Тёмный

Pampering | A Source of Tantrums in Kids | Salman Asif Siddiqui 

ERDC
Подписаться 195 тыс.
Просмотров 481 тыс.
50% 1

We all love our kids, and we want to show that love to them as well. It's natural. But when love is shown at the cost of tarbiyah, it does more harm than good. Pampering is the most prominent & common example of exhibition of love in the wrong way.
Salman Asif Siddiqui talks about what pampering is and how it becomes a barrier in the tarbiyah of a child.
SUBTITLES / CLOSED CAPTIONS for this talk are available in 5 languages (English, Arabic, Tamil, Malayalam, Urdu). You can turn ON subtitles by selecting the CC button at the bottom of the video screen. You may also slow down the video so to get more time in reading the subtitles, by choosing a slower playback speed.
#TarbiyahMovement #Pampering #Tantrums
Visit our channel for more meaningful videos. Remember to subscribe / erdcpk and select the bell icon for notifications whenever we post a new video.
Website:
www.erdconline.org
Follow us on other social media platforms:
/ erdcpk
/ erdcpk
/ erdcpk
ERDC envisages social excellence through making teachers, learners, parents and schools realize their meaning and achieve their full potential.

Опубликовано:

 

22 окт 2024

Поделиться:

Ссылка:

Скачать:

Готовим ссылку...

Добавить в:

Мой плейлист
Посмотреть позже
Комментарии : 481   
@msrahmani86
@msrahmani86 4 года назад
آپ کے سارے ویڈیو اتنے اچھے ہوتے ہیں کہ بس ایک کے بعد ایک سننے کو جی چاہتا ہے. آپ نے جس طرح دین اور دنیا کو ایک ساتھ سکھایا ہے، اور دین کی عظمت کو دلوں میں بڑھانے کی کوشش کی ہے وہ بہت کم دوسری جگہ دیکھنے کو ملتا ہے. جزاکم اللہ خیرا
@abdulmajeedmadni141
@abdulmajeedmadni141 3 года назад
جزاکم اللہ خیرا بھائی ماشاءاللہ بہت اچھا اللہ تعالیٰ نفع بخش بناے اور اسی طرح اللہ آپ سے خیر اور شر بھلائی کا لیتا رہے
@kayahmad1683
@kayahmad1683 5 лет назад
This is an amazing knowledge on parental psychology ..No one in this world is born a parent .And when a child is born ,the parents become blinded by the natural love of motherhood .Every parent raise their child by their own common sense ,their own upbringing.,their sense of knowledge they think is right for their child .No one really knows the proper rules of raising their child Sadly parents realise after years where they were at fault and what was needed to be done .
@abdulrahmanhyder2629
@abdulrahmanhyder2629 5 лет назад
I agree extra pampering make a child life difficult
@shahzadimalik7550
@shahzadimalik7550 5 лет назад
Thank you for teaching me right way to teach them daily chores manners completing their wishes
@muhammadahmad7566
@muhammadahmad7566 5 лет назад
Dunya ka sab say mushkil tareen kaam bachoon ki tarbiyat 🥴
@initit7070
@initit7070 5 лет назад
Muhammad Ahmad No really, parents has to educate themselves and firm on hardship to make children ethical brain
@LifewithNisa
@LifewithNisa 5 лет назад
us ki bari wajah maa baap ki apni terbiyaat ka na hona hai....
@khatun-ejannat7196
@khatun-ejannat7196 5 лет назад
Yeh hamari soch Hai ham khud sb behtar Bana sakty hain bachon ki tarbiat asan Hai agar mushkil smjhogy tw mushkil ho jayegi
@aslamkhanfaiz
@aslamkhanfaiz 5 лет назад
True
@JaffarGilani
@JaffarGilani 5 лет назад
Nice techar
@bintulislamsyed7283
@bintulislamsyed7283 5 лет назад
Alhumdulilah we are blessed to have a great leader like you.
@ERDCPK
@ERDCPK 5 лет назад
Please remember in your prayers
@taimoorahsan3072
@taimoorahsan3072 5 лет назад
Sir ap ko salam hy ap kamal ki information dey rahy ap jesy logo ki bohat zarort h is mulk ko
@BinteBashir_Whispersoftheheart
@BinteBashir_Whispersoftheheart 4 года назад
Excellent message. May Allah bless you and grant us the ablity to do the right upbringing of our children. Thanks for sharing his wonderful message and making us realize that it’s not only child who needs to be corrected but many a times parents too are the ones who need to be corrected.
@ridaabidi540
@ridaabidi540 3 года назад
Bht he perfect video.... Meri tarbiyat aise hue hy without pamepring and without any over facilitation.... So aj me married hn aur pora ghr smbhal rhi hn aur husband se sath only needs pe compromise kr rhi hn.... Q k parents ne bachpan se aise adat he nhe dali k over facilitate kia ho ya her wish pori ki ho...! So ab adat he nhe hy life me ksi extra cheez ki...!
@FullKitchen
@FullKitchen 5 лет назад
Zabardast advise!! I agree k har wish ko pora nae karna chaheye
@alqadria8305
@alqadria8305 5 лет назад
سر آپ بہت زبردست کام کر رہے ہیں۔ ایسا شعور معاشرے میں عام کرنے کی ضرورت ہے
@waseemrana5693
@waseemrana5693 5 лет назад
YES RIGHT
@ERDCPK
@ERDCPK 5 лет назад
Many thanks for the appreciation. Do not forget to share with all your friends and family. You all can play an important part in spreading the message to masses.
@alqadria8305
@alqadria8305 5 лет назад
@@ERDCPK You welcome sir. آپ نے میرے کومنٹ کا جواب دیا۔ یقین نہیں ہو رہا۔ اللہ پاک آپکے علم و عمل اور صلاحیتوں میں اضافہ فرمائے ۔ آمین
@abdujafar4204
@abdujafar4204 5 лет назад
آپ نے زبردست درس دیا
@sunlozara625
@sunlozara625 3 года назад
What a lovely lecture with great sarcasm and humor. Maa Sadqay.....😅😅😅🤦🏻‍♀️bus yahin se bigard paida huta hai. 5:07 🤔😄👌🏻 Agreed 💯 Great points. As a parent we all love our kids but some of the parents go above and beyond to spoil their child and on top of everything they think that this is love. They just want to prove it to the world that I love my child more than you do. We all need to understand the difference between loving and spoiling. Please do a lecture in detail. 🙏🏼
@ERDCPK
@ERDCPK 2 года назад
Watch this ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-iKdBUGzEDAc.html and ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-k2MPu07rvJQ.html
@aneelatariqaneelatariq6078
@aneelatariqaneelatariq6078 5 лет назад
Allhumdulillah meray bachay ghr k saray kaam kr laytay Hai.. Buhat chotay hai but maine un ko ya trbiat kr rahi apnay kaam khud krtay Hai.... Allhumdulillah aj sham ki chay b wo mujhe khud bna k detay hai
@firozhaidermohammad728
@firozhaidermohammad728 5 лет назад
Bilkul Sach. Very nice lecture but we need more detailed and long lectures on this topic.
@SochnayKiBaat
@SochnayKiBaat 5 лет назад
Detailed lecture: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-hP8FOMJKVVY.html
@qamarhamid1213
@qamarhamid1213 2 года назад
Excellent excellent excellent.....
@muneerpk6799
@muneerpk6799 3 года назад
Masha Allah v nice information
@starcalligraphy
@starcalligraphy 5 дней назад
It's awesome 😎
@msalmanshalmani193
@msalmanshalmani193 3 года назад
Great sir!! ALLAH AAp ko salamat rakhe aamen jazakallah. Waqa'e Amali zindagi k liye Amali taleem bohot Lazimi hai sir!!
@naqvisyed8431
@naqvisyed8431 5 лет назад
Thnks alot sir ap ny bht informative video share ki
@starvloger5517
@starvloger5517 3 года назад
Very informative video about pampered child. I want solution to make responsible and dutiful to my both pampered children
@sabashaheen6422
@sabashaheen6422 4 года назад
Aapne bahut hi zaroori topic per video banai hai.. Shukriya janab...
@drsadiafaisalhealthtip5549
@drsadiafaisalhealthtip5549 5 лет назад
But Interesting Topic
@maryamsami1835
@maryamsami1835 2 года назад
Allah shukar! bohat kuch me bachon sey karwati hun or mje pata b nahi tha k ye unki tarbiyat ka hissa hai
@amjadali4098
@amjadali4098 5 лет назад
Sir I am 16 years old when I coming Dubai then I start washing cloth and dish wash and also I am cooking I feel comfortable life your lecture is very right
@HarisKhan-zs7st
@HarisKhan-zs7st 5 лет назад
👍👍👍🙌🙌🙌🙌
@sherazch8254
@sherazch8254 5 лет назад
Bhai waha pay to ap ko majbori waha to lazim donay partay waha koi aur donay wala hota ni
@ameenaslamkhan8955
@ameenaslamkhan8955 5 лет назад
Ma Sha Allah. Bohat Khushi Hui apki baatain sun ker... Allah Pak sub maa baap ko sahi Sai tarbiat kerne ki taufeeq ata karain Aameen...
@Aayesha.P.P.School
@Aayesha.P.P.School 5 лет назад
Mashallah sarji
@Arszul123
@Arszul123 5 лет назад
Sir Your message is so great and hitting the bulls eye. and not many people are saying this thing so loud and clear. Most of these are common sense based yet majority of parents are doing against the common sense. So plzzzzz come up with more and more of such videos on this topic.
@ERDCPK
@ERDCPK 5 лет назад
Thanks for the appreciation. We have plenty of videos on our channel, and more will keep coming, InshaAllah. We encourage you to watch more and share with others as well.
@asmakhan1897
@asmakhan1897 5 лет назад
Very great teaching
@kazileo3219
@kazileo3219 5 лет назад
جزاکم اللہ خیرا
@Muhammad_Abdullah20-10
@Muhammad_Abdullah20-10 3 года назад
جزاک اللّہ خیرا سر
@hasansaleem4604
@hasansaleem4604 Месяц назад
Wonderful video Respect for u
@mauroofsultan6887
@mauroofsultan6887 3 года назад
Very good Programe
@ukhattaku9420
@ukhattaku9420 5 лет назад
Alhamdulillah sir my daughter is 6 years old and she did alot of work with me even she can wash small utensils just like plates glass spoons etc... She makes a tea for me in ramadan when i have a svere headache... My 6 yrs and 3 yrs daughter polish their shies regularly.. Alhamfulillah even we have a maid but I'm not in favour of araam
@Maliha_khan12334
@Maliha_khan12334 5 лет назад
Ukhattak U 10 se km umer bacho se unke kam karaye apne nai . Specially fire and risk se door rakhe .
@ukhattaku9420
@ukhattaku9420 5 лет назад
@@Maliha_khan12334 My nhn karwati wo khud shok sy krti hy agr my mana kron to naraz hoti hy so i never let her discourage and second fire work my womeri supervision myhi hoti hy and i fully. protect her fromevery possible damage ap pata nhn kiya samjh bythen k my zalim maon jysi kaam krwati hon... Meri bytiyan jitni ladli my ny rakhen hain shyd hi kisi ny rakhen hon but if they want something to do so i don't forbid them ...
@sabihazain976
@sabihazain976 5 лет назад
Very nice channel and information
@shaikshareef1713
@shaikshareef1713 5 лет назад
{Masha Allah} what A thinking {jazak Allah}
@healyourself369
@healyourself369 5 лет назад
unfortunately meri tarbiyat aesi he hoeha as I am the only child of my parents but i dont want my daughter to be like me n she is 7 years old Masha Allah she washes dishes and water the plants and a helping hand of mine Alhamdulillah.
@junaidmansoor7299
@junaidmansoor7299 Год назад
The worst thing that you can do is to say your parents did not trained you well. I’m telling you it’s 100% sure your kids will do same to you no matter what you do. Your parent have absolute right on you. Whatever they did they did the best. You have no right to judge them
@healyourself369
@healyourself369 Год назад
@@junaidmansoor7299 my parents always spoiled me no.matter what. In my childhood i never heard no to anything. She never let me do things for her as it was easier to do things on her own rather then teach me to how to do it like is se behtar mein khd he kerloun tm itni dair lagao how am i suppose to be habitual of any task? If she doesnt let me do that. She never trained me to do house chores. I was told that i have to do a job n has to act like their son. Every case can be diff.so u never judge any person's situation frm their 4 liner comment. I'd never want my daughter to do a job. I am n i will teach her all house chores along with her studies. I d never spoil my kids never have i ever done that. My husband does bt i always contradict bcz i knw how it feels difficult to take responsibilities esp after marriege. When ur nt habitual of it.
@farzanashahrukh9692
@farzanashahrukh9692 4 года назад
Best lacture jazakAllah
@CapturedbyZeeshanBaig
@CapturedbyZeeshanBaig 5 лет назад
good talk very important also teach your kids Gardening and plantation how many have planted a tree on their own Planting tree and growing them following them gives an environmental sense of growth and necessity of plant and love for nature and environment they will learn to water to give fertilizer to put them in shade when to move them in moon soon where ever they go they vl love the nature and care for it
@ERDCPK
@ERDCPK 5 лет назад
Agreed.
@rosiejaan3510
@rosiejaan3510 4 года назад
VERY TRUE SIR...ALLAH BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY, AMEEN
@sonicutio7311
@sonicutio7311 5 лет назад
Really meri mama ne mujh se bachpan me kam ni krwaya or ab mama kehti hain k mene Galt kia Jo kam ni krwaya pehly Ab mjhy bht mshkil hoti hai kam karny ka dil ni krta ,,ro ro k krti hun kam ,chahy larka ho ya larki dono ko kam krwayen
@ERDCPK
@ERDCPK 5 лет назад
Since you have this realization now, you can overcome the problem easily with a little bit of focus and determination, InshAllah.
@azanali2506
@azanali2506 5 лет назад
Apny bht bht zaberdast smjya ha ya her schools m hona chaheya isly hm Muslim bht pechy hain q k hm hud bachun ko dosroun k shara Lana sakhty hn v .v good sir
@ERDCPK
@ERDCPK 5 лет назад
Thanks. Do share with others.
@munizasadiq2046
@munizasadiq2046 5 лет назад
Best hai aap ka tariqa
@shariqaskari
@shariqaskari 5 лет назад
ماشاللہ بہت عمدہ
@tanveerhaider4658
@tanveerhaider4658 5 лет назад
Excellent lecture.
@ERDCPK
@ERDCPK 5 лет назад
Thanks
@lubnatanveerkhan2443
@lubnatanveerkhan2443 4 года назад
Great point of view...
@Rao-Shad
@Rao-Shad 4 года назад
good vedio.ap ny aj kal k halat bta deya.wah wah.God bless you.
@KashifKhan-gh7oy
@KashifKhan-gh7oy 5 лет назад
Wah very nice
@NisarKhan-qq1sk
@NisarKhan-qq1sk 5 лет назад
MA SHA ALLAH ABSOLUTELY TRUE AND AND FULL OF REALITY CANNOT FAULT THE LECTURE I REALLY LIKED THE POST NISAR MANCHESTER
@ERDCPK
@ERDCPK 5 лет назад
JazakAllah.
@ayeshanaseer1804
@ayeshanaseer1804 5 лет назад
Maa sha ALLAH bhai buhooooooot hi acha lekcher kiya he...
@OHhhhhh22
@OHhhhhh22 4 года назад
Thanks God..i did right..my son wash his cloths even his father.he clean his rom, dusting,dishes even he prepare his own breakfast and lunch for school ..prepare tea for me even..he is 10 years.
@alishbazahra7639
@alishbazahra7639 5 лет назад
Excellent Sir JazakAllah 👍👍
@ERDCPK
@ERDCPK 5 лет назад
Thank you
@GhazalaZaidi-zz2jw
@GhazalaZaidi-zz2jw Год назад
Excellent💯👍 good work
@ilikeyou6633
@ilikeyou6633 2 года назад
Thank you sir
@mohammedsalim2530
@mohammedsalim2530 5 лет назад
ماشاء الله ممتاز جزاکم اللہ خیرا اللہ ہم سب کو ہدایت دے امین
@nuzhatkhan3530
@nuzhatkhan3530 5 лет назад
Thanks jazakAllah
@fahadmehmood1610
@fahadmehmood1610 5 лет назад
These kind of people should allowed to speak in KHUTBA TUL JUMMA in mosques regularly. How many of you agree with me ?
@OHhhhhh22
@OHhhhhh22 4 года назад
آپ مولویوں کی دکان بند کروائیں گے ☺
@drzaidphysio
@drzaidphysio 4 года назад
@@OHhhhhh22 🤗
@furqansaeed6446
@furqansaeed6446 Год назад
Better make him the Prime Minister, so he will force all the people to act on these things forcefully. How many of you are agreed with me?
@eduofislam6169
@eduofislam6169 9 месяцев назад
He is teaching a lot of ulama now a days regularly on many platforms....
@shaheeshahi3758
@shaheeshahi3758 5 лет назад
جزاک الله خيرا.
@akhtar4993
@akhtar4993 3 года назад
Good job sir
@shibantoufiq4625
@shibantoufiq4625 3 года назад
Very well said Sir!
@mianwaqas2735
@mianwaqas2735 Год назад
Sir Excellent work keep it up
@mustufapatel1075
@mustufapatel1075 5 лет назад
Jazakallahu khair
@Drsyedhussainmehdinaqvi1982
@Drsyedhussainmehdinaqvi1982 5 лет назад
Nice lecture
@HaroonKhan-hz7ig
@HaroonKhan-hz7ig 5 лет назад
Great job
@Abdullahkhan-fw7fs
@Abdullahkhan-fw7fs 5 лет назад
very interesting lesson
@mrsihsan6108
@mrsihsan6108 5 лет назад
Nice msg
@madyan2462
@madyan2462 5 лет назад
Very beautiful lecture
@GhazalaZaidi-zz2jw
@GhazalaZaidi-zz2jw Год назад
Ac vedios ko ziada, se ziada share kijiye Allah aapko jaza e khair dy bohat nice
@hamadabdullah7559
@hamadabdullah7559 5 лет назад
Greatt
@wajidashaikh2532
@wajidashaikh2532 4 года назад
Jazak allah sir
@hadiaharoon4529
@hadiaharoon4529 3 года назад
Fabulous!
@shaheenahassan4777
@shaheenahassan4777 5 лет назад
Zabrdast
@haqkiaawazhaqkiaawaz7353
@haqkiaawazhaqkiaawaz7353 5 лет назад
very good sir
@mrsihsan6108
@mrsihsan6108 5 лет назад
Good job
@koserparveen3245
@koserparveen3245 5 лет назад
Outstanding lecture
@rihanslife8410
@rihanslife8410 3 месяца назад
MashaAllah ❤
@saramehak4730
@saramehak4730 5 лет назад
Nice video
@ssraza786110
@ssraza786110 5 лет назад
Very informative lecture ! GOd bless you Salman Siddiqui !
@ERDCPK
@ERDCPK 5 лет назад
JazakAllah.
@ihussainihassan9591
@ihussainihassan9591 5 лет назад
Such A beautiful Lecture Sir Thank you 💐
@ERDCPK
@ERDCPK 5 лет назад
Thank you.
@Adf939
@Adf939 5 месяцев назад
Great advice sir❤❤❤❤❤
@knowledgeportal1888
@knowledgeportal1888 5 лет назад
You are going good. I saw pampered children they are spoiled there and others after there marriage.
@imranakhtar1
@imranakhtar1 5 лет назад
We desperately need a subject on this topic in our school curriculum.
@yasirpatel5582
@yasirpatel5582 5 лет назад
The whole purpose of His video is to teach these manners at home and still we are expecting to have it taught in school!
@shabanasayyed3849
@shabanasayyed3849 5 лет назад
Hamari ammi ne hamen ye sab sikhaya, Lekin humne apni bachchi Ko hamari apni galati hai k usey nahi sikhaya.thank you bhai Sahab...bahot umdah baat sikhai aapne.
@ERDCPK
@ERDCPK 5 лет назад
Never too late. Good relationship and dua can always help fix things.
@sunnyrana2123
@sunnyrana2123 4 года назад
Allah ap ko salamat rkhy
@thediversedlife
@thediversedlife 2 года назад
Pampering well explained
@sanakhan142
@sanakhan142 5 лет назад
Thank you sooo much it’s really help me
@pathansir1786
@pathansir1786 5 лет назад
Masha allah bahut khub jazakallahu khair
@rizwan10700
@rizwan10700 5 лет назад
👍 👍 👍 Amazing
@knowledgeseeker1997
@knowledgeseeker1997 3 года назад
Is video ko jinhon ny dislike kia hai yaqeenan wo pampered bachy hain
@NaqashTV
@NaqashTV 5 лет назад
Masha Allah Sir bohat hubsurti se aap ne smjaya hai.
@alisaqlain4635
@alisaqlain4635 3 года назад
Sir good
@fatimashayan513
@fatimashayan513 5 лет назад
Wah kiya bat ki ha apny k bacha maa ki azmat py mazmoon yad kerha ha ar maa bimari me bartan dho rahi h.. Ye sab baten waqai bht ehem hoti hain hum nahi samjhty aj kal k log non Realistc baten kerty hain ap ny waqai sahi bat ki h
@ERDCPK
@ERDCPK 5 лет назад
Thank you. You are welcome to benefit from detailed parenting help on our channel ru-vid.com
@roshaniakhtar5285
@roshaniakhtar5285 5 лет назад
So great sir.
@talhabhaiunique3652
@talhabhaiunique3652 5 лет назад
Excellent g. Really heart touching video. I have no words to describe reallity of video
@mohammadkhursheed3687
@mohammadkhursheed3687 8 месяцев назад
Masha allah bhot khob isy to tmam parent ko parhana chahtey
@muhammadshahzad2755
@muhammadshahzad2755 5 лет назад
Very nice leature
@tariqalikhan4164
@tariqalikhan4164 2 года назад
Really appreciating!!!
@aatifzacky5696
@aatifzacky5696 3 года назад
Love from Gujerkhan 🌹
@zaara_mustufablog9776
@zaara_mustufablog9776 5 лет назад
Great
@shehzeenhuma9803
@shehzeenhuma9803 5 лет назад
👏 great
@malo3287
@malo3287 5 лет назад
It’s very simple, follow Islam seen for your children upbringing. It’s all there for you and everything in moderation
@tariqalodat720
@tariqalodat720 5 лет назад
That is the truth!
Далее
I tricked MrBeast into giving me his channel
00:58
Просмотров 4,6 млн
Меня знают уже все соседи😅
00:34
3 Basic Roles of Education | Salman Asif Siddiqui
14:38
I tricked MrBeast into giving me his channel
00:58
Просмотров 4,6 млн