PAUBAYA Lyric Video | Moira Dela Torre 

Alam kong hindi madaling maging vulnerable kaya salamat sa tiwala. Salamat sa inspirasyon. Sobrang tapang niyong lahat. 🤍

This is the story of us. We met in med school. We were each other's greatest competitor. We were cat and dog. We were not fond of each other. But as the months passed by, we started to know each other in a way that we had shared a couple of back stories as we worked on our group presentation. We somehow felt connected to each other because we had so many things in common, it felt weird at first actually, but for some reason, we clicked. We became friends, and then close friends, and then after a year, we became lovers. It was the happiest times of my life. Imagine, we were off to the same profession we want, we spent days and nights reviewing and studying and every time we felt tired, we would always cuddle even just for five minutes more or less. We talked about our future, us working under the same hospital, us building our own clinic, us getting married and having kids to teach biology and such. We were so in love back then. But just when I thought that everything was in their right place, my biggest downfall came. After our third anniversary, he started to become cold. He no longer joins me in studying, he was even reasoning out that he's tired all the time and that he couldn't send me home. I said it's fine, I can manage. I thought it was just that, but it wasn't. Days became weeks, weeks became months. During our monthsary I decided to confront him, when he said he couldn't make it to our dinner date. I went to his condo and there, my greatest fear welcomed me without a warning. I froze on my spot a few doors away from them. He was standing in front of his room and in front of a woman, a pregnant woman. He was holding her like she's the most fragile thing on earth. And she was clinging onto him for her dear life. They looked so happy. I didn't know how I manage to compose myself and walk closer to them. As soon as our eyes met, he froze. I looked at the woman and tensely lifted my hand as I introduce myself as a mere classmate, and how she introduced herself shocked me more. She said they're together for almost a year already. I asked him to talk to me in private. And there he admitted the truth. I asked him about his true feelings, and he said he loves her more. That every time we're together, his mind was with her. He said I make him hard, but she makes him weak. He said I make him feel special, but she makes him feel loved. He said I should punch him, because he would rather end our relationship than leave her and their baby. And that's how our story ended. She gave birth and they got married right after. And I was left there hanging, asking myself what did I do wrong, what happened between us, what happened to those promises we made. And I've come to realize, as I moved forward, that it's not about who comes first, who's always there 24/7, it's about whom he loves more, who holds his heart and who owns his mind. And I'm not her. Edited: I didn't know this would blow up but thank you guys for your comforting and encouraging words. Though this happened 7 years ago, it still feels fresh and new to me, it's also the same reason why I haven't jump into any relationships yet. But I'm happy for them and I'm happier for myself because I made it. I surrendered everything to God and he never left me. I made it to the bright side of life. Keep safe and always be healthy! Love, Dr. Dee

Listening to this song habang diko pa napapanood ang Un/happy for u. We'll be right back after watching it.

I’ve repeated this song so many times. It hurts so much, especially when I can really relate to it.😢

Heard my bf listening to this song kaninang morning and I saw him teared up kaya bumalik nalang ako matulog. It pained me because nasasaktan pa din pala siya. I met him when he was heartbroken by someone whom he loved (love) dearly, he had to let go of that someone kasi nalaman niyang ikakasal na pala. I was there trying to mend his heart. I tried to fixed him, make him happy, be there for him. We‘ ve been dating for a year and a half now, I thought naayos ko na siya but just this morning I saw him cry. Kala niya tulog pa ako, I let him fix himself before ako gumising para di niya malaman na nakita ko siya umiyak. He makes breakfast for us and he left his phone sa bedroom so out of curiosity I checked his phone, and there sinearch niya yung ex niya sa facebook and he saw the video of her gender reveal. Nasasaktan pa din pala siya. Relate na relate pala siya sa song na to. Greatest love niya yun e, ika nga niya the “best girl ever”. Nag paubaya siya pero bakit gano’n mahal pa din niya. I don’t know what to feel tbh, it pained me pero mahal ko siya e, kaya mag aantay nalang ako na ako na yung mahal niya. Ako yung kasama, pero hindi pa din pala ako ang mahal.

Yakap 🤍

To all people who’s hurting. Like me before that made me stronger and be wise in love. My advice are. Don’t cling into just happy moments. And happy memories in that someone.. to move forward better. You need to think how badly he hurted you. Treated you like shit. And played with your feelings.. think the way how he/she’s happy hurting you. Knowing you love her/him.. focus on something.that won’t remind him/her of you. I know it’s not easy. But if you keep clinging into good memories. It will be really hard. We need a bad one memory to Make our hearts strong, and resist the urge to be with that person again.. it’s only natural to think of good moments. But the bad memories and all bitterness are needed to move forward.. hoping to heal for everyone. Not all the same as me how I handled it my self. But hopefully it will help to others.

I met him when I was young. I liked him at first sight. I met him in a library, he was good looking I admit that. My friends knows him. I didn't know he was the popular guy who almost have it all, the brains, beauty and resources. Everyone liked him. People around me say that he was the "GENERAL CRUSH" of everyone in our campus. We study in the same building but different courses but both medical field. It was just a happy crush nung una and I thought it would stop there. But God really has his ways. He was on the same organization as me. We became close, like a brother and a sister. We had deep conversations. I learnt about his insecurities, his flaws and his fears. He was far from the almost perfect guy everyone knew. But still I know I couldn't cross the line. I know it was impossible. And I was young, insecure and naïve. Nakinig ako sa ibang tao na mas bagay sya sa iba, someone prettier and skinnier, you know those societal standards na ang gwapo ay para sa magaganda lang. Junior year came and he was on his senior year he told me that he was pursuing someone. I didn't know how to react. But of course I told him I was happy for him. That time I knew I needed to distance myself kasi nga wala ng chance. He went to med school, nasa same building pa rin kami and I was on my senior year. We greeted each other every now and then pero hindi na sobrang close katulad ng dati. My closest friends encourage me to tell him, they said it was my last chance but I was very hesitant at first because he has a girlfriend. Graduation passed and I was already preparing for the board examinations. Meron kaming in house review kaya same building pa rin kami, nag kikita pa rin kami. I heard his girlfriend cheated on him and the reason was because he was too busy in med school. Nung narinig ko yung rumor I texted him agad, I wanted to confirm it. We talked and he said that she cheated. Hindi ako bantay salakay ha I was just heart broken as he is. I comforted him as a friend. After that we both got busy, sya sa med school ako sa boards. A week before boards I had the courage to finally tell him, with a little help of the alcohol hahaha. I called him and told him I liked him since I was in freshman. He said we should talk when I am sober. so the next day we talked. And there I said it. I was crying and he did too. he said (non-verbatim) "I liked you too before but I know we were both young." noong narinig ko yon gusto kong mag wala it was just the time, if only I had the courage before. "I prayed for us, that one day masabi ko to sayo." he said. I was praying for us too, little did he know I have my prayer time for him. That moment I thought I finally had a chance but his next words made me cry harder. "But I am now happy with someone else's now. I am seeing someone, *insert my name*. I am so sorry." I just nodded and smiled at him. That was back in 2017 and it's 2023 now yet I still love him. I tried dating but I knew deep inside me it's still him, sya pa rin ang iniiyakan. Ngayon ay doktor na sya. Doc, all I wanted was you to be happy. I am still praying for you, not for us but for you, to be happy and never be hurt again.

"Ako ang nauna pero siya ang wakas" While listening to this song, he's right next to me, peacefully sleeping while hugging me. Pero alam ko na di ako ang mahal niya. We're not really committed but to cut the story short, I got pregnant. He's inlove with someone else pero ako yung nauna. I was with him at his lowest but during quarantine na di kami nagkita, he met someone and he fell in love instantly. It hurts so bad. I want to give my baby a complete family since hindi ko nakuha yan. He's with me now pero alam ko na di ako ang nasa isip niya. While staring at him right now, I'm gonna let him go, for real. Alam ko naman na no matter what I do, hindi talaga ako. To the one I dearly love: T, despite everything, I still want to thank you for giving me the best gift that I could ever have. Can't wait to meet our little one. I love you so much. I hope and pray for your happiness because you deserve it. Thank you for making me happy. I will never forget you. I love you. Pinapaubaya na kita. To his happiness: N, please take care of him and love him wholeheartedly. Make him happy kasi ikaw lang yung makakagawa nyan. :') Edited: Thank you so much for the kind words. Can't stop crying while reading it. Thank you. Soon, magiging okay din tayo. :') -H.

2 years ago, I was in a relationship with a guy who has an 8 year old daughter. He is separated with his wife (the wife also has a new boyfriend). After almosta year of our relationship, we planned to live together but when his daughter knew what would happen, his daughter cried and begged him not to pursue and break up with me. At first, he ghosted me and after weeks, he finally explained to me what happened. He told me he loves me but it breaks his heart everytime his daughter cries because of the situation. I would never want his daughter to be hurt or resent him because of me so I let him go. It was hard for me to move on at that time but I had a conversation with my dad during my birthday a few days after our breakup. I asked my dad "Daddy, kung dati nung bata ako and sabihin ko sa'yo na hiwalayan mo si ____, gagawin mo po ba yun for me?" (My dad and mom broke up when I was just 2 years old) My dad said "Ofcourse. Ikaw pipiliin ko." From that day onwards, my heart felt good letting go of the love that I know is not meant to be. Atleast alam ko na kahit nagpaubaya ako, I made them happy. And atleast alam ko that my dad will always be my one true love forever because he will always choose me. Nagpaubaya ako but I know my dad will also do the same if he is in that situation.

Me and myself. I can't handle that I will always be rejected, I've tried my best with a lot of pressure on my back. Sometimes this pressure gives me pain and that pain *teaches* me. But this song reminds me of refacing my challenges and rejects in life. It's like Moira is telling a tula/Poem. Me and her were separated. The last time I ever saw my first best friend was 2 years ago. On the third day of school we met eyes and i used to tell her that her hair looked like a wolfcut. Hahaha I remember that and she kept telling me "No! no! It's nootttt" she used to buy me food when my mom didn't give me food money and I still buy the food she used to buy me. And to this day I still remember her name. I miss you Lucky.

It's been almost 4 years since we broke up dahil may nabuntis ka pala. Nagpaubaya ako dahil ayaw kong lumaki yung baby na walang tatay. I am sorry for hurting you para lang layuan mo ako. You're my greatest love, mahal na mahal kita. Now, you're happily married and may 3 kids na kayo. Congrats, love! Maybe it's time to move on na. Siguro enough na yung 4 years of suffering. I promise na magiging okay ako soon :)

When Tinkerbell said: "If you have to choose between me and her, choose her. Because if you really loved me, there wouldn't be another choice" I felt that.

Lets go to the brightest sides of this song, I’ve learned that, be with someone who doesn't make you feel worthless. Someone who will love you despite your imperfections. Someone who's always proud to have you. Be with someone who will love you whole-heartedly. Someone who will give you undivided attention. Someone who respects you for who you are. Be with someone who is responsible enough. Someone who thinks of his future with you. Someone who plans and builds his dreams with you. Be with someone who loves you as much as he loves his family. Someone who sees his future with you. Someone who looks forward to having his own family with you in the future. Be with someone who accepts all your flaws. Someone who can still love you despite your craziness. Someone who has all the patience for you. Be with someone who can resist to temptations. Someone who can stay faithful to you even when you're not around. Someone who is always proud to tell other girls that he's already committed to you. Be with someone who always brags you to other people. Someone who's proud to tell the world that you are his girl. Someone who loves you no matter what other people say. Be with someone who will always fight for you. Someone who stays no matter how rough things might get. Someone who will go with you through thick and thin. Lastly, don't love someone who walks away and leave you hanging everytime you argue. Don't choose someone who comes back, choose the one who never leaves.

It's giving divorced vibes. High school lovers, going to college with everything planned for you. Ginawa niyong mundo yung isa't isa and then graduated engaged. Finding a job that has high pay na makakapag-ipon kayo para sa wedding niyo. And when you do, you get married and settle in a small home. Everything was perfect, you have a loving spouse and a comfortable life. Until one day, something changes. You begin to have small fights then it turns into a big one. Then each passing day, it starts being unbearable. It feels like the future you wanted isn't what you're living. Kaso mahal mo yung tao. Even if loving feels like a big chore at nawawalan na kayo ng sweet moments. Then sa huli, you find out that they're trying to see other people. Someone different from you. At kahit masakit, tanggap mo. And that's what hurts the most. Na alam mong hindi na maayos ang wasak na relasyon. Moira, palagi akong babalik sa kantang to

Philippines is an amazing country!! I'm from Malaysia, but I love your Philippines very much. From the people, the culture, to the food to this song. Everything is great!! Is anyone listening to this song also me?!❤❤

MY KIND OF “PAUBAYA” 5 years kami on and off, we we’re pretty unsure about many things pero for sure we loved each other. LOVE IS ABOUT TIMING KASI, there was always something off. We always lost MOMENTUM. Eventually that goodbye came. Pero while everyone is talking about their “paubaya” referring to someone, mine is to God. Yes po, pinapaubaya ko sa Diyos na mahanap namin both ang para sa amin. In this sense hopeful ang “paubaya” ko. Ofc masakit guys but always remember that IT’S NOT ABOUT FINDING SOMEONE BETTER THAN HIM/HER, BUT FINDING SOMEONE BETTER FOR YOU BOTH. While PAUBAYA tends to have that grieving connotation based sa stories dito sa comment section. Let there be also the PAUBAYA sa Diyos na one day that right person will finally come to our life. God bless po. 🥺🙏🏼

My TOTGA.... She's a frontliner while i'm a lawyer. The moment i got my license as a lawyer i planned my proposal to her. I asked her to go with me in Sagada Last Feb. 16, 2019 and while the sun is rising i proposed to her. She said Yes. To cut the story short. Supposedly we will get married noong August 13, 2020 kaso nagkapandemic. We cancelled the wedding dn decided to continue it next year. August 10, she sent me a very sad and bad news. Nagpositive siya sa COVID. I prayed everyday for her recovery. Pero my prayers wasn't enough.At exactly 12:00 a.m August 13, 2020, binawi na siya ni Lord sa akin. Pinaubaya ko na siya kay Lord...

Lalo ko na appreciate ung kantang toh after break up with my greatest love... hindi ko akalain na kailangan kong ipabaubaya ung taong mahal na mahal ko para makuha niya ung kalayaan na gusto niya. Then I realize sacfifice is the ultimate form of love. Still I am happy for him. :)

I watched this MV before, days after my breakup with my ex. And I played it once again this day. The only difference is that the pain was gone and I'm lucky that I'm now in a healthy and non-toxic relationship with my partner. I now hardly believe that despite all the heartbreaks you experienced, there will be this person that will turn everything upside down and will make you believe in love all over again

But God says; "Wait, the best is yet to come"💗😊 Like if you agreed

The word "paubaya", in Christian's point of view, is beautiful. It shows humbleness before the Lord. Admitting our weaknesses, and surrending it all to God. Admitting that this fight is not our's, kaya ipinapaubaya natin ang lahat sa Diyos na lumikha. This word, emphasizes that we can do nothing apart from Him. ✨

I once listen to this song again, to absorb the pain I felt rn. We've been together for more than 1 year, been in good and rough days, it really pained me why he never invite me to know his family. I always asked kung kelan niya ako ipakilala sa family niya, but he always said na in the right time daw. I've waiting for too long pero he didn't mention anything about me to his family. I always thought na KINAKAHIYA niya ako, pero I stay waiting that someday I will finally meet his parents. Subrang toxic na namin, to the extinct na nag karoon na ako ng panic attack, angry and trust issues. I really feel bad about myself. While I'm writing this, I'm thinking of giving up, and I need to save myself from this toxic relationship. To J, I love but i need to free myself. To someone reading this, pls know your WORTH.

This is the time that we acknowledge OPM songs. Sobrang deserve ng mga artist natin ang recognition. Nakaka lungkot na mas puno pa ang concerts ng korean idol kesa sa mga small artists natin na halos di nabibigyan ng break... napaka ganda ng mga kantang gawa ng Pinoy..💖💖💖

I had my first boyfriend back in 2009, we broke up after an 8 year relationship because we no longer understand each other, that I’ve change into this too nagging girlfriend. 2 months after the breakup, I found out I was pregnant. I didn’t tell him coz I don’t want him to come back because he have to, I want him to come back because he wants to...fast forward, 2 months BEFORE I gave birth he did came back, and that time we have grown and got matured for a relationship. And happy to share that we are now married for 3 years with 2 wonderful kids. He had and continuously been a great husband and the best father ❤️ I hope everyone who’s broken right now finds the strength to go on and look forward to the future, because your future is brighter than you prayed for, God might not have given us the easiest way to go there but HE will surely give you a version of happiness and love that is better and greater than you have imagined ❤️

For the 1% Who's reading this, i hope we become sucessful person. Trust the process 🖤

"There's no such thing, as pure Joy, because Joy, is also like fire,they ignite, but they also turn off" -Wise men says.

Pinapakinggan ko 'to everytime namimiss ko siya as a reminder that he is now happy with someone he really want and love. 😊 And I want to remind myself, too, that I should keep going 💪

I pray to the person reading this right now, will be healed. In Jesus name! You are love and deserve to be loved! Cheer up sending my virtual hugs and kisses to you'll ♥️

I've been in 12 year relationship with my x.. We parted ways a year ago..mybe we both fell out of love for each other.. Now shes Happy with his husband.. While im battling stage 3 cancer.. But still im happy i found someone who accepted me despite of my remaining days..still thank her for everything.. We learn and move forward

Ang sakit ikaw yong kailangan Pero di ang mahal. Ikaw ang kasama Pero hanap mo siya. I'm in love with someone . He is not my first love but he is my first strong feeling. Iba siya lahat. But it's broken now.

English ako pero Mahal ko lahat Pilipino Kanta ❤❤ Thank you Si Moira maraming salamat Po For all your beautiful Songs some happy some sad ,,i hope you will always feel the happy ones in your Puso 💚🎅🌲❤ 🇵🇭1❤

“Ako ang kayakap, pero isip mo siya.” Yung mom ko, matagal na niyang alam na may ibang family yung papa ko. She doesn’t know na alam ko kasi alam ko she is trying to protect our family. For many years, feel ko ito yung nararamdaman ni mama. I love them both pero I just want this to end. I think this song is for different kinds of love. Kasi narelate ko siya dito, gusto ko na “magpaubaya”, ayaw ko protektahan na nila ako. If they want to break up, they can. I just want to thank my mom especially for saving us from a broken family, pero mas mahal ko siya. I can live with a broken family kesa seeing my mama broken hearted for the rest of her life.

Imagine two people listening to this song, thinking of each other while crying.

Ang hirap limutin ng nakaraan sa kantang to dun palang sa unhappy for you ni joshlia naalala ko na sarili ko sa babaeng minahal ko ng higit sa sarili ko sa part palang na "Ako ang iyong kasama pero hanap mo siya" ang sakit kase ginawa sakin yun.

Love the juxtaposition of a dog in this video. Unlike humans, grabe ang loyalty ng mga aso. Kahit sa mga owners na halos di man lang sila pinapakain, normally loyal parin mga aso. So, for it as her sole partner in her this video is a poignant touch to the song. Like, hinding hindi mo to maiisip kantahin for a dog, it’s like saying, mas mabuti pang aso nalang mahalin.

The Process of Letting Go of Someone 1. Malaya (Moira dela Torre) - the stage where you are acknowledging the other person that you're already letting go of them. But it is the stage where you're still hopeful that the person will come back, it is where you can't still fully accept the fact that they're leaving/letting go of them. 2. Saglit (Moira dela Torre) - at this stage, it's where the acceptance takes place. Accepting that nothing or no one is permanent. Accepting that the person that once made you happy and special is already gone. But still, you're thankful that it all happened even for a very short period of time. 3. Paalam (Moira dela Torre, Ben&Ben) - after accepting everything, this is the next stage where you are acknowledging your ownself that you're setting them free. That you are saying goodbye to everything. Saying goodbye to the pain, bitterness and unforgiveness and accepting the fact that "your choice to forgive and accept is not theirs but yours." 4. Patawad, Paalam (Moira dela Torre, I Belong to the Zoo) - the stage where you are forgiving the other person. Forgiving them for all of their mistakes, the pain, the failures. Forgiveness is the key to freedom. 5. Patawad (Moira dela Torre) - the final stage wherein you already let go of the person and everything. And now you only got yourself, this stage is about setting yourself free for all of the heaviness of the past. It is about your turn to have forgiveness to yourself. Even you acknowledged yourself that you already moved on, if you don't forgive yourself about your mistakes and regrets in the past, it still haunts you over and over again. Freedom and happiness is about forgiveness and acceptance of what happened and what has been done. 6. Paubaya (Moira dela Torre) - even though you have done everything, you already forgave everyone and yourself, accepted and embraced the pain, there are still a lot of questions unanswered. So at this stage,"Paubaya" refers to the thought wherein you just knew that the reason you two broke up is having a third party. That you are just the second best, the option, and the first but not the last. You also realized that, those things doesn't matter because the important thing is, you have done your part where you loved someone wholeheartedly without doubts and hesitations. And also, your questions are now answered so it doesn't haunt you anymore because it is your choice to "magpaubaya". It is your choice that you chose yourself to heal and to get up. And also, it is your chance to manage and fix yourself up. To everyone who's reading this, there might be a lot of process for you to fully move on with the heavy baggages you carry on with your hearts. Although it is a long and hard process, you can still learn a lot of lessons along the way until your wounds can fully heal and someday, someone will fill up the void inside your heart. Take the time as it heals and fixes you piece by piece. Sending you all virtual hugs🤗🤗🤗

This song reminds me of my crush who became the father of my child. But he doesn't know. It started when i saw him walking outside the canteen. Highschool days. Were not in the same grade but i will do my best just to see him every day. His smile will always makes me smile til now, I didn't have the chance to talk to him not until he graduated HS and went to his hometown. I was desperate so i pm him. And it started there. But it stopped when i entered college, both of us became busy. I was in my 4th year in college when we met. Allumni homecoming. We met because we have mutual friends. After that we communicate again, and then due to stress we decided to became fubu, nothing serious just sex but i know, i always know that i can't obey the rules. I graduated college and we lost communication, i was the one who cut it, not because i ddnt want it anymore but because im already hurting. "Wake up! Dont settle for less! Dili ka pangkama lang" that words from my bestfriend slapped me hard. But a few months later i found out something, i was pregnant. I really want to inform him but i found out that he's already in the ship and he's with someone already so i backed off and decided to keep it to my self. Its been 6 years my baby is not a baby anymore. My son is his carbon copy. He always asked about his dad and the only thing he knows is you are in the sea. The only news i got is he's now a seaman and in a relationship. Someday we'll meet again, i hope when that time comes my heart is no longer beating for you. Your son never hated you, he's always asking me to go to the beach hoping he will meet you. I so love his innocence. Someday we'll meet again, at the place where the sky meets the sea. Be safe sweetheart.

Im already there...Give me strength to let go Lord!!!

Ngayon ko lang pinakinggan mula maireleased itong single na ito, iniiwasan ko noon feeling ayoko, ayoko ng kanta na ito pero ngayon narinig ko pinakikinggan mo, kaya sinubukan ko pakinggan, nakakapag hina pala... Salamat sa kanta mo moira sa pakikisimpatya nito, xx

I had a girlfriend, 3 years din kami. That time she was having her review for LET, i was there the whole time to support her. Pero halfway sa review, she had an affair, i knew because her close friend updates me, after her goodnights she would secretly meet up with the guy, when she says she wants to study alone (because i usually accompany her) kasama nya pala yung guy. One time i saw them together , she was happy, she was smiling, the same smile she had with me, narealize ko antagal ko na palang di nakikita yung smile na yun. It hurt like hell, di ko alam tumutulo na pala luha ko, i turned around and left. I couldn't bring myself to confront her, di ko sinabing alam ko lahat I was afraid of what might happen. Then days later she wanted a cool off, she said na after her exam baka pwede pa naming ipagpatuloy. I knew it was the end of our story, I smiled, hugged her tight and said "OK, paningkamot sa review ha" (sikapan mo sa review). I knew that time na di ko na sya kayang pasayahin, I let her go without saying anything else, it was my last gift to her. She passed the exam and 1year na yata sila ng guy. I'm happy for her. Happy din ako, kasi if di yun nangyare i wouldn't meet my gf now. If may mawawala, then that means na may more suitable for you na darating🥰

"At kung masaya ka na sa piling nya di ko na ipipilit pa" Those words hits so hard i remember my mom letting my dad go They were highschool sweet hearts they've been in a relationship ever since they were in highschool to college until they got married but after alot of years of being together my father met another woman and he fell in love , my mom was so depressed that time trying to convince my dad to comeback to us but my dad refused and choosed his new family and left us. They met agian after almost 10 years but my dad is in his death bed my mom forgave him and my dad's last words was "PATAWAD DINALA KITA SA ALTAR PERO DI KITA SINAMAHAN HANGANG SA KAMATAYAN KO IKAW PA RIN AY NANDYAN PARA SAKIN." +edit: What amazes and pained me the most is my mom never took off her engagement ring she never talked bad about my dad or my dad's mistress. Up until this day she is inlove with my dad she would visit him in the cementary I DON'T KNOW BUT MY MOM REALLY IS A STRONG WOMAN AFTER ALL THOSE YEARS MY DAD ABANDONED US SHE STILL FORGAVE AND LOVE HIM SO MUCH.

tagus te sakit pala😭😭😭prang dinurog ng paulit2 ung puso q habang nakikinig ako sa music na to

3 years ago when this song was released. Naiyak ako literally specially with Joshua and Julia being in the Music Video. 3 years have passed and this song still hits hard when you feel the lyrics. I can hardly imagine being in the same situation as Moira. Then again I hope that she's able to move on now.

before my father died, he told my mom to find the man that loved her so dearly when they were still young as a teenager, my mom was quite popular with the guys and she was a catch. she was chased by different types of people but during her 20s, a particular man came into her life and shifted her world. wherever she goes he follows her, from cebu, to bohol, to manila and to mindanao, wherever my mom was he was there for her. that man treated her right and he was the person that loved (love) my mom the most they were lovers for quite a long time and, painful it may be, i myself is certain that he was the best man that my mom ever had and that’s when my father came into the picture. my mother fell head over heels for him and during that time she was forced to choose who among the two is she gonna be with. and my mom, who was so inlove, chose my dad and that man that had my mother first had no choice but to “paubaya” my mom to my dad because somehow he knew that my mom wouldn’t choose otherwise if he didn’t lack in something my father had. months after my mom decided to choose she was in cebu during that time to prepare for the wedding in bohol. and that man asked her if he could escort her for the last time in the port, my mom said yes and and before she left the man asked her if he could hold her hand for the last time and when he held her, he cried as he felt and saw the wedding ring. my mom cried as well and the last thing she said to him was “im sorry” and the last thing that the man told her was she shouldn’t be sorry for he loves her so much that’s why he is letting her go and after that, it was the last time they saw each other. years passed i was born, my brother was born and just last 2015 my father was diagnosed with hepatitis and later on he had a liver cancer. before my father died he still worked for us and sustained us as if he wasn’t feeling anything but he wasn’t able to take it last 2017. he died and that was the most painful goodbye that we ever felt. before my father died he told my mom to find the man that loved her so dearly because he knows how he would take care of her, of us when he’ll be gone. my mother told me that of all serious talks they had with my father it was the most certain one that he really meant. She told me that it seemed like my father returned what was ipinaubaya to him. which is her. 2 years later 2019, my mom was shopping when she encountered the sister of the man that loved her so much and told her that his brother is still in love with her. His sister then gave my mom’s number to the man and now the story is up to them. Sometimes, in someone else’s book, the first may not be the last. But life is full of twists and you never know that what you thought was the end, was just the first book of your journey. Start creating a whole new story of yourself or with someone who’s with you right now in the present. and just when you open your eyes they might be the people who’ll be with you until the last chapter of your last book.

I suddenly remember Ivo (One of Jonaxx Boys) "He's the prologue but not the epilogue." Thraia: Ivo walked beside me. He offered me his hand and gave me an assuring smile. "Ako ang dapat maghatid sayo patungo sa altar" he said... "I'll lead you to him now.... willingly, Thraia"

KAPAG NADUDUROG AKO SA BAWAT GABI O ARAW BUMABALIK AKO DITO PINAPAKINGGAN LANG TONG KANTA HINAHAYAAN KONG MAS MAGING EMOTIONAL AKO IIYAK LANG NATIN LAHAT NG SAKIT AT LUMBAY NA NARARAMDAMAN

He chose me, yes he did! but he never looked at me the way he looked at her. At that moment, I knew I would never be happy even if he chose me. It took me courage to let him go and everyday I was in pain. The last time I saw him was exactly 2 years ago. The pain wasn't there anymore and I didn't know I could make it but I did. WE DESERVE TO BE WITH SOMEONE WHO WOULD ALWAYS MAKE US FEEL WANTED, we all do!

I remember Ivo and Thraia When Ivo walked beside Thraia as he offered his hands with an assuring smile "Ako ang dapat maghatid sayo patungo sa altar...." "I'll lead you to him now...willingly, Thraia" Ivo was the prologue, but not the epilogue.

Before I'm just listening to this song. But now I am ready to say na yes ipapaubaya ko na sya sa Kabit nya💔. May God continue to watch over me and my kids 🙏

3 years ago! Year 2020 💔 sa tuwing pinapakinggan ko tong kanta na to wala akong ibang ginawa kundi ang umiyak sobrang sakit 💔☹️ Pero ngayon medyo ok na ❤ kaya ko nang pakinggan ulit ang kantang to, may kirot pa rin pero hindi na kagaya ng dati ♥️ sana one day magising ako na masaya na ulit ako at totally healed na ung puso at isipan ko ♥️ alam kong malapit na ♥️🙏🏻 Thank you Lord dahil hindi mo ako iniwan sa laban ko🥺🥺🥺

Salute for those who sacrificed their own happiness for someone's happiness..

"Sometimes you just have to accept the fact that some people only enter your life as a temporary happiness." :(

Sana isang araw ako naman yung piliin, yung ako yung priority. Yung ako lang, wala ng ex na maiinvolve or ibang tao. Yung wala ng doubts, yung wala ng sleepless nights. Yung wala ng pagdududa sa sarili na bakit hindi sapat.

We are High School sweet hearts. Transferee ka noong 2nd year HS, and yung Bestfriend ko yung classmate mo dahil nga pareho kayo ng hobbies, kayo yung naging mas close at kalaunan pinakilala ka niya sa akin. Hate na hate ako non kasi nagseselos ako dahil mas close kayo ng BFF ko kesa sakin, habang ikaw inis na inis sakin dahil lagi kitang binabara. To cut the story short, naging HS sweetheart tayo 3rd year. We're so happy, anjan yung legal na tayo both side pero hindi pa tayo non. Kasama mo ko sa family gatherings niyo at kasama ka rin sakin. Then nung nag Baguio tayo kasama ang pamilya ko, nangako ka sa harap nila na hanggat hindi pa tayo nakakapagtapos hindi mo muna ipipilit na maging tayo. Ansaya saya ko non akala ko tayo na hanggang huli until 4th year college dahil sobrang busy sa school dahil graduating ako hindi na kita nakakausap lalo na't magkaiba tayo ng school (Engineering ka at Law ako). Tiwala naman ako sayo at bantay ka ng bestfriend ko ahhahaha. Graduation day, nagpropose ka sakin and I said yes. 3 months after mo magpropose doon ko nalaman na may nangyari sainyo ng bestfriend ko before graduation ko, I was devastated. I kept on asking myself anong mali? Binigyan kita ng chance kasi sabi mo hindi mo alam yung nangyari at lasing kayo pareho non. Pinatawad ko kayo pareho pero after a week nalaman kong 4 weeks pregnant yung bff ko and ikaw yung ama. I was hopeless hindi ko alam gagawin ko, pero nakipaghiwalay ako sayo. Nagmamaka-awa ka, sinampal ka na nila mama pero ayaw mong umalis. Sabi mo susuportahan mo yung bata wag lang akong makipaghiwalay kasi di mo kaya. Hinarap kita and it was the biggest decision na gagawin ko. Naisip ko, kung tatanggapin kita paano ako magiging masaya kung alam kong may isang batang nawalan ng ama dahil sa kaselfsihan ko? Binalik ko yung singsing sayo. Niyakap kita, at ibinulong kung gaano kita kamahal. Pinaubaya kita, kahit mahal kita o kahit mahal mo ko dahil ayun yung tama. Sa ngayon you have a beautiful daughter na name after me tanda kung gaano mo ko kamahal. Masaya ka na sa buhay mo ngayon may mapagmahal na asawa, 2 magagandang anak at inaanak ko pa habang ako, isang ganap na attorney. Isang attorney na pinaglalaban ngayon ang karapatan ng iba, pero hindi ko nagawang ipaglaban ang pagmamahalan nating dalawa.

Sa susunod na babalik ako sa comment na to, masaya na ko. Edit : Hi! I struggled a lot when it comes to my mental health when I posted my comment here, and now I am beyond happy and I got the peace of mind I needed. Thank you to those people who commented here. Praying for your happiness and peace of mind you need in these times like this. ❤

I love it napakaganda ng song nato subra tutulo nalang luha bigla ❤👏👏😘

Joshua Garcia and Julia Barretto owned this music😭❤️❤️

This song reminds of the line, WHAT IF, ALL THIS TIME YOU ARE JUST BUILDING HIM/HER FOR ANOTHER PERSON🥺

“Ako ang nauna pero siya ang wakas.” hits me so bad, I realized that between you and the right person stands a line of wrong people. People will always leave you, but It doesn't mean it is your fault. pls always remember that the love you are giving away will eventually find its way back to you, in the most unexpected and magical ways possible. I’ll go with you, I promise that.

I feel the pain 😢 it hurts a lot, it destroys our will and believes, but we need to accept the fact that they do not really love us by who we are, they just filled what is missing to them at that moment, not realizing there gonna destroy and break someone who gave everything just to be loved.... Stay strong everyone, you're not alone 😇🐼😔

Iba ang tama ng kanta kung mismo yung composer & singer ay hindi exempted sa sitwasyon na patungkol ng kanta. Sana ma-channel ni Moira tulad ni Adele yung emotions na humahampas sa damdamin niya ngayon.

Pls. lang to those who are not yet healed from their past lovestory, to those who have not completely moved on from their past lover, to those who still hold on to the chance of getting back together with the ex-lover, to those hindi pa buo, to those who think that by entertaining another love can fix the broken heart, pls. take time to think muna, take time to get yourself fixed and healed from your past story, get that closure you deserve, have that healing you deserve. When everything is okay, you're ready, you have learned, and have moved on, let yourself be loved, let your self feel the love, again, tho Love is endless, and it can wait. You can never truly love someone if you're still aching. Remember, hurt people can hurt people. Always choose the true love, always love truely.

Pabalik balik ako sa video na ito hindi lang dahil sa kanta kundi para na din magbasa ng mga kwento ng ibat ibang tao. Kung paano sila nasaktan at nahirapan at kung gaano kasakit malaman na hindi pa din ang iba makamove on sa mga taong nanakit sa kanila. Hoping na makita ng mga taong nanakit sa inyo ang mga kwento nyo dito para man lang malaman nila kung gaano kayo nasaktan. Para na din sana makapagsorry sila sa kung ank man ang nagawa nila sayo😇

ang hirap mong kalimutan hangang ngayon mahal n mahal parln kita😢

crying every time i hear this song, letting him go was the biggest decision i made in my life, mahal na mahal ko siya, but i have to let him go kasi i wanted him to be happy, i want my happiness to experience true happiness even without me.

To the girl he left me for: I wasn’t enough for him, I hope you are. He left me like I was a joke, like I was nothing, when he found you. For 7 years, I was his rock when his world was falling apart, I was his strength when he had nothing. I was with him on every downfall. But now, you already have him. There must be something special he saw on you, because he chose you. Just please take care of him. Love him the way he should be loved. Please pray with him, he loves that. Cook for him. Be his greatest support system. Make him laugh and make him feel special. I don’t hate you, I just hate the fact that, that should be my hands he was holding, that should be my forehead he was kissing, that should be my hair he was caressing, and that should be me beside him. But I am happy to see him happy, with you. Please don’t break his heart, just please. P.S I loved him when he had nothing. And now that he has everything, he left me. You are so lucky, because I built you a good man.

GOD PLS HEAL EVERYONE.PLS LET THEM FORGET THE BAD MEMORIES AND FEELINGS. ENOUGH .LET YOUR CHILD MOVE ON IN THIS HEARTACHES I DECLARE IT IN JESUS NAME

Lahat naman ginawa ko para lagi lang mapangitinat mapasaya, pero bakit nung parang wala na akong silbi sayo binalewala nalang at wala ng halaga 😢 😔, ang sakit sobra,ang sakit ng puso ko hindi ko kaya yung thoughts na you are with someone new na 😓, cant afford another heartbreak like this binigay at tinaya ko na halos lahat 😭

This was us. Nagpaubaya ako, hindi dahil sa hindi ko na siya mahal. I loved him and our little infinity. But he found someone new that probably makes him happier. Who am I to take this away from him?

To the girl that he choose over my mother, me and my siblings, pls take care of my papa. Wag mo syang papabayaan kahit kailan pls, alam naming masaya sya sainyo. Masaya kaming nakikitang masaya sya sa piling nyo. For the last time pls nakiki usap ako wag nyo papabayaan papa ko no matter what happens. Ibigay nyo yung pagmamahal na hinahanap nya. Mahal na mahal namin yan

We’ve been together for almost 3yrs. We got each other’s back. I was there at your worst. I remembered how we planned our future together. Nandoon ako sa mga taon na walang wala ka. There’s a lot of reasons to leave you but I chose to stay. You left me after mong Dahan dahan na na achieve mga pangarap mo. We don’t leave people we love , we abandon people we need. You’ve cheated on me without thinking you’re not breaking my heart but you’re breaking our daughter’s heart. You were not there when we almost lose our lives during my delivery but still you came back like nothing happens and after that you left us like an option. KAME ANG NAUNA PERO SILA ANG WAKAS. Don’t worry I am healed now I know you’re Happy with your new family. Me and your daughter are now okay and hoping to find our happiness in Gods Will. Pinapatawad na kita Pinapatawad ka na namin. Still Thank you Because God use you as an instrument thats Why I have our daughter right now. You Will always be the first man I wished a future with and you wll always be the father of my first Child. I am wishing you all the best. I hope when we meet again we find ourselves BOTH forgiven. -GZ

Ang hirap mong kalimutan khit nsaktan mo ako ng sobra. 😭💔

mind y'all that paubaya lyric video is the most viewed and most liked filipino lyric video on youtube of all time by a filipino female artist. this is iconic.

The comments in this vid scares me because it made me realize that no matter how long you've been with that person, it can change so drastically you wont even notice it. Love is scary

This song opened an old wound. I have been cheated on by my ex of 3 years. How did I know that it was not me anymore? I saw him in the streets, holding someone's hand without him knowing I was there so I called him asking where he was and his answer sent shivers to my spine. You know why? Because he said " I am at home because I am not feeling good" But I did not give up yet, until I saw him again with the same girl. They were on their way home riding on his motorcycle, just like the last time I called him and got the same answer. Everything was so blurry and painful at the same time. I kept walking and when I tried to cross the street I was almost bumped by a motorcycle. The driver was so mad but after seeing my face, he doesn't know what to do, I ran and we did not talk anymore. I know it sounds like the movies but that's how I found it all. It took me a lot of courage to keep on going. To everyone who's at pain now, In the process of healing, don't turn your heart into a stone because someone out there deserves to see your smiles. It might me difficult but it will be worth it. I was traumatized. I have so many questions but I let God lead the way. I was happy to let him go because I was able to meet someone worthy of love and attention. Kaya laban lang 🙂

Moira is like a flower, she is glowing and shines like a blooming flower

I came back here to tell you all how great performer she (Moira) is. ❤ I was there in UP fair Quest. Shet na malagkit, kung ano yung boses sa recorded songs saka sa live, same na same. ❤ First time ko mapanuod si Moira pero tangina, di ko mapigilang hindi magmura talaga. She is so freaking fantastic! Pati yung bandmates nya. ❤ Moiiiii, ILOVEYOU SO MUCHO! Sana mapanuod kita ulit ng malapitan na. Daming tao nung UP fair e. Hahaha! More mapanakit songs to come please. ❤😂

"Pinapaubaya ko na sa Kanya", in a different perspective is about surrendering your failures, heartaches and pain to the Lord. It's about letting go and letting God, entrusting your heart to the Greatest Comforter, and believing that in time, through Him, you will be whole again.🙂

*AKO ANG NAG SAING,* *IBA ANG KUMAIN* 🎵🎶 ikaw anong pinaubaya mo?

I'm back here to listen to this song again and again to feel that I need to let go of my boyfriend who has been cheating on me. We've been together for almost a year now, we met online then became friends and later lover, I decided to accept his love since he was sincere. In that span of time, we fall in love with each other, I received sweet chats, I love you and many more, until such time that we started not talking and getting bad conversation. I thought it's gonna be part of a relationship, there's always a rough time. One day we had a great fight, then I blocked him, i thought he was gonna chase me, but another way happened, I caught him cheating on me. I gave him a chance but nothing happened, until this time that I needed to let him go and choose myself. To everyone, who felt IGNORE, UNWANTED and got cheated on, this is your time to let go. CHOOSE YOURSELF!

Let me tell you something guys If kayo padin nang first mo Nakasal na kau meron na kayung anak Lagpas na nang 7 years congrats 👏 Kasi bihira nalang yung first mo sya nagung pamilya na kau at umabot nang 7yrs❤️ kudos ako sayo guy's and gal's. But if you and your first didn't make it But you've been together for a 2 to 3 years And know how it feels it's ok.. but remember this It's not the end of the world 😊 it's hard and depressing that you can't forget the memories you've spent together no matter people don't change people dont forget they tend to hide it lang. Be happy guys.. be Happy na your still here be happy that even in the depressing situation you've survive it's not easy but always remember that no matter how hard the world is no mater how cruel it is to live there will be someone that will love you endlessly it may not now or the day after but soon i promise... From this day on Hear me "YOU'RE THE BEST PERSON IN THE WORLD IF NO INE CARE'S ABOUT YOU I CARE ABOUT YOU YOUR NOT ALONE BECAUSE IM HERE YOU MIGHT NOT SEE ME GUYS BUT I'M HERE FOR YOU💓"

The scariest part of a relationship is when the spark is not there anymore or the other one fell out of love then found another person that can fill the void again. Masakit lang sa part mo pag ikaw yung kumakapit pa, not knowing the other one is already giving up.. You may be the Prologue or the Chapter 1 or the Once upon a time but there is a possibility you'll never be the Epilogue and the happily ever after. Shete anuebayannn....

seven billion beating hearts - why do i have to fall for the one that doesn't beat for me?

Ngaun ko Lang narealize na ang love ay parang ISAng kalsada dumadaan lng ung MGA Tao para saktan Ka ....kahit sabhin years pa ang tagal darating tlga sa point na maghihiwalay Lang din..wla ding kwenta ang MGA pinagsamahan na taon...

I heard this song again and realized I'm still not completely healed after 2 years and the comsec just adds up and I hope we will all heal from this pain

HERE’S TO ALL THE PAIN LEFT UNSAID The song reminds us of the feeling of being unwanted. That we are being chased by beautiful stories, everyday. Like we are being deprived to experience a love being reciprocated. What if, it worked out? Where are we now? What if, it’s true? Where are we now? What if, I did my best? Where are we now? What if, it turned well? Where are we now? We have this rhythmic being, that even without a valid reason, we feel like all songs are associated to someone, like it’s beautifully written for them. Let’s say sorry to ourselves for experiencing the depth of brokenness. Let’s say sorry to our souls either for caging it in a nowhere to find situation. I don’t know, if where are we now. But here’s to the best person I will no longer have, I hope you know, You may not be my home anymore, but swear to God you will always and forever be familiar to me. EPILOGUE (edited) Nothing is ever painful than a heart left wondering why. Maybe, us was just a dream to good to be true. Well, we have to accept that people change like seasons. That time flies fast and that you’re not always needed. That there are times to move forward and places to let go. We should be aware that some people can only be in your heart, not in your life. I hope you know, this too shall pass. This day will leave. These tears will dry and the new day will bring hope a new. Heads up, I wish you all the worlds happiness!

"Nagkamali ako, may mas hihigit pa pala sayo", hearing this from you was the worst thing I couldn't take. That night, I begged and I badly tried to save what we used to have, but when it comes to your happiness, I am always willing to give anything even if it means walking out of your life. I hope someday, when we unexpectedly meet again, you'll be proud of me because I managed to let you go. The dreams and plans that we once had, don't worry, you may fulfill all of those with her. It was literally building a man for another female. I've healed myself so many times, and I'm good now. I am so happy for you, hon. Matagal na kitang pinaubaya.

This song is beautiful. The irony of this song for me hurts everytime I listen to this song. My ex bf actually introduced me to this song and taught me the backstory of the song and promised he’d never make me feel this way and less than a month after holiday together he cheated on me and continued to lie to me until I caught him red-handed myself across the globe. I loved him and he treated me exactly as your words. Thank you for writing something that defined my love story. It hurts but I can’t help but learnt the song to its entirety.

Every time na maririnig ko yung kanta nato, nadudurog padin ako kahit sobrang tagal na nh pangyayare na yon😔

The pain you've been feeling right now can't compare to the joy that's coming. Hold on to God's promises. If He says NO for now, He's only teaching you to be kinder with yourself and to wait patiently for He will only give you the BEST. Letting go does not only mean to forget, it is also meant for forgiveness and acceptance. Forgive yourself for trusting someone who doesn't know your worth and accept the things that are not really meant for you. Embrace the pain and use it to rise again gracefully. One day you will also meet your "mahiwaga" who will never get tired of choosing you everyday. (puhon) Never lose faith in love.❣ "Cheers to our almost"

“Anyone can fall inlove but not everyone can stay inlove.” - one of the most important lessons i’ve ever learned.

Sino ang bumalik sa song na ito dahil sa movie na Un/Happy For You?❤

Grabe yung kanta nato tumutugma lahat sa nangyayare sakin ngayon😪 mag WAWALONG TAON pinag palit lang sa 2 buwan palang nakikilala na katrabaho niya at tinago niya yung ng halos 8 buwan na sila na pala ,😪 ang sakit kasi habang nag papakatotoo ka niloloko kalang pala ,halos binigay mo lahat pero di kapapala sapat🙃😢 kaya sabi ngs nila mahirap maging sapat sa taong iba ang hinahanap 🙃. Ako yung kasama niya through ups and down ako yung nandiyan nung panahong madilim yung mundo niya ako yung nandiyan na bumuo sakanya ako yung nandiyan nung ligaw na ligaw na siya😢 pero ngayon iiwan niya ako dahil sa katrabaho niya na halos 2 buwan palng niya nakakasama ang masakit tinago nila na sila na pala ng halos 8 buwan ngayon ako nayung nandito ako sa sitwasyon nato ang sakit kasi wala siya hindi niya na ako mahal 😢. Ang sakit isipin na Yung lalaking hinanda ko sa iba pala nakalaan . kaya boys please kung di niyo na mahal WAG NYO NA LOKOHIN HIWALAYAN NYO NALANG KESA LOKOHIN NYO LANG PARTNER NYO🙃

"Ako ang yakap, pero hanap mo sya" "Ako yung nauna, pero sya ang wakas" Ladies and Gentlemen, if you can't move on from the past, don't ever find new relationship, Everyone deserve to be loved without doubt. Go to the relationship when you are ready not because you're still in pain. Last, this is about the story both of you, not three of you. Don't be selfish in terms of feelings, everyone wants to have a perfect and happy ending relationship, don't ever put struggle in the beginning up to last. If it's not for you then cry, accept and Go, I know you didn't deserve this, but you deserve to someone else. Just keep going

"You deserve assurance and consistency. Don't settle with someone who is only good at the beginning".

The Hardest Part of Loving Someone is seeing them slowly giving up on you, day by day. And wala kang magawa kundi hintaying sabihin nilang Ayaw na nila para kahit papaano mas mapahaba mo pa Yung panahon na makakasama mo sya.

Pagpapaubaya na lang ang meron ako noon. Pero naging masaya nman ang ending, nakakilala ulit ako ng taong mamahalin at iingatan. Hindi na ko humiling na kahit na ano, nagtiwala na lang ako na may plano ang Diyos.

This song hits so hard. Not only in the most romantic way. Pinaubaya ko ‘yung kapatid ko sa Panginoon. At alam kong hindi siya paluluhain at alam kong tunay siyang aalagaan doon. I was 6 years old and he was 5. At first we thought it wasn’t something serious but, he lost his ability to move and was paralyzed for about 2 or 3 years of his life. I was young. So young to even realize that I was losing my brother but, it was too late. One day, I woke up as an only child who held on to the hope of seeing him again. An only child who would love to share everything to her brother. An only child who’s been dying to hear his voice because this only child is slowly forgetting how he sounds like. It’s been 9 years. Sana isang araw, masabi ko rin na okay lang na pinaubaya kita kasi ngayon masaya ka na. Fly high, my baby. I miss you. 🕊

Sending virtual hugs to anyone who's suffering from a lot of pain right now 🥺❤️ Someday, you will heal from whatever broke you and from the things you thought you won't be able to heal from. Someday, your wounds will heal and you'll finally be happy and feel alive again without those people who left you in the process. Just take your time to heal, don't rush yourself too much, and believe that one day you'll get there.