I am genuinely disappointed in Phoebe for holding back this long, or at all for that matter. I absolutely despise secrets and lies and the Halliwells should know better by now, especially Phoebe. When Sam came back into the picture, I would have been upfront about everything on the spot. That’s what a good sister would do.
Them keeping it a secret made no sense to me. And the elders giving her a charge was stupid too. They could have handled this storyline completely differently
I always find it very off putting that all four sister were very quick to forgive the women in they're lives for they're eyebrow raising actions (such as Grams decisions to use magic to keep Victor away from his daughter for all they're lives) but very slow to forgive the men in they're for they're actions. It's almost like Grams contempt for rubbed off on them, which doesn't make sense for Paige