Thanks so much everyone for your kind words and showering loads of concern. We have a responsibility to spread awareness among us that’s the main motive of speaking up. Please take care of your love ones. Your time and protection will nurture them. Once again, thank you all.🙏
Hello sister, Thanks for sharing your story. People used to think that rape are only from strangers. But it's not. I am a lawyer and i read lot of cases related to rape and i find that many of the rape cases happen within the family and relatives... Because in most cases the uncles or uncles friend or cousins cousins friend Or those people we know as friends are the perpetrators. That's why we need to be extra careful about young girls who don't know yet. Every brother or father or parents should be aware of this and protect their sister. Once it happens the shame and hurt will break them. Sister you are such a strong girl, you didn't do anything wrong. You have speak up on behalf of many victims like you. I fully support you. I will remember you in my prayer. I hope you will find peace and love. Your message will bring lot of awareness. Really thanks for sharing. 🙂🙂
Feels like being a boy is a cursed in this generation Everyone looking around and says stay away from boys you don't know what they'll do because there Boys
She have sex with him several times n how can u say that it's a rape? And yes I'm sure she might be already in class 8 or 9. Only boys have to be the victim?
I hope this wont happened to anyone.u r brave enough to explain the incident to those who have been through n rise their voices to get the justice.stay strong
It literally boils my blood to even hear how he being ur cousin have the audacity thick skin monster , disgusting Disgusting… stay strong u ain’t in fault u were young, so so proud of you for being vocal ❤
Hello sister, Thanks for sharing your story. People used to think that rape are only from strangers. But it's not. I am a lawyer and i read lot of cases related to rape and i find that many of the rape cases happen within the family and relatives... Because in most cases the uncles or uncles friend or cousins cousins friend Or those people we know as friends are the perpetrators. That's why we need to be extra careful about young girls who don't know yet. Every brother and parents who loves their sister should be aware of this and protect their sister. Once it happens the shame and hurt will break them. Sister you are such a strong girl, you didn't do anything wrong. You have speak up on behalf of many victims like you. I fully support you. I will remember you in my prayer. I hope you will find peace and love. Your message will bring lot of awareness. Really thanks for sharing. 🙂🙂
Feeling sorry for u dear😔that's the bitter truth of our society. From the inner core of my heart I appreciate for ur brave and courageous step👏. I hope that each Individuals specially girls, parents will gain good awareness knowledge from this video.May God bless you each single day dear sister. Whenever I see this kinda videos, my eyes are filled wid tears automatically.😭. My prayers will always be wid u. Tc sister , lots of love from ITANAGAR.⭐⭐💫💫💫✨💛WISH U AllTHE VERY BEST FOR UR FUTURE AHEAD.
What had happened to you was unacceptable. I am sorry you couldn’t speak up yourself when you are little. Thanks for sharing your story. I will watch for our loves ones closely.
I should say you are brave woman because you have shared the feeling of what actually happened. Since, many of the people don't even have a guts to come up and they are having depression all of their life's.. New subscriber my sister ❣️❣️❣️❣️
Never ever trust anyone if it’s comes with kids. I never trust cousins & relatives. Humans mind made the world so dirty. Parents should take responsibility on this.
On that time I was your teacher at your school. I couldn’t imagine such incidents happening to you on that time. You are best student in your class, I still recall your achievement in school. I am so sorry for you. Take care 🎉
People commenting why you slept on the same bed and that you should have screamed are so ridiculous. She was clearly very young plus no prior knowledge about this subject, also most of the kids during those times had no one to teach them about bad touch. Hence, scared, confused, shocked and ashamed were among the emotions she was probably experiencing during that unimaginable time. Why share this now some asked? Well, she is a grown up now with a lot more knowledge and courage. She can fully comprehend what she went through as a child in her own grandparent’s house!!! I am so sorry you went through this trauma, but applaud you for being the bravest among all. Stay strong. ❤❤❤❤❤
She was enjoying too maybe or she fell for money ... because speaking in youtube infront of the world n can't shout/scream at that time ... don't do for fame sisters it's a shame go to police station n report.
Most of girls face this kind situation in their young age, i think parents are responsible for this , they should take care of theirs kids and understand , i hope after watching this video upcoming parents will understand well and take care of it
@@Hingnaeatandvlog and u r also a video creator You didn't learn how to talk with strangers i thought video creators will know about such things but u are spoiling reputation of youtubers bro just go and get some education of manner and decipline i hope u understood what i mean
I feel so sorry for you for what happened to you and I really wished that you will heal from this and be free from this trauma. I really wished you the best for Ur future
You're truly a bold person inspite of all the incidents but with the audacity you could share in this kind of platform are very rare yet truly inspiring. You're a woman of courage Be not intimidated Be of heart And move on You have a better days coming ahead of you You deserve the best God bless!
So sorry for you. I Can't imagine how cruel and suffocating it was. But i appreciate your courage to go vocal on the incident.. I Hope he get his KARMA served. Stay strong Sister, Keep Growing.
I know in our community so many Tsseeekyo, molester, rapist are there. So sorry for this horrible incident. Good that you spoke out. You have no lump feeling in your heart. I know you still have difficulties. Dear try to be pray mantras. Actially i still see siblings, to father, son they are hugging and kissing like lovers do. Thats why within family such incident happens
I know it’s a really bad thing what happened to you as a kid, that’s the age where kids are the most vulnerable. As a kids many of us has been molested by the people who we know very well within our relatives. It’s our elders responsibility to understand who they leave their kids. This world is never safe for kids, girls, women and even boys and men these days. Parents or our guardians shouldn’t trust their kids with anybody. I understand and I very happy that you are able to speak even if it after many years. I’m with you. You should really expose his name too. Go on, I’m with you
Even if you tell your mom she won't take it seriously , they are older generation so they won't show how sorry they felt and won't hug u with guilt and anger , they will be like ' yea what can be done they are dead already why didn't you tell us earlier '. But while we are growing there is so much happening in our mind ..our focus is only when we can go out and play and studies occupies our mind too so we tend to forget but as u grow u learn about good touch and bad touch and by 20s all those incident comes to ur mind it flashes right infront of ur eyes ..clear pictures even of those times when u're very young 3-8 Its like all the memories coming back after long time memory loss.
I feel very sorry for u dear i also suffer at my young age one man sice he was not happy with his wife ...he approach me i was young he gives me food and give a good talk i dont know how he just molested me easily that way.....i was suffering inside i never share anyone coz i thought that it would be shame 😢😢be brave n move forward in life
Sister were all with you...we love you and never back down or never feel low on yourself coz the world is with you and we're against that monster and we'd like you to expose his identity and disclose this incident more to your loved ones dear ones far and near ones💪🏻♥️
i wish i can give you a hug 🫂 it takes so much courage to speak about your trauma.you’re so strong.i hope you heal from this incident soon even if it’s pretty hard to forget . people wonder why we choose bear over a boy this is the reason!! sending you positive vibes and energy. ❤❤
I wish you love and healing. And appreciate you for your courage. It may not be easy to share your story with the world. This will encourage more girls to be brave.
Tashi Delek to Karma Zompa lak. You look’s so simple and really kind hearted. Its so difficult time in school going time. Cousin so bad. He is Bhuddisium and he knows all the Gewa Ten and megewa sixteen. He is soo sinful. Really he should be alive in the Tibetan community. I never heard like this happened in Tibetan community. Your cousin is really sinful person. Actually your cousin has not aloud to merry to any girl. Why he has a bad manner, nobody knows. Now the his bad actions sure get punishment. Please take good care of yourself. You are educated and try to further studies and try help girls child of future advisor needs. Thank you so. much. And now all the parents and grandparents try to save girl child innocent please.
You are not alone. Many of us are involved with being raped.i am happy you speak up. There are many who still not able to face themselves from the bad experiences they had. I am glad you could take it out from your chest. Hoping you will heal with time. And much respect for you . 🙏🏻 your speaking up would open up eyes for many parents and spread awareness for young girls and women too. Love you and huge respect 🫡
My god 😞. I couldn’t believe such bad things happened to u my dear old friend zompa, god how could a cousin who shares same blood line can do that to u , I pray may karma hit him badly, may god give him wisdom to understand the grave mistake he made . U are and was one of the bravest n strongest girl I kno zompa . Fighting don’t forget what ever happens ur frends are here for u
Sister sorry to hear your painful ancident but anyway thank you so much for sharing all those things happened to you bad people never left unpunished you knew very well that every dog had has day 🎉
God give u the courage n thanks for sharing your experience....wish every family members including friends teach their child and friends and spread awareness of this kind of creapy evil monster being behaviour....hope ur dream come true...n wish ur cousin got punishment for such act🙏
i wish this will never happen to any others ever and i specially pay you a gratitude to stepping forward with such a courage which will help to change many unfold real incident of of an innocents who still carry such a weight in their hearts .thank you and i humbly wants to wish you carry on the message for the many others and GOOD LUCK
My heart felt concern and appreciations of your compassion for everyone. May lord Buddha bless you ever more. And give you more confidence to overcome this big hurdle in your life. ❤
it's very important to let your kids know about bad touch. educating them is very important. we can't trust anyone. please educate your kids and protect them
You are a brave girl , rarest of rare , a girl / women of present generation , today's society need you to educate innocent girl childs keeping aware of situation for security of all women and girls 👍🙏
I have never seen any girls talking about this kind of situation in youtube..honestly I have been through the same thing from my closest one .its not easy to be a women but I fought back and so my relationship with both my parents side are not good but Im very proud of myself to how I handled those situations and I still tell my sister and my close ones to be strong enough to handle such situations,I consider myself very very strong women.learn to fight back learn to stand for yourself thats how you're gonna teach or aware your children and people around you .
I am sorry you had to go through this and this incident has scarred your life. But this video will be a slap on his face. Also I see lots of insensitive comments here by people. They are asking you to speak in Tibetan while themselves commenting in English. Rather than focusing on the topic, these idiots are focusing elsewhere. 🤦♂️
Our society is full of pedophile & womanizer but you will often find their picture with H.H. Many of us don’t practice the true meaning and teachings Buddha dharma. It’s really heart wrenching to witness & hearing these her plea & stories. Some people feel proud doing such as if they did something great when they themselves have daughter at home. Human ignorance & lust blinded their moral. Thanks for sharing your story , I hope you don’t get PTSD or stuck in past but if possible do FIR if you are in India. Such culprit shouldn’t be spared. I have heard so many stories like yours. Our Society is not white as we believe.
It's very sad and ashamed to hear being asulted by your own cousin what a mindset he has to do this dirty things with his own sister I'm very happy that u speak out in front of the whole w world don't fear to stand on your own rights be bold and courage may hold help you sis 🙏
Brave girl, so sorry to hear that .i can feel the trauma you had so far ' the darkest years of life'...but knowingly why did you go when your cousin invited at his place on the third time aside 😞 anyways thanks for disclosing your testimony to the world its very educative.... God has given us the power of forgiveness 🙏 i wish your cousin a good luck deserve his own KARMA😢 kindly expose him to satisfy the pain you had then & now. praying for you dear🙏
Girl you are so amazing, just the way you are…. So sad. Good luck next time, be alert every moment. Thanks God, that you are alive. Take care urself. 🫸🏻🥴
😢😢 childhood trauma 😢😢 it's very hard to forget and it's always stick on our mind.😢😢 I was also grown up as a domestic helper and I was torturing like anything Bitten up black and blue.. when I was 12 years old... Now i really want to forget my experience but when ever I do household work it's always keep reminding me.. 😢 Sister so sorry for your life experience.. be strong and always remember that God is always with us.. ❤
May the almighty heal your broken heart and soul..and Give you power to overcome all your horrible experience in the past...we will be with you in our prayers
We should teach our young girls to speak up when something like this happens and teach them good touch bad touch from young age. Let’s not hesitate to teach them about sex or sexual abuse from young age. Let’s teach our young boys to treat women with respect and how they should behave with them. It’s our responsibility as a parent. I feel sorry for u but sharing this needs even more strength so kudos to u.
It’s not ur fault at all n it’s very brave enough to speak up. So don’t listen to negative comments. Ur story might inspire and helpful to someone. So thank you and god bless u
M sorry for the bad experience you have experienced but you should muster courage to expose his name so as to give justice to yourself. Be bold my dear sister.
Oh my dear, I am sorry you went through this horrible act at a very young age, still a child. I could not imagine how scared and alone you must have felt. You seemed to have found some kind of peace within you and found strength to share your bad experiences in order to help others. Only people with pure hearts and courages can speak up and make awareness. I really hope you will be loved truelly by the people in your life. Wish you a wonderful life . A lot of love and well wishes from Denmark ❤❤❤
Great job speaking up now, it's never late. But you have to reveal his identity so that he doesn't get away. And this may also save someone from becoming victim
U r a very brave n courageous person. It’s devastating n heart breaking what u have faced n gone through n that too at such a young age. It’s great that u are finally speaking up n sharing this incident. Must be very hard for u. Pls stay strong n know that Karma will definitely punish this evil person.
I feel like you need to expose him for real. Karma zomba it’s really sad to know that u went through such experience and u still stoop up strong. But for real you need to expose him and show him what he really deserve .
I know how it feels to be vulnerable without knowing a knowledge of bad touch feeling not helpful whn bad things is happening with us I hope i could share tht things but hiding those things from many years its hunting within me 😓
Wow... some are even saying it's not rape since she didn't scream or stop her cousin. She was a small child!!!!! Any physical relationship with a child is called a RAPE!
Ohhh my poor child😂, l am so sorry to hear your story, but am impressed with your courage. I can imagine how hard it myst have been to decide sharing this story, by doing this, you are helping, supporting and inspiring many other victims. Much love❤❤❤
Many women can't share their bad experiences, n i know most of a women face it in different ways, n it keep hunting them forever but couldn't do anything about it, but u r strong n brave my sister. So proud of u❤ n through u wish many women fight for their justice.
Sry to hear that & thank you for your courage sharing. May you be blessed by Buddha and heal completel💪🏼, he will be punished by karma too. Take care wish you have a sunflower bright future with true smile around your everyday life🌻🌈
You’re so brave to share your story over here, this kind of thing happens to most of children and young girls so i request please dear parents and family member to takecare and talk with your children about bad touch and bad things🙏🏼 there are lots of children who are being sexually harassed and being a girl its hard to speak up but still take your stand and talk to your parents or family to punish the victim so that they will never do it again ❤ please be safe everyone 🤍
Your cousin is arrogant he even treat you like this 😢 you should upload your cousin photo you don't have to be scared of upload his photo stay strong be brave.. he wìll get what he did later.. full support sister💪💪
Your grandparents were setting that night for long night.....so that night your cousin got opportunity to fulfill his desire....you could atleast share their photos.....stay strong💪🏻❤️
My God at that time u were only eight or nine years old. It means u was like a child.U did not know what was happening? That devil cousin must be punished.Now a days it is pokso act. This act is very powerful. I'm praying for u. So parents be careful if u have little girl or daughter at ur home. In most child rape cases rapist are family members. 😭
Mam, iam, 29 years old still sleeping with my sister she 22 but we never do same or any bad thing revolving into our mind. Moreover, I am always sleeping with my other cousins and friends as well. But I accept most boys are bad but not everyone, especially not ever cousin have such bad intentions such as yours. Besides, I know how u may feel, but don't include other families with your incident. Even it's also your fault to not prevent on that time. Because at the age of 24, u can differentiate or enough old to understand what is wrong or right.
But not all cousins are good. She is spreading awareness so that this kind of things will not happen to others. Because the shame and hurt will break them. as a brother we should protect our sister because there are many bad people around us
She is not saying all the male family members are like that. She is simplely Sharing her story to prevent such horrible acts on other young Girls and Boys.