaking fasting is possible but not always a good idea. Glad Chana that you have such a great relationship with your Rav.

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

That’s why I said he may be able to start but might not be able to finish :) We shall see!

@debbierosenzweig8801 2 года назад

Hi Chana, great educational& informative video. Regarding the issue of not ripping toilet paper, I had extended family at my house for Sukkot. I set out boxes of tissues in each of the bathrooms. Within one day, the toilets were completely backed up. I learned that tissues should never be thrown into the toilet. I wanted to make you aware so you don’t have the same awful experience and an expensive bill from the plumber.

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

Thank you! Sorry you had that experience!

@Estikm82 2 года назад

I absolutely love these q and a videos, I think u do such an amazing job answering all the questions that pertain to our beautiful religion, good job chana 👏🏻

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

Thank you so much Esther!

@colleenorrick5415 Год назад

Chana, you don’t need make up - you have gorgeous skin and natural colour. You’re a natural beauty.

@jaroffireflies Год назад

Thank you Colleen :)

@iceeyes3875 2 года назад

Thank you for answering my questions! I always enjoy learning about your religion and the way your eyes light up talking about certain things, makes all the videos so joyful! Much love ❤️

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

Thank you so very much! And thank you for the great question!

@NicSullivan15 2 года назад

Love this and the range of questions from the in depth religious to whether you get your eyebrows done. It's great and I managed to watch the whole video in one go while my youngest son (who I had at 43 after having my oldest son at 34 so I didn't start young either) was asleep because usually I watch a video in at least three separate chunks, not always on the same day either xxx

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

Wow that’s amazing you got to what this all in one go! I couldn’t even do that when I tried to give it a final watch through after I finished editing last night 😂 So glad you enjoyed :) Thanks for being here Nicole!

@NicSullivan15 2 года назад

@@jaroffirefliesyou're welcome xxx

@maryreynolds5310 2 года назад

Great questions today! Thanks Chana for answering them too…you are quit understanding to the fact we are mostly clueless on many issues, even pretty private one’s. Have a beautiful day 🤗

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

Thank you Mary! I’m so glad you’re here :)

@aturnerw 2 года назад

I absolutely love your Q&A’s! You will answer anything and everything asked. Much appreciated

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

You’re so very welcome! Thanks for being here!

@ayalastrauss-resnick4177 2 года назад

Hi Chana, I am really enjoying your channel. You have a beautiful family. As a frum from birth (FFB) 32 year old woman I am really inspired by your story. Growing up Jewish is part of my DNA. The fact that you accepted all the mitzvot upon you as an adult is really amazing. Thank you for sharing your life with us!!

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

Thank you so much Ayala!

@kaydublin5164 2 года назад

Love that you answer questions, love learning about your religion and your family.

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

Thank you so much Kay! I am so glad that you are enjoying these :)

@elsands9774 2 года назад

Love your Q&A videos. Your able to make the Q&A videos so relaxing and educational. You do such a fabulous job answering questions/explaining. As always, a joy to see you’ve uploaded a video 💕

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

Thank you so very much! And thank you for being here :)

@Penny-bt4gc 2 года назад

Hello from Alberta Canada. Love the Q & A videos. It’s interesting to learn Jewish traditions and culture. Thanks for sharing.

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

Thank you so much for watching! I’m so glad you’re here!

@Jackie-dm1ye 2 года назад

Wow! Another wonderful Q & A video Chana! I’m glad you’re feeling better. Your answers to the kosher questions are answered so well! I’m asked about why certain fish aren’t kosher, especially shellfish, so I just wanted to add that fish have both requirements of fins and scales. Talking about Bella how dog food meet certain requirements remind me of reading the cat food labels so very carefully, at the time we had cats. Have a very nice Shabbat!

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

Thank you for adding that about the fish needing scales and fins! That’s a great point:) Shabbat shalom!

@SusanP674 Год назад

I love your Q & A videos 💚

@jaroffireflies Год назад

Yay! So happy to hear that 💐

@larissafaller3193 2 года назад

Another great video! I truly enjoy your Q&A videos. I'm familiar with a lot of Jewish traditions, holidays, and rituals through friends and "fun fact" my mother, who is Danish was an upstairs maid in the Israeli Consulate in Copenhagen, Denmark, just prior to her university studies. Much of what she learned there was taught in our home although we are Lutheran. Food somewhat confuses people who are not aware of the Jewish faith. To me, it makes sense as I grew up with it...and being an American child of European parents, lol! Many blessings to you and your family and I hope all of you feel better soon. 😊

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

Thank you so much! I loved hearing your story! And yes thankful feeling much better today :)

@cathy2142 Месяц назад

We did asl for my daught when she was nonverbal until past age 3. I took 3 6 week classes. But the biomedical intervention for sure is what got her talking. We did urine test we sent to France. Chelated her body from heavy metals, and purged bacteria overgrowth woth antifungals and antibiotics. We still use collodial silver daily years later. I make my own and have over a decade❤

@lupeaguilera8348 2 года назад

As always Thank you for sharing your life with us. 🙂

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

My pleasure :) Thanks for watching Lupe!

@jaysondavis7064 2 года назад

Ohmygoodness! What a great video! I learned so much today. I just love how you are so willing to share and answer questions. I pray you are feeling much better. Blessings, Shawn 😀

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

Thank you so much Shawn! Thankfully I am feeling so much better today!!!

@jaysondavis7064 2 года назад

Also, when I was asked about why as a Christian I would read and and allow my children to read Harry Potter my answer was 2 part 1) I love the bond of friendship throughout the series and 2) never once after reading the books have I or my children felt the urge or have we cast any spells on anyone. The books are great fantasy, not real witchcraft.

@lareid529 2 года назад

Thank you for talking about your side of the family. I commented on an older video that I wondered if you interacted with your birth family and you answered! I totally understand not spending Christian holidays with your family but it's still important IMO for your kids to interact with them and get to know them!

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

I absolutely adore my family I just want to respect their privacy which is why I don’t talk about them much here :)

@barbarashames1372 2 года назад

It's always wonderful to learn so much from your Q&A. Thanks for sharing!

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

Thanks so much for being here Barbara!

@myboyzr2 2 года назад

Another wonderful video Chana! Hope you continue to feel better..always love when our kids share colds!

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

Thank you so much! Thankfully I am feeling so much better!

@franbowers7032 2 года назад

Hi Chana wow what a great video I always learn so much from them. Hope you and your family are well x

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

Thank you so much Fran!

@marije8562 Год назад

I learn something new in each of these videos, but I just wanted to say that the Jewish name (forgive my spelling if I'm doing it wrong) ben/bat Avraham is so beautiful. It's like, "hey you don't have a direct biological Jewish parent, but you are part of our family so have our common father's name". What a beautiful way to be accepted into a family. ❤

@jaroffireflies Год назад

❤️❤️❤️

@martaupward5992 2 года назад

You are such a breath of fresh air! I love your posts.

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

Thank you Marta!

@oxymom2002 2 года назад

So many great questions! Thank you for sharing all of this information with us. 💜

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

You’re so welcome’

@amma3536 2 года назад

Take care and God bless!! You have such a happy attitude. Love it that you love your life.

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

Thank you!

@OurBucketListHasHoles 2 года назад

Great Q&A video Chana. You always put great thought into all your videos. I love hearing about your traditions, holiday preps, homeschool and etc. You are very blessed with such a beautiful family 💜

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

Thank you so very much!

@debbiewoell3247 2 года назад

Watching your videos just brighten my day! Thank you for your videos.

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

I'm so glad! Thank you so much Debbie!!!

@sue1263 2 года назад

Another great video I feel as if I learned a lot. Thank you for lighting up the internet as you show how you live your faith.

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

Aw thank you so very much!

@dreaG45 2 года назад

Hello Chana! I was looking forward to your video today. ❤️❣️

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

Hello Andrea! Thanks so much for being here!

@sandraottway5618 2 года назад

Thank you Chana, i loved the q & a, and you answered both my questions. love to you all xx

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

Thanks for the questions Sandra!

@arleneg1271 2 года назад

I always find it interesting the questions you are asked for these Q and A's! I always learn something new. As for Harry Potter and really all fairy tales, a wise older lady told me that as long as good triumphs over evil, she feels those stories are okay and even teach a valuable lesson. With my last name being Grimm of course I am going to stand up for fairy tales.lol But I also agree with you that if you have a check in your spirit about some of the more modern and dark examples of magic, I would do just as you did Chana. We have to use our heads and our hearts.

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

Exactly! That mama guy instinct is for real!!! 💜

@karenhopper1691 2 года назад

Fascinating and interesting. You do a great job of answering your questions. I loved your answer about Harry Potter and the explanation about fantasy. I think it is important that our children know the difference and enjoy their imaginations. It can be a healthy way to expand their minds. My favorite books as a child were the "Wrinkle In Time" series. I would be curious to know if you have read them and think they are appropriate. Thank you for such an informative video! ❤

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

Hi Karen! So glad you enjoyed! Yes, I read A Wrinkle in Time but not since I was a kid, so I’d have to read it again before I could give you my opinion there :)

@meglangdon1944 2 года назад

Love the Q&A videos.It is so enjoyable and important to learn the basis of other people’s religion and culture.

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

Thank you so much Meg! And thanks for being here :)

@rosemaryracine5476 2 года назад

Good morning from Calgary, Alberta in Canada

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

Howdy!!! I feel like y’all would say howdy in Calgary :) Good morning!

@KerbyKast 2 года назад

Rosemary, just wanted to say hello to you as I too am from YYC! And I am a weirdo who reads comments. 😂

@heatherireland2810 2 года назад

And from Red Deer! Hello from the heart of Alberta, Canada🇨🇦🇨🇦

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

All my wonderful Canadian friends!!! 💜💜💜

@annemcclelland5036 2 года назад

Just love your Q&A’s. It is so interesting and one learns so much from you, just ❤️ your channel.

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

Thank you so very much Anne!!!

@andreaknibbs9328 2 года назад

I cackled at the modesty during childbirth reply - love your direct honest and sweet answers !

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

😂 Glad you got a kick out of that!

@rebeccanichol 2 года назад

What a brilliant video - so full of information! I'd love to meet Miriam as well and Deborah.

@KerbyKast 2 года назад

I have often wondered about the perspective of Moses’s mother and her bravery in keeping Moses alive for three months and setting him in a basket to try to save his life further. Also, Pharaoh’s daughter who’s heart was softened by this Israelite infant and eventually brought him up in Egypt.

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

Thank you! So glad you enjoyed! Oh yes Deborah was a brilliant one as well!

@kristinmiller4779 2 года назад

Good morning Chana I'm always excited to watch your DIL❤❤

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

Hope you enjoyed!

@cherylcalac8485 2 года назад

Love how you are so honest and to the point!

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

Thank you 😊

@laurag5583 2 года назад

Thank you! It was like visiting with a friend!

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

yay! Thanks for being here Laura!

@vergieclark131 2 года назад

Thank you so much for sharing I really enjoyed learning about your way of life ! 🥰💜

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

Thanks so much for watching 💜

@karenhill1739 2 года назад

What a very informative session, I loved it. You explain everything in a great way thank you.

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

You are so welcome! Thank you so much for being here!

@mariacawdron2488 2 года назад

I love your q&a videos, so informative, I've learned loads, thank you xx

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

Glad you like them! Thank you!

@janithgottfried8320 2 года назад

I am very curious as to what crafts you and your family do, I love your craft room! Thank you for sharing and enjoy!

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

I enjoy quilting, knitting, miniatures, and watercolors best :)

@sandykalmeyer9523 2 года назад

Another beautiful video and I learned so much again. It seems like there’s always something new to learn about Shabbat. Can you bathe or wash your face, brush your teeth? What about food items. Can you cut your meat? I love hearing about Shabbat. What a wonderful 24 hours.

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

Great questions! We can wash our faces, but not shower or bathe. No flossing our teeth. We can cut our meat :)

@leahwithheld783 2 года назад

You can’t remove your makeup but you can wash your face? Those are the same thing for me. How does that work?

@patriciagreene5842 2 года назад

We have germ over sharers here too, lol I look forward to your videos! Feel better soon!

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

Thank you! I think I’ve finally beaten the cold!!!

@marianglynn9479 2 года назад

Chana, once again , thank you for answering these questions, I am so enjoying following your life and learning about Judaism. Many Blessings on you and your family

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

Thank you so much Marian!

@carolyngross7664 2 года назад

we adopted a baby from south korea and what we did was meet with the Rabbi and we ended up having a naming cermony for her. We also are conservative/reform so our rules may differ from yours. As i mentioned on one of your past videos, she loved being the only south korean jew in her hebrew school classes. :)

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

How wonderful you were able to adopt!

@thecatlady6 2 года назад

Hey Chana! Love these Q & A vids! Leggings yes! Funny story - being in Florida when I started dressing modestly, I never thought to ask about what we would do in cold weather. My Dad became naftir in December many years ago. Our family cemetery is in NY. There was a huge blizzard predicted for that night (which, Baruch Hashem, never happened!) and the temps were well below freezing. I talked to my Rebbetzin about how to dress and she told me thermal shirt and pants under my clothes, leggings and, of course, boots. I still wear leggings under my skirts now. We do get cold here sometimes. Like last Shabbos and Sunday, when it in the 40s at night and only in the low 60s during the day. This Shabbos and Sunday, they're predicting the same, maybe even cooler. We will also some years get down to 15 or so for a week or two in January. 🥶 To the person who asked about the status of eggs - in addition to what Chana explained ... this rarely, if ever, happens nowadays but if you find an egg inside of a chicken (or other bird), it is considered meat and can't be eaten with dairy. And, yes, the real reason your husband came to America was to meet you. It, of course, wasn't yet time to meet you. The job opportunity was just Hashem providing a practical reason. Many times, our bashert (soulmate) is in another country, on the other side of the world and it seems like it would be impossible to meet. But, Hashem has His ways 😃! Take care and Shabbat Shalom!

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

Thanks for sharing your leggings story :) And the fun fact about the egg in the chicken! I didn’t know that and it’s fascinating!!!!!

@elizabethwittig5978 2 года назад

thanks for answering my question. im learning so much from you.

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

You are so very welcome!

@MsPossums 2 года назад

So interesting. I learn something every time I watch you 🙂

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

I’m so glad! Thank you! And thanks for being here :)

@AbrahamsBridges 2 года назад

Chana, you’re awesome! Love you! 😃

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

Thank you!

@vergieclark131 2 года назад

Hope you feel better ! 💜🙏🏼

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

Thank you! I do!

@maureenpenner4134 2 года назад

"If I could meet one person from Jewish history . . . who would it be?" I cannot possibly limit my choice to just one, so allow me my choice of three. Ruth (resourcefullness and loyalty), Esther (wisdom), and Solomon (again, wisdom). Can I add a fourth? David . . . a man after God's own heart; but whose life reflects our own in so many ways, . . . the good and the bad.

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

I know right? Like its so hard to decide! But I have always been partial to Miriam :)

@maureenpenner4134 2 года назад

Had we been blessed with a daughter, her a name would have been Miriam . . . such a lovely name, for all the right reasons! Take good care. May the Lord bless and keep you, and may He make His light to shine upon you, and your family.

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

@@maureenpenner4134 thank you my dear 💜💜💜

@ednahenrich3627 2 года назад

It always brightens my day to see you've uploaded a new video. You are so open to our questions, even those that seem very personal & almost prying. Glad you are all feeling better. I always feel so bad for moms of littles when they get I'll. No bed rest for moms. I have a question about a different area of life. I have a friend who also does extreme marathons. She and her husband do 55 and hundreds several times a year. They always sound like they have such a great time. What was your favorite extreme marathon and why?

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

Great question! I was going to stop taking questions but I’m adding this because it’s such a fun topic :) Thank you!

@paigebanks7552 2 года назад

Lol! "There's nothing modest about childbirth" and "it's all out there" . I literally snorted my drink when you said that. Amen sister. As an RN I can say that can't be more true!

@franditri7185 2 года назад

I am also a nurse, a woman looses all modesty when giving birth, in fact when she goes for her well woman check up she looses all modesty. I went to a group that was not associated with with the hospital I worked in.

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

LOL Sorry you lost a bit of your drink over that lol I am a doula so I have seen it from both sides and there just is a.) no modesty in childbirth and b.) we do not care LOL

@paigebanks7552 2 года назад

@@jaroffireflies It's funny, there's actually now a couple of male RN's on L&D and of course most women on their first or second delivery 's are like "um...no". But after that it's..."whatever, bring him on" . Almost without exception they find them so patient, kind and calm.

@saraboyd1892 2 года назад

You would be the most amazing doula. You are so compassionate and sweet. Never had a doula myself but you would be my choice.

@michellesunshinestar 2 года назад

I'm teaching myself ASL!! I know the alphabet. There are videos on RU-vid, and I bought a book from Amazon. I once ran into a def person at Target. I was able to sign what I wanted in the alphabet, and she found it for me!!

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

That’s awesome! Good luck!

@stackywood 2 года назад

I loooove your videos and look forward to when you post!

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

Thank you Staci! Thanks for being here!

@villemokellin 2 года назад

I learn so mutch form your videos, Love the Q and A :)

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

Thank you Laila!

@ameliahunt9609 2 года назад

When our local Kellogg factory switched from making nutragrain bars to pop tarts my Friendster (friend/sister) was the person in charge (at that factory) of making sure that all the allergens were listed on the packaging and getting the factory certified kosher. She told me all the steps that they had to go through including driving to the closest airport (3 hours one way) to pick up the person who was inspecting the facility to make sure they were doing it correctly (this was like 2005/2006 so the process maybe different now). I don’t if they are still kosher or not but I was surprised that only the unfrosted ones were kosher (at least at that time).

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

So cool! Thank you so much for sharing!

@daphnelandsborough3663 2 года назад

You do an amazing job with your eyebrows. I really hope one day you do adopt a foster child. My dad helped found a shelter in Arizona for abused children. God bless you for wanting to do that. I helped out there a lot and saw a lot of children just wanting a hug

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

Thank you Daphne! I really hope I can adopt as well :)

@elileit 2 года назад

Highly recommend Body Glide for chafing. I used to wear shorts until I tried it. Never went back.

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

I used to use that when I was a runner :) it’s great!

@laurenk88pa 2 года назад

Could you maybe do a video on Miriam? So I would love to learn more about her. You were sparkly when you talked about her!

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

Thank you so much for the video suggestion! Someone else asked for this also so maybe :)

@idmouse 2 года назад

Maybe some day we can show you around this area and Yellowstone. It would be so fun to get to know you. You have this... authentic isn't the right word because duh of course you are, this fun personality that kinda pulls you in. As I mentioned in a comment on your last video I have found this channel both very interesting and informative. Please keep it up. And let me know if Yellowstone is ever in the cards. My family would love to show the short ones the wonder of wonderland.

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

Thank you so much! You are so kind! If I ever get up your way I would love to take you up on your generous offer :) I would love to visit that part of the country again! I have yet to go to Yellowstone.

@idmouse 2 года назад

@@jaroffireflies #soon. It would be so fun. Between Yellowstone, craters of the Moon, and grand Teton so much fun and learning to be had.

@roseyc.5846 2 года назад

P.P.S. Sorry, Chana..last one! I love your "simple" self-care. Hair covered, usually not wearing makeup, jewelry, etc. That'd be me, too. You always look so fresh and pretty! Rosemarie 💖

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

Thank you so much Rosemarie!

@jennifer_u 2 года назад

Love your Q&As. Hope you’re feeling better!

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

Thank you! Yes I’m feeling much better today thank you :)

@roseyc.5846 2 года назад

This was super interesting, Chana! Of course, I enjoy all your videos, no matter what the topic or subject. Also, you have the most adorable laugh, and, you're very youthful and "cool" in your demeanor. Thank you for sharing; have a good Shabbat. 🙏💐 Rosemarie 💖

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

Thank you so much as always Rosemarie for your kind words:)

@judycarter7841 2 года назад

What is the reason you fast? Do you spend time in prayer most of the day? What would you pray? Already written prayers, specific needs or problems, forgiveness for sins?

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

Different fast days have different reasons. And some fast days we go about life fairly normally others are days spent learning or in prayer.

@karenherman8653 2 года назад

Love your way of answering questions and taking the time to do so. My son is type 1 diabetic and has spoken to our rabbi many times about fasting and our rabbi always has the same answer “ no” fasting. It’s just to risky so my son eats enough to keep his blood sugar in the safe zone. He is an adult so I don’t have to worry as much anymore.

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

Thanks Karen! Yes I assume the answer will be no for my son as well. He really wants to fast (at least at this point in his life) so we shall see.

@dkmizrah 2 года назад

Hi I was born and raised in Israel and I'm a English speaker , but my husband made Aliyah (At a late age 15). and truthfully there is a big adjustment to the culture and a language barrier. so if you want and/or need help I'm here if you want to talk. I know your husband is Israeli but it's a really big difference when you're coming back and when you're coming here the first time. I kind of know both sides of it and if not I can always ask the people that surround me who did the transition.

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

Thank you so much I really appreciate that

@dawnbaker9274 2 года назад

What a lot of super questions. Thanks for instructing.

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

My pleasure!

@billiebluesheepie2907 2 года назад

I fostered two teenage girls and a baby until her teens a few years ago and sort of keep in touch with them from time to time, all are now mums (one has three children, the other two both have a single son!) and all are doing great. Sadly I was never able to have my own children and I really valued the experiences they gave me, even the ones that were hard at the time! I think it’s made me a much better person. Billie.

@jaroffireflies 2 года назад

Thank you so much for sharing your experience Billie 💜 You sound like a wonderful person!