This has led many to their early grave. Just because your pastor says you are his wife does not mean if you are not happy you should condemn yourself to everlasting unhappiness
Hmm this is a deep message. Someone who was “spiritually mature” played this card on me too - saying I am the will of God for him. It brought a lot of confusion to me as I didn’t have any romantic feelings towards him and didn’t receive confirmation from God. It’s really sad that such things still go on in the church. I pray any woman who has been plagued with this confusion will be set free and God will give us life partners that we will rejoice over 🙏🏾