For your info... the update to the last story: The OP (mother of son and stepmother without parental authority to step-daughter) realises that she can't live like this and sees how her son has been negatively affected by his step-sister. She is scared for her unborn child and the future evil this girl could do, including to her and her son. She had the conversation with her husband. Divorce, as his child would always be aroundand she had to protect her son. And abortion to ensure she wasn't birthing her child into an abusive situation. He begged her but after being away from that environment, she felt the difference and saw the difference in her son. Once all this was carried out and Divorce begun, it had a drastic effect on her soon to be ex-husband. The daughter got what she wanted, her dad's house to herself but he could not be around his daughter and every time he looked at her, he saw the death of his child. I can't remember if she still saw him but he fully saw her for what she had been pulling. It was all to late, even her empty sorrys. OP still loved STBX, but there was no future. Finally, with restorative help, the stool was fixed. SUMMARY:Worried about safety, OP terminates pregnancy and divorces husband. He goes into depression and cannot stand to look at his daughter. The damaged stool was fixed.
Don't regret inviting people to your wedding that don't like you, even if it's a relative, even if it's your parents. Even if it's your sister, NEVER REWARD BAD BEHAVIOR.
It's obvious it's internalized where the poster is convinced that they're always like that because they almost don't realize the little child inside of them is still crying for their parents hoping one day they will actually say something nice it's basically if you look up TV tropes people confusing Jerks with a heart of gold with Jerks with a heart of jerk where no there was no hidden good intentions behind their jerk-ass behavior they were just a plain jerk you get what you see but when it comes to abusive situations growing up like this the scapegoat is usually convinced that even in a small manner that they are the problems and that they have to earn the family love sometimes they get a clue sometimes in one sad story I remember from Reddit they completely give in losing all their support system and any relationships they had because they don't want to give up you know tunnel vision mixed with sunk cost fallacy where they didn't get they just hang on they will be able to gain their abusive abusers love and you can get worse because of that story the abusive parents and siblings knew that they could control her by letting her dink she needs to earn it. The poster of it was her ex-boyfriend who was sadly trying so hard to help her but in the end she gave him completely and turn into a abuser like her family to him and their friends and when she tossed him out the house when he finally put his foot down and begged him and others to come and save her when they came around to dress her down as they usually did he believed that she finally learned her lesson only when he was about to get back together with her and she called to say she was breaking up with him call him abusive and even when he pointed out the obvious that that wasn't her talking she kept trying to say that it was her talking you know the painfully obvious no I'm not under my control stupidity that anyone can see a mile away and the sad part as he said their friends were giving up on her and her job that you worked so hard for she was about to lose it because she was being run ragged buy her abusive family who were obviously exploiting her and told her to end it because they realized he was trying to get her away from them and the worst part as he started the story they threw her out when she was 14 years old to fend for herself and she did a good job despite the hardship she got a good paying job she made many friends and she had a house that was under her ownership but the moment they came back she foolishly let them back in and went right back to being exploited by them he only held his tongue because the house was not his and she kept begging him not to fight her family even as they were taking his stuff it's when he finally had enough and put his foot down that she threw him out and then was calling him frantically where he ended up staying when he cut the phone off because it was obvious she was using him and their friends as Shields she could solve the problem but she didn't want to because it was easier to just obey this is the point I want to make some usually end up surrendering and thinking things will get better until they end up in a situation where they can never recover from while they're still begging and saying they're sorry because deep down they know everybody was correct but they didn't want to listen or they're just sorry for the latest thing they upset their abuser on The posters making the right call here but the fact they have to ask if they're the a****** shows that they still have some hooks in her and hopefully she takes all the NTA as encouragement that she made the right decision and it's time to no contact them no Lo contact no contact because her sister is always going to be around them and she's placing her husband at risk for her sister succeeding next time because she wanted to give them at least some rope when they've long proven they're undeserving
What I don't understand is why why why does your sister have your man's number? You said that she stole 3 of your previous boyfriends, yet she has his number and knows where you all live. Get a damn clue.
This is the EXACT reason why you get an attorney. That is slander & she needs to be criminally prosecuted. Put an end to this. Get a RESTRAINING ORDER. Have security at wedding, please. Groomsmen need to be aware too.
You have done a HUGE disservice to your son. Horrible hostile environment you put him in. That child needs INPATIENT MENTAL HEALTH. She is a danger to all. Contact CPS. They can force her to be evaluated & get trestment. Force inpatient. 51/50
It is annoying. I think this is a 'stealing another channel's work' channel. But for your info... the update to the last story: The OP (mother of son and stepmother without parental authority to step-daughter) realises that she can't live like this and sees how her son has been negatively affected by his step-sister. She is scared for her unborn child and the future evil this girl could do, including to her and her son. She had the conversation with her husband. Divorce, as his child would always be aroundand she had to protect her son. And abortion to ensure she wasn't birthing her child into an abusive situation. He begged her but after being away from that environment, she felt the difference and saw the difference in her son. Once all this was carried out and Divorce begun, it had a drastic effect on her soon to be ex-husband. The daughter got what she wanted, her dad's house to herself but he could not be around his daughter and every time he looked at her, he saw the death of his child. I can't remember if she still saw him but he fully saw her for what she had been pulling. It was all to late, even her empty sorrys. OP still loved STBX, but there was no future. Finally, with restorative help, the stool was fixed. SUMMARY:Worried about safety, OP terminates pregnancy and divorces husband. He goes into depression and cannot stand to look at his daughter. The damaged stool was fixed.
