@@cocoace7587 yup .. all forms of media outlets are saturated with true stories/events every...single...day of violence, hate crimes, kidnapping, torture, abuse, trauma, murder, SA, etc. etc. towards women.
Someone made this comment on twitter... they get angry and can't take no for an answer even in hypothetical situations. That's why women choose the bear.
A basic lack of empathy is what his response was showing. If you have a barrel of poisoned apples but someone tells you only 6/10 are poisoned, do you still take your chances? No.
His apology was so convoluted. He was saying some of the right words and then sprinkle in a whole bunch of words that immediately cancel out the sincerity. Definitely a nonapology. This dude is not actually sorry or has the ability to empathize with women choosing the bear. His ego is still in the way and he is still taking it personally.
This is exactly what I was thinking too some people have way too much faith in such a small amount of old married men that are already settled. It's very hard to choose the right guy if almost all of them are damaged it requires you to be a lot more selective and even if you are that selective now your being too picky some guys will come down on you for one mistake but they make hundreds of mistakes all the time and nobody ever calls them out for it and when you do you are told it's not all men, or women do this too. They doesn't mean this is a good excuse to keep promoting it. It's just another way they dismiss women's problems by projecting or placing the blame back on her simply because she's a woman. It's very disturbing how sexist our society has gotten that I have to apologize for telling a man the truth about their nature. How about stop being attentive seekers and then women would have a lot less reasons to complain about them?
@@Laoriginal718 yea but his attitude gives off a cheating vibe. also the ignorance of women's emotions in general makes me think he wouldn't care if his wife was heartbroken because he cheated. I'm just theorizing though
Couldn't his wife explain to him that he has as much physical advantage over her as a bear? Overpowered is overpowered. There aren't degrees of overpowered. And the advantage women do have over other animals, superior intelligence, men have it too. So even from a completely detached survival-of-the-fittest perspective, the bear is the better choice for women. Him as a six-foot tall, muscle-bound man would have better odds against another man, so it would make sense for him to face another man, while it wouldn't make sense for the average woman.
I was wondering if anyone else noticed this as soon as he began talking. And yes, it's sad that people can't understand the language and intonations of sarcasm.
I picked up the condescending humor he was trying so hard to keep subtle. He still doesn't get it and still thinks its ridiculous that women pick bear.
And the fact that he kept emphasizing “feelings” instead of experiences or statistics. Men like that think that women are overly emotional and we aren’t a trustworthy source for telling our own story.
I don't think I heard an apology. I think he's sorry his ego is hurt. He's sorry folks failed to agree with him. He's sorry is cost him subscribers. He's more concerned about how his response to the man/bear question adversely affected him than how his response affected women.He still doesn't get it. His 'apology' is just damage control.
Ive been porsued by a grown man from 10 years of age to 13, he wanted to have a relationship with me behind my mothers back and the worst part is he was my uncle. My mother took him in because he got sick and instead of making him leave when he got better my mother let him stay. I still cant forgive my mother for allowing this to happen. I don't like men, and I dont like pickme mothers.
Do ya'll know what happens to a wild animal that attacks a human either at the zoo or in the wild and the human gets away lives to report what happened? The animal is either hunted or targeted and gets put down. Men on the other hand, can do some truly heinous stuff to another human being and will be given the benefit of the doubt.
Like the guy that r**ed a girl on a college campus a few years back. She was drunk and passed out in the bushes! He was given the lightest of punishment cuz the judge didn't want to mess up his promising future 🙎🏾♀️😞🤬
He’s not repentant about what he said. He didn’t demonstrate that he learned Anything. He’s just sorry that he got stitched so much by large accounts. He’s hurt that women are saying that his looks are mid, at best. He cares about Himself. … and if I was his wife, we would have a conversation about why he cares so much about what women on the Internet think about his looks. Apology Not Accepted.
I am willing to bet that his wife is a pickme or is putting up with him for the kid or whatever reason. If I had a husband and he talks like this, he wouldn't have a wife anymore, or there wouldn't be a marriage in the first place. He still has a wife because she lets him get away with talking about women like this. He probably claims she's dumb too. This kind of speech doesn't come out of nowhere. This is how he usually speaks.
That or he logged into his wife's account and tried to pretend he was her I can always tell when it's a guy trolling too because they will say things that most women would never say even if they we're married a married woman's response is usually don't get married. They try to speak up for there wife alerting us that there marriages is healthy but let's go ahead and separate the small amount of married old men that don't cheat and just assume it's all the of them for your safety and just choose yourself it's the better option.
Last Sunday, I ran into the store to get something to drink, I passed by this guy and by the time I got to the register, he was cursing me out for not speaking... he then followed me and when I stood on my front porch he was threatening me and walked towards my porch.. thank God my son was sitting in his friend car and jumped out on him... he got humble so quick... I CHOOSE THE BEAR 🐻
“Women hardly ever enter the woods without a man…” Me, who grew up in the country, and knew a woman who would walk 3 miles alone through the woods on a regular basis- which women are you talking to??
Right!? I grew up in the woods. Women aren’t afraid to go into the woods alone, some of us do it every single day. Some of us live in the bear country woods.
Same story as the husband who set his wife's mom on fire after his wife finally filed for divorce because he knew that would hurt the wife more than if he set her on fire? A man will go out of his way to target where you're most vulnerable to cause the maximum amount of pain imaginable. All these men out here acting offended like they can't possibly understand why we don't want to be around them know EXACTLY why we don't want to be around them. They know. They're just offended that we know too and are taking steps to stop it from happening (even when it's just hypothetical). They hate that we're not making ourselves available for their pleasure. They hate that we're calling it what it is instead of playing dumb.
Males only apologize when they have been ostracized or caught in the act. He did exactly that and I don't believe one second of that apology. I am 4B movement forever over here. Thank you Destiny for your content and for sharing it with us❤
4B is working for me. I see no reason for men to be upset about the movement. Most women didn't even notice MGTOW. We kept it moving, but the hemotionals gotta control everything, even our response to a hypothetical question.
That’s also part of the reason why they’re mad.: We did even notice MGTOW, nor did we even really care!!! In fact, the reason why we didn’t care and still don’t is because they haven’t gone their own way! They are STILL around harming women, children ( and even other men)!!!
@@GriefMuse The 4B approach to male/female relationships is a game-changer. Women have decided to put their happiness, their health, and their future first. We've always been inclined to emotionally support one another, travel and socialize together. Life, time and financial management is so much easier when husbands and children are not a factor. I lived both lives and single with adult children is WAY easier. I didn't realize how oppressive and destructive male toxicity could be until I didn't have to deal with it anymore. 4B and never going back. Life is too good.
I have indeed come in to contact with a bear in the wild when I was hiking in Yosemite. I'm still here to tell. I left it alone and it did the same. But at five minding my business on my way home from school, and a man attempted to kidnap me. If my mother was not following me in her van I would not be here. Another man at 9 attempted to harm me and my father was there to protect me. At last at 18 I went to visit my friend, who was away at college, I fell asleep. While asleep she ran to the store and a man who came over to visit her *aped me. So yeah I can see the bear being the viable option.
You have women sharing personal stories about the horrific things that have happened to them and other women at the hands of men and what he took from it was about his hairline and his beard? How can anyone be that self-centered?
@@bunchielove6893 What stuck with me was the story about the woman who spent the rest of her life with hooks on her stumps because a man cut her hands off after r8ping, but before tossing her off a cliff. But I guess unkempt beards matter too...
@@Gem-n-life Yeah, women are sharing stories of horrific acts of depravity being done to them to explain why they are afraid and dudes are like, "Yeah, but our feelings!" And they know, when brickgate happened, men knew all about how dangerous other men are when asked to step up and protect women.
I feel bad for his wife & family . I can only imagine the terror he exudes at home . If he got that upset at strangers , wow , scared for them . Now , he's more upset , b/ c he THOUGGHT he was good-looking . Soo , his ego is more fragile. Someone advise his family to go stay at Grandma 's for a week until he calms down . 😬😳
When my niece was a little girl, I had a conversation with her about good touch and bad touch. I told her if someone touches her inappropriately tell me, her mother, father, grandmother, her other aunts , and we will handle it. The women in our family made her aware of how some men and women can be. It's sad that you have to tell a child about s*xual abuse, but that does happen to children. My niece is 18 now and I am glad that she is aware of what's going on in this world. 4-29-2024(Mon)
Agreed. 💯 I don't get it either. It reminds me of when a person calls another person "basic" or "mid." Like...WTF does that even mean??? 😂 Like, a person could be wearing a t-shirt and jeans and get called "basic." 😂 Uh, a t-shirt and jeans is common clothing that people wear on a daily basis. 🤦 Its supposed to be casual or "basic" as people like to say. So...what's the issue? 😕🤷 Or a person might be out eating and they'll say the food taste "mid." Again, WTF does that mean? 😂 Do you like it or not? "Basic" has become one of those comical "insults" to me in recent years. 😂 Anytime I hear someone say it, I laugh because people think they're hurting someone's feelings but they're not. 🤦😂 Also, when a person says, "its not “giving.” What does that mean? What's not "giving"? 😕 What exactly is "supposed" to be "giving"? And who is the receiver? Like, what in the hell does that even mean? Lol. 😂 Mind you, I'm a 29 year old female and some of the stuff people say or get offended about is weird. Hell, there's women that get offended by the word "female" which has always been odd to me. 😕
@@Laoriginal718because female can be any species. There's a word for adult human female, a woman. They'll say men and females in a sentence on purpose, it's a dehumanizing phrase you need to read between the lines on. A female can be any species, but we all know man and woman refers specifically to humans
Tbf I would choose a bear over most people women and men. Animals rarely go out their way to attack people. People are just hateful and will do you wrong for no reason
It wasn't an apology. I think he's sorry his ego is hurt. He's sorry folks failed to agree with him. He's sorry is cost him subscribers. He still doesn't get it. His 'apology' is just damage control.
My mother is from an area that is a mix of a developed town and a village/ forest vibe. She had a friend in high school who would bike from home to school daily through the path in the forest. That forest is known to have black mambas, pythons, etc. and instead of literal animals putting her life in danger, her life was put in danger by a man who decided to r@pe and k!ll her, one of the day she was coming from school. It was not the literal poisonous snakes that killed her but a man!!!!!
I didn’t like his apology. He was more concerned with being made fun of about his looks than understanding women’s point. He kept detracting from the entire point. Awful.
It wasn't an apology. I think he's sorry his ego is hurt. He's sorry folks failed to agree with him. He's sorry is cost him subscribers. His 'apology' is just damage control.
He is saying all of this when we have how many wars going on today?! Pick a country, they all started by men's actions. And women are supposed to feel safe?! I feel like I have to gear up and always be in survival mode. Why do you think birth rates are down world wide? It's nature's response to the environment, I think I saw that on, idk... National Geographic.
We may don't know anything about bears behaviour, but we know well enough about men behaviours when they have the right place and the right time to take their chance on women. So bears still a save choice till guys educate yourselfs.
Right?! They can’t fathom every single woman has stories! And some of us do know a lot about bears bc we live near them. I have woods behind me and live on a ridge. I’d much rather see a black bear than a prob meth using gun toting strange man! 😂
Men don’t inherently know anything about bear behavior either 😂 especially the ones who scream how masculine they are tend to be the ones scared of their own shadow.
@@Recoveringredright! I literally grew up on the woods and live in the woods now, never been attacked by any wildlife. Men on the other hand, honestly too ashamed to admit how many I’ve been hurt by.
I’m lazy, rather it’s in the woods, at the mall and wherever I go I like to chill. It’s going to take a lot of work to convince a man that I will be of NO service to him in the woods. And I would have to try even harder to convince a man he will not GET AWAY with whatever he may consider trying while we’re alone in the woods. That alone would make me choose a bear.
He hasn't changed. He's mocking women. Did you peep his sarcasm when he said that women don't even enter the Forrest unless they are with a man, so he should've understood why they would choose a bear. He's saying that women are dumb because how could you be more scared of a man if you would choose a man to enter the Forrest.
In the woods (or most any location) a wild bear 🐻 would frighten and amaze me, a strange man would scare me, fill me with trepidation, anxiety and trigger memories of voilent/traumatic experiences I've gotten from men, so yeah... BEAR 🐻 That guy is full of sh¡t for responding with that BS, sarcastic a55 apology🤨
Nope, he couldn’t even keep a straight face from second one of the “apology “. EVERYTHING HE SAID WAS SATIRE AND FAKE. HE’S JUST TALKING FOR ATTENTION. He’s annoying. I’m not his family, but he’s shaming the family.
So it took people to talk about your physical features to realize you were wrong about your stance? Nah, I'd rather you just double down and be who you are because you thought people would side with you and now changing your tune cause you got caught out there. This all could've been solved with a quick google search or watching The First 48, Dateline, Law & Order SVU. Go kick rocks, sir.
Exactly. He didn't/ doesn't care that he stated harmful things . A grown man , at his big age , ADMITTED to the world , that HIS feelings were hurt . He didn't care that random men punch random women in the face . Or that men unalive us every 5 hrs . Man , his wife should be disgusted. I would be dry as a desert ,,, as his wife. I couldn't look at that big SOFT nizzle , talking about his feelings were hurt . 😬 And , y'all thought the soft guy era was something new 😅😂.# drizzle drizzle 🎉
So his "apology" was just sarcasm. So disgusting. Wife must be a pick-me. Gotta be. Probably at home telling him he's right and other women are just being dramatic. What a waste of air.
Why are you even talking about his wife like she is the one to blame for his words? Like how are you going to come on here and make assumptions and call her names when she has literally nothing to do with his post? Why would you blame a woman for a man being out of pocket? Ever consider she may be a woman doing the work to help him become a better person and he still has HUGE work to do? Leave his wife alone. Talk about than in front of you saying what he is saying. His wife doesn't control what he says on the Internet and she very well may be the one talking to him to get him to understand. My boyfriend and I talk about toxic masculinity all the time, he had a LONG way to go and still has work to do, but that doesn't mean I just put up with it.
I have walked by a bear… a black bear in AK coming out of a bar. Guess what we did left each other alone. Anyone familiar with downtown Juneau knows the type that move there. They have a drug and alcohol problem. Also AK attracts a certain feral type and people who want to disappear. Guess who harassed me more. With a bear I yell and scream and you can smell them long before you see them. Men have followed me there and let me know that my color skin was not welcome. Some of the indigenous people were also equally as forward. This was during Trumps time. I still choose the bear. Now a moose??? Is a different story. Those A holes cause more havoc than bears
Drew is a woman online who basically makes fun of misogynistic men, when they come for women. It's like a sport to her. She humbles them and they wind up blocking her or something. Her last name is Aufualo, something like that.
It’d be easier to make men understand by asking them the same question in regards to their daughter. Would you rather your little girl be lost in a forest with a bear or a man? See what they’d say then.
I don’t even know about that anymore!!! I used to think that they would care if their daughters were in trouble!!! Nowadays, most of these men neither care about, nor even like their children!!! So would they really answer the question demonstrating that they would protect their daughters??!!!
@@synthiamiller5990 they would most likely answer dishonestly and choose a man. If the little girl knows what to do when coming in contact with a bear, she could make it out easily unharmed. Bears won't mess with you unless they feel you are a threat to them or their's. A man on the other hand.......the little girls chances of survival would be up in the air.
imagine getting upset with the answers over a freakin HYPOTHETICAL question! like make it make friggin sense! at least with a bear, we know what we're gonna get! and with men like him, I'd rather take the chance with a hippo!
What a lot of the men getting offended don’t realize or aren’t acknowledging, is that the psychological violence of men is inherently scarier and more traumatizing than just physical violence. These men getting offended fundamentally don’t understand that the fear of men is not just fear of physical violence, it’s also psychological violence. A SA can be not physically damaging, can cause little to no pain, but can psychologically traumatize a woman so much that she has physical PTSD symptoms for years. I don’t think these men actually understand violence the way that women do.
So I'm confused, did he apologize because he was embarrassed and because people called him ugly? Or is he apologizing because he took the time to practice empathy and take to heart what these people were saying to him?
I’m glad this has went viral because I’ve had so many heart to heart moments with women I don’t even know by asking them the question and we all say the same thing, it’s sad but I’m glad I don’t feel crazy when saying it
Mmmh, i don't think he get it even now😅, all i saw in the apology vid is him being bashed by the negative clapback he got and got scared. Cse he still think that women will still go with a man in the forest and him being there to protect her
Ladies, please watch some videos from northern/eastern Europe. Bears function with logic and there are many ways to prevent a bear attack, even in their immedite presence. Don't doubt your instincts, you know the men are more dangerous. Sending our love and strength to all, Slavic Women.
Also, an extra note from my Mama: these debates should be teaching modern women that self defense practice and preparation is REQUIRED not OPTIONAL for all women. Analyze your physical abilities and your personal comfort with violence, find a method that will work for you and carry that method every. Single. Day. You are stronger than you know, you CAN fight. Just find your way. You deserve your own protection. ❤
Internalized it. Yeah just like many do when some mothers talk about how the fathers of their children abandon the children but will blame the mother as if she should have chosen better than the man who DECEIVED her into thinking his words and actions were true. Hold other men accountable while we women are working on ourselves and each other.
A hit dog will holla smh i have read that higher pitched voices means the man probably (not always) spent more time around women than men. Im sure he has been around more women in his lifetime than men and probably internally hates them.
Lights coming slowly. He's still not totally clear. But I appreciate his apology and trying to understand us.He still does not understand that we are tired of living in fear.
What bothered him the most was that a young girl called him average looking? I’m sure that there were true horror stories in his comments and Inbox about women’s experiences. This man has no regrets and still feels the exact same way he did before the responses.
What’s crazy is that if men were really logical as they claim to be, they would also choose the bear. The hypothetical is being trapped in a forest with a bear or a random man. You do not know this man! He can be a good or bad man but why would you risk it when you know that at the end of the day the bear is a bear and if you leave it alone, more than likely it will leave you alone?
