Pastor Chris on Marriage 

I am a Muslim but I listen to Pastor Chris more than any preacher man because of his wisdom and grace

I always told my husband wat to do and it wasnt turning out well...and now am practising the listening more part and i have peace in my heart...thank you pastor

Hmm... this is very true! I noticed there were strains when i always trying to tell my husband how to get stuff done, and i was doing more of talking than listening to him. It was not good at all! I started noticing he was withdrawing from me until the HolySpirit corrected me and helped to see my wrongs. The HolySpirit really helped and still helping me... Now, it's so much peace and love in my marriage. I have better understanding than before. Now, i fan his strength and not his fault. My husband is so much better now, so loving and seeks my joy. Hallelujah!!! The Word of God is powerful and ever true. Jesus is forever Lord. Thank You dear HolySpirit!🙏❤️

growing up as a young lady i was so anxious about getting married i just could not wait but after listening to this message i realised there so much work to do on my character as a young Christian.

My husband is my master and I am so blessed to have him, wonderful husband.

The greatest teacher of our generation 🔥 🙏thank you pastor Chris for building the body of Christ with the word of God

This is too DEEP.. Blessed are the WOMEN that Understand this Message

This preaching has built me, i am going to be the best wife. Thank you Pastor Chris

Learning my role as a husband has made me to become Humble n appreciate life as a husband

God gave place of peace, thank God I have a peaceful marriage. I have been married from 2008 and I am still very happy in my marriage, never fight with my husband. I made up my mind to humble my myself. Thank you Pastor sir

Thank you pastor, ladies if you submit your marriage will be so sweet, our Helper (the Holy Spirit) gives us wisdom and strength to submit!

I'm not yet married but with pastor's teaching I know and believe my marriage will be a success..A wise Woman has influence on the husband and that's me❤️❤️ Glory Hallelujah Thank you Pastor Sir

Pastor Chris this preaching is mine may God forgive my rebellious way towards my husband

Most marriages are failing because most women don’t know how to submit. Thank you Pastor Chris for this glorious message 🔥

See this is why women must make sure that the man is saved, because now you have a husband that you must listen to.

What a gift to the body of christ these spoken words can captivate anyone who never really understand the text do not be unequal yoke together before going into marriage it will prevent broken hearts pain division children going astraý broken marriages homes unstablity isolation misery wounds even death

"Many Christians ate fighting to be right, than fighting to be in Christ. Child of God, fight to be in Christ!"

Pastor hit the nail when He said when you are not obedient and you are harsh towards your husband, your beauty evaporates, He cant even see your hair style

Thanks Lord for using Pastor Chris to teacher us to do better in our marriage! To God be Glory!

The best sermon on marriage. SEALED.

JESUS CHRIST GIVE ME THE GRACE TO MANAGE MY MARRIAGE SO WELL

It's not always easy, especially if husband don't know his role.

Pastor Chris is a Blessing to the Christian world. This is 100% correct.

Pastor Chris, may God bless all marriages with this your message. Most marriages suffer because of the neglect of the crux of this message. May God reward you sir.

Pastor Chris is a master indeed. Waooo waoo waoo, Yuo can´t listen his messages and be a failure in this life. Full of grace and wisdom... I love you Sir. We appreciate you so much. I am grateful to God that I am alive in Christ in your dispensation. Praise the Lord

I love pastor Chris right from day one...just like the way I love tb Joshua.

Pastor Chris sermon will be mine forever to watch

he made him a help and not a slave, and he didn't make him many women, he made him only one woman.

In all his teaching I really love this 100% and am blessed with this one

Thank you sir, thank you man of God for this word of truth. This is a subject that has been twisted and turned upside down through social correctness and also by many behind the pulpits. And then we wonder why many Christian marriages have become something many believers ENDURE, not enjoy. The situation is so bad that I believe if God was to change His mind and say there should be marriage in heaven, many who have been through it on earth would protest against it!

My husband is my head and I will always stay under him and pray for him.

Pastor Chris the wisest preacher in Nigeria full of Holy Spirit. My respect goes to him, I enjoy listening to him, he is blessed.

When l hear his voice l feel good deep inside and goosebumps all over my body.

God gave us two ears to listen. One mouth to speak. Pastor Chris, is preaching the truth in 2020. More marriages wouid be save if we listeg

This is pure truth and I love it love it love it, this teaching is 100% true and l really love it with all my heart it gives me relief and I just can't explain how important it is. This is directly from heaven to heal us men because marriage is.... 🙏🙏🙏🙏

I always laugh and have excitement in my spirit whenever i listen to Pastor Chris. This great man of God is just wonderful

Powerful I learned a lot from this teachings and I pray to God that when I get married to help me not to be rebellious but to be humble and obedient.Pastor Chris you're a blessing to many ,may the Almighty God bless you and your family

Wow, I so needed this word. May God bless you man of God

Learn to be humble and listen. In other words; ladies don't marry someone you don't respect and can't listen to.

Whao! Wow! Whao! I am shocked that the heresy preached by Pastor Chris got accolades! It is a pointer to how humans have fallen. Marie-Laure Quayson: God bless you RICHLY! It is challenging to speak the truth when millions endorse heresy. I rarely listen to Pastor Chris but admire the excellence I see in his church and some of his ministers. I was drawn to this particular message after listening to Pastor EA Adeboye’s message of April 26, 2020. I strongly believe God wanted me to serve as a vessel to set many free. What I was hearing as I listened to Pastor Chris baffled me. As I listened, I was led to read comments. I was already giving up when I saw yours; Marie-Laure Quayson. I must confess it inspired me to go the extra mile. Rather than just say a prayer, I am led to do an exegesis. I hold a doctorate in Biblical Counselling. Hopefully someone who really need the TRUTH will get to ours and others pointing in the right direction. Let me start by saying that when two people marry, no matter how religious or full of faith they are, if they are not in total submission to the will of God, the marriage has 100% chance of hitting the rock. I will never gloat over breakdown of the marriage of believers because it takes two and the two must align with God’s will or one person would agree to let another have his or her will always. This happens often until the woman [or man] says, no more! Disagreeing in marriages goes beyond algorithms or feelings, telling you you are compatible. I recollect that I wanted to have a separate room and negotiated this with my “groom”. I was so independent that I wanted to retain that even in marriage but my husband lovingly told me, “That won’t be marriage.” His response was not enough so I went to God and God said, it’s time to trust someone enough to open up. That settled it. Christians must always learn to return to God. It is sad to see many Christian homes scattered, shattered or tattered because each wants there own will, yet in granting us eternal life Jesus as human said, “Not my will, but thine be done.” Why then has satan taken us over! What a wonderful match Pastor Chris and Pastor Anita were! Where did they miss it? We all must pray for Christian leaders so that they can stand firmly on the unshakable ROCK OF AGES. The message by Pastor Chris was in August 2014, going by the date on the video. Pastor Anita, his former wife has been in the UK since 2013. I know this because Pastor Anita said this during her mother’s 70th Birthday in 2015... ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-6uyDC7yFN5g.html So I leave you to ask, was Pastor Chris’ message inspired by God? Was the sermon directed by God? Or was the sermon self motivated as a response to the crack in his marriage; his wife leaving home. The kind of heresy he preached is why there is spousal rape, incest, battery, widow abuse and worse, fraud on women especially wives and widows, to keep them subservient or enslaved! To start with, if husbands are masters, should they be sleeping with their helpers?! If husbands are bosses, should they be carnally minded towards their servants?! The Bible called husband and wife JOINT HEIRS. The Greek word for husband is aner which simply means man. In some contexts aner means "husband." Some other occurrences clearly have the meaning "male human being." Many instances where aner refers to a male human being will not serve as conclusive evidence, because a word meaning "person" could also be used in such contexts. The maleness or status of the person in question would then be inferred from the information in the context, but would not necessarily be contained in the word itself. The word husband (aner) denotes, in general, "a man, an adult male" (in contrast to anthropos, which generically denotes "a human being, male or female"); it is used of man in various relations, the context decides the meaning. The root word for husband in Hebrew, has multiple meanings including spouse, partner, mate, lord, master, steward, resource keeper (husbandman). The traditional and most commonly used word for husband in Hebrew is “ba'al” (בעל), which literally translates as master. But ba’al was also used for gods in the Bible so this would be inappropriate in a negative sense but appropriate in a positive sense since Psalm 82:6 indicates, “Ye are gods; and all of you are children of the most High.” In Old English, husband meant, ‘male head of a household’ and ‘manager, steward’. In Old Norse húsbóndi means ‘master of a house’ - hús ‘house’ + bóndi ‘occupier and tiller of the soil’. The original sense of the verb was ‘till, cultivate”. I would think this is where Pastor Chris got his translation from, not master BUT MASTER OF THE HOUSE. In which case the woman would be the mistress of the house, not a servant! Husband is the male partner in a marriage. In British English, it also means the manager of another's property: STEWARD. If Adam as husband was managing any property at all, it was things created ahead of the woman who was drawn out from him - animals, plants etc. Men are always quick to PREACH SUBMIT but I am shocked that they seldom preach 1 Peter 3:7 where the word HONOUR was used. Honour is a higher kind of submission, a higher kind of respect, a greater esteem, respect with INTEGRITY. The same Bible that says submit, ORDERS that husbands, “the tiller of the ground” and “cultivator of the farmland”, should GIVE HONOUR UNTO THE WIFE. Unlike when women were asked to submit, the ORDER to men came with a clear clause, “as being heirs together of the grace of life”. It then came with a caveat, “that your prayers be not hindered.” Meaning, IF AS HUSBAND YOU REFUSE TO HONOUR YOUR WIFE, YOUR PRAYERS WOULD BE HINDERED! Some destinies have been corrupted because foolish men refuse to read their BIBLES, rather they let a mortal misdirect their home affairs. If you have problem with HONOURING YOUR WIFE, marriage is NOT for you because if you marry and dishonour her, your prayers would be an abomination to God. Let me leave those who care enough to read with a warning, on judgement day, I will stand on my own merit by grace, you will stand, Pastor Chris and every other mortal will stand, at different times based on when God calls us away from here. You don’t ever want to say to God, “But Chris was the one who said my wife was wrong not to listen to me! So I disciplined her!” If you need further counsel, be sure to send a message via Divine Connection: dc-homes.webs.com/book-counsel Finally, let me share a word of prayer with you. Then, find time to meditate on the BIBLE verses below. I trust that God will flash His light into dark areas in the foundation of your marriage in Jesus Mighty Name: Dear Lord Jesus, Thank you for the salvation of my soul. Thank you for creating me in your image. Thank you for loving me. Guide me to a woman/man of your choice. Help me to love her/him as my very self. Help me to honour her/him so that my prayers for success, prosperity, good health, fulfilment and bliss would be answered by YOU. In return, let me enjoy your mercies, her/his respect and celebration. In Jesus name I pray. AMEN. 1 Peter 3:7 - Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with [them] according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered. Colossians 3:19 - Husbands, love [your] wives, and be not bitter against them. Ephesians 5:25 - Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it James 5:16 - Confess [your] faults one to another, and pray one for another, that ye may be healed. The effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth much. Ephesians 5:28 - So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself.

Who is going to tell husbands to love their wives as Christ loved the church and gave himself for her? Who? More n more women are oppressed n depressed, deprived n unfulfilled because husbands are not living with them with knowledge. Women are abused and manipulated by men n church leaders using the popular scripture in particular, 'a wise woman builds her house...' No one is teaching men to be like Christ to their wives😭😭😭😭 There's a gross imbalance in this system. Adam has been blaming Eve n claiming right since Eden. Did God buy it? Has it bettered the family in any way since then? When will husbands begin to take/bear their responsibility, whether convenient or not as the heads God had appointed them to be? Won't they be told? Won't the leaders also tell them for a change.? Wives are constantly under fire....

Oh Lord I love this message... Thank you for insights Pastor

Pastor Chris and Apostle Joshua salmen has been my inspiration and I pray that my relationship shall lead us into marriage. I learn alot from theses two men. They lift me always in my spirit most sermons has build me. God I am grateful for meeting them. And finally I am greateful my loved ones has shared this for me to listen to this sermon ❤

Sir, you are a true teacher and a very well experienced one. I lost my marriage due to all the things you saying. Bless you

i jst cant get enough of this man"s wisdom

I am also getting married very soon. I pray God that he’ll teach me to be Humble and to respect and submit to my Master. Until today I thought I was wise and now I feel like I talk too much Oh God I need your Help 😭

I love this man with all my beign, as a child you are the first preacher i found my soul interpreted in and till date..you havent changed. More blessings sir

Since the time I started listening to this man of God Pastor Chris my life is changing in better way. Burundi

I am watching this while am trusting God for a good man. Amen

I just laughed out tears from my eyes when he demonstrates the way they pray in opposite ways..

I’m blessed by the teachings of Pastor Chris .keep on teaching pastor I’m listening

One of my favorite Preachers! I love this Man of God.

May the Almighty God give you more wisdom

What a powerful message? You said it Pastor and I believe this message will change us. Thanks a lot

THE LIFE YOU LIVE WILL NEVER BE HIGHER THAN THE REVELATION YOU HAVE.....i love this man of God....

Pastor Chris my teacher, my Master. I'm always learning from your wealth of knowledge. More grace sir

Thanks to God to this preacher.I learned lots.To God be the glory

Any time hear this word. I am transformed. Glory to God.

You have been a great blessing to me growing up. May God bless you Pastor Chris.

Our generation is so blessed to have men like Pastor Chris, you are casting light of our expectations.

I love the way he preaches so realistic🙏🏾God bless you

Thank you so much for the teaching Man of God, it's so powerful. God bless you always.

I'm growing, I thank God for my pastor. Chaii! I am truly touched and I'm going to be better

I always love your teaching, but some men are very heart less, and bad, thank you sir for your time I love you for your work thank you

Let us keep the personal experience apart. Marriage is built on love.the love Jesus demostrated

Only those with wisdom can understand 😉😉😉

Few men of God have been blunt on this topic. Insubordination and contention is the reason for most problems in marriage. Oh that men and women would take their respective places in marriages as provided by God, then marriages would have been heaven on earth. God bless u sir for this eternal truth

Thank God for Pastor Chris. A man of the Word blessing the World with the Truth.

Pastor Chris speak straight to the ear of those who listen an learn , l hear you

pastor Chris, your word of marriage is hundred percent correct. You are good

Ave saved this for her. She is my prefect leave alone a supervisor. Amen to this!

Am in love with de preaching am learning something indeed I have learnt. Glory be to God

Oh God I'm so Blessed to be Here.. my 1st time and I can't get enough of this Man of God. Thank you God. I real needed this bigt.

Word for the wise.I love ur preaching pastor.Am blessed

its so humbling to see people accepting correction and rebuke

You are so wonderful I love your teachings and grow stronger by your teaches.

I learned something from this preaching, maybe I will now decide to marry now

Thank u pastor sir I am getting married soon I I pray this teachings will guide me to understand my place in my man's life in Jesus name

This is a sightful preaching ❤ It's very educative. Listening in 2024 🎉

The Word of God is Powerful and ever true. The Lord will forever be Lord

Complete lecture, with this we all will live happy.

You are my favorite And my mentor Cos of the grace and the immeasurable wisdom God has endow on you.. Sir, my greatest desire is to see you and your wife Anita reunite. With the grace of God on you sir. You are who you are.

Thank you man of God for this wise word may God keep you for us !

This teaching is so apt and informative. One every single individual and married couples should possibly listen to early enough to build a happy home.

Ladies, the single ones, it's not just a matter of saying I will be submissive! We have been set free at a great price, don't just jump under the authority of any "master". First make sure the guy has a vision that is consistent with the word of God and what you understand of God's will for you, check that the guy is himself consistent and committed to this vision. Then say yes, to submit, serve and help the guy achieve it!

the message was so awesome I'm touched and encouraged

THIS IS TIMELESS .God bless you man of God.

Thank you Pastor for this wonderful teaching! I have learned a lot and I believe by God’s Grace things will be different for my marriage. More grace sir

I love you pastor am blessed by this marriage message the lord bless you

Best message on marriage. God bless u pastor

“And life is good for the one who strives, succeeds, then praises, then strives, fails, praises, then afflicts, then he is patient, then praises, then fate disputes him, so he understands, then praises, then surrenders to the one who has control over the outcome of things, then he is reassured, then praises, thank you always and forever, O God. " 💛

Glory To God 🙏 Yes Pastor Chris , I fully agree with you 💯 , this is the Word of God you're reading and teaching us from , not your own Bible. The Word of God is for our teaching and training. So all we have to do is to open our hearts and minds to receive the Word and learn to do the right thing. It won't come easy , so open your heart. Thank you Pastor Sir.

Thanks for the motivation Pastor Chris.

powerful message Indeed.. Glory!

What a wonderful teachings ...thank you man of God for the wisdom and grace

This is purely and undiluted gospel teaching. God bless and keep you pastor Chris O.

I love my father and teacher pastor Chris.

Pastor Chris , my life coach , take his teaching with u surely u will testify

A Man Loves the One He Serves..and Loves the One Who Serves Him.. But Fights the One Who Tries to Be On His Level!! #Powerful🔥🔥🔥 😍😍

These words from the man of God pastor Chris is in-depth.