Anyone with autism spectrum disorder could look into heavy metals being an underlying issue, as autism spectrum is often caused by mercury toxicity. I would really recommend anyone who want to look into the Andrew Cutler Protocol. This is the ONLY safe protocol to this date, eating things like chlorella and cilantro has made people very very sick. Please read the child recovering stories by googling "andy cutler success stories child" and the adult ones by googling "andy cutler success stories adult" and google"andy cutler rebecca rust lee weston price" for a great article about mercury toxicity and the protocol, and also see the website "fight autism and win», and the book with the same name. But the best place to learn and get support is trough the Facebook group «Andy Cutler Chelation: Safe Mercury and Heavy Metal Detox». Wish you he best!
I'm at that age where I realized my mother will never accept that she is living for her kids not herself! It gave me a lot of grief to see it every day and the day I reflected on her past I encouraged her a lot to do things she enjoys! For example she would rush get groceries then rush home cook them and make sure something is at the dinner table or she would feel mad guilty if she didn't! I told her slowly chore by chore step by step, it's okay to go out with your friend and not have the food ready, it's ok if groceries are bought a day late. It's ok if you have to wait for me to come home and I help you with the laundry, and it's not done like always! Love my mother. I have tears as I write. Sometimes as a child you have to teach your mom to live her best life and be a little selfish, she is much happier and smiles much harder. My mom has really changed and takes my advice, it's harder on a single mother.
Anyone with autism spectrum disorder could look into heavy metals being an underlying issue, as autism spectrum is often caused by mercury toxicity. I would really recommend anyone who want to look into the Andrew Cutler Protocol. This is the ONLY safe protocol to this date, eating things like chlorella and cilantro has made people very very sick. Please read the child recovering stories by googling "andy cutler success stories child" and the adult ones by googling "andy cutler success stories adult" and google"andy cutler rebecca rust lee weston price" for a great article about mercury toxicity and the protocol, and also see the website "fight autism and win», and the book with the same name. But the best place to learn and get support is trough the Facebook group «Andy Cutler Chelation: Safe Mercury and Heavy Metal Detox». Wish you he best!
Tisha seems so strong and she been glowing since that marriage was buried...In my Martin voice.....YOU GO GIRL She better keep shining and living her best life, she looks great
I don't know Mary J Blige, however, the few times I've watched her being interviewed, she always does come across authentic AND graceful! May God heal her completely
Why woyld they be guessing? Adrienne grew up with divorced parents so she understands and has lived the experience albeit from a different perspective but it's not as if it's alien to her life experience and she's also married to a divorce and left a long term relationship prior to her marriage. Tamera also has recently divorced parents and understands it. I believe Loni was also briefly married once before. So none of them are new to the topic
@@zazabrown732 Yeah but the thing is only Jeannie and Tisha are real enough to speak on their experiences. The rest of the ladies especially Tamera and Adrienne have this persona of portraying their life & marriage as 'perfect'. In topics like these they tend to beat around the bush, they live in the present but Jeannie acknowledges all aspects of her life including the past and isn't afraid to speak on it. Tam and Adrienne are more reserved and want to protect their image so they say little. Having other people in similar situation who aren't afraid to speak up, shedding light on it gives them a bit of a reality check
@@charlotte6717 not necessarily. As Tamera pointed out, she is still in relationships with her parents, spouse, etc so she has to be mindful of what she says because (a) they have not necessarily consented to have her talk about personal situations involving them and she as to respect their privacy And (b) some of her family members have specifically asked her not to speak about their personal lives on tv so even where there may be a situation where she may have life experience, she can't.talk about it even if she wants to. Jeannie and Tisha can say anything they want to cos they're talking about exes to whom they dont owe anything. That's the difference
We’re taught to shrink ourselves so that the man can feel like a man. “Don’t be too opinionated” aka “nagging” “don’t be too loud, he won’t like that” etc. smh. I won’t e teaching my kids this mess
The one thing I noticed and picked up on is that usually women who get out of relationship realize that they deserved better back then once they get into a new and better one... like seeing that the girls here acknowledged their own wrongdoings because of the low standards they had... it’s ok to sit around and say “ I have a man “ but question is...” is he the RIGHT man “ which leads to following your gut intuition and doing what’s right and leaving a relationship that you know isn’t meant to last
Anyone with autism spectrum disorder could look into heavy metals being an underlying issue, as autism spectrum is often caused by mercury toxicity. I would really recommend anyone who want to look into the Andrew Cutler Protocol. This is the ONLY safe protocol to this date, eating things like chlorella and cilantro has made people very very sick. Please read the child recovering stories by googling "andy cutler success stories child" and the adult ones by googling "andy cutler success stories adult" and google"andy cutler rebecca rust lee weston price" for a great article about mercury toxicity and the protocol, and also see the website "fight autism and win», and the book with the same name. But the best place to learn and get support is trough the Facebook group «Andy Cutler Chelation: Safe Mercury and Heavy Metal Detox». Wish you he best!
I did not ever want a man to be my savior because I already have one and his name is the Prince of peace almighty God and Jesus he did it all for amen and hallelujah.👏👏👏
I think men have cinderella syndrome too tho! Many men think the 'right' woman is the one who's gonna come through and straighten out their whole life! ...and many of us women pride ourselves for how we 'change' them (ie do the work for them) and make their lives better..sooooo I think it definitely goes both ways.
Sarah T Nah men just look for a woman to cook and clean for them and provide regular sex. Women are the ones who have unbelievable standards from disney princess movies they watched as kids
Yes! This is so true! I've had dudes tell me that they function better in a relationship. I ask why and its something similar to what you said. They depend on women to make them better people instead of making the decision to be better themselves. They also depend on women for the cooking, cleaning, and regular sex. They feel withought regular sex they would just be complete whores. So I asked them "isn't that being codependent?", they said well yeah kinda.
Sarah T More like wanting to be back in the womb and be taken care of. The men that approach me, even if they are successful, they want a woman that’s going to be their administrative assistant or mom, chef or maid. Who’s breeding this men that want to be taken care of. I wish it was the 90s. I’m tired of men wanting women to sacrifice their life for them, especially black men. I never got hat from a Latino or white male. Sorry to bring race into it. I’m so tired of men wanting to marry me because of nurturing ways and the fact that I’m simple and have no drama but then you wanna come to the relationship not full and half empty and expect me to fix you.. I’m complete and have done the work on myself. I don’t need a child or to raise a a man, I need. A life partner and for a man to be a man. A man is supposed to provide protect and profess and do things as a man but I’m tired of men wanting me to be the man in a relationship.. he’ll fn no! I don’t understand this shift that’s going on with men. I really don’t, it’s like they are turning into boys and not men.
That was Mary’s problem. She was looking for a “savior” in a “MAN”. From that statement it is fair to say Mary didn’t have enough self love to sustain who she was in her marriage. There is only one “savior”. God. Period
@@katbien-aime670 .One of many things I can respect about MJB is that she is honest with her fans. She don't tell everything but she is at least transparent. I can respect that.
Yeap, I caught that too. I am not sure she knows she's giving the clues away, "alpha male" aka Adam who is a Leo! Anyway, I love that they love each other.
Not gonna lie. I was definitely sitting here singing that song she mentioned while Loni was talking. Lol, it goes along with they were talking about perfectly.
Tisha know's Xactly what Mary is talking about because she went all out in her marriage just like Mary did. Most Women take marriage seriously While most Men don't!!!
Damn! Mary's just out here blessing folk with her truth! I went to her concert with Nas for the Royalty Tour, which exceeded my already high expectations! Love me some Mary and her realness!
@SARA I agree. There seems to be a deliberate act of trying to convince herself that all is great and sundry and I actually think she believes it. It's sad because, for what I see, lots of women are emotional wrecks trying to plaster happiness, that stuff is exhausting!
Exactly💯 because a man kno how to put himself first easily it's in their nature selfishness so women gotta OVERSTAND don't pure your whole self in no one but youself/kids cause the buck of men will put their wants/needs before anything or anyone everytime🌠
i've missed so many opportunities due to mandatory moves and having to follow my spouse. now i'm stuck in a loop and right back to waiting for work, when i couldve already been so far. i couldve been retired but i sacrificed my career for my exspouse. i do so well when I forget about them for a while, focus on my body and my mental fitness, and concentrate on me. i'm on the body and mental fitness, i just need my MULA!
I say this to my daughters all of the time. We need to stop giving people credit that they don't deserve. We are always taught to place nice and tell people they are doing good when we know they are not. I have never picked up a book and read my daughters the story of Cinderella because for most of us that's not true. No one is coming to rescue us and I have never had that happen to me. Marriage is work and sometimes we are broken and end up with broken people. Then when we become married or get into a relationship and the man isn't tall, dark & handsome or the knight slaying the dragon we lie and say he's doing it just to save face.
I don’t know who needs to hear this but real love thrives on submission, it’s a song AND dance. You know you’re in the wrong place with the wrong person whenever one of y’all is dancing but there’s no singing or there’s one who’s constantly singing while the other refuses to dance. Everything in between is practice! The everything in between shapes us like puzzle pieces until we fit exactly where we should. Don’t be afraid to figure it all out as you go
@@user-tk4qd8dj1p I actually like Loni but go off Lol I stated a fact. She's gotten better since Amanda permanately came on board but she DID used to do that and that's a fact not hate.
Absolutely... We sometimes forget that we were who we were Before the relationship... We were who God has made us individually.We were born by ourselves before anything...
I learned to put God first no one is first but God only then me and then other people when We put God first and his love really no one else matters. i learned the hard way but still growing and learning to make better decisions now. I put God first and stop putting my feels to the side trying to please others no more. God is always first. No one comes before God. God bless everyone. 👏👏☺
This is why I am not married. I am not ready to be taken care of a man and kids at the same time working. That's too much for me to handle with egos and attitudes. That's like being a maid and a hot girl 24/7 at the same time lol I am stay single and probably die single haha
Women are protectors. Period. Mothers protect their Sons, Wives protect their Husbands, Sisters protect their Brothers. It's a very natural thing. So, when in a relationship you find yourself doing that to a fault, search for the reason behind it. Low self-esteem, improper role models, familial tradition, and these things can be on both involved. I just understand that Men are providers and Women are protectors. And nothing is wrong with that, as long as it's healthy.
@@CodyCole80 You're absolutely right. And continue thinking that, but here's the thing. There are different definitions of "protection". When a kid falls and scrapes their knee, they scream out for Mommy. They know that Mom is gonna come running, threaten to kick the sidewalks butt, and kiss the boo-boo. When a kid is in a situation where they need someone to initiate aggression, show complete domination and get something under control quickly they look for "Daddy" or a father figure type they know will get the job done. That's why Mother's cry at weddings and Father's gives their daughters away. To someone "Daddy" believes will fill his shoes.
I've suffered from the Cinderella syndrome all of my 20s and I must say that I denounce that fairy tale. Now that I'm 31 I'm realizing no one is coming to save me but Jesus. And no man here on earth is perfect neither am i. Gone are the days where I sit and wait for a man to see my greatness and pop the question.
I love Loni comment about looking for Prince Charming. The notion that we need someone to protect and save you is so outdated! We should be looking for someone is compatible/ compliments you on your personal and career pursuits?! Be confident in what you are bring to the table and don’t let someone tell you what you are bringing to the table.
Fun fact: The original singers of the song "Cinderella" is a Swedish group called Play. The song was released in Europe in Dec 2001 and in the US in June, 2002. The movie Cheetah Girls was filmed in October - Dec 2002. And honestly, I love Play's version as much as I love the Cheetah Girl's version. ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-LdKcWgXfIK8.html
We as women need to learn TO LET THE MAN BE A MAN. we as women take on the entire relationship becoming the man as well as the woman, doing to much or doing it all.
The Reals show have changed me so much over the years... some topics are just too related... But all the same enough is enough.... I have to live my dreams ...Time wait for nobody
Come ON ADRIENNE for the Cinderella reference because that song is STILL AND WILL ALWAYS BE A BOP. CHEETAH GIRLS WAS BEFORE ITS TIME. So much female unity and empowerment in all those songs !!
I think its all about perspective. The fairytale example, 'find your Prince, he'll rescue you'...you actually have to find them...they actually have to rescue you...In Jeannie's case her new man showed a small example of his royalty & 'recused' her by taking her to the airport to be there when she left town, regardless of what was going on for his birthday and proved he had a better standard of care vs her ex. Men, women, whoever, WHEN THEY SHOW & TELL YOU WHO THEY ARE BELIEVE THEM!!! Its not the fairytales problem that too many rush in too quickly. Sometimes especially in hindsight it's pretty obvious you don't have a Prince. YOU KNOW. But you have a million reasons why you settle. One very common reason being you don't want to be alone and are afraid to wait for your real Prince or Princess. In fairytales both sides of the couple usually are doing some pretty fantastic and difficult things for each other. Why don't we listen to that part of the story? Yeah they usually tell the story in 90 minutes and it's a cartoon, but they are still fighting dragons, giant cobras, facing the wrath of a discriminating mob or their disapproving/jealous families. They made each other a priority. Obviously fairytales are not meant to be taken literally, however there is a lot of good examples where the Prince and Princess proved their worth. Remember those partd of the story everybody. I don't see how people watch them, turn to look at their definitely not a Prince guy they are dating and say, 'Yep that's totally what Prince Charming would do, NOT look for me or call the next day if I suddenly left a party. Yep Aladdin would totally let me uber to the airport vs ride with me on Carpet'. If you blame fairytales as the reason for your bad relationship choices I think you just weren't paying attention.
