Part 1 of 2| Asking my Wife Uncomfortable Questions **She usually avoids** 

Thank you Sbari for considering us by speaking English.pretoria gang

I’ll never wait for their approval, they better love him or unfriend me😂😂

I think we sometimes go back to past arguments because that argument wasn’t really resolved, maybe I left it for peace sake.

I think uVambane uyazi enjoyer eziSit-ins ngoku kancinci kancinci uyavela😂😂😂i like his change❤❤❤

We want approval from our friends because iichomi zethu they know what we want and bona ba sober minded as opposed to the girl o inlove 😅😅 so if siyayibhuda they will say nah nah chomi not he's not for you lona with tangible reasons ke 😂😂😂😂, it could be wena ubungayibonanga a certain trait u you blinded nje yi love.... ichomi ke comes in as an eye opener 😂😂😂😂😂 so does family. Kodwa ke idecision lies with wena girl, nabo they iifriends could be wrong 😅 ....

Makoti you are glowing, you are soo beautiful !!!!!😭😭😭😭🥰🥰🥰

The pause before “ baby this is personal “ statement 😂😂😂

On the friends question.....friends/fam can also see things that you do not see wena because you are in love, so they are like that "blind spot" and see red flags that we you do not see...But, the decision still rests with the one in the relationship. If the person is likeable, it makes relations smoother, akubi awkward as it is when s/he is not😍 Azi ninzi sana ii-questions, "grill room" for u Uyazi🤭

We really enjoyed the video, heey usbari came prepared 😂😂😂. Thanks guyz, siyanithanda kweli khaya❤❤

I am that silent supporter ndiyaqala ucomment kule video

" you would reject him because he once approached your friend" yes, how would u trust that person? What if it is his way of getting to ur friend through you?🤷‍♀️

Q3: iChomi zika boyfriend azinanyani always want to please ichomi yabo and they over do it sometimes fike besithi “siyaqala ubona umjita wethu e- inlove like this”.

"If I'm born again, I've changed" 😅😭

Sis siba you answered so well. The girl answers were girling😂😂

The way i love you guys i can't even explain it

Love how comfortable uSbari is becoming. Totally loved the intro. Now let me watch

"My memory is good" 😂😂😂

Funny how I was a silent supporter ekuqaleni🤭😂😂😂love how you answered la part yeMali sis Uyazi becouse why bezoyifuna back Imali yabo😂

Is this about yesterday? 🤣🤣

Q1: Your friends approving your person gives us so much assurance maan. Not that I didn’t assess the person but once friend yam ivume ndibane confidence yale relationship 😂

Thank you Sis Uyazi, you represented us very well as women😂👏🏽👏🏽❤️

Ow sana Akhonto ndiyi enjoy.a njengobukela nina❤️❤️😍

The quality is amazing 👌👌♥️

Ni ya fanela ❤❤ Siba cant wait till you get hair and skin partnerships, your glow is undeniable 👌🏿👌🏿👌🏿

Knowing history is very important, fneka uzazi xa udibene nomntu onabantwana abathathu komama abohlukileyo😂 fneka ungene uyazi uba should u fall pregnant uzokushiya apho nawe😂 or xa relationships aphume kuzo soloko inguye ojolileyo then u must know he easily gets bored, u will know uba character yakho will bore him or ungene uyazi uba u don't care wethu

Definitely enjoying these videos❤

Anibahle sana vha❤☺🤭 Niwenza mhle umtshato yazi😂🤦‍♀️Nisenza nathi siwunqwenele shame..Andifuni ngatsho👍 Beautiful young couple ke bethuna.. Siyanithanda ke vha❤

Sbali klk idaliwe indoda must provide. If I use my money you must pay me back. Mali yam yeyam. Mali yakho yeyethu

Lol we memorised it because sithanda imali😂😂😂😂

I enjoyed the it atlist as merried person ndifundile qhubekani guys nisenza kanjeh sizofunda🎉more love kuni Guys ❤

Question 4 I actually find that it's guys who bring up previous things in an argument especially if he does not want to admit he's wrong and take accountability. At times, I find that men do this because their point of departure in emotional arguments is to be very defensive. I agree with Siba, sometimes bringing things up from the past is to merely point to a pattern. We don't bring it up njeee, we do so to make a point that this has become a reoccurring thing.

You answered very well worse xa uphendula ngeMali yhuu,ngase ndithi louder.😂😂

I am enjoying these questions and answers ❤❤😂😂😂 Nibahle fam, niyathandwa♥️😍

😂😂😂😂😂 usphendulele kakhle sis Uyazi ❤❤❤❤zonke futhi

I just loveeee the money part😂❤️ofcourse we will always want our money back .. that’s Girl Maths sana 👍😂😂😂

Imkile gone ayibuyi🤣🤣🤣hayi enkosi Siba❤ayibuyi imali yendoda period!

Question 5 It's simple really. Women are detail-oriented whereas men don't care much for these things. It's the same thing with names. Men forget people's names, important dates, events, etc.

Yhoo zange ndahleka kangaka😂😂😂I love ezi Sit downs😂😂🤭

Question 2 Your partner's past is important because, often times, abafana don't talk about their feelings, they don't like doing that. So, sharing a thing or two about their past experiences helps us understand where they are coming from. For example, if your partner does not want you to use his phone, it could be because his ex-partner used to do evil things with his phone and that led to unresolved trust issues and conflicts.

Anisebahle amawele. Love you Tyesi family ❤

Sbari we bringing past arguments bcz klk niphindaphinda into enye nina indlebe zenu azidalelwanga kumamela xerm

Answer number five you nailed it Siba 😂 our memory is very good especially in Bank card

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣@ the money question....maba phiwe imali oomama🤣🤣🤣🤣

let me save usisi siba u want to know i past yomntu ngoba awufuni xa ihaters zifika zichaza ihistory ube shocked vele uthi ndiyayaz umvale umlomo

Siba is so beautiful, wow!❤🥰

I like how u answered sis Uyazi😊well done sis u represented us well mntase

I'm enjoying these sit downs🎉🎉❤

Quesiton 1 We vet our friends' partners to suss out the red flags because usisiza yena ukucloud 9, so angangazihoyi ezo red flags. Also, we vet them because we want to see if he has good intentions. Most importantly, we do it to see if they actually like each other. Not only umfana, but usisiza naye.

Firstly I like how you guys are matching😍😍

Funny SisUyazi andiyikhumbuli tu ipin , like all the time ndiyabuza. Ipart yombuyiso wemali hayibo uhleli ubenefita ngoba yenza into zalapha endlini mos le mali yakho ngoba if nguwe ongabuyisi leyam wena you cant even show uba njengoba ingabuyanga wenze ngayo into esibenefita kuyo😂

I like your 1st question sbari Yes kudala we tend to seek friends approval xa sidater. And yes even now kuba we live in a small world abantu bayazazi si scandal's nabanye so some times your friends doesn't want you to get hurt by this guy .

Yhoooo ulibophile iphepha usbari😂😂😂😂

Sbari getting really good on you tibe😆❤️ Thank you for the video guys

Ewe sis Uyazi 😂😂😂 by birth as women we have sharp memory. Nam loo I know my hubby's ID number yeka akazi eyam. I know his PIN and for that matter I use his card more often yena he has to memorize my ACCOUNT NUMBER😂😂😂😂😅😅😅 and mna I memorize his PIN!!!!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂

Molweni bantu nam, wow akumnandi sbary opening the vlog ❤❤❤❤👌 ndiyazithanda ezi sit ups🙏🙏💕

Hayke the refund 😮😂 hay indoda must kaloku. It's your role to ukubheja and give us 😂😂😂❤. Yindalo kaThixo nini providers never us 🙈😂😍

good answer cc Uyazi pha Q:5 We wanna understand the relationship between bona yabo so that zokwa urelax around abo bantu base msebenzini wakhe

Loving these series ❤😂

It's not important it either they take it or live it ....umuntu wam owami if abamfuni abahambe ngisale naye

Hay sana siyabuza kuba siyanithanda sbary😅😅😅 and xa kulate uba worried uyabo, eye colleagues ke sana it's deep yhoo 😂😂😂.... ndiyazitha ezi questions shame 🤞💕💕😂

Khanimeni ndingenelele apha for uSis Uyazi 😂 women are just good with numbers

No no no, Sbari andifun kuvumelana nawe kuleyo yokuba, We always bring up past disputes; both parties do that, but guys especially do so when they try to make us women feel less than human. 🙂🙂🙂🙂

I am loving these conversations 🎉❤

My favourite couple 😊😊 anisebahle sis❤

The way I love iman I don’t even care for any friends approval 😂🙈 I will definitely through break up ndodwa shame!

Love you guys, your authenticity tops it❤❤

Thoroughly enjoyed the video loved the fact that you answered all the uncomfortable questions with honesty and humour. Singo mama obviously we gonna check up uba baphi babuya nini not kuba sifunuba bossy but because we care ❤😊

molweni bethuna, sis uyazi no Sbali we country❤

Thanks Sis Uyazi 😂😂😂you answered very well.....Sbari we can't sleep kukho ingxaki nango 00:00 midnight 😅😅😅😅

I always try and catch up on Saturdays while busy crocheting... But sana nam andiFeel comfortable when hubby talks a lot about a female , kufana sebulisa female ngobubele ndiyathinza ngakumbi xa ndingayazi😂🤣

The reason we started argument at night is because we know you are not going anywhere. You are forced to listen to us😂

Yes Siba our memory is very good 😂😂😂

Love lives here and I love it here Authenticity Humor Realness Relatable Kumnandi apha❤❤❤

I'm new here , but already I love it here🥰🥰🥰New Subbie🤩🤩

And ke it's crucial ukwaz ex nababekhe bafunwa nguBF/ Hubby imagine befriending lomntu😮

It's import for friends to meet or see the guy incase one of them knows them personally or knows their reputation or background or even notice something ubungayiboni wena so that ungene uyazi uba kukho into enje ngalomntu, I wouldn't say approve because xa ufuna umvuma umntu uyamvuma noba itshomi azithandi

I think sbari loves RU-vid, jonga ubahappy sana his not strict at all apha ❤

Oh mhle uNkosikazi ka Sbali wethu!! 🥰🥹 what a beautiful lady

Thyini women are the same!!! 😂😂😂 1. Us wanting to know more nge collegues 2. Also sazi ne past 😂😂😂😂

Q2:Your past is very important to give me a clear indication about the relationship nje intluva yalento endizifaka kuyo. ps: andifuni noyazi mna past yomntu yooh 😂

Can't wait for part 2😂😂

Yes Siba good, but subuza questions ngexesha lolala. Imali yona mabayincame yeyethu

Well done Sisi Uyazi, these questions were tough questions and you answered them very well

Akasemhle u Uyazi❤❤❤the glow Kotiza😂😂kumnandi eMacwerheni

About the pin we have good memory nd ke mali yenu ine extra ncasa

Ndiyanithanda oko ndihleka😂😂

You guys are entertaining I love watching you, Siba umhle sana you glowing doll❤

Weekend yam bukela Nina ave ndinithanda 🥰🥰🥰

Sbari you've just mention klk female friend" what if you mingled with1 in the past?? hayi it's unsettling wethu klk ninezinto nina

😂😂you are getting grilled my sister but in you we are led..Lloyd uzityela u100 interrogation hleli eyithanda..this is worth watching❤

Ndinithandaaaa!❤❤Lol mxelele mntase xa sibanika imali yethu siya invester thina😂everytime ndibukela ndicinga sbari xa esithi no matching outfits emicimbini😂😂😂😂😂.

Hahah enjoyed this one! ❣ Have a few sentiments: Q2: Even with job applications, your potential employers will dig into your work history and experiences. Similarly, one's past experiences and overall background can reveal a lot about them. I believe people change yes- I guess it depends ba u.comfortable kangakanani na with the person's past. So we use it as a judgement yes. And there's nothing wrong with that haha. Q4: Kum I've found that I bring it up if zange ndixole ncam ncam. So ''resolving it'' goes beyond just verbally reaching an agreement. I define it as truly being okay with the conclusion- kum this comes when I feel heard, seen, validated and understood kulo argument. If that doesn't happen, I'll hold some resentment and pent up frustration which is likely to come out at some point.

Thank you Siba and sibari I like the way sibari is coming out of his shell more . Very nice video

4.Bank pin? Xa kunokwenzeka into klk kuwe kuzobuzwa kwi girlfriend yakho i pin ube usengxakini e needa imali ibe ingkho i cash ngalalomzuzu

Follo up questions Sbari? Follow up questions? Haiii😢❤ You guys look alike more in this video. Nibahle futhi😊😊😊

Short and sweet answers ❤

Sbari is so comfortable now it’s beautiful to see 😁 SisUyazi u answered so well and I loved the girl math😂❤

True we trust them but we want to be comfortable ❤

Sbali must come here and tell us how does he feel now,he is comfortable now😂 from First video to this

Siba Siba Siba 😂😂😂😂Hayi uSbali uze efungile 😂😂😂