Pastor's wife, I'm happy it touched you too. People who are NOT in that role (ministry leaders) have NO idea the REAL hell you all go through. Ministry leaders (all positions) take on a LOT for others while their home is suffering. I pray healing comes to your home as well.
THIS RIGHT HERE!!! Wasn’t nobody business what their indifference was.. the fact that he acknowledged his error with her in private & in public is mighty!! 💛🙏🏾
You can tell! I can see how hurt she was/is. He must have crossed the line and said or done some things that went too far. May God heal her heart completely beyond this public apology. ❤️
His public apology want make her feel any better. He’s exasperating the issue. He’s only doing it to make himself feel better. He’s selfish! It’s not about her! It’s about him! His conscience has got the best of him. Thank God he still has one, but she’s going to need a very long time to get over the hurt. You cannot only see it in her eyes, but you can feel her pain. Many Blessings my dear sister! God is with you.
This is so real !!! I agree. By the way, Greetings to you Ty. This is Elder Grissom from GKB Macon Branch from back in the day. I thought that it was amazing that I ran into your comments like this. I still remember the day I invited you to Church. To see that you are .making healthy comments about a video of this caliber is a blessing to say the least. Please know that seeing your comment , and then seeing that the comment came from you really uplifted me. I hope that my comment encourages you the way that your have comment have encouraged me. Take care.
I attended a church where the pastor’s wife stopped attending. She *might come maybe once a month.... maybe every 6- 7 weeks but threee/four services a weekend ... no... she wasn’t there even one time for one service. She’d show up annually on the pastor’s anniversary aervice and stand in front with him to be acknowledged and to receive the recognition from the congregation but, other than that, whatever was going on at home/ in their marriage, no.... she wasn’t coming to church. I’m talking about for years. 10plus years. Currently . To this day. She doesn’t come. I stopped attending the church (for many reasons) but for large part because this pastor’s relationship was troublesome and this seemed to be a character issue, imo No one ever mentioned this formally in the church (a leader saying “Mrs XYZ is ill.. keep her in your prayers...”) and because she obviously doesn’t come, of course, we all could speculate on all kinds of reasons why, which one of them is “to blame” for it and what the pastor is really like but all we know is she does not come. 😥 The pastor never mentions his wife from the pulpit in any sermons, stories or family anecdotes. To hear him tell his stories, you’d think he’s single... “I was on a trip...” Her photo isn’t on anything church related, she’s not in any ministry.... She’s just not a part.😥 The point of all that is our families need so much healing, in every position. We continue to pray for pastors and their families. It takes a lot to be in that role. Pastors are leaving the pulpit left and right and we pray for their strength.
I Am a pastor wife. I stop going to church with him many years. Because he is not right. He's a false pastor he preach one thing at church. And treats me really bad. DON'T SPEAK TO ME. I don't speak either. I can't tell you when the last time he told me he loves me. I have been been married to him 5 years. And I am working my way out. He will cause me to miss heaven
Pliz @cynthialurry7569 Don't miss heaven because of your husband! Forgive him and meditate on God's word, pray that God will assist you in granting you the Grace to forgive him!
@@cynthialurry7569 be encouraged and keep your eyes on Jesus. I'm proud of you for not supporting hypocrisy. But don't leave unless you are sure that's what the Lord is telling you to do. May the Lord bless you and give you wisdom to deal with him!
3 minutes into this video-I paused it, and apologized to my husband. I needed to hear all of this !!! Thank you for this example of Christ Like obedience. “Mind your business-by taking care of Gods business”
I’ve grown up in church. If this was normal behavior in church not just husband and wife but among everyone the body of Christ would be so much stronger than what we are and could do more as a whole.
Seeing her reaction tells a deeper story, its more than we know,its bigger than some Kroger flowers and a public appology, she is in pain.Look at other women looking at her they know whats really going on ,please pray for this woman. Pray for her healing, spiritual freedom, joy,peace,personal deliverance in Jesus name amen 🙏🏾
100% agree. My question for him would be what kind of counseling is he going to seek so that he doesn’t do what he’s been doing behind closed doors again? It’s one thing to apologize, but it’s another to address the issue the root cause that had you do what you did. That doesn’t get corrected with flowers, although it was a nice gesture.
Yes ma'am! I agree, "Seeing her reaction tells a deeper story..." I literally typed on a sticky pad all of her response. She was literally trying to get through her pain with Jesus. I guess you have to live it to know it (I have lived it.)
She really is. She already wasn’t exactly feeling his behavior, to begin with, that week 😬 then ... she had it made public to the church/ world 😬 then .... she was put on the spot to come up and talk about it. 😳 She easily could have let her emotions guide but it’s clear where she is spiritually. Praise GOD for her godly response to all of those situations. May Jesus be glorified and remain everything to her and to them. Amen
Men can be prideful and cruel at times. With that being said, I'm glad that he apologized to her at home first. Let's remember them in prayer because it's needed.❤
We all have to change an become as little children to enter the kingdom of heaven. Matt 18:3 We have to be obedient to God, Never think that we are too powerful to apologize, pride goes before destruction Proverbs 16: 18-20. Pastor share the devil. Thank you Pastor ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
He did the right thing. I was married to a pastor and he's one way behind the walls of the church and totally opposite at home. He would scream and holler at me on the way to church or stay silent. Then walk into church like flipping a switch and try to present himself as godly. I had to sit there like a prop on Sundays portraying a loving family. He was hateful and aggressive at home until I finally left.
It's good you left your unequally yoked marriage. Even though I wasn't married to a pastor I stayed over thirty years. Finally I took him to court and the judge made him leave. I took him to court after a woman came to my door to tell me to go get him from his mistress house. I did because a week before that he told me that he had stopped cheating and I believed him.He eventually married her. Even after that he'd come to my house crying/begging me to take him back. He went all over our small town telling anyone that would listen that I was the best woman he'd ever had. He called me hollering and crying apologizing to me a few days before he passed He also told everyone that he was lying about the things he said about me. I asked God to make him do that and God did. I'm sorry my text is so long. I pray that God keep and bless you with a healthy,long and prosperous life as His presence, anointing and favor be in and with him. Enjoy your day Sweetheart.
I apologized to my husband before singing at a church event in front of everyone, it wasnt planned and he had no idea, but I share this same testimony that I can't sing about something that i'm not living....he nearly slobbed me down in front of everybody lolololol
Based upon your comment, you must not be married. Come see me after twenty -years of marriage and putting your two girls thru school. American black church is too fixated on sensationalism. Trust me this is no big deal.
PLEASE. I STAND ON MY FEET FOR THE KING OF KINGS. JESUS. IN GOD'S KINGDOM ALL HIS CHILDREN ARE SPECIAL TO HIM. I DON'T KNOW IF THEY PART OF GOD'S KINGDOM IN JESUS NAME. I DON'T WORSHIP NO FLESH AND BLOOD. I WORSHIP JESUS. GOD ALONE THROUGH CHRIST JESUS. AMEN.
For all the foolishness that goes on in these fake churches, THIS should have gone viral to show a REAL MAN OF GOD, demonstrating REAL JESUS CHARACTER in public, to his WIFE!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 I thank GOD for this Pastor! 😇😇😇
Open rebuke and he rebuked his self … this was done back in the old days… he did right… God is coming for the church first so he is the head and the ppl that follow him is the body if the head not right the body is led astray so any thing that’s not of God repent correct it! Good job pastor! What a great example .. no one is perfect.
Interesting point. If she was surprised by him bringing it up, MAYBE he should have asked her if it was cool to discuss it before bringing it to the congregation.......... AGREEMENT is ALWAYS important.
My, my, my I've never ever saw anything like this. Some men need to see this right here. That's a true man of God. Love this.❤ May you have 31 more years.
I am reading the comments and it is disturbing that we can't rejoice for a man and a woman living out the scriptures. This is why the church has become wax cold. I am praying for the man and woman of God because it is not easy feeding God's sheep, and some times we are so busy feeding the sheep that those closes to us are starving. We need to cover our leaders in prayer because ministry is hard work and we want mercy from the leader but rarely have mercy for the keader.
It's disturbing to see the comments but it's refreshing to see what kingdom marriage truly looks like and the only reason why people have such a problem with it is because it has not been displayed properly in the body of Christ in the kingdom of people have been hearing the scriptures but not living the scriptures so that's why they can't recognize true Kingdom marriages when they see but that is what God is building in this season so people better get ready to hear the truth and truly see what kingdom marriages and living truly looks like cuz God is on the move and he's moving in every area in this nation God's will shall be done on Earth as it is in heaven 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Her response is tale-telling. You're not first, GOD is. Set the record straight, ma'am. He made it about him, you made it about GOD and through that, you can be a wife to him. She's spilling the tea in a sanctified way. Passa wasn't ready for her comment. Whew! Smart Lady. 👏🏾
I always look at the woman, her face and demeanor completely says, using your church to try to fix us ain’t working. This lady looks tired and looks unphased by this apology; she is sincere whereas he coming off as wanting to be apart of the crowd.
IF THIS A’INT RIGHT! You’re NOT RIGHT!! The SHEPHERD LEADS! We follow. Thank you! As an ex Pastor’s wife, I’m waiting still for my apology. Love this lady’s response of WISDOM☮️💟
At first she could not believe it and waited to stand. Then she concluded this is real and broke down, stood up, and shed a tear. The old folks used to say "you can tell how a Pastor behaves at home by watching the Pastor's spouse's reactions when the Pastor preaches".
❤ I love this! He said first he apologized to his wife privately at home, then he publicly apologized to her during service. I especially like when he said he wasn't going into details about the situation. Everybody doesn't need to know the intimate details of your problems, nor can they handle them. Praying for God to bring them closer and bless their marriage for many more years.❤
Really I thank God for her. If she didn't go to God, may be her husband wouldn't have realised his error. It takes the Spirit of God to be silent and rely on God. May the Lord give me this kind of grace to live for Him (God) alone; thereby making me a better person to my future husband and anyone around me
Facts only!!!💯💯🔥🔥🔥As a keyboardist myself, I was so thankful for this musician’s approach…there was healing even in the ministry of music. To God Be All The Glory.
I respect any man who can apologize in public and in front of his congregation that he was wrong. We have to remember that Pastors are of flesh too!! Stop putting them on pedestals like they’re Jesus. All of Us makes mistakes. Yes men are nuts…but so are women. The important thing is that when God shows You your wrongdoings, hold yourself accountable. Accept that you did your wrongdoings and be obedient. Thank you Pastor for being obedient, apologizing to your beautiful wife, giving her/her flowers and leading by example. 🙌🏾👏🏾♥️
I’ve never heard of them or their ministry at all, however, I just had to say that this was so necessary! In today’s time where people wear their pride as crowns, it’s such a blessing to see real ones that stand out in truth, accountability and humility for God. The devil hates marriage because it imitates God’s love and commitment to us DAILY in spite of our flaws! I loved it when he said, “I don’t want you to miss God because of me.” THAT IS A TRUE MAN OF GOD! And real preachers understand that your FIRST ministry is your family, not the church! Also, it is evident that the wife has a real relationship with God. Her presence and the way she speaks exemplify a true woman of God and a great wife. I truly believe that this gesture has helped many marriages and it was a great lesson for singles. This was so beautiful that it blessed me to tears. I pray that God continues to cover and bless their union and ministry in Jesus’s name. ✝️🙏🏾🤍
It's very rare that you see this. Wow...this has to be God. For all the women of God in the front line who needed to see and hear this...take this as a reminder that God has you in mind also..I'm grateful I came across this...and Im in awe...❤
I'm a PK, now married to a pastor. Hubby shared this video, and I cried. Why? Because, as his wife, there were some days that I had to suffer through it. Thank you both for your transparency.
People need to see that their leaders have problems too. He apologized to her and confessed his wrongdoing in front of his congregation. Valley Kingdom.... you have a true man of God.
@@dorothymckay3565 I agree, it was a private matter, but the pastor felt need to apologize to his wife in public and to show his congregation he's not perfect and also ( confessed ) before God's people . This man humbled himself in front of his wife and everyone.
I used to be married and been divorced since 2015 and my ex-husband and I are still good friends to this day and will be until the end of time and hearing this really blessed me. God will fix everything if you let Him. God Bless you both 😊
I agree that he truly hurt her. Even while on stage, it was about the focus on Jesus. I read the comments and they were praising him, but we do need to still pray for them. Whatever happened scared her, and it threw her thoughts back to a tumultuous time. I am married and have been for 24 years. An apology is fine, but sometimes the wound is so deep. I know why she responded in her actions like she did, and verbally.😢
I agree. Women with certain life experiences can surely SEE she’s treading the edge. I’m hopeful she’ll find her footing and get stronger in the areas that will benefit her wellbeing and let everything else come after.
@@amechecameron3217 I wouldn’t call her a doormat! They know their roles in the marriage! Thats why they are blessed! Nothing wrong with submitting to your spouse.. male or female
This is so Beautiful! As a PK I’ve never seen this and as I sit with tears in my eyes I wish this was more common ESPECIALLY in the church…. This was an AWESOME EXAMPLE and the CHURCH is missing this …. THE EXAMPLE MARRIAGES NEED in the home. God bless HIM AND HER, Their Marriage and the ENTIRE CHURCH❤❤❤
I appreciate his honesty. The fact that he was able to humble himself and hold himself accountable for his actions toward his spouse says alot about him as a husband, Pastor, and man representing the body of Christ. Blessings to their union.
I am hear watching and crying. This brought me back to my own marriage that ended in divorce after 20 yrs. I endured several years of infidelity until one day I just told him ,I love you enough to let you go. He is now married to another woman and I chose to remain . It's 18 yrs since he is out of my life. My desire is to honor the most high. He has given his life to God ,and now he calls me for advice. I find myself sometimes being a counselor to him and his new wife with nothing but the love of God. I wish them well, the rest is up to God. Continue to Love your wife Pastor and may your wife do the same. Take it from me, a divorce especially after many years is like death of a loved one. It was for me and my 3 children. Even today my kids are grown people, but they are still traumatized from that divorce . Divorce is an evil weapon. God bless !
This is a powerful message to the world 🌎. I love it all. I loved it when he said I dont want you to miss God because of me. Im not a pastor. Im not perfect 😢. But this message touched me in a new way. I dont want to see anyone I love, miss God because of my mess. God bless 🙌 🙏 their marriage. We are never too big to say we are sorry.
I applaud him for doing that...however, her demeanour told a deep hurt and pain he caused her. She didn't show much emotions when he spoke, she was stoic and still hurting. What old thing resurfaced and hurt her so deeply? He should go and get counselling before it happens again. Prayering for your FL. I know what it feels like because I'm a PW as well. Im seeing hurt all over this FL. Lord protect her and keep her safe.❤
Don't make it about women! Are you saying you are without fault? Stop this selfishness.. Pray God the Pastor set an example. Quit making this about women. You figure women don't step out of line and some men don't go through stuff..
This is so ENCOURAGING to and for the Body of Christ…and those of us who are married. Thank you Father God for these Leaders who are walking in Spirit and Truth #thispart
When you are connected to God - you can’t even sleep right. I believe this accountable example has impacted many. Ministering on so many levels - singles, marriages, men and women, youth, families… the level of authenticity and displaying your heart posture of who your first love and responsibility is to is humbling. We are nothing without Him. Amen. All praise and glory to the Lord. Praise the Lord. 🙏🏽👏🏽🙌🏽
I applaud this Pastor and his wife. This shows transparency, honesty and maturity. God bless you both. This should go viral so that others will emulate and help to heal relationships around the world. Many blessings.
Pastor Ray Bady it takes a true man of God to do what you did. You demonstrated Matthew 23:12b and he who humbles himself will be exalted. What you did is a message.
