Paul, Morgan, and Sister Cindy 

0:00 Intro 2:26 Who Are Paul and Morgan? 12:17 Who Is Sister Cindy? 24:59 Not Quite 12 Hours With Sister Cindy... 30:40 Paul Meets Cindy 38:23 Sooooo, What Are You Wearing? 43:14 Purity Culture and Shame 47:50 A Deep Dive Into Misogynistic Language 56:35 An Aside: Surnames and the Patriarchy 01:03:33 Reclamation and Empowerment 01:09:00 What Do The Students Think? 01:25:26 The Most Mediocre Interview 01:37:26 "Morgan, You Should Be Disgusted With Yourself" Sources and Further Reading here: docs.google.com/document/d/1xjdDxazjj2eXMG6R0IBEHR4lb2WED28xgXP3Sj0WWmc/edit?usp=sharing

"She uses colorful language that might ruffle some feathers," says Paul. If a drag queen used the same words that Cindy uses, Paul wouldn't call it "colorful". He would call it evil, offensive, and ungodly. The double standard people use to excuse their own is palpable.

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Why is a middle aged person allowed to wander around a college campus and bothering people about their sexuality?

I would hate to have even a casual friendship that vaguely resembled Paul and Morgan's relationship. It's so clear how they annoy and anger each other while smiling and laughing through it. Sounds exhausting

“It’s nice knowing that she can’t go anywhere,” oh my word…

1:02:45 I know you're making a very serious and thoughtful point, but for a second I thought you were going to say, "I'm not just Oates, I'm eggs, flour, butter, baking soda, and sugar- I'm a whole cookie and a d*mn good one!"

My favourite part of the OG margarita song is that it not only mocks Cindy, but turns the message into being empowered and having a fun time! Plus it's a bop

I don't understand how people like Sister Cindy are allowed on college campuses. If anyone like that had come to my campus while I was in my college, I would have felt so unsafe. I wasn't putting myself thousand of dollars in debt to have some stranger call me and my friends degrading names while we're walking to class! She's not a teacher, not putting on some extracurricular activity...she has no place on campuses. College students should not be some "preacher"'s conversion hunting ground.

that clip where paul says he’s considered divorce and LAUGHS at her crying????? Like I knew they were bad but WHAT

"it's nice knowing she can't leave." How sad, this is why shaming and banning divorce is a bad idea. I feel so bad for them.

Paul triggers me something fierce, so I had to take breaks while watching this, but I will say that I don't think he asked better questions because he's just winging this. They both are. They're just not entertaining, and their channel is dying. As for Sister Cindy, I'm a millennial, I have a sense of humor, and what Sister Cindy is preaching is funny to the audience because it's being aimed at people who are more than likely all under the age of 25. It sounds funny and edgy to them, but as an adult, it sounds childish. I think everyone who was laughing, was laughing at her, despite the harmful message. She's replaced the "fire and brimstone" rhetoric with "ho" and "thot" but it's the same message that has been said for eons now. She sounds like a grifter to me, plain and simple.

in the MOSTTTTTT respectful way possible, morgan sounds just so…exhausted. i completely understand she’s pregnant and everything considered, i just feel like the not wanting to do youtube is getting to her. i feel bad for her sometimes

IMO Paul doesn't ask those questions because he's just not a curious person. Which is probably why the "24 hours with" series isn't doing well - both Paul and Morgan have no desire to delve deep into subjects... plus Morgan doesn't want to be doing this at all.

As a german it's so crazy to me that adults can just show up at a school campus yelling about their beliefs. Like if this happened here half of the school staff or the particularly grumpy janitor that many schools have would berate them so much lol. Idk if it's like this in all of germany but around here it's unthinkable at least.

On the surname part, and why I refuse to change mine for marriage..... It's literally the invention of my mother and I. When we decided, now's the time we are gonna run for our life and escape her family built on extreme levels of DV / CSA / whatever you wanna include as abuse - it happened... We changed our surnames. I still hold my birth first name, she changed her *entire* identity of given-middle-surname. That surname is SO important. It denotes the beginning of escaping the worst kind of darkness and the survival of it. The awful times of living in hotels because we had nowhere to go, scared out of our minds we'd be found. The years of her therapy to deal with her childhood. Me learning who I am as a person, a child (I was under-10), independent from the concept of 'family.' It denotes the BEGINNING of a whole new life, and the absolute struggles to get there. Why on Earth would I ever give something so poignant, important, sentimental, and empowering up...... Just to state, "I am married and I am legally bound to a husband"?

Rachel Oates videos are like therapy for me, her calming voice, her reasoning through wild things I grew up with....I am here for this

Sister Cindy came to my campus when I was in school, and it was very clear that absolutely no one in the crowd took her seriously at all. Which, I think was the best case scenario bc her message is harmful to both women and those who follow the Christian faith. After Sister Cindy's "preaching" was done, she invited a friend of hers up to the mic to share her testimony. This friend spoke about her struggles and experiences with drug addiction, poverty, and domestic abuse. It was intense listening to her story, but the crowd was still so amped up from Sister Cindy's "message" that they continued throwing insults and treating her friend's true, heartbreaking testimony as a joke. It was really hard to watch, and was proof enough to me to show that Sister Cindy and her "Ho No Mo" brand are only causing harm--both to the crowds that watch her and to the public image of the Christian faith and its followers.

It was so sad to hear Morgan say she thought she was a ''ho'" for having pre-marital sex and then her husband DOUBLED DOWN ON THAT BELIEF, it was so toxic

also alright, I hate that I'm having this thought, but you just KNOW that while trying to downplay it, Paul feels so incredibly superior about his 'never a ho' button. Like that little pin is going straight into his spankbank.

interesting you mention how "slut" used to mean "untidy woman". In German (or maybe it's just an Austrian dialect thing, not sure) we still say "schlampig" which means "untidy/messy" but also means "slutty" depening on the context. Like my mum used to call me "schlompad" (which is our dialect word for "schlampig") when i had a messy room for example. She also called me a "Schlompn" (noun for "schlompad"/"schlampig") once when i had a particularly messy room. But i think she realized that it could be interpreted that she just called her 14 year old daughter a slut bc she then clarified to me that she just meant to say that i was a messy girl lol. The more i think about it, the more i think it is a dialect specific thing that we use "schlampig" also as messy/untidy. I think in standard German it is just used in the meaning of "slutty". Dialects are fun :) I hope you enjoyed your holiday in Austria :)

Cindy and the rest of Jed's group were a group of caricatures at my college campus. People would often look up from days blending into each other to see Brother Jed and Sister Cindy screaming ("preaching") at students in the middle of campus, only to then realize exactly what time of year it was. People looked forward to making time in their schedules to visit Brother Jed and Sister Cindy's sermons, whether to ridicule, argue, observe, film, or question. It seemed as though the majority of interactions, even at the quite religiously conservative school, were taken as a joke by the students. As a personal anecdote, I vividly remember Brother Jed pointing my friend and I out across the plaza for hugging as a greeting, calling us out as "filthy sinners". Anything I caught them spewing was usually hateful, meant to provoke and shame people.

I hate the idea of children being brought up around this unhappy marriage and such oppressive harmful values

6:28 Morgan does everything Paul wants, she says when she wants something but he never really gives in to her. He has considered divorcing and leaving her while she gives him no real pushback or boundaries. This is the TradWife to Poverty Pipeline in real time. He feels entitled to leave her stranded at any point after she has agreed to be a mom. I was so terrified of this being my future when I was younger. It’s just a nightmare scenario for me.

as someone who goes to school in the US, our understanding was that these ppl allowed to be on the public campus and can’t be removed as it would be a violation of free speech. these people try to get a rise out of everyone so they can be removed/physically confronted and then sue.

Sister Cindy came to my campus in Kansas two years ago and there was just a guy dressed as a clown dancing in front of her 😭

Why does Paul look so happy while listening to Morgan struggle that's so fucked up

Isn't Paul being boring and not adding anything to the conversation literally his brand?

There was a really problematic evangelist who went by Bible Bill who was banned from my college campus while I was there. I saw him preach a couple times, (mostly because he was right in the middle of campus where I needed to walk) and a lot of it was telling people reasons they would be going to hell. He finally ended up not being allowed back when he told a young woman on her way to the gym that she deserved to be raped for wearing shorts, so apparently that was where the line was for that university.

something i’ve found interesting about the idea of first names vs. surnames is how people tend to refer to female public figures by their first names but refer to male figures by surnames (such as hilary vs. trump). it’s a subtle example of misogyny where women are (perhaps subconsciously) seen as not deserving of the respect of a last name. i’m a journalist and it’s always been emphasized to make sure to refer to women by their last names in articles because of this, but your perspective has me thinking about WHY the last name is considered more respectful professionally and what that in itself says about a patriarchal name being seen as more proper than a given name. really interesting to think about

They need to ban her from entering campuses. If it were from genuine concern for her mental health and not ban her, is it even a genuine concern if zero care is given to the students that cross paths with her? Great video as always.

As someone who grew up in a deeply fundie environment, I really appreciate all the fundie content you make. I don't know if I could ever explain how cathartic these have been

When I saw the names "Paul and Morgan" in the notification, I feel like this is gonna be a cringey video but watching the intro and finally met Sister Cindy, oh man, this video is gonna be wild. But at the same time, I'm gonna watch it to support Rachel. If Rachel had to suffer through this while making this video, we have to suffer as well but we got this

When she is performing or making a TikTok, Cindey feels a bit like Michael Scott from 'The Office' 😂

Watching the footage of Paul and Morgan having very passive aggressive arguments on camera and Paul saying shit like “it’s nice knowing she can’t go anywhere” makes me so upset and sad. You can tell how miserable both of them are, but ESPECIALLY Paul. You can tell Paul absolutely hates being married to Morgan and it’s just.. it’s sad

As a linguistics student, the whole discussion on gendered insults definitely parallels stuff I have studied, and so did the surname portions! My teacher actually had worked a lot on the topics of reclaiming insults and slurs, and how marginalized communities can take power back by deciding how to use them. Thank you for all the book recommandations, will definitely look into those!

I'm a hospital housekeeper, and your videos often play on my phone as I clean rooms and other spaces. It can be rough, but your energy and inclusive takes give me something fun and validating to focus on. Thank you so much!! Ngl, I'd love podcast versions of your videos on Spotify or something! Since I can't watch your videos as I work, a strictly audio format would be super awesome!

Looking gorgeous, as always, Rachel! LOVE the purple eyeshadow and the shirt. Hope you're feeling refreshed and restored after your holiday! 💜🌈✨

I started crying when you were talking about the surnames and patriarchy. My mum passed away almost 2 years ago, and my name is the only permanent gift I have gotten from her (as I look like the mix of my whole family visually). My name was decided by both my mum and dad, but it was thought out carefully and I couldn’t be more grateful. I love my surname as well, because my dad is one of the best men I’ve ever met in my life, but my name really encompasses my family and I’s identity very well. I never told my mum about my favourite youtubers, as she didn’t speak English, but she would have loved you and your amazing thought process. Thank you for being yourself and for being such an amazing and thoughtful person ❤

Honestly I love this take on surnames particularly, it reminds me of a line I read in a book like 100 years ago where one woman said to another woman that she didn't understand why children were named for their father's when really they only thing you could be absolutely certain off was which women birthed the child (this was a historical fantasy setting so no dna testing options either). And that always stuck with me. Secondly, I've been a firm believer for quite a while now that we absolutely need to ban slut-shaming as a whole. Like it doesn't matter how many sexual partner has or hasn't had. We don't need to shame anybody that. It has also made me wonder what would be the better option: to either take back the word and give it a more positive association (which I think in some groups is already kinda happening where people will call each other sluts affectionately) or to sort of bury it altogether. I'm kinda leaning towards option 1 but it's definitely tricky either-way. I do 100% think it should be a gender-neutral term. If we're going to keep it, ANYBODY can be a slut and hopefully, proudly so.

"Is the compassion in the room with us right now?" And that's me dead lmao

For someone who is visibly uncomfortable with the fact that his wife had a previous sexual partner, Paul sure does find all kinds of excusses to bring that up on a regular basis. It's kinda gross.

I recognize Paul and Morgan from earlier videos. I'm surprised they are still together, keep waiting to hear about Morgan finally getting fed up enough to leave.

Your tangent about names was really interesting! As someone with a hyphenated last name, I’ve put a lot of thought into what I’m supposed to do with it if I ever have kids- do I pass it on? Choose one name? Use my future spouse’s? Some weird name amalgamation? I understand why my parents did it, but I honestly really wish there was a better solution. I love my name, and I’ll never change it, but sometimes I think it’ll put me in a tough spot with some of my family in the future. I really wish there was a better solution to the issues inherent to the whole ‘pass down your surname paternally’ situation.

i don't think paul or morgan have the capability to think of constructive questions (why they are the way they are)

I've literally only ever had one partner - we've been together nearly 8 years, we're common-law married and consider each other husband & wife, he was my first date, first kiss, and first time, and I hope he's my last. The fact that Sister Cindy would still consider me a ho is so deeply funny to me

Firstly the outfit and the makeup is so goregous it makes me want to explore color eyeshadow more! I found at the end when Morgan was talking about how she disliked that no one in her life checked in on her to be quite sad. In my own life my friends and I are constantly checking in on each other about all aspects of our lives and it just sounded as though Morgan didn't have anyone to truly connect to or talk to about whatever she was feeling at the time - especially because it surrounded the topic of premarital sex and would surely be shamed for even bringing up.

I'm always so happy when you upload. You've been very helpful in my deconstruction from Catholicism, and it meant I could give myself the space to convert to Hellenism and accept myself as a queer woman. I'm still on a long road for healing but your channel has been so helpful - a good laugh at fundies while breaking down the harmful views. Thank you for your work Rachel ♥

I started this video disagreeing that Cindy is harmful, bc I was at uni when she came to preach on campus and I had a couple friends who she would consider “hoes” who thought she was funny, and cheered for her. But your thoughts on messages being harmful despite having a positive reception and not being taken seriously really made me think. Your video had really insightful commentary I wouldn’t have otherwise thought of, and I loved your tangent on taking on a husbands name and the concept of ownership and maternal lineage. Amazing video Rachel :)

Judging by how Cindy behaves, I think there is some underlying mental issue that leads her to hold these beliefs, but the way she goes about preaching them is a choice. She chooses to be offensive and aggressive, because as someone pointed out, she's perfectly capable of not doing that in all those on camera interviews.

Fundie Fridays has some great videos on these two, so excited for your recent update!

I had to pause the video to listen to the margarita song and now im back

Not me cackling like a banshee on the ferry home when Rachel said “I thought it was performance art” ☠️ as an alumna of UW Madison, it was nice to see the younger generation of Badgers shut her down.

I would personally like to thank Sister Cindy for inspiring the Margherita Song, everytime it comes on my gym playlist I think of her😂🍸

Omg perfect timing ! I was about to practice drawing amd i needed something interesting to listen to ♡

Not a direct reply to things discussed in the video but I wanted to say that I appreciate you leaving in things that others would maybe edit out as bloopers/"mistakes" - a slight stumble over words, restarting a sentence, a pause to think, etc. It feels much more human and accessible and I love it! There's definitely a place for snappy editing but I appreciate the humanity you bring to these topics, from your scripting and careful discussion of the topics themselves, all the way to your editing. Keep up the great work; I appreciate you diving into these subjects so we don't have to.

Oh no sister Cindy 😂 I love the remix the one woman did of her margarita thing 😂😂😭😭

Rachel!!! The hair, the makeup, the color palate, the SHIRT, you’re glowing!!!!

It's weird like this is legitimately very funny because of how cringe it is but at the same time they are extremely harmful people doing gross shit so like that stops the laughs a little

I find it interesting that these preachers just start screaming at everyone. Having gone to college (bachelors and masters) it's just not as active as people think. I think these people were a bit wild so they think everyone else is too. I'm sorry they are ashamed of their actions but that doesn't give them any insight to the actions of others.

I appreciated the aside on women and last names! For anyone interested, I highly suggest reading about "coverture laws" of marriage. Under these laws, a woman's legal existence/identity was subsumed under her husband. This meant that women's identities and rights were literally ERASED when they married. This partially explains why women would change their last name after getting married, as they were now a "part" of their husband legally. These laws prevented women from actions such as owning property, entering into contracts, or keeping a salary for herself (since the husband was the real "person", only he would be able to take certain legal actions). Coverture law was also used to justify denying women the vote. So the background behind the tradition of patriarchal surnames being passed on has a much darker side (at least in places where coverture laws existed).

i absolutely love when you reference something 'being an autistic thing' 'cause i know you haven't known about this neurodivergence of yours for that long and it's so endearing to hear fellow autistic people finding out traits they've been derided for are perfectly fine and common among us! speaking of being nd i also have adhd and i'm already dreading going back to rewatch this video just to find the exact second you reference books, i was hoping they would be listed in the description but then again i haven't checked all the links. i prefer long form content but if having to look for something precise in them it confuses me, oh well that's my problem and i'm interested enough to go and search for those titles 💕 about surnames: i already have a chosen name my family doesn't call me by as they don't understand being trans and i've never been able to stand bearing my dad's surname and wished to change it into my mum's mostly for feminist reasons, but also because despite none of my parents not being great in my country the laws for changing surnames are strict and i couldn't choose my own word. something i love about my mother's surname is it has a strong geographical connotation and can be traced back to her place of birth, and people are discriminated for that origin it. maybe it could be stigmatising to make it mine but i have intense ties with her heritage so i hope to be able to get it done. it's spite as well, partially, to be fair. only drawback is ever since looking into the practice, discovering filing it is expensive discouraged me

Makeup and fit absolutely fire! 🔥

To the question of whether Cindy should be banned from campuses, even if she's experiencing delusions, I very much think she should be banned. She is harming people and it doesn't matter whether she's mentally ill or not. She should be banned from canpuses and arrested if she continues despite the ban. This arrest may lead to her being put in a mental health facility (which yeah there's a lot of bad stuff going on in them but there's not much else to put here) and depending on whether she suffers from any kind of delusion she may be prescribed anti-psychotic medication or something similar. After a bit she can very much be released again since the charge that she'd get would most likely be trespassing. If she has someone to take care of her, that would be a good option too and if she's aware enough to understand that what she's doing is illegal and wrong, she should end up getting either fined or put into prison because she repeatedly would've violated the law in that case.

Your video is like therapy ❤️😭 thank you so much for posting

The sheer physical distaste Paul and Morgan have for each other gives me the ick.

My son has my name and my parents were 3rd cousins, so they had the same last name. I'm so happy I could give my last name to my son and he's actually named after his great grandfather. He was a very good man who went through so many tragedies in his life, but always remained true to himself. He was actually the first atheist in the family. He became one in a POW camp where the Soviet soldiers took him after the battle of Budapest. He was a civilian because of health issues. He almost died. He never explained what happened, he just said that there can't be a god after what he saw there.

Thank you for reminding me to watch the Trad Wife video I was falling down a rabbit hole and forgot that it came out, I can't wait to watch it this afternoon

Love your shirt, earrings, and eye makeup!!! Always love your insightful and compassionate content!

why Morgan always looks so groggy like she's just had 20 random pills of whatever the strongest drug she found laying around

cannot wait for this. i have so many videos and pictures of sister cindy and brother jed on my campus in 2018/2019. i have a sticker of her and her “be a ho no mo” with my gay friends kissing in front of it. it’s so weird to have seen her go viral. i would never say she was mentally ill, she knows what she’s doing. maybe she’s a bit delusional, but she’s a fundie and she’s tiktok famous now.

I love the passion and sentiments about your last name, and the idea that you're a product of all your ancestors on all sides, not just one line, and that your given name reflects the love of all your family. It reminds me of my brother: he's got 3 kids and he and his wife planned to name them after the Archangels (they're quite religious). When the last child came along after a longer break, he was supposed to be named our-language version of Raphael, but the older children didn't like it, so they all picked a different name together, as a family. I like that my brother and sister-in-law had a theme for their children's names (they are quite nice names too, I think!), but I also really like that they were okay with changing their plan to make space for their children's opinion and include them in welcoming their new brother.

As a "female" who was raised by parents that never brainwashed me with this bs and only asked for me to be safe, I would probably not throw a second look at some shrieking old woman and go about my way to class that I paid for...🙄

I love your thoughts on surnames. even before my parents separated and I legally took my mother's surname, I referred to myself using my mother's surname because my father was very uninvolved, and I felt his name shouldn't apply to me -- I was 8 years old when I first felt this strong discomfort of a paternal surname that you talk about, and it wasn't until now that you really put into words the deeper reasons why I felt this way. great insightful video as always!!

Thanks for all your consideration of mental health. You create a safe space to disect it and religion and how they can be intertwined ❤

The firstname analysis was moving and thought-provoking. Mom and I love your videos!

Love your videos ❤ thank you for your work Rachel!

i haven’t dived into their videos past fundie fridays and jordan & mckay’s videos. to see this compilation of horrrrrible clips of them being the worst couple on camera really makes me worry for what happens behind it.

The tangent about surnames really got me thinking, love the tangents!

Had to pause what i was doing as soon as i saw the notification for this. Love ur vids ❤

I feel that your summation at the end really hit the nail on the head. This was boring and generally lacked any kind of actual thought or insight because in order for Paul or Morgan to have brought that, they themselves would have had to question their own beliefs and values. We have to remember that both of them are deeply indoctrinated into the purity culture, and in a lot of ways neither of them have ever demonstrated any capacity to see things from any alternative perspective outside of judging an alternative perspective in order to justify their own. A lot of this, I believe, comes down again to the fact that they are deep down, likely not actually secure in their beliefs. In order to give someone who believes something different than you a good faith chance, in order to really get INTO the perspective of someone who believes differently than you and to truly assess why they may believe what they do, why they may feel what they do, to look at their experience and how it may differ from your own, this is going to cause you to have challenge your own beliefs. It means that you do have to, in good faith, challenge what you believe in order to really empathize with or see another's point of view. And if you are not solid in your belief system or if you are not the kind of person who is open to finding out that you're wrong and that perhaps those who disagree with you have a valid reason for that disagreement, you aren't going to have the capacity to actually look at anyone else as anything other than someone who is wrong or stupid or otherwise just doesn't know what they're talking about. They were not able to bring any depth to this, because that would have required challenging their own belief systems about purity, sexuality and how the doctrine may be wrong or causing harm. How it may not actually be an effective tool for converting people. How it may be causing more harm than good even if they were to hold to the idea that converting people is the best thing and purity is the best thing - challenging Sister Cindy and her methods would have meant challenging their own deeply held conditioning, and thus, it didn't happen. Their points of disagreement with her were surface level because their exploration of this concept were also just that - due to the fact that they are fully bought in. They aren't actually open minded and aren't able to see alternative perspectives because they are not comfortable challenging their own beliefs on any level. Thus, there was no way this was going to have any depth or critical thought applied.

Ohhh hello stunning purple eye shadow!! 😮 I promise to watch the whole video Rachel, I’m just always here for the colourful makeup looks!! Such a 10/10!

1:00:45 i feel this so heavily im so so glad you were able to say exactly what i’ve felt for so long thank you can’t wait to read/hear you read that poem!!

I always find it interesting that in English classes I was taught to just refer to someone as their last name after introducing them in the beginning of essays. It’s the same for citations.

I truly appreciate how you explain in greater detail. Another informative video, especially your book recommendations, thank you❣

NO WAY BROTHER JED!! I used to go to Texas A&M and when Jed came every year (for a week) we called it Jed Fest. It was a fuckn party

Thank you for another great video! ❤

Sister Cindy seems like a parody...

"I've never seen them support a cause that wasn't their need to pay rent this month"

A minute in, and I'm already skeeved out by Paul lurking on a college campus. He's just soooooo freakin' creepy

Omfg rachel that shirt is amazing, and the mushroom earrings are perfect with it 🤩

Omg you look absolutely amazing!!! I love the colors, I love the makeup! You look beautiful!

I have been loving your book recommendations with these videos 😁

Rachel, that top and eye makeup compliments you so well! 🤩

im midway through this video and i want to say Rachel i love your tangents!! ive been subscribed for at least 6 years now also were both autistic! i love your content and i could listen to you talk all day, i think youre very valid and in my opinion when you go off script and are speaking from the heart is my favorite part of your videos❤️🤍(thats also why i like watching you LIVE as well) unfiltered you is awesome and im here for it!! p.s. im sorry that my grammar is really bad

I wouldn’t be surprised if Rachel put more time and effort into to researching this video than Paul and Morgan spent on the whole video

before watching: I just wanna say that even though sister Cindy has a lot of bad ideas, I must hand it to her in that she understands how to meet people where they are a lot better than other evangelicals.

I'm only at the start of the video, which I know I will LOVE. But I need to immediately tell you how incredible you look! I love the kinda editorial makeup & the shirt gives Miss Frizzle vibes in the best way. Thank you for giving us such an in depth well done video!

Well that intro broke my anger meter off the bat... this is going to be fun to see if I can make it to the end 😂

Rachel, I love your tangents. As a fellow autistic person, language and how societies and cultures shape it is one of my interests so I’m here for it.