During my younger married life l was lonely & didnt have any friends due to being so busy; now I'm so glad that my husband is my only friend. My other friends are my siblings & hubby's sisters. No drama, life is good.
If they’re your friends they would never do this shit! Even though you are friends, family etc. there are always boundaries that you shouldn’t cross!! If they flirt a bit too much or constantly try to engage in conversation with a specific person or try to make excuses to be near them, or always be the first to offer a helping hand, then that’s something to look into!! Always be suspicious because when u aren’t is when it happens to you!! TRUST but VERIFY!!
So sad for you, sister. The two people who should have your back conspired to betray you. Your husband paid for it and so will your friend. Now you've learned a good lesson about trusting anyone 100%. Never turn your back to anyone again. Be eternally vigilant. Glad you're smart enough to hang on til he killed himself and got insurance for it, and glad you didn't bury him. You did right so do not get weak and give money to his parents. Keep saying no to them.
@Cellan Thao it is very sad and awful to say it, but when a spouse betrays you this badly, most of us prob see this ending as ideal. At least there's closure forever, and this woman doesn't have to watch her friend gloat in victory and share half her assets with her husband. Omg, it's so awful to have serpent pretender friends like this.
YES!!! A happy ending. Another hmong man suffering to his last days for his desires of life and doing a hmong woman wrong. So deserving and so delightful to see the other woman suffer her own fate. I have no sympathy for cheating hmong men or women. They will get theirs in the end like this couple. As for the woman of this story. You are free! Now you just have to love yourself and move on. Good luck!
😢 I have friends, but I’ll never entrust them wholeheartedly, because they forget loyalty, and when they get caught they say the most hurtful words that you’ll never expect from them. I don’t have friends to this extent of being together 24:7, but I’m fine without this crowd. All about my family and my husband’s family ❤
Txhob tu siab mog tus me viv ncaus aw vim yus txoj kev ruam dhau qhov ruam lawm xwb yus muab ntseeg luag dhau qhov ntseeg lawm ces luag thiaj muab neb ob tug neeg zoo tsuj ua neb lo av tag los neb txhob tu siab os mog.thaum ub kuv tseem hluas 2 kuv twb mag kuv tus phooj ywg zoo twb txeeb kuv niag hluas nraug ntawm kuv mus lawm tab sis kom nej nco qab ntsoov tias cov neeg siab phem li no yus nrog luag ua neej ntxiv mus los tsis txog txij twg. Cov neeg uas nyiam yav nrav xwb ces tsis kav ntev kav tsij tso mus mog.
Good job sister for seeing your self worth and not giving anyone from that selfish family a penny. I have a relative’s wife from my husband’s family who tried to make a move on my husband similar to this too! She would text my husband that she needed help with this and that, but really she just wanted to see my husband. The first time she texted my husband, I told my husband to call her husband to double check that they do needed the help and what do you know - her husband didn’t know. Second time it happened my husband called her husband to double check again and her husband said he didn’t realize that his wife was texting my husband for help. The third time she texted, I responded back to her via my husband’s phone telling her that if they do need as much help as she claims then her husband should be the one calling/reaching out. Never heard from her since. Then she went around the relatives claiming that we cut them off and that she and I had drama that’s why she doesn’t want to show up anywhere if I show up. The audacity of some people’s wives.
Zoo kawg vim nws tau yam nws ua lawm os mog me vivncaus tshuav kj tus phoojywg nws yuav ntsib xau sai2 no thiab nawb cov neeg siab phem ntuj yeej tsis cia nws tau zoo li os, kv twb Nyob kj sab nkau lawm thiab os
Hu, tus niam ntawm zaj neej no nas ua casyuav lom zem ua luaj nrog koj zoo siab os tus niam tsev koj mas thiaj li tsim nyog ua neeg thiab ua neej os nawb ib sees liability tsi txhob Kam nawb
I really don't have many friends because of many friends before they teach me a lot from back stab I'm now very happy I don't have to give in or always have to do what they want me to do. I also don't let anyone walk all over me again thank God for saving me I trun to God because he's the only best friend I have and trust and he's truly love me for who I am.
Damn. He literally died “doing” what he love 😅 The nerve of relatives to have some claim on the life insurance money they didn’t pay for 🙄 you did the right thing by not giving them money to bury their backstabbing cheating person.
This is why i didnt have any friends and i don't trust my husband 100%. I check his phone and work hour even though he not a cheater, But you never know.
Yog Tsis paub ua friends txhob ua tib neeg lub siab Tsis xav ib yam lawv lam yog yus li friend tabsi lawv Yeej muaj ib lub siab phem rau yus tabsi yus Tsis paub xwb so be your own friends talk to yourself.
Oh... ur.ex nws tau kiag li nws nyiam lawm... sib nyiam heev.. ua ua plawv nres kiag.. nws yog tus man lucky 1... sib hlub dhau ces ua tau li nws siab ntsaw tiag.. 😆
Humans are sinners. Even your own family can betray you. My wife has told me many times that my cousins have hitted on her. I believe her. I've been around them long enough to know how they are. This is why I keep my circle small. I often get, why don't you hang out with us? I hear this all the time. Becareful who you keep in your circle!
@Chong Lor it takes 2 to cheat. She chooses not to hang out around us when there's a gathering, etc. She hates the disrespect (hitting on her) they show towards her. But you're right. You don't want to add fuel to the fire either. We live in a different state, so we only see them when there is a special event going on. The thought of returning "home" is always dreadful for us. Which I'm sure it's most for others too. Lol
This is the reason why I haven’t had a girl friend for 30years. My best friend and my cousin cheated on my husband for over 10 years. But he didn’t marry her after all.
Wow! My cousin stole my first real bf, but he didn't marry her, and my best friend stole a guy from me in college and married him--even invited me to her wedding, thinking I'd show up. Nope! Other cousins married other guys who pursued me. These women prob would be husbandless without me 😆. So, I've been eternally vigilant since. Glad the betrayal occurred earlier in life for me. It would be more devastating had it been a husband they stole, as in this case. I still have friends, but the best ones are far, far away physically. We talk on the phone and meet up for vacations at a common spot once every few yrs without the husbands. Men are weak for the flesh. Watch them carefully.
Cas may zaj neej neeg no tseem qhia tias txiv neej tseem tsuav ib qhov chaw zoo nyob es tus nkauj fa no thiaj paub txog xwb may lwm zaj koj puas kam muab kiag txiv neej qhov chaw zoo nyob ua tus nkauj fa los tus niam tsev nkauj fa ntawv keej2 coj kiag los tham kom peb suav daws paub kiag seb peb puas tuav tau peb cov neej hos may yog koj tsis xav li cas.
Lady there was so many red flags but you choose to ignore. You're in denial for too long. You knew in your heart but you just don't want to bring up because you know it'll be the end of your guys.
Cov niag txiv siab phem lim xyiam li ntawd yeej mus tsis txog twg li o. Tiam no kev Npam nyob qis qis lawm xwb ....thiab yuav Npam sai sai nov xwb.. Kav tsij hlub hlub koj tus kheej txhob khuv xim txog tus txiv tshob cuab quav dev li ntawd lawm lawm ma...nws tsuas yog ib niag khib nyiab rau koj xwb o
Wow! Fast karma alright! Someone was watching you from above. Really blessing in disguise that he divorced and left you knowing he will probably going to died so you don’t owe them any money to do his funeral.
Niag txiv dev liam no ces tuag los zoo nyob los tsis hlub yus kiag xav tsim yus xwb. You shouldn’t feel any pity towards his funeral. He did it to himself! He hurt you and divorce you to get with that side piece, that fake friend of yours.
My husband and I have been married for 16 years and I am not close to any of my husband's cousin's wives. We do things together at gatherings and talk here and there, but we don't hang out and go shop together, etc. I am not even close to my own sil. I don't believe in making best friends with them. I don't even trust my own husband or myself. Love yourself first before you love anyone else's.
Heck no! He sent you back to your family. Why would his family have the audacity to ask you for money for his funeral? You are no longer his people. This is why most of us don’t have friends or best friends.
These so called kwv tij were worried about having to pay for your funeral but didnt care to give their own a proper burial. Keep the money and run! It is partly your fault tho for not divorcing tu taw. Hope you learn and not become a victim again.
