Susan's journey paints a portrait of resilience and strength amid the darkest of circumstances. Growing up as a loner, she found herself yearning for the warmth of connection, only to be met with neglect from her own parents. When she finally reconnected with her estranged mother, their relationship remained a complex tangle of unspoken words and unresolved conflicts. Tragedy struck anew as her mother's boyfriend, the harbinger of a different kind of pain, introduced her to a world of ábuse. Summoning the courage to confide in her mother was a heartbreaking turning point; one that shattered her hope when her mother's allegiance sided with the ábuser. The weight of this betrayal dragged Susan into the depths of depressíon, her heart heavy with unanswerable questions. When her mother's passing came, it was a bittersweet coda to a life marked by turbulence. The answers Susan longed for were sealed forever, a chapter left unfinished. And yet, in the midst of this tempest, Susan's spirit remain unbroken. Crafting a life of fulfilment and breaking the generational barriers is her new found pursuit. Check out more on her socials youtube.com/@susangrace_ke To share your story with us, kindly send an email to sharedmoments.tv@gmail.com or WhatsApp number +254703372553 To advertise here, call +254703372553 Donate and support our work, through Mpesa Till number 9207675 or PayPal: www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=V3R5CSRWHLPSS or Mpesa send money to +254703372553 You can also join @Shared Moments with Justus MEMBERSHIP now! to get access to perks: ru-vid.com/show-UCAvd919a1ibeG5cp5QtwXOwjoin Subscribe & Follow us on: instagram.com/sharedmomentswithjustus facebook.com/sharedmomentswithjustus twitter.com/_sharedmoments Makeup by: Ejay Beauty Producer: Justus Nandwa Production Manager: Esther Josephine CREW Gideon Nandwa Joash Anaminyi Marvin Omukuba Jerusha Selah
This is very sad for you going through because of the person that could have shown you love other direction may the Lord God healing because healing is a process
Such a moving story Susan Grace. Just completed part1. It's inconceivable - what you had to experience at your tender age. Thank God for where you are right now though!
This is so sad to hear. I studied with this lady at Daystar. She was a social butterfly and she carried herself with so much grace that you would never guess she was going through the most. She's definitely destined for greater things. Keep it up girl!
This story is one of the difficult life stories to listen to 😭.I send hugs ❤❤❤ to you baby gal.I hope you are seeing a therapist and may God grant you abundance of peace.
Sending hugs and love to you Susan! I can't imagine a selfish mother who doesn't care about their own daughter. It gives me the impression that she wanted to get rid of you but didn't know how. I pray you find healing and get over your childhood trauma. May God continue to comfort and strengthen you.
Absolutely heartbreaking what Susan went through. I'm glad she is here to tell the story. Looking forward to part 2 because this story must have a good ending.
I wish you the softest life ever. That's so traumatic . But please go to therapy so far you're doing well. But also triggers are real. Thank you for sharing your story.
Parting ways with my father does not deny me the rights as a child to know Him. I am innocent and a product of two people. These injustice to innocent kids is doing more harm to this generation- identity crisis.Thank you for sharing your story and inspiring the world!
"Utaua huyu mtoto".....same words a neighbor once told my mum. Daily beatings for flimsy reasons. For another adult to intervine, it means it was bad. I try to think back and wonder just how bad was I to deserve it. I worked so hard literally running that home all my life. Well it ends. You survive and its in the past now. Gone but never forgotten.
We share same story,but the difference is mom did it,she was married until later in life I realized I was a mistake in her life,I don't belong to her current husband...I had a bad childhood,she used to call me ugly ,it really affected me,I am currently healing from my childhood trauma ..I am childless by choice
it's ok Grace people whose destiny's are great go through so much your calling is higher it's so sad but your story will inspire many more going through such I thought its orphans who go through much until you shared your story why do parents do that to their own flesh😭😭😭
You are amazing girl. Come to me I will love you like a daughter and you will be treated like a Queen 💞 you are so so special and sorry you went through all that crap😢
Sometimes I feel so sad and cry 😢 with stories but young lady yours is more traumatic and I wish you all best wishes in life ,keep strong and you are strong always may God bless you so abudant...I have cried 😭😭😭
It's stories like this that is making me start advocating for pregnancy/Parenthood to be governed by government. How? Government enforced family planning. Preconception contracts (listing responsibilities of both parents). Mental assessments of to be parents. Why? Kuna watu wako na mental issues, that shouldn't be allowed near children or have kids. They transfer their mental issues to kids and it becomes a vicious cycle. Also, how nice would it be if a child knew they were planned for. Additionally, for all single parents. Stepparents are 70% likely to abuse your children. Stepmother's always get the bad press, hence Cinderella effect. However, stepfather's tend to get 'protection' like in this case. So this is to women, believe your child, even if the abuser is paying for your lifestyle, report. Otherwise, when your child is independent they'll never talk/visit you.
Ohh the way I love, protect and love my babies regardless of what they do or say.😭😭😭this breaks my heart😭😭😭.....Grace your future is bright and you are destined for greatness!!!! 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰God loves you indeed ❤❤❤I am watching this...and seeing Gods faithfulness❤❤❤What God has kept for you, you haven't even thought of it nor seen it gal💪💪💪To all kids out there whom might be going though rejection may God see them though, make a way for them and protect them 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@@SharedMomentswithJustus can’t wait to hear her finishing her story. @Justus, I love the way you give your guests time to give out their story uninterrupted.
pole for that,parents lets love our children,lets have a plan before having children .children dont deserve to experience our bad choices .i enjoyed listen to you
Thanks for sharing your story Susan. I am sorry you had to go through all this trauma. I really hope your aunt watches this and apologises for her part. Overall I pray for total and complete closure in your heart. Sending hugs
First of all I give you your flowers for having that courage to let us in your life, you resemble Motoko Carol and you speak like her too.wishing you the best.
Beautiful story Susan . YOU ARE NOT ALONE. The worst thing one can do when healing is to try and seek answers from someone who abused you. Instead, Recognizing what generational trauma is can help play a crucial role in acceptance, if not healing. You see the grandmother abused her grandchild (and likely her daughter). However, her grandmother might also have been abused herself. Her mother couldn’t offer her anything or even defend her from her abusive boyfriend because she herself might have been abused. Maybe not sexually but in other ways that prevent her from defending her daughter from a sexual predator. The answers she seeks/ was seeking from her mother wouldn’t be available because her mother herself doesn’t even know she has answers to give to questions she doesn’t understand… this is the sad reality of repetitive abuse … there’s almost no one to blame , and what’s left is for whomever in the family has awareness of the abuse, to seek healing and acceptance themselves, and try NOT to repeat the cycle. And if you think that you will not repeat the cycle (without seeking healing and acceptance) just because you’re aware, that is a mistake. Abuse is an unconscious process that occurs because this is what your comfort level is from childhood.. This is why it makes sense to Susan , to keep going back to her grandma or the abusive stepdad. Her grandma is abusive BUT she’s used to it in a sense.. it’s not right, it’s abusive but it’s comfortable. This is the reason some women for example, pick the same abusive man /partner over and over if they experienced a violent/ abusive father in the home DESPITE their knowledge and will to not repeat the cycle. As I’ve aged I’ve learned empathy, and to respect and understand women/ men who choose not to be in relationships or start families citing their own childhood experiences… in a sense, it’s a different way of dealing with , and stopping the cycle permanently. Much better than being like Susan’s grandmother and allowing the same pattern of abuse three generations later.
I thank God that you didn't die ❤You are a survivor!!! I have never felt like this when listening to you 😮i can't believe 💔 whatt am hearing 😭. I wish I could have adopted you😢😢😢wooooooi
I pray for you Ms Susan Grace. I pray God heals you and you forgive all the wrongs that happened. And thank you for encouraging us to talk to our kids and us kids to talk to our parents. I wish i could kick ALLL those people who hurt you honestly tho. But only Godoooo. Only God❤
That you can be on the street and your mum just goes on with her life ? Like she does not even think about you for one minute during her day? This is crazy! I know people have issues and traumas but I am wondering what went so wrong with her that she just had no love for you! So sad...
Wow. First of all i love your resilience. Afrigan kids have been conditioned mzazi ni kama mungu and they have some tired bible verses which they quote selectively where it suits them. I like the way hukuwaacha wakupake mauji 😁. Wjhen you confront them is when wanajifanya kugutuka ala and pretend to change but still ile madharau ni kama lifestyle kwao.Too bad when i was just a child i could defend myself and first forward at the age of 32 i confronted my fatha for abuse that involved indecent touching and the d0 g made sure he was drunk inorder to do this while the meek mother would just watch. I wonder if that woman is a nyerian coz me im a proper certified nyerian na hugwes niuzia uoga wala uguse mtoi wangu nikuache! And that is how the man developed diabetes coz normally they assume you were too young to remember. even the woman was very scared and embarassed by this confrontation. Afrigan parents think they are entitled to mistreat kids but then God strikes them with sicknesses in older age while deadbeats tend to die earlier because bible curses them. sifurahii magojwa zao wala vif0 but its what it is. If i were you i would totally block all those useless relatives. Blessed or cursed be the day when i realized none of us will be here in the next 150 years because then i became careless.i cant tolerate you while you mistreat me no matter who you are!
So sorry for you girl. Imagine being so desperate to a point of being fine with being raped!!!!!It is just sad and I pray you get to heal from these traumatic experiences from your past.
This script plays out the same majority out the time and its scares the hell out of me as father who has a son who is not under my roof. I have seen countless stories like this it's always the child under the mothers care. Recently, there was trending video of a pedophile confessing that they target homes without a strong father figures.
@@wanjafaith currently, it's not possible to be there is much as possible owing to the fact that i work out of the country. The most i can do is video call the mother and talk to him and of course provide for him. But my parents have been a blessing most weekends he is at their place and the regularly check on him.
Those who prey on single parents will lose their own homes...I have experienced such after the death of my husband from neighbours asking me to meet them in bars etc and the same person trying to invite my grown daughter into a restaurant,what a shame. We both turned down the offers but what I witness from that neighbours house and those he's convinced to hurt me is bad. But the best part,our creator doesn't slumber,I declare to scatter by fire the council of the wicked upon the vulnerable in the name of Yahushua haMashiach.
@@justinamusyoka4986 your case was different but for the majority they dont escape it. Yes God is able but the world is also cruel and there planty of people who will never get karma . The best option is prevention and trusting in God. My mother always says God helps people who have helped themselves.
I LIKE IT WHEN THIS BEAUTIFUL SOUL SAYS, " WE CAN'T NORMALIZE PARENTS INFLICTING PAIN ON THEIR OWN CHILDREN." I AM SOO SORRY DARLING. BUT YOU ARE SPOT-ON; GOD LOVES YOU AND HIS LOVE SUSTAINED YOU. YOU HAVE A HUGE DESTINY. I DON'T THINK YOU KNOW THE SIZE OF YOUR CALL COZ ITS MASSIVE. GOD DOES NOT WASTE PAIN. HUGS HUGS HUGS. YOU ARE ONE IN A MILLION.
Its so tough to listen to this story as she says it. Its such a testament that not all women are meant to be mothers. Parenting is not just about DNA. I am so sorry you went thru all this in the hands of those who should have protected you.
I am a teacher,please God help me and give me grace to see and listen to pain especially in those who need me most.....to judge less and listen more Jesus..this is too painful..Wooooooiiiiiii!!!! Father heal this lady please....
This is a dfrent kind of mother. Most mothers love their kids even if the father treated her badly. The baby becomes the consolation. Also huyu mama na wamama wengine kama yeye please muache ujinga do not let a boyfriend sleep in your house. Your vetting needs to be higher huyu mtu akuje kwa watu wenu aonekana ajulikane. Na akuje na watu wao at least that will prevent most from sexually abusing your kids. But hii mapenzi ya Nairobi no one knows you hujui watu wao nothing. This nigga will do anything and disappear na hakuna kitu utafanya
She's soo beautiful and eloquent, Your ashes are soon becoming treasures.. I despise parents who abuse children emotionally, and African kids face soo much cruelty.. I think this is why people are just angry alot of pain,
Oops or not it was not your cross to carry Mami...They all did you wrong and I hope at least one of them will come back and say " am sorry!".........And if they don't it still doesn't make it right......
Some parents are photocopies. In my case it is my biological father who was very abusive, cruel to my mum and step siblings. He beated mum every day and when there was peace it was cold war. This led to a lot of emotional torture on my side, bearing in mind the step siblings released their anger to me.
The one thing I appreciate about my parents is nomatter what I did wrong they were on my side first maswali baadae. My dad always said nomatter what you've done you call me first.
Being raised without a father figure in your life as a lady is one frustrating thing. Am a victim and it's hard being in a relationship. Coz the exs also frustrated us.
I actually know women. Who were molested and their mom. Sided with the abuser. One of my friends mom put her out of the house. She would asked me why.i told her she became competition.once she told her mom what happen.sad but true.
Praise God. plse look for a genuine Pastor to break generational curses and cancel every evil verbal pronouncements over your life by anybody in authority or not, and cancel the spirit of rejection. Repent your sins and forgive your mum, & cucu and yourself, bearing in mind life is spiritual. Then God will give you favour with God and men. May the Lord God Almighty touch your life and whatever the locusts have eaten come back 7 times 7. You are blessed of the Lord.❤🎉
