@@cgcap7794 They dont believe it. They have to pretend that way to maintain their self esteem. Women have to do that, because the scientific basis for confidence is testerone.
Some of us we knowwww we slimy assss good for nothing slick talking, damn i even like to tweak, but you cant tell me shit about that and woman I know you got allllll these problems even if u look like you doing good in society. But guess what ima access your brain. Any guy who talks about himslef too much is a chump. Ask the woman questions and give her the answers thay she needs, sell her the minset of the bad ass mf that you must know u are and do what you believe you know u wanna do. At the end of the day, all that i say is deep down if you know what you wanna do then you should already be doing it. If you aint then you aint want to you just making excuses to not do the steps necesary. RIP patrice!
He's right, when you dont have shit to lose you have everything to gain. Low self esteem rebounds because it eventually reaches a point to where you dont care and that dont care is what starts making you do high esteem shit
"Never be afraid to bring a bitch's self esteem down and match yours." THIS. This right here. This is the greatest piece of advice Patrice ever gave ANYONE.
Misos But we don't really... Not near enough. I've been through all I can find with even a few minutes of him. You eventually run out. Then it gets much sadder...
Patrice Oneal personal quotes "A lot of people walk out of my show. If I've got 250-300 people in the audience, 20 will walk out. I average about 20 walkouts, which is good. Because everybody else stays, and I love that. That's what comedy is. Not everybody should be laughing at everything at the same time. That's not even natural. My thing is to feel natural, because I don't want to feel like I could just make people laugh at every single joke, every single time, with the same decibel level." "I like to be loved or hated - I don't like mediocre. So I'd rather have the entire crowd hate me than to have 90% hate me." "[on why he did not return to The Office (2005)] It was a six-line character. I just couldn't do it. [on if he ever considered changing his name] Hell, no. That name made me a man." "Have your opinion, don't let your opinion have you. That emptiness of "I made it!" What's it? You know what I'm saying? So I just do it because when a guy says to me "Dude... Man, you changed my life," that feels good. If a dude says "You changed my life" or a woman says "You changed my life," for some goofy shit you did... you know, that means something. That's "it". "I want to change lives but not be profound about it." Source:- IMDb biography
Actually shocked IMDb kept his quotes. These days people just toss the words "sexist" or "abusive" at anything they don't like and companies will pander to them. But regardless, that man Patrice had the wisdom of Solomon
When I was 16 I had a friendship group of about 8 dudes. 7 of us were virgins. 1 of us wasn't and regularly pulled girls because he had natural game. The guy was morbidly obese. To this day I don't know how, but Patrice is speaking truth.
The most sucessful period of my life was when I was about 22 and overweight. I was the life and soul of the party and lived my life on my terms and with reasonable abandon. I looked absolutely terrible, like a little fat lesbian, but I attracted decent looking women. Since then I've gotten more in shape and look a lot better, but I act in a much more follow the rules manner, and I'm not getting any numbers.
@@Ligerpride LOL!!!! Youre not the only one. You put it into words. That "following the rules" and being straighter laced makes for LESS attraction. So we have to have a small amount of dirt. And before with your old weight you didn't even CARE, with the good shape you care and you probably subconsiously want the babes to admire it too. But before you didn't CARE you had other qualities of yourself that you were worried about.
@@Ligerpride thats why it always seems the underemployed guy like 1 of my cousins whos not progressing gets girls. Its his I wouldn't careLess attitude towards life that transcends to women. He doesnt give me a fuck.
Every young guy needs a lesson like this. Confidence is king, and how good we are depends on how we choose to believe how good we are. Patrice had the psychology down. Nothing but wisdom right here.
Yeah, I think so too. Some of the people in the studio are just talking for the sake of filling dead space and not picking up on the ribbon of intelligent thought Patrice is spitting.
Patrice said it best “his self esteem is so low that it’s high”. The caller admitted he’s fine talking with women till it’s time to close the deal. His self confidence dips when it’s closing time. His own lack of belief has become a self fulfilling prophecy.
It's true that he needs to work in his inner game, but dude needs to lose weight, there is no other way around, Patrice was able to pull it off because he was funny, tall and his game is top notch..
It's more Entertaining when there is a person that would disagree with Patrice. It would bring out even more of his level of care what he was talking about.
Here you see the differences in Dante and Patrice's view on confidence. Dante believes it needs to come from an external source like having a good body, making more money etc. But Patrice understands that confidence can come from within. Just having that belief in yourself and being comfortable in your own skin and with who you are is all you need to be confident. Think about the most confident guy you knew in high school. The one I knew was a tall fat dude, but he just didn't give a fuck what nobody thought. That's how you have to be.
*Eastside Low Bottoms sh*t !* _Tappin' in from South Central Los Angeles_ Since my discovery of Patrice O'Neal content on RU-vid about 5 years or so ago, my _overstanding_ of the nature of women has skyrocketed ! I've never really had an issue of "attracting" women, but this new knowledge has shown me that I'm BETTER than ANY woman that's attracted or attractive to me or not ! _"Two girls, one cup and BOUNCE !"_ RIP Big Homie. ✊🏾✊🏾
Shooting out of your league makes you a pro in your league. And nvr love a woman more than she loves you. It’s crazy because everything that pat is says is everything that I learned too. I’m an asshole but it makes women love me.
😂😂😂 I love how he said "don't be afraid to bring a girls self confidence down to your level" then just guns for the chick on the show😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 and she was doing the same ish to the guy on the call
Lol I'm surprised how patrice talks to the Kathleen girl at times. Considering it's on radio too. If I said that to one of my colleagues these days I'd be in court.
Take the Cory Wayne approach. Focus on your goals. Make something out of your self and you will attract women. Don’t focus on women because it makes you look thirsty.
I wish someone could edit out Dante; I know Kathleen gets a lot of hate but she's there to run her mouth & prove Patrice correct; Dante sounds like someone woke him out of a dead sleep, sent him into the room & told him to rephrase everything Patrice says.
love this guy. he's friendly, humble, and brutally honest and direct about his situation, cuts through the bullshit much faster than a lot of other callers, and immediately puts Patrice's advice into play by implementing Patrice's trademark insult comedy (10:53). hope he's gone far.
Something I’ve noticed about Patrice is the ludicrous pacing. He keeps the conversation going without even trying call, then hits a point and shifts everyone else’s talking points. It’s really interesting to witness.
Jimmy is way off and that's why he doesn't get the girls that Patrice got. I started to understand women better when I finally realized that sense of humor is the most overrated characteristic of attracting females. It has a very minute effect on attracting women and as Patrice stated, none of his girls ever thought he was funny.
You are right, it is a mix of everything but i believe that having a sense of humor is quite important but you do not have to be Mr. funnyman as You tend to lose peoples respect.
@@gamalsankara1388 I was going to ask why you think you lose people's respect but I thought for a moment. I like to be funny but it does happen to often where people either expect you to be like that all the time or that you must not have any ambition.
I was a Beta, with 2 women who played with my head, a lot. I did a Vision Quest, in the traditional way. The first 3 days were boring, and the 4th day was incredible. I came back from that not caring about anything, about women. The nasty ones didn't even see me any more, and I was alpha enough that even married women would show interest (I never play with married women, ever. Too dangerous.). It was a totally different game.
First things first his father FAILED him. His parents didn’t program him to be viscous. Teach yourself what self esteem is and make your mind work with you instead of against you. This takes practice like shooting 3 pointers it’s not a one day thing. Then eat like a champ work out like a champ upgrade your dress code keep yourself well groomed smell good and set way better goals.
Look some, SOME girls will be cool with you being fat but dating is a numbers game to hit the jackpot. Cathleen gave him tangible advice that would be useful for him. He knows his insecirities and loosing weight builds his confidence. Patrice has notoriety on his side. He also has height but his fame and how he carries himself drives his effectiveness. I know some really big dudes that would crush women and they did have attitude, they dressed nicely, and smelled great so, and was tall as hell! But dudes 5'10", he has to trim down some.
@@justinr2564 hahahaaaa then you are a truly lost sheep. State exactly which of his topics you disagree with and state your counter argument. Use clinical studies to back your arguments. Go ahead. Do it.
He went to prison and if he told a female how he'd got in, he instantly get more pussy. its such a dope story a women would see the humility and arrogance in his character even if he wasnt funny
1-10 ugly 10-20 is alright 20- 30 is hot Never be afraid to bring a Hottish girl down to your level..classic shit🤣👍 Nice guys end up 41 year olds, alone listening to self help shit😌
Go full carnivore and you'll lose all the weight you want to. I'm in FB carnivore groups and people post before and after photos all the time, both women and men, young and old, and the results are amazing. Or, if that's too extreme, just cut out all sugar and carbs.
I love Patrice Oneils every time he was on this show or on Opie and Anthony and also his stand up, but I wonder why he had this goofy sounding girl on his show, she sounds awfull
It's easy and Patrice himself said it before on the show too, men have a variety of ways to be attractive, Patrice did well with women because he's funny, he had money, his finances were high and stable, he had confidence because of all the positive feedback he gets from people who show they give a shit about him, he had opinions and certain values and stuck to them at all costs, the guy on the phone doesn't have all that shit, so he has to accept the fact they he must change his own point of attraction, the chances of him becoming rich as fuck and funny all of a sudden is basically nill, so what can he do? lose weight, simple as that, it's okay for Patrice because he has options in his bag of attractive shit, this guy never, so lose the weight or drop your standards massively, can't have it both ways.
+Dd Dd Defeatist...funny, if you think a 300 pound whopper is getting that 7/10 and above, without money or status, you're an idiot, it's not defeatist, it's realist, basic common sense, lose weight and make life easier for yourself instead of being stubborn chasing a pipedream, it's for your own good, become better, you're the one who is defeatist funnily enough "nah lets stay fat, can't lose weight, they'll have to come to my wheezing ass for absolutely no reason instead of me putting in some physical effort" god forbid someone asks you to not be a slob to gain a none slob of a woman.
You only need to be socially tuned to get women. No amount of money, weight or any other materialistic values matter compared to giving a woman a good time. Those other things just help you look like a good time. Patrice was 14 when he scored a 17 year old girl. Let that sink in.
