What is up with that therapist? That poor girl needs a new one because that person is part of her problem. Therapist are supposed to help you work through your issues and give you solutions to help with that journey, but this one is gaslighting her into thinking she’s wrong. 🤬🤬🤬
It's kinda worrying that therapists like this one exist. There's another post where OP is asking if she's the AH because she's considering divorce when her husband is a FRIGGIN CHEATER! Her therapist is siding with her husband and tells her that she's ending a 10-yr relationship due to a minor hiccup. Being cheated on a thousand times is a MINOR HICCUP???
1st story. She needs to get a different therapist asap. Her husband, boss and coworkers are using her. I hope she gets the help she needs and get way from that mess.
Story 1 its divorcing time he settled for the and thinks she is his atm. Story 2 wow this poor op, first the wife cheats on him and now two of his three sons arent his and cant have custody of them. damn
Really really worried about the woman in the first story. She has a manipulative husband who basically admitted that he targeted her without her knowing it in college. Parents in a Loveless marriage that as she put it beat the autism out of her. A job where her supervisor is knowingly overworking her Harriet and probably taking credit for most of the stuff she does while giving cashier positions to those who are able to know they're worth Harriet a free therapist in her company does she hasn't realized is there to make sure that no one thinks about quitting or suing the company. and the only family she has that actually cares about her are under the care of her parents who will cut them off from her if she does anything they don't like. There's no way out unless somebody outside of her life gives her the help she needs
Story 1- So Op is autistic. Shocker. She also comes from a society that apparently does not value women, or at least her family is that way. Everyone in her life is using her. She really needs a good therapist, a person who she can trust and will point out the social cues she is missing and also affirm, or not, her take on things that are happening to her. If she is in the U.S., document that her boss said she was pulling a stunt when she fainted at work, then resign due to medical stress and go on medical disability at the same time as hiring a labor lawyer for a hostile work environment and not making accommodations for her neurodivergence. Her income will drastically drop, maybe even to lower than her husband's, and he will end up supporting HER during the divorce, and she will fare much better financially in the long run. When that is all over she needs to find some friends who understand neurodivergence and forget about romantic relationships for a while.
I swear as I was listening to the video, everything you said is exactly what I was thinking. My hubs is on the spectrum and a lot of her comments were similar to things I've seen with him. As for her job, yea she's definitely being taken advantage of. Her boss can see how insecure and such that she is and he's absolutely taking advantage. Not to mention that "company" therapist. 🙄
The husband sounds like a creep. The fact that he keeps bringing up cheating makes me wonder of he's the one who's actually cheating on her. Like they say ill thinkers are ill doers
If her husband is truly with her for her money... and her job is literally draining her... Quit her job... and the rest will fall into place. Find a better job that won't kill her slowly... if her husband only wants the money, he'll willingly give her a clean break so they both can find someone better... being away from that job means she'll dump psycho therapist affiliated with her job, and once she gets new work, she can get a better therapist.
Story 1: Op is surrounded by users. I’m sorry but the husband is just a user and only wants her money. She should honestly divorce him and just focus on herself. Even if he begged to stay it’s not because he loved her.
Story 1 Husband doesn't work or work for 55k because his wife can provide for him. They are two sides of the same coin, both came from poverty yet she took it and decided never be defined by it Husband decided to become gold digger and depend on it Poor OP
I was with her in the beginning, but the passing out started to get me worried. She could have narcolepsy or something that causes it or maybe a tumor. If I were her, I'd make sure I was alright
Working a hundred hours a week, doing all the chores and cooking, while finding out that her spouse is only drawn to her bank account is far more likely the culprit. Add to that a health condition that will eventually render her incapable of working, which might be exacerbated by her stress and/or working conditions.
1st story: I'm so sad for OP. A man approach her and marry her because he knew she'll treat like god. Admitting he didn't attracted to her and only chose her because she's 'stable' are just slaps on the face. OP better stay away from this narcissistic, selfish kind of a man.
I would purposely leave my job and get another one making what he makes, claiming j need to work less for my health, wait a few months then divorce him. I’ll be damned if he gets a penny from me.
Op where did this therapist get their degree?! Op love yourself! Sometimes you have to be selfish once in a while… if they don’t like it they can cry about it…
Second OP, that poor guy. What a horrible horrible person his cheating wife is. Just disgusting behavior. And her boy toy just allowing another man to raise his kids as his own without taking responsibility for them himself…what a stand up guy he is 😂. As in “not at all”. He obviously knew they were his because he immediately jumped in and asked for the test on them. He clearly had at least suspicions they were his. Here’s the third story in two days on Reddit posts that I’ve seen where a woman committed paternity fraud. I’m counting them now that the women in these comments sections always lose their dam- minds over guys questioning paternity. Apparently they think it’s outrageous that a man question paternity or question a woman’s integrity (like ever for any reason-(how DARE men question 50% of the cheaters about paternity! How absolute DARE! 😂). Lol ok, sure. Women are never allowed to be questioned about cheating because “clearly” they never do anything wrong…(except Reddit absolutely shows different as does real life allllll around us wherever we are in the world). So now I’m tallying these stories up and adding dates from which this evidence was collected that paternity fraud does, in fact, happen a lot out there. They will still argue themselves into an absolute tizzy regardless, but I couldn’t give a sh-t less 😂. The numbers don’t lie. (But yet some women DO, clearly.)
please do I think I've ruined my husband and our marriage I (30F) have been with my husband (33M) for a little more than 8 years and married for 6. We have two daughters. Op in the story is a fcking loser.
It sounds like she’s making up some false narrative in her mind based on her lack of confidence. On top of that she keeps changing up saying she hates him and wants to leave him to she wants him to find a better person to she wants to be with him. I think there’s something mentally wrong with OP or she’s leaving a lot of info out. Btw many guys will pretend to meet you by coincidence so that doesn’t count as lying.
I honestly think she is sleep deprived. Husband still could be huge POS, but it sounds like she either having a tough time remembering things or has been miss hearing a lot of conversation
