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Overcoming Vaginismus & Choosing Faith Over Religion With Tito The Writer 

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They say the third time is the charm but the fifth episode of Tea With Tay featuring author and Jesus' brand influencer, Titoluwa Sam-Oladapo aka Tito the Writer packs an unexpected punch as it shatters many tables that Christians and several churchgoers lay on.
An Ibadan-born and bred Christian, Tito had lived all her life as a devout churchgoer and minister in the church but didn't cultivate a relationship with God till 2021 after battling and overcoming Vaginismus. Tito not only opens up on dealing with that condition, but shares the trauma that led to it-- 3 series of sexual assault at age 6, 13 and 15. We also get a robust and demystifying definition that shows the difference between religion and faith, with Tito taking a stance for faith-led Christianity and the need for Christians to allot themselves and others grace instead of condemnation. Equally importantly, Tito attempts to shatter the stigma around vaginismus which while being a prevalent condition remains underdiagnosed by sharing her experience of living with and overcoming it.
Buckle up and sit tight for a whirlwind ride that touches richly on the core of Christianity; faith versus the art of it-- religion and while shattering sexual stigma in the gospel and the society.
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Комментарии : 201   
@favourmuodebelu3959
@favourmuodebelu3959 Год назад
Tay, you should totally invite her a second time. This was a beautiful session!
@blueprintoriginal6389
@blueprintoriginal6389 Год назад
👌 This is premium content!!!
@usonwaagbo6331
@usonwaagbo6331 Год назад
I laughed, i screamed, i learnt a lot, i even carried Bible. This is beautiful, i totally enjoyed myself.
@kekennysaint
@kekennysaint Год назад
Say it again pleaaaaase!! Same for me.
@EniolaDivine
@EniolaDivine Год назад
I love Tito so much! Discovered her last month and omo she's on fire for God
@Blessing_ayiri
@Blessing_ayiri 10 месяцев назад
She’s so wonderful
@gbongwom
@gbongwom Год назад
What a show 😂😂😂😂 it had everything emotion, jokes, lessons, spirituality. Well done Tay
@munwaakin-britto4974
@munwaakin-britto4974 Год назад
This podcast is a reminder to ALWAYS be kind... people have stories, they live with those stories and then they heal and become intentional to live new and wholesome lives!!!
@agunyegojoy8017
@agunyegojoy8017 Год назад
God doesn't trash your past.. He recycles it so that u can know that he is a transformer.. (This word from Tito sank in me so deep). ❤❤❤
@Cherub123
@Cherub123 Год назад
I have been crying since 😢😢😢 how come no one ever told us this. Nobody to talk to. From abomination to duty
@eli-stringz8656
@eli-stringz8656 8 месяцев назад
THIS IS THE REALEST AND BEST PODCAST INTERVIEW I'VE SEEN. It's relatable because i'm also going through the phase of coming out of religion into knowing God for myself. Thank you for being so honest to share very sensitive past, this was so helpful. I will sure watch it again.
@Nisile_116
@Nisile_116 Год назад
Hello Tay- a Zambian fan here but currently in China. I really really enjoyed this conversation thank you for bringing Tito here, saw her first from Aproko Dr. A kind request Tay, if possible, would you be on the other side of the chair and tell us about your burn out and if at all you had a fall out from Faith? I think you were sort of communicating something too 😅but didn’t want to interrupt your guest. Much Love ♥️
@MoviewithMusic
@MoviewithMusic 10 месяцев назад
One can tell Tay really enjoyed conversation... because the laughter was😊
@Nickyjey11
@Nickyjey11 Год назад
This particular episode is an embodiment of mixed feelings, you will feel it all but most importantly you will learn! I love love it so much the honesty, all of it ❤
@bygodgrace3412
@bygodgrace3412 8 месяцев назад
I laughed so much on this episode 🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭 I love everything about this episode because it just showed me some parts of my story and my faith too. Let’s stoooppp the hypocrisyyyy ohhh 🙌🏾 all the things we have condemned others we have allll done it. Can totally relate to the story about condemning people cohabiting outside marriage then ending doing the same too! God has a way to humble us. Everything you say you will not do hmmm be careful ohhh only grace of God can help us because the things we say we won’t do hmmm if it’s not God we will do it ( and I did) thank God for grace 🙌🏾
@taiwo_king
@taiwo_king Год назад
When I saw the duration of this podcast I was like “no I can't watch it, It's very long “ I was amazed that I watched it to the end and I wanted more. Thank you very much, I learned a lot. I'm so enlightened and blessed
@LifeAsWeSeeItPodcast
@LifeAsWeSeeItPodcast Год назад
Listened to the podcast and had to come on here to see Tito. Such an impressive young lady with a very powerful testimony. Appreciate the vulnerability and openness. Welldone! 👍
@Theonlinebillionaire22
@Theonlinebillionaire22 Год назад
This is what you call TEA! Nahh this was toooo good!
@nwabunomarble1905
@nwabunomarble1905 Год назад
The beautiful thing about this podcast is that I laughed sooo hard. It kept me company while I was working thank you Tito for making Jesus known and for bringing me back to tea with tay
@Bethel_Tamilore
@Bethel_Tamilore Год назад
This was so beautiful to watch. Thank you, Taymesan for bringing Tito ❤️
@ezinneezinne7264
@ezinneezinne7264 2 месяца назад
Seeing Tito alone made me to click on this channel and looo you've just gained a new subscriber 😊😊😊,
@godsent113
@godsent113 Год назад
I was checking RU-vid every 5 mins. I watched this with my whole heart and as soon as Tito signed out at the end, I started watching from the beginning again. This was so edifying ❤
@heyOmotayo
@heyOmotayo Год назад
I feel like watching it all over again as well! A really great episode
@a.o.stokeman5458
@a.o.stokeman5458 Год назад
What?! Titooo... What did I just listen to on Spotify ? You are just something else. Thank you. 🙏
@DavidEdet-bf2ds
@DavidEdet-bf2ds 3 месяца назад
There's a lot to learn, God doesn't trash Ur past this podcast was amazing and educative there are a lot of things to be talked about so our society can be free from seeing things as abomination
@meekness3385
@meekness3385 Год назад
So sorry that you had to go through that 🥺🥺
@busolaak
@busolaak 11 месяцев назад
Aww I remember Tito in salt&light camp and UI. That camp was where God anchored my faith. Thanks for sharing your amazing story ❤
@treasurevlog__
@treasurevlog__ Год назад
Titoluwa Sam Oladapo my all time fave❤❤❤Thank you Taymesan for inviting her🙌I have read her book and it is mindblowing❤
@itsteshi119
@itsteshi119 Год назад
This was so insightful to watch, didn’t notice an hour had gone by, invite her again please.
@toluwalopejoshua1823
@toluwalopejoshua1823 Год назад
Tay and Tito 😢 this is my third time listening to this podcast today... thank you for this explosive session, quite revealing 😢 thank you Tito for those salient points, Thank you 😢 I don't know how am feeling tonight o 😢
@vanessanneoma5163
@vanessanneoma5163 Год назад
I love this podcast tooooo much😍😍😍this episode is wayyyyy too funny😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@mideblack430
@mideblack430 Год назад
I love tito sooo much. . She make you see Christianity at its simplest
@damilolaadeosun7403
@damilolaadeosun7403 Год назад
7 minutes into this podcast and I’m getting emotional .. reminds me a lot about my childhood
@constance_cee
@constance_cee Год назад
This is amazingggggg!!!, I would watch a part 2 if there will be one. This is actually my first time watching a podcast, I was never a podcast fan but this right here is amazingggg. Thank you ma'am Tito & Mr Tay❤❤❤
@pre_dplug709
@pre_dplug709 9 месяцев назад
Love her authenticity and vulnerability on the podcast
@damariskaka808
@damariskaka808 Год назад
I love her sincerity ❤
@heyOmotayo
@heyOmotayo Год назад
Naa you rushed the second half we need the complete unedited version! Release part 2/ Directors cut/ behind the scenes/ whatever you want to call it ooo 😂👏🏽
@deescorner3087
@deescorner3087 Год назад
This has to be one of the best podcast episodes ever!!!!!!! I was glued for over 2 hours just listening to the audio, and I'm back here watching the 1 hour video
@nanabezzy
@nanabezzy Год назад
I've watched this twice in one sitting. God bless you Tito and Tay
@DavidEdet-bf2ds
@DavidEdet-bf2ds 3 месяца назад
Best podcast I've ever watched ❤❤ God bless you Ma
@ucheellen4415
@ucheellen4415 Год назад
I love her transparency, oh my goodness . This is an episode
@peaceimafidon4629
@peaceimafidon4629 Год назад
I Feel so sad that these perpetrators were not brought to book
@olajideogunshola7657
@olajideogunshola7657 11 месяцев назад
This is beautiful to watch, so insightful and a lot of people can learn from this, thank God she didn't hold back
@SunFlower-jv1kw
@SunFlower-jv1kw Год назад
I love Tito so much😭❤️
@oluwatimilehinduro-adisa5775
Immediately i saw it's Tito, i immediately liked the video because i know it's going to be value packed and interesting
@allygianna6634
@allygianna6634 Год назад
Guyyyy I didn't want this podcast to finish 😂😂❤❤❤ I so love tito
@graceibukun4804
@graceibukun4804 7 месяцев назад
This Podcast ehn, I laughed so hard. This interview was loaded, funny, real, and liberating all at once. God bless you both.
@Korede12344
@Korede12344 9 месяцев назад
Such a lovely episode..... Shes so real❤❤❤❤
@Jhays_OOTD
@Jhays_OOTD 7 месяцев назад
This has to be my favorite episode so far ❤
@tovkeljames9430
@tovkeljames9430 Год назад
I love this honesty. We need more honest conversations like these
@olawunmitemitope-yp1bg
@olawunmitemitope-yp1bg 11 месяцев назад
this episode just gave me freedom from religion... now i understand better. Thank you!!
@nathandzyenom6481
@nathandzyenom6481 Год назад
Verily I say unto y’all, this right here is the most energetic episode of TWT ever. Tito just got herself a fan.❤️❤️💪
@praisetar
@praisetar 11 месяцев назад
This was hilarious yet packed with truth 😂😂😂❤❤❤ totally love itttt
@VictorKei12
@VictorKei12 11 месяцев назад
This is so knowledge filled My best Soo far❤❤❤. Best podcast on RU-vid !!!
@chinazomj.o.1973
@chinazomj.o.1973 Год назад
This is the best episode of all podcasts I’ve ever played. Because I can relate to 95% of this stories! 59:12
@aremuabdulgafar4606
@aremuabdulgafar4606 11 месяцев назад
So you have been raped 😒😞??
@ucheellen4415
@ucheellen4415 Год назад
This was a beautiful session. So sorry she had to go through all that growing up🤗🤗. Thank God for your healing🙏🏼
@ayodimejisobowale1728
@ayodimejisobowale1728 10 месяцев назад
The journey wasn't easy for her but God has always had her back…Tito you're Beautiful
@queenscreamy4330
@queenscreamy4330 Год назад
I love love this podcast. I love and admire Tito so much after I had followed her from TikTok. Such a wonderful and strong woman. Thank you Tamesan for bringing her here. I want another one oo😊
@tosinaina5274
@tosinaina5274 10 месяцев назад
Taymesan knows how to ask the right questions
@abundanceozoemena812
@abundanceozoemena812 Год назад
Too good show, entertaining and educative...we de learn for here ❤❤❤😂
@theestherakintayo
@theestherakintayo 8 месяцев назад
I loveee this, Taymesan did so grear
@akanniracheal2402
@akanniracheal2402 Год назад
I didn't know that I needed this podcast 😢❤my love for this woman of God ❤
@oluwa.darasimii
@oluwa.darasimii Год назад
Totally enjoyed this video I personally think it’s my favorite episode
@gistwithann588
@gistwithann588 Год назад
I really commend her openness 🫡
@janetstudio1
@janetstudio1 Год назад
Thank you for this episode, she was just telling my story.
@aanudeborah5118
@aanudeborah5118 Год назад
Thank you so much Tito my story is similar to yours and I thank God for how He pull me through
@Thejoyella
@Thejoyella Год назад
I loved this one a little toooo much, just wow!
@ebunoluwapelumi
@ebunoluwapelumi Год назад
I enjoyed every bit of this episode. Thank you Tito ❤
@Marycynthia_Adannaya
@Marycynthia_Adannaya Год назад
Taymesan God bless you thank you for bringing her on this show❤❤
@FONhablaespanol
@FONhablaespanol 11 месяцев назад
Enjoyed this podcast and learnt alot too. Hopefully I get to be on your podcast one day.
@favournwaobilor6142
@favournwaobilor6142 Год назад
Someone finally brought Tito on an interview thank God🙏😍
@kemialagbo379
@kemialagbo379 Год назад
Thank you Tito for shedding light on so many things. you don't how much this has helped me. I love you Tito❤
@ajokeologe
@ajokeologe Год назад
Omo!!!😂😂😂 this podcast ehn👏🏽 it’s funny yet I learnt a great deal🤭❤️
@kattypretty6172
@kattypretty6172 Год назад
Wow,this is so fun and educative thank you tay and Tito,following you on Instagram immediately
@thegloriaoboh
@thegloriaoboh Год назад
Deacon and Deaconess una wan kill me with laughter… I really enjoyed this episode 😂😂
@momentwithshabbydolls
@momentwithshabbydolls Год назад
I'm seeing this podcast for the second time cos I'm in love😍
@margaretajayi4489
@margaretajayi4489 Год назад
Its Temisan's laugh for me😂😂😂😂😂. Each time he laughs ehhh he makes it more funny😅
@josedayna4792
@josedayna4792 Год назад
Wow , I wish I have a Broadway with these two , they are fun and real
@momentwithshabbydolls
@momentwithshabbydolls Год назад
I learnt, laughed, screamed and enjoyed this video so much. God bless you Tay and Tito❤
@happyokeibunor3167
@happyokeibunor3167 Год назад
Lol, this was worth watching every second of it! Wanted to skip but I felt the whole vibe of Tito , learnt a lot too, Good job! Tay and Tito🤗 , expected a link to the book ‘ pop my cherry now ‘ thou!
@Meetsandraa
@Meetsandraa 11 месяцев назад
On her Instagram page it’s there
@boluspace
@boluspace Год назад
This episode is 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
@_theallpurposewoman_
@_theallpurposewoman_ Год назад
I can so relate to Tito's story. 🤣Oh the reckless love of God
@anyanwuoluseyi7389
@anyanwuoluseyi7389 Год назад
Definitely one of my best episodes, I learnt a lot and shared with people I felt needed this message. But one thing I’m confused about is why the episode is 2hrs on Spotify and 1hour on RU-vid.
@mimisibz1278
@mimisibz1278 Год назад
Victims of sexual abuse are more prone to vaginismus. I think that incident in her childhood more than religion played a larger role. I know someone from a very secular and liberal background who dealt with this. Her mum had her see psychologists and it helped.
@emetdara2999
@emetdara2999 Год назад
While it is true that victims of sexual abuse can be prone to vaginismus, I believe there are more victims of sexual abuse that end up as sex addicts and some even become abusers themselves. So it is not only one way or the other. Her comment about religion is the fear factor that can have a severe psychological impact on people.
@mimisibz1278
@mimisibz1278 Год назад
@@emetdara2999 Please take the time to read my comment as what you wrote is the same as what I wrote in this comment and my other comment on this video. Furthermore, the friend I mentioned was not a victim of sexual abuse and grew up in a very liberal family so it was not religiosity or sexual abuse that was the cause. My comment never implied there was only one cause and the example I mentioned of my friend proves this.
@jodiesamie
@jodiesamie 7 месяцев назад
Not true
@ajayiemmanuel7456
@ajayiemmanuel7456 Год назад
Really love this episode ♥
@tekevweadugbo7813
@tekevweadugbo7813 10 месяцев назад
I totally loved this… and Tay lovessssss gist kai 😂😂😂😂
@akaasamuel4851
@akaasamuel4851 7 месяцев назад
Knew her back then when she was serving in Benin City
@ibukunoluwaoguntade
@ibukunoluwaoguntade Год назад
So much to learn. The longest podcast so far❤
@bygodgrace3412
@bygodgrace3412 8 месяцев назад
Nooo this episode is as loadedds ohhhh 😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️
@worlanyo
@worlanyo Год назад
I enjoyed watching this!!!!
@Juaneetahh
@Juaneetahh Год назад
The most inspirational I’ve had to watch. Thank you
@sundaystella8023
@sundaystella8023 Год назад
I haven’t laughed this hard in a while 😂😂😂This was so fun and educative
@deeperwithDee
@deeperwithDee Год назад
Ohhh my God!!!!! Thank you guys for being so reallllll
@temitope4932
@temitope4932 Год назад
The longest episode after Denrele’s episode ❤❤
@deborahjames-nw6xg
@deborahjames-nw6xg 11 месяцев назад
Deaconess nawa ooo, these guys nearly finished me with laughter 😅😅😂
@oluwaferanmhi
@oluwaferanmhi Год назад
Such an amazing message it ministered to my spirit
@deborah2094
@deborah2094 11 месяцев назад
This was insightful Tito! Thank you Tay for bringing her. I have a question; Didn't she say she was raped at ages 6 and 13, then how come she said she was a virgin when she got married who then suffered vaginismus as a result? Just a thought.
@preciouspeters4039
@preciouspeters4039 Год назад
This is the best episode so far
@amakachukwu9113
@amakachukwu9113 Год назад
Tay, I thought we are in this together. Which is giving you tea behind the scene? Haba! This is not god's plan for us. It is really something how Tay manages to create a conducive space for all types of conversations and gives the the perfect support however they want to share their story. I love how you two made a hard experience and conversation so easy amidst laughter. Thank You Tito the Fine girl for sharing, for your knowledge, bravery, healing and help. I am so happy for you that you can share this the way that you do.
@Taymesan_
@Taymesan_ Год назад
Thank you ❤❤❤
@maybellsaliu690
@maybellsaliu690 Год назад
PREACH. I love this particular Podcast!!!
@Bread_Wine-Omotola
@Bread_Wine-Omotola Год назад
I love you vulnerability ma...so much ❤️
@samueldemide7205
@samueldemide7205 Год назад
I live this episode. I really really love this episode. Thank you guys
@keziahjones7633
@keziahjones7633 Год назад
Best podcast i have watched so far!i love her❤️thank you tay for bringing her🥰❤️👏
@just_ameenat
@just_ameenat Год назад
Thank you Tey for this episode. An eye-opener, educative, spirit-filled, enlightening and inspiring ❤
@ayotemi9162
@ayotemi9162 Год назад
THIS is my favorite episode.... So relatable and educative ❤❤❤.... Welldone Tay
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