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Ajith sir wanted her to quit films to make babies. He should be very educated broad-minded, passionate about acting, compassionate, respectful to women, and a great loving husband to think of a woman good enough for only making babies. Lucky her!

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Sadly he wanted her to quit films to make babies

Bcoz he wanted her to quit to make babies. Life lessons from thala, women dreams don't value only man can fulfill his wish like he did. I don't know why women should study if making babies is the only thing they are good at

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Don't need to blame only Thala...It's a choice that Shalini also made. Popular Malayalam actresses quitting films at the peak of their career after marriage is nothing new ... many have done it Parvathy Jayaram, Lizzy, Karthika , Annie, Manju Warrier, Samyukta, Divya Unni, Samvrutha etc

@@ITGUY2023 I have read an interview with Ajith where he said he is clear that Shalini should not work in films after marriage bcoz he wants to make a lot of babies. It's not her choice! Shalini and other actresses cannot be compared, Shalini started acting when she was 3 and did almost 100 films, she might have started acting before going to school. Acting, popularity, and busy life will be a part of her life, unlike other actresses who might have begun acting after school. Parvathy was not very popular at the time she quit, she was doing mostly small roles.Her active years -1985 to 1992 and has done 70 films Lizzy is not such a talented actress She has mostly done her husbands films or unimportant roles. Active years 1982 to 1991and has done 90 films Annie was part of flops more than hits She has 3 or 4 hits Manju was not happy and you can see she came back so Shalini could be unhappy Divya unni too was fading away at that time She has done no Malayalam fil in her last 2 years and we all know she has done nothing great in Tamil Samyuktha said she was repeating herself and decided to quit at that time bcoz she was afraid people will notice that. She came as a replacement for Manju , She was not interested in acting Samvrutha quit when next generation came bcoz she was not getting meaty roles She began acting in 2004 and quit in 2012 Shalini started in 1997 and quit in 1999. Alaipayuthey was shot in 1999. She has done 5 Tamil and 7 Malayalam films None of the actresses were as popular as Shalini None of the actresses said after the marriage that they miss acting and are bored. Shalini said that she loved acting and is missing it. At 21 she said she has left everything to God! Why would a newly married, 21 years old girl say that she is leaving everything to god? It shows her depression she insisted that she will do nirams Tamil remake after marriage and Ajith was not happy

@@sasikalasreeram1861 Manju was much more popular (and talented) than Shalini....Shalini should be blamed... she married Ajith very well knowing that her husband is not interested in her continuing to act. she should have not married him in the first place and settled into domesticity if she loved her career

@@ITGUY2023 Read the article clearly, you can her pain

Bcoz he wanted her to quit to make babies. Life lessons from thala, women dreams don't value only man can fulfill his wish as he did. I don't know why women should study if making babies is the only thing they are good at

@@sasikalasreeram1861 you are misunderstood ,quiting her cinema life was her own will.he was so sad for her career ,so he trained her in badminton and made her a champion .After that she was only concentrated in motherhood .But you are right most of the women quit her professional life to make babies .This is a sad truth

@@chippysaseendran4230 I have read an interview in Sep 1999 in which he clearly said that he wants her to quit films to make his babies, another interview right before the wedding he said that he wants her to quit acting again. It was an anna mm vettikadu interview. After marriage when he was doing Asoka, he said that again and added that he is getting 1 crore for a film so his wife doesn't have to work. In another interview where he has said that he has sworn that he won't allow her to act in films I have those interviews She said after one year of marriage that she loves and missed acting. She also said that she was bored. Before marriage in 1997 when asked about her belief in God she said she believes in God and visits the church every Sunday whereas after the wedding when she was asked about Amarkalam and working with Ajith she said that he says that it was love at first sight but it was not for her, Her friends tease her for getting married early.it could be destiny, she shares her agony with God and has left everything to the Almighty. Can you notice the difference? before marriage, she said she believes in God and visits the church, but after the wedding, she said she shares her pain with God and has left everything up to him, Why would a 21-year-old newlywed girl say that? It's clear she was unhappy! Now you are right Badminton was not her choice, he wants every family member to get indulged in some sports. So he is pressurizing her to do whatever he wants and is stopping her from doing what she is passionate about. Wow! what a husband! Would that be right if Janaki ammas husband told her to quit singing and play badminton? A woman should be allowed to pursue her dreams not forced to do what her husband wants. He trained her? disgusting! he should have let her do what she wants.

@@chippysaseendran4230 They made their first child only after 7 damn years, so she could have worked for at least 5 years, right? So quitting after motherhood has no value here. Normally actresses get married and in a year or 2 they become pregnant, such a woman can say that or continue working like Samantha, Kareena, etc they never quit acting. Shalini had 7 years before pregnancy. Don't give such lame excuses. and she is not like any other actress, she has been working in films since childhood and it won't be a difficult thing for her. Now let's take her sister's case. She said in an interview thaT Ajith didn't want her to act in films. Who is he to say that to her? She got her first national award when she was 2 years old. She might be interested in acting, why is he poking his nose in her life? Ruining Shalini's life is not enough or what? And when she did her photoshoot Ajith shot her pics. Really? We all know that such photoshoots are to make the actress look desirable, should a brother in law shoot such pics? do you think the girl will be able to express herself openly while her brother in law is behind the lens? What was the reason for him doing that? To disturb her or to admire her beauty? Don't tell me that he was concerned and wanted to help her! There is a dialogue in a Malayalam movie where someone says a man massaging his sister inlaws hip is not caring or concern. Everybody should stay within their limits Long and short of the story is tried to stop his sister in law from acting too

@@sasikalasreeram1861 madam ,actresses are supposed to be in glamour ,they are just for item dance in Tamil Telugu industries .That's why they are chosing fair looking tamannah ,hansika,samantha,Amy Jackson etc for black skin tone hero's like dhaush sir ,Vijay sethupathy sir ,Vijay sir ,Vishal sir etc .but in Malayalam industry now à days actresses are also not so good looking ,like nimisha sajayan ,Reema ,manjuwarrior etc .why ?simply becoz they are meant for acting skills not skin display .parvathy thiruvoth ,Reema ,nimisha ,manju madam are the actresses who don't even do makeup .most of them are married ,parvathy is little fatty now ,but she is our best actress .manjumadam is a 40year old lady ,who is our lady superstar.first of all Tamil or Telugu audience must accept natural actresses.dont go for item dancers .I don't even remember a film of tamannah with no belly display .Tamil films are well known for brown skinned actors ,but actresses are milky white. In every film they says a lot about black skin ,praises black skin ,but actress will be emy Jackson 😂

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Bcoz he wanted her to quit to make babies. Life lessons from thala, women dreams don't value only man can fulfill his wish as he did. I don't know why women should study if making babies is the only thing they are good at

I respect you for introducing her for what she is good at and not for being someone wife

He s just watching for money sake

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But he wanted her to quit to make babies. Life lessons from thala, women dreams don't value only man can fulfill his wish as he did. I don't know why women should study if making babies is the only thing they are good at

Bcoz he wanted her to quit to make babies. Life lessons from thala, women dreams don't value only man can fulfill his wish like he did. I don't know why women should study if making babies is the only thing they are good at

@@sasikalasreeram1861 very sad indeed. Male chauvinism.

@ஶ்ரீௐ Did someone ask THEM to marry? I didn't know!

@@sasikalasreeram1861 without knowledge don't talk. Since childhood shalini was acting and she got tired from all that acting. Some nonsense you will learn from West and try to paint a picture here.

Cute love story? he wanted her to quit to make babies. Life lessons from thala, women dreams don't value only man can fulfill his wish like he did. I don't know why women should study if making babies is the only thing they are good at

@@sasikalasreeram1861 without actually knowing the facts one shouldn't comment . What you're saying has no proof so why say things jus based on what u think . She did finish college and did play badminton for a while with her husband's support i believe . And from when do we women want our husbands permission to do or not to do something. If what you're saying is true and he didn't let her she obliged to it as well. Its their personal thing and they can do whatever they want its their life. Its fake feminism to act tell aww he let her work and continue her career after marriage how sweet what a guy. Well real feminism is when u don't need to ask permission that's true empowerment

@@sandy230687 I have read her interviews 1 Sep 1999 where He said that he said that he wants her to quit acting to make his babies 2 Anna mm vettikad Interview 2000 where he said after marriage she won't work bcoz he wants so 3 After the wedding Shalini gave an interview where she said she would have never quit but did so only bcoz of Ajith. She said she loves and misses acting, is bored so might study. 4 After the release of Asoka, Ajith was boasting of his greatness and said that he earns 1 crore per film and so he won't leave Shalini to act. 5 In an interview before the wedding when she was asked about her belief in God she said she believes in God and visits church every Sunday, But after the wedding when asked about how much she enjoyed working with Ajith in Amarkalam, she said he says it was love at first sight for him but was not that for her. that her friends tease her for marrying early since she had no such plans, then went on to say that it might be her destiny and she shares her agony with GOD and has left everything to the Almighty. Why would a 21-year-old newlywed girl say that she shares her pain to God and has left everything to him? That shows she is unhappy and has lost hope! We won't get any proof bcoz Mr. Ajith Kumar has made sure that nobody will hear her voice, How will she speak to the world. In the last 20 years, no one has heard her voice. Ajith has given a few interviews and speeches but where has Shalini spoken? Ajith wants every family member to participate in sports so she has to do something. It's his choice and not her. If lata Mangeshkar was asked to play Badminton instead of music, do you think she will be happy? Shalini was an actress since 3 ie before going to school and has done over 100 films as a child artist, she would be happy doing that and not badminton Today's women don't need their husband's permission for anything But her case is different. I will give you an example Shalini along with her daughter was in a restaurant where she saw an actor Prithvi, she had never worked with him or had any friendship with him, so she didn't talk to him, he also didn't even try to speak to her as they were not sitting near each other. When Ajith came to know that he got angry and told SHALINI to call that actor and apologize to him. She rang up and apologized and told that she is doing so bcoz Ajith got angry and told her to do so. She might not have spoken to him since she knew nothing about him and might not have wanted to disturb him, No husband today will ask their wife for such a thing bcoz she has not done anything wrong. If he was such a great human being or a good husband he would have apologized on her behalf. She is not a kid to pass orders, she too has self-respect. He does not even respect her. Her case cannot be compared to a normal wife, She is an MCPs wife

@@sandy230687 Most of the women work today, even actresses of her age like JYO Simran, Manju, Sneha, Jomol, etc made a comeback. In fact, Surya produced films for his wife. Why is she not making a comeback? Why is no one approaching her? Do you think no television Channel wanted her interviews in the last 20 years? I have heardthst her husband never allowed her tondo a TV interview. And have you noticed her print interviews, they are only to praise Ajith and to justify her absence in films.

@@sasikalasreeram1861 i honestly haven't probably seen anywhere where he had said such a thing . If possible u share some links would want to hear it before believing it. And i felt about interviews they were more private in nature and hence the not giving interview part. If you're talking about video interview then i might have a different perspective but if it's print then it applies the other way round. As far as I heard she didn't want to continue acting. Just cause you're good at something doesn't necessarily mean it's your passion and i don't think many from his family are into sports his brother if i am correct is an entrepreneur. So most of the case your justification isn't making sense . And forgive me for re iterating the point that she is an adult and is free to move out if needed and it's their private life . I have seen some glimpses after amarkalam where it was evident both were in love with eo and they accompany eo mostly even sit holding hands eventually whats between two ppl only they know and God knows we might see them thro a medium which could be influenced in a good or bad manner . If i remember she didn't want to do amarkalam itself then later agreed . She didn't want to act as an adult in a heroine role. If u can show me video interviews of shalini i might believe . Quitting acting was already her agenda a few good films and she wanted to leave and maybe ajith sir wanted her to leave so it was mutual it depends some men might not want their wife to act and in this case j believe shalini was equally not interested.

Bcoz he wanted her to quit to make babies. Life lessons from thala, women dreams don't value only man can fulfill his wish as he did. I don't know why women should study if making babies is the only thing they are good at

But he wanted her to quit to make babies. Life lessons from thala, women dreams don't value only man can fulfill his wish as he did. I don't know why women should study if making babies is the only thing they are good at

To make his babies as per his wish That's thala for you who knows women are for producing his babies. That one quote shows his education, respect for woman, and so-called love for Shalini

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