Every parents are doing their best according to their situation and circumstances.. there is no rule to raise child .. i just agree on point that u should understand ur child before react ..
There are rules but we don't accept it.. Every brain works in a same way so,, parenting is really should focus more on single steps that can cause harm or can do good to our child brain. Follow.Rules have good result
It's not about rules, it's about evolution, how you evolve your way of living or parenting or anything else with the need of current time... Change is the only constant and healthy for our survival 😊
Yes, the main reason that teenagers are going on wrong paths is they absolutely lack proper communication and guidance at home. Parents have become busy and at times grandparents are not present too. Whatever is taught at home, by the child's close people, always stays. Even when you come across situations, you always tend to choose the right one.
my question is :- agar sab kchh payar se he sekhana hain to jb uski life main bad days aayega fir wo to demotivated ho jayega like mind hang ho jayega wo react he nhi kar payega bad days ko.
Saw the entire podcast and I feel so bad for the kids of this lady !! 💔 It seems to me that she is treating her kids like a project that has to be as per her rules and regulations. For her kids are not kids but a set of brains she wants to wire according to her perception of perfection. She talks about empathy but such rules dont raise empathetic or creative kids.. Some rules are ok but dont make it a project of yours.. Kids are kids.. let them free.. let them learn what are good and bad things by doing them and experimenting ... STOP INSTITUTANALZING PARENTING !!
Please you will not realise the importance of what she has said until you have screwed up parenting....I've just realised how much better I can make the life of my 4 year old!!
Today's child knows everything, good and bad, if the surrounding is bad it's our bad luck , no child will listen , main thing is surrounding should be peaceful and truthful other wise no one can help , to come out of today's child behaviour. Great namaskar to those people who hold the bad surrounding and raise their child in such surroundings.
Thanks for introducing me to her!!! I don't agree completely, I cant imagine following completely, but if i can control my emotions and understand my child better it will save me from so much "mom guilt"! This is GREAT knowledge! I loved the concept!!!
What about single parents? I am a single parent and I have been raising my daughter on my own. Raj sir I request you to call someone who can throw some light on single parenting, parents who are living separately.
It should be same parenting. It's better in some case imo bcoz 2 parents fights, conflicts, trauma dump on children but if you are single mentally normal parent then it is better than 2 broken parents.
I loved this podacast a lottt! Esp Raj asked so many genuine questions that might come across as cliche for some. Even how sometimes people might confuse being gentle with softening the kid etc etc. He din’t shy away from asking all traditional questions or doubts without any fear of judgement. I genuinely learnt sooo much from this single podcast. Not a parent yet still hooked throughout.👌👌
I related this podcast to myself where I used to be in a school from morning 8 to evening 7 as my both parents were working. But they definitely taken a lot of care by taking me out to have anything that I want. Today I am full of patience because I have experienced a routine where I used to be in school for around 11 hrs. When I see other people having difficulty in talking to parents or taking decisions, I do it really well as my parents always explain why they are saying no to something and why I should or should not do something. When people try to show sympathy for very very difficult childhood, I never felt anything abnormal to stay in a school for so much time. Today I feel I'm very practical and realistic may be because of my childhood where I developed a lot of patience.......
She seems/sounds like too strict anf dominating parent . What if your kid dont want to read book in morning,you are forcing correct. Even the tone is not soothing/calming . You can't teach toddlers so easily, till 5 they simply follow their brains. Kids many a time won't sleep properly at night, and they were irritated in the morning, so good morning ,I love you bla bla don't work. They woke up many times crying for no reasons. They simply don't have any reason/logic for crying ,not following rules, and I belive that's the beauty of being kid !
Only Educated, Well To Do Parent's Understands And Follows These Thing's. Majority Parent's Are Harsh, Tough. They Get Angry, Frustrated. Don't Understand Children's Feelings. 😕
Every human has their own individual inner personality. No matter the parenting style we become what we think to become. Our core thinking and habits are the factors to shape us.
a child having bad negative toxic surroundings in childhood impact their brain and it reduce the growth of logical part I mean the brain part which help think logically and they become more like emotional, their thinking abilities are not so good.This type of children after teenage surely going to be in the trap of addiction, alcohol.
Hello sir thanks for bringing such great learning...please bring someone who can guide on how a solo entrepreneur can build his legal team,finance team etc...
Human mind is evolving generation to generation, and sacrcity create more productive children..... Drastic change in lifestyles now, now we have excess of resources and options , so we can be creative in personal and professional life 😊
Trust me dear keep them strict or free they will become wht they are i hve 2 kids and both kids completely opposite one outdoor another one indoor , one too much speak for self and otherone adjust ,one day and other one night , one saving and another one spending in same environment how can kids different… its hard and complicated i really don’t know wht I done wrong in my life
@@elishaghotra4592Same in my family. I have a brother who is completely opposite of me! He is a spendthrift, doesn't take responsibilities, very dependent on parents even at 30+
Correct, my baby is now 10months old. He was not sleeping in starting 2-3 months but I was consistent in his bed time routine, but seriously it works magic, now my baby sleeps by 9-10pm and wake up at 6:00am daily.
She is using good words to make Content impressive and to sound knowledgeable. I think she knows nothing about child psychology. Such podcasts mislead parents .I am a doctor and I am a father of two toddlers. There is no single rule to deal with a child . A parent is authoritarian at times and sometimes he is permissive . A parent should be flexible in parenting .
Gentle parenting isn't a very new concept..As even 20 years before too,, every type of parenting coexist..So there would be many kids brought up by gentle parenting..
Being an educated parent is the only take away from this and then whatever power you have to exercise that knowledge will be subjective parent to parent . It’s never a one size fits all parenting as it was explained by her with all the rules. Educate yourself as a parent and justify to your parenting and your child’s life with that. That’s pretty much what will be enough! Knowledge is power! What people, including raj, wanted to hear, when it came to finding a solution to this is when the scenario of a family isn’t as ideal as hers, which is hardly there! You can parent good if u hv support or else There was “nothing can be done if ur family/partner or circumstances aren’t supportive” narrative to this podcast. But self education is still the most helpful or ray of hope in every situation.
But as she said or we all know.....one generation can break the chain 😊 Either sacrifice for changes or grief over same... We all educate ourselves and works too hard to make money or get jobs....but very few of us educate themselves for being a good human or good father, mother, friends or parents etc......if we do so, we have less questions... It's about priorities, may be she has more privileged than most of us, but we can learn from our kind of people..... Learning is free I think... First of all we have to lessen our distraction, if we want to be best in any field.... Otherwise being normal or average is the new normal 😊
I love Raj’s podcast and his questions to the guest. This time I m not as enlighten as I m usually after I hear guest on this podcast. This was not Raj Shamani’s level not because of Raj; just because it could have been more scientific and fact base rather than I as a mom do this or my son does this. Just my view; Raj keep doing what you do.
Thank You So Much For this as it was need of the hour !!! I would request you to shoot some more content related to mental health, mental hygiene and psychology
Fact is - Experts always provide an ideal situation, bcz they achieved it.....But how can a normal human being reached up to the psychology of a child psychologist 😊 bcz everyone have different mindset and different situations in home.... Slowly is the fatsest way, first we have to work on ourselves than we can set examples or lead someone, so parents should have the qualities we want to instill in our children, never force anything over children, give them actions and let them observe... Just know yourself and work on yourself consistently 😊
She knows nothing. Pink has minerals in addition but the amount is negligible and of no use. Also it is not fortified with iodine. White salt is ok. Only thing moderation is required. Same thing about sugars. All should avoid added sugars whether children or adults
Traditional or conservative parents create obedient, progressive but depressed children. But modern, extreme liberal parents create wise and versatile but can be individualist persona 😊 Both have its pro n cons❤ Conclusion - Children mirror your ways of living 😊
Raj is asking the correct and logical questions. Therapist though qualified but she is unable to explain practical use of her advice. Imagine a traditional family, Mother telling her MIL " I need to educate you on child rearing"!. My own Mother was upset because I stopped her from feeding sugary stuff to my daughter. Her point, "I brought up perfectly balanced 3 kids. This is your first"!
Let's wait for 20 years more than we can see what her theory brings out. To much pampering and saying bacha again and again is going to make him too much soft and easy target for this ruthless world.
@raj shamani , Plz address on topic in parenting where what father's need to change their behaviour plus boys apani family me kese change laye ki girls ko ye zayada face na karna parde to change so much , So mom can uprase better kids
Must make all clips of this podcast,, because we will share some parts to family members because they will close video by just watching the time period of this podcast, they don't spend this much time on video
I love your videos. I don't like long videos, but I watch yours until the end. By the way, my question is: is it only for Indians? 🤔 Because I'm watching from the USA and I'm not Indian.😊 I guess you’re spreading knowledge to people outside of India as well.. 👏
When its comes to parenting, its for everyone! Some things that are discussed here are taking into consideration of how indian households are with a baby. But i am 100% you can get a lot of other tips hacks and knowledge from this episode. Thank you soo much for watching, truly grateful 🙇🏻♂️ Let me know if you have suggestions for a topic you want me to discuss and cover on my podcast 🙌🏻
I agree watching TV stimulating TV shows, cocomelon songs can be harmful, what about songs? Like listening to to cocomelon songs is it also harmful or will help kid development. Also like if the kid is throwing tantrums for an hour and if you agree to basically let the kid do what the kid wants eventually just to calm them down ..would it mean you are bending boundaries and it's not good or it's fine as long as you keep coaching your child to not do it next time.
Raj ye galat he kyuki bache God gift hote he hmari private property nhi he ki uske liye etne rules bna de Hum uske liye jitne rules bnayege vo Utne hi vo khil nhi sakte murja jayege
Being an educated parent is the only take away from this and then whatever power you have to exercise that knowledge will be subjective parent to parent . It’s never a one size fits all parenting as it was explained by her with all the rules. Educate yourself as a parent and justify to your parenting and your child’s life with that. That’s pretty much what will be enough!
Pretend play with kids, Read a book, Some outdoor activity everyday for 40-60 minutes Screen just once a week Freedom to figure things out. No sugar, no t.v no reels, no short videos
Your Forte is business podcast can you create a series of podcasts on different aspects or do a podcast of a why a particular product or brand is successful like you did for big boys toy
When we were kids everyone used to say , " listen to your parents " and then when we became parents "everyone is saying listen to your kids "!! Whose gonna listen to us😅 Hamara turn toh aaya hi nahi😢
Mere mummy papa muje marte nhi h pr ab 16 ka hogya hu 12th+jee +school exam, practicals ye sb ak sath sabala nhi ja rha merese isiliye rona ajata h or parents ko kese batau vo bhi sad ho jayege
Try talk to your parents whatever it is..they will understand..and make them understand ki tum apni life mae kya krna chahte ho ..uske liye life mae goals set kro ..and plan karke baat kro ..Dnt wry end of the day vo samjhenge kyunki tum unka hi toh hissa ho.. 😊
Bhai parents ka zyada load mat le. Khud ke hisaab se zindagi jeena shuru kar. Ek unar ke baad Darna nahi hain parents se. Experience se bata raha hoon and im successful in life
Hey Raj. One suggestion I would give you. You know sometimes the guest is speaking and you speak in between, so it's difficult to hear both of you. If you can, bring Rachit from Motoroctane. You've already made podcast on the luxury cars with BBT. But India is still a mid segment cars market. So, it would be great if you can do this.
