Our Pregnancy Story and Loss... 

Hey guys, For anyone wondering, we weren’t necessarily trying to get pregnant. The beginning of the video was simply us sharing when I thought I might be and ended up with a negative test result. Much of my emotion in those clips came from a place of fear, as I’m sure many women can relate to. We were not trying to force anything, this is simply our journey. Thank you all for your kind words and support. We love you all so much ❤️

I’m so sorry 💔 Destiny, you are one of the strongest woman I know. You’re going to be the greatest mom one day!

7 years ‘ with my fiancé been trying for 2 years have had 3 miscarriages no living babies . Praying for you all & everyone trying to conceive and deliver a healthy baby ❤️

THIS is why I don’t like people asking couples when are they going to have a baby.. u never know what they are struggling with! You guys are going to be great parents one day 💓 we struggled too, but now finally have our baby girl. Trust your time will come! 🙏🏼 Sending you love!

THIS is why people shouldn't comment anything about "when's the baby coming?" you never know what's going on behind closed doors 💗 LOVE YOU GUYS! 💗

Isaiah 60:22 - "When the time is right, I, the Lord, will make it happen." Praying for both of you!

I tried to get pregnant for years ! 7 years to be exact and now 7 years later I have my two healthy baby boys ! It's all in God's timing 🙏

Who’s here after they just announced they were pregnant, I’m so happy for you guys wishing nothing but the best & blessings for your little family 💕💕💕

She’s so fucken strong her “it’s okay” when it kept saying she wasn’t pregnant omg my heart 🥺

This is why it’s so important to not ask a woman if she is pregnant, you truly do not know what someone is going through behind closed doors. Not our body not our business period!

I was 7 weeks pregnant and just yesterday I learned I lost my baby it’s a hard thing to cope but watching this made me feel a bit better then I did yesterday

I went through this, did not heal and got pregnant like 8 months later, I love my baby but I live paranoid and did not enjoy my pregnancy. Don’t make the same mistake as me, always enjoy every step. Many blessings and love you guysss 💞💞

Please marry this girl. She's an amazing person. Blessing to the couple.

We are so so sorry you guys are going through this. You are both unbelievably strong & will be the most AMAZING parents. Sending our prayers to both of you during this heartbreaking time❤️ Love, Tricia & Kam

I love the fact that she acknowledged that he was hurting just as much!!

God’s plan. Trust his timing. He doesn’t give us what we can’t handle. ❤️

When she left the message for the baby 🥺 I’m so sorry.

People need to honestly learn from this and just understand that asking someone whether they're pregnant is just off limits. Let people tell you in their own time

This was so emotional. I cried with you. Love the positivity. Sending hugs.

please know that it isn’t your fault and it happens very often, it doesn’t mean there is anything wrong with your body. you will be an amazing mother one day 🤍

Having a miscarriage is the worst, you get so excited, tell your family and spouse, you plan a whole future then within seconds the baby’s gone... 🥺💔

Y’all when Julius opened the last gift and instantly got emotional and said shut up I started crying and cried the rest of the video 🥺 I wanna hug both of them

It’s all about timing. Time heals. Time reveals. When God is ready he will bless the both of you when he is ready.❤️

I’m so sorry for your loss. Gods timing is everything. Don’t lose faith!

When I first got pregnant I had a miscarriage 4 weeks later...2 months later I found out I was pregnant & now he is 2 years old. You will have your blessing, keep your head up and be positive. ly🤍

When she said “even though we wanted to be it’s protector he wanted to be ours” when she said that I started crying because there is so much in those words. You guys will get through this and just think that the baby will look after you guys and it is a beautiful angle. My prayers to you guys. I look up to you guys for going through this and still have your head up and being strong.

This was so hard to watch without crying you guys will be blessed one day with the most perfect baby ever and i can’t wait for that day to come. You are strong des !

Thank you for sharing this. I went through all these same emotions beginning to end. You made me feel less alone and normal. A lot of my friends got pregnant with their first child while I was losing mine and I felt so alone. The stages of grief hit in all ways for me and I want to thank you again for sharing this video 💕 you two are so cute together by the way :)

Sending you prayers through this difficult time. 🙏🏻 Losing a baby is no doubt one of the hardest & traumatic thing to go through, I’m so sorry this happened. It’s not fair. You will be amazing parents soon ✨

Who’s cutting onions .. this is so sad .. there’s woman who would love to have babies yet there’s woman who have and hurt them .. I wish you nothing but the best .. god is going to bless you ..

Im literally crying like yoooo im finna pray everyday for you i promise des youre gonna get the best baby boy or girl dont worry everything is gonna be alright

Flip I cried instantly when Julius opened the last box and said “ shut up, are you being serious” 🥺😭💔

i don’t know why everytime you cried, i cried with you. you’re so strong des.

It's crazy that I got pregnant accidentally, and didn't want to but people who do want it struggle so UNFAIR.

I cried with you even when you took the first pregnancy test just out of curiosity 😭😭 Praying God gives y’all all the comfort y’all need 🤍

I’m barely catching up! Have been so busy with work but omg... I’m sorry for your loss! Destiny, you’re so strong and you had me crying all along with you. From that first negative, I know the feeling of not trying but still being excited for the what if. You are so strong for sharing this with us! We love you!!! ❤️❤️

There is so much pressure placed on us as women to get pregnant and it is very stressful sometimes. Praying for you guys and anyone who is unable to conceive!💕

It literally shattered my heart seeing destiny so disappointed and hurt from not being pregnant . We love you beautiful girl . You are going to make an absolute amazing mother one day , I promise you 😞💔

This just breaks my heart 💔 you’re going to be such a great mommy when it’s time! Praying and sending tons of love and hugs your way ♥️❤️

I'm so sorry to hear, sending love and prayers. last year in February, February 29th 2020 to be exact I lost a baby as well it was one of the most painful experiences I've ever had in my life. thankfully God blessed me with a pregnancy just a few months later and my baby was just born in December although he was early and had to spend some time in the NICU I am so thankful for my sweet little blessing. I know that if you have faith in the Lord he will bring you the same blessing. sending you guys lots of love

I can’t imagine how many couples struggle in silence to have a baby, while people are constantly asking when they plan on having kids... I don’t even have a boyfriend and that is one of my worst fears🥺🥺

DESTINY. Darling, you didn’t lose your blessed baby, He/She is just not ready to be born! Wasn’t GODS time, plan for you in THIS season!!! But you WILL claim your blessings in DUE TIME TURN TO HIM.

You made me cry, laugh, and smile to the biggest of smiles throughout this entire video. I love you mamas and you and Julius will be the greatest of parents to come. I'm here with you and your. RU-vid family is here with you along with God, and your angel baby. We love you forever and more

I’m watching this it really made me cry I went through a miscarriage 3 years ago and yesterday made 3 years since I lost my first child it’s still hurts I haven’t felt the same since that day :(

This breaks my heart. She’s such a sweet person seeing her smile go away is so sad.

When her face did the pout in the first reveal my heart felt for her

I cried this whole video I myself have had a miscarriage so I know how you feel but I was blessed with two beautiful kids after that. God will bless you guys with a baby when it’s your turn. I prayed for both of and I know it will happen when God says it’s your time. God bless you both❤️❤️

I’m so sorry for your loss. We’re going through fertility treatments and I can’t imagine your pain. Sending you love.

I had a miscarriage Sept 24, 2018 I will never forget that day 3 months later I got pregnant with my rainbow 🌈 baby she is now a happy and healthy 18 month old. Just remember there is always a rainbow after a storm sending you guys prayers

U will get thru it hun. My aunt had 3 miscarriages before she had her daughter. There is not timing like God's timing. So keep the faith and it will happen when it's supposed to...

Coming from your TikTok announcement and I’m so happy for you guys😭. My boyfriend and I just lost ours at 7 weeks in January and it was the worst pain ever, especially during covid having to get that news in the doctors office myself. Something unexpected, but so exciting ripped away too soon.Can’t wait for our time and I’m so happy y’all got yours 💕. Like you said though, we will never forget the first! Wishing you a happy and healthy pregnancy 😘👶🏽

I had a miscarriage about 5 years ago and it was literally the hardest thing a women can go thru. Please know that you are not alone and God has a plan for all of us! Today I am a stepmom of three beautiful kids that I love like my own! Trust in God girl and he will continue to bless you! Much love and respect 💕💕

Omg so sad when she spoke about telling the baby how much she loves him/her years later 😔😭😭😢 I’m so sorry guys

I had a miscarriage on the 21st October.. reading the title and then the date popping up.. my heart shattered.. 💔 we are in this together, the universe has your back.. our back. promise💙🪐

I am so sorry for your loss. I just came across your page today & im so glad I am! It wasn’t this video that popped up, it was your newest one “we’re pregnant”💛💛💛 I’m so happy & excited for your rainbow beautiful baby to come!! I’ve definitely subscribed & so excited for your newest journey!!💛 I’m 8 weeks now & I’m so excited to see everything unfold as beautifully as you deserve for you guys! Can’t wait to get to know you both more through your videos!💛

I'm so sorry for your loss. I came across your video & it touched me. I loss my Dad to cancer 7 years ago on my Birthday. Till today, i never understood why on my birthday. When you said it's a connection you will always have, it made sense.. I finally have realized losing my Dad on my Birthday is a special connection I'll always have with him...

So sorry this happened, sending you so much love 🤍🙏🏾

Rest In Heaven to all the babies that died Prayers to everyone who is pregnant and I’m praying y’all have a safe delivery 🤍🙏

This is heartbreaking. They deserve it more than anything! They would be amazing parents

they are gunna be the best parents ever.... they are just so humble

I swear Juju and Des are probably one of the most humble most genuine RU-vidrs I have ever encountered. My thoughts and prayers go out to them and their family. My wife had 3 miscarriages as well and it’s tough, but we pulled through it and I know that they will too. We love you guys and thanks for all that you do!

Destiny I think I can speak for everyone when I say this: thank you for allowing us to see this side of you. For you to be comfortable enough with us to be vulnerable is just amazing. You are strong and worthy of so much! 🥺🥺

She's the only person I know who still looks so beautiful when they cry😭❤️

When Julius started crying after opening omg I lost it I’m so sorry you guys 🥺

It hit hard when she talked to the baby in the future

Please don’t give up! I have had 2 miscarriages and now have 2 beautiful children. Don’t give up. It’s very natural and not your fault. It hurts so bad. I know. But as you said, nothing is wrong with you.

i cant imagine how you two may feel. I pray tat yall find light in such a dark moment. God has a plan and you have to let him guide you through it. Like you said you two will get through it. You guys have blessings coming. Stay strong you two.

So glad you guys have each other. I cannot imagine your heartache. I will hope and pray that one day you’ll have a little bundle of joy. ❤️

the way des looks at juju like she finds so much comfort in him, sending yall my love ❤️

“For I know the plans I have for you”, declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. “Then you will call on me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you. You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart”. - Jeremiah 29:11-13 God can restore what is broken and change it into something amazing. All you need is faith. - Joel 2:25 Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. Not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your hearts be troubled, neither let them be afraid. (John 14:27, ESV) Don’t worry, God still has an amazing ending for you guys. He’ll restore everything you guys lost with even better. As you get through each and every single day, Jesus will give you peace and strength to get through each day. All you need is faith, and to fully give your life to Him.✝️❤️

I'm praying for you all. I found out I was pregnant 11/4 and lost my baby the week before Christmas. I was still reading 6w3d and I should've been well over two months. It's extremely hard. I'm 30 and this was my first pregnancy. I know the struggle so just stay hopeful. You all will have a beautiful baby when the time is right 🥰

I just started watching you guys. Came across this video and it literally made me cry. I lost my baby October 31, 2020 at 14 weeks. It was the hardest experience of my life. I am still not completely okay and I look at other women that were pregnant at the same time as me having their babies and it hurts even worse. Not that I'm not happy for them but I dont understand why my baby was taken from me. I also see all these horrible people that end up with kids and I don't get how someone so terrible gets to have a baby but mine got taken away. I'm slowly becoming okay. It's all a matter of time and im working through it. Stay strong . You guys have tons of blessings coming your way ❤

My sister had a miscarriage twice. Her & my Brother in Law never lost hope, prayed, and kept trying. 6 months ago she gave birth to my baby nephew ezra 🥺 You guys will get through this and i believe you will be blessed with a child when the time is right 🥰 Gods timing is never wrong. I’m sending all my love & prayers your way, continue to grow strong for your future children 🤍🤍

I cried as soon as they both started to cry when Juju found out she was pregnant 😩 thank you so much for sharing this journey with us.

Strongest ppl are ironically the most emotional. I love u des

It hit hard when she talked to the baby in the future💔, sendig my love and support from jamaica,You’re going to be the greatest mom one day!

for everybody saying they’ll just have another one when it’s the right time doesn’t mean they’ll forget about this. i had a baby after i miscarried & i still think about it. the pain truly never goes away

When Des took the test and it said pregnant and she grabbed her belly. Ugh I felt that pure joy. ❤️ hang in there you guys. Your time will come. I can feel it!

Me and my boyfriend have been watching y’all since we started dating and we couldn’t even finish the video without both of us busting into tears holding each other and trying to lift each other back up, we’ve had two miscarriages back to back and it has shattered us beyond repaired. I’ll be praying for y’all , it’s never easy but just know y’all have an angel up in the heavens 💔💜

so many of us women need to see this. another strong woman pushing through hardships, no matter the circumstance. healing is a process that takes time and especially during these times.. it’s so inspiring to see us as women dealing with the emotional anxiety and pushing through; us women need more of this🦋❤️✨

She just found out she’s pregnant and I’m already cryinggggggg. I’m sorry des. 🥺 I know how you feel! After having multiple miscarriages. Not 1 but 2, 3rds luck a charm because now my son is about to be 2. I know it feels like it won’t happen. But it will! ❤️

For ppl to actually hit the thumbs down button. Yall need God in ur life!

I am sooo sorry for your loss... I cried when I seen this video... I too lost a baby... I have 2 boys 29 & 16... And got pregnant with my third baby... Was hoping for my little girl & was due on Christmas Eve of 2017... A month later is when I lost my baby... It was really emotional for me when I lost my baby...😢 Haven't tried anymore...You will get pregnant someday & will be great parents... God Bless you guys...

Des baby, I’m so glad you guys made this video. When y’all were explaining y’all’s story, I was like woah this is the exact same thing that happened to me. Exact same timing (literally these past few months), just exact. I lost my baby at 7 weeks, my husband and I found out the week of Christmas. I had to go to the hospital myself. It was traumatizing. You are such a strong beautiful women. We will have our rainbow baby soon! Love y’all!

I like that there is more awareness of how difficult pregnancy is for women in so many ways and how important it is to have a good man support you through it.

I cried every time she cried cause I could see in her eyes the hope and everything, I am very emotional as well so I am still crying typing this. I'm so sorry to hear that but have faith and Destiny you are one amazing and strongest woman I know, take your time to heal mamas. Juju is one amazing and strong partner as well, I love you guys, take your time to heal.

💙1 year later you're BLESSED with the birth of your son.🙌🏽CONGRATULATIONS DESTINY & JULIUS YOUR NEW BABY BOY IS SO PRECIOUSLY BEAUTIFUL!💙 💙🤎GOD BLESS BABY BROWN🤎💙

People with the best spirits, best hearts go through so much 💔 but in the end you come out so much stronger. I love that Des positive attitude hasn’t changed. People like her are such lights in this cruel, and dark world. I’m just glad that she has a platform to spread her positive spirit.

Miss carriages are truly heartbreaking... I’m super against “prank pregnancies” like you literally just never know what can happened

I seriously don’t understand how someone can dislike this video. Having a miscarriage is the most heartbroken 💔 thing that a women can go through. A child is a blessing. And I am so sorry that you both went through this. Things will get better. When the day happens, you both will be an amazing mom and dad. God bless you both. #Juju&Des4Life

God bless you--- Anyone who has lost a baby truly understands. I lost mine in 1975-- I was 5 months along. You have many, many people who care about you to share your pain. And, you are helping others bear their own pain. Thank you for sharing. Heal as you can, and let yourselves still be open to joy--- it will come. Love to you both.

You’re both so strong! May God bless y’all with a baby soon!!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

She was so happy to be pregnant. When it’s the right time you’ll have a kid. Des is such a beautiful person inside and out💛 I can’t wait until the day they have a beautiful healthy together . I’m so sorry for your loss

I got pregnant 4 months after my miscarriage. It will happen. U guys are so sweet and will be the cutest mama an daddy.

My heart breaks for you. But know that you will have a beautiful baby in the future when it’s meant to be. I went through the same thing and after trying and losing the baby it is devastating but having a great support system and love around you is beyond meaningful. Grow and thrive as a team and build that love every day. You are so strong. So proud of you ♥️

You’re so strong Destiny! The both of you together!! I’m so sorry for your loss 🥺 praying for so much healing, just know you two are going to be blessed one day all in his timing 🙏🏽✨💖

we appreciate you guys opening up about this ❤️

I went thru a miscarriage in 2017. I went thru it alone while also being In a family homeless shelter at the time with my two babies. It was so hard but I made it thru & today a few years later I'm pregnant again & i'm almost 27 wks along & doing well! Keep ur head up god has a plan even if we don't see it.

I know that feeling I also found out I was pregnant on December and at 7 weeks I also had a miscarriage to my first baby it was devastating because I was excited about it but when I lost it like I can’t even explain. It still hurts but I’m trying to get through it because I’m pregnant again and I’m praying it doesn’t happened again I also pray you guys will have a second chance may god bless you guys ❤️

#1in4 we are 1 out of 4 women who have been through pregnancy or infant loss! I am so glad to see that people with a platform as large as this are speaking out about it. I’m so sorry that you’re experiencing this type of pain. I don’t wish it on anyone. I’m hopeful that you and I will get our rainbow 🌈 after the storm ⛈.