Unless one genetically create a person specification, we all have to adapt, love and respect the people you encounter. Then compromise on the good that supports each other. You will blend well & have a happy life. Otherwise go to a scientist and create one in a laboratory.
I think the part that mkurugenzi says {about DREAMS} isn't being selfish.....The man is the head of the family, so you can imagine having a guy who follows a ladies dream rather than his!!! To me your mans VISIONS and DREAMS should definitely be A THING TO LADIES. we are supporters, and if you cant help and support him then WHY CHOOSE YOU IN THE FIRST PLACE?
Mimi mkuru I will be on my day off nikiturn on show, najua siku imeisha, the whole day. Sioshi hata vyombo. Na si jokes.... then tuna compare notes na my friend in kampala...tunacheka tena