Philippines Relationship Red Flags To Watch Out For 

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Best advice I got from a chinese friend of mine while living in China. I think it applies to all of Asia. You know a Asian women is interested in you when she spends your money like it’s her money. Translation she will spend it wisely and try to extend it as long as possible, by getting best prices and not waste it on frivolous items.

A big Red flag for me is "Family Oriented" in her profile. It makes me wonder if the main goal is to extract resources for the family. And you might not be the most important person to her.

I have a neighbor here a single mom also I was so sad when I heard she's always going somewhere , hang. Out with friends..And just leave her child to neighbors. Most worst she receives monthly financial from a foriegner and the foriegner don't really know she's living with a lesbian.. Omg🤮

To many lonely guys out there and in a rush to find a young Filipina or girl in general and they just setting themselves up for a sucker

One of the best discussions I've ever heard on this topic..to the point and spot on..thanks..subscribed!

I love the 2 cam setup! And the audio sounds so much better too!

Think a lot has to do with the social status of the filipina, if you are with a uneducated girl without a job these seem like really good red flags to follow. I tend to be more attracted to girls with careers so I always see how they treat others. Are they snob or humble, do they want to stay here or move to the west..just my 2 cents

Great conversation with Paul and hope you both a safe and pleasant day in Mactan!

Great video God bless you

Spot on. Best way to meet a Filipina, is in person, once you are on the ground in the Philippines. I have seen about 75% of the girls on dating sites, that turned out to be scammers, not at first, mind you, but after a few days of chatting, then they come up with anything from needing load for their phones so they can chat you, then it will escalate from there, so I don't even chat them on the dating sites anymore. I met some very wonderful girls once I was actually there. A GIRL that is consumed by her phone, either Facebook, RU-vid, her Social Media, Tic Tok, etc she is addicted, and believe me... SHE HAS LOTS OF MALE INTERESTS, THAT THINK SHE IS CUTE, NOT JUST YOU. And, she will never give you the time you need to build a relationship. And after your visit with her... she will continue the prowl, as you are only just one man on her list of possible hundreds. She will then compare you with her next romp, and the next, and the next. STAY AWAY FROM THESE GIRLS, Listen to what Gio and Paul are saying here, before you make the mistake so many have done, including myself.

Thanks

Very Good Video. I could not agree more. Thank you for your efforts

Very well explained guys.

Yes all true...thanks

Good video guys great content and half the things you described I've been through it twice or more 🤭

Good talk guys.

Very good video guys..

Good chat gentleman... cheers n beers Daz

Great vid👍

Hi guys. Very interesting video. Can you make another video? I think everyone will be interested in learning more about red flags. I liked your ways of checking girls. I would like to know more examples, perhaps something from your experience. Thanks

Good accurate video...........good job guys :-)

Gio.. love your new live concept.. reading comments was giving me a headache my friend.. answering comments or questions during live so much better.. hope your viewers agree. God bless

I agree very true

Excellent discussion..👍

Love the channel. Your always full of wonderful and informative topics.

Hey Gio! Great video! I always like your sit down sessions with Paul. Maybe you and Paul can do a walk and talk or a sit down somewhere while all the beauties are getting off work at the call centers. This is totally off topic, but I saw a Ford Raptor go by at the 3:25 to 3:30 mark. Those are 70-80 thousand dollar trucks here. The new Raptors will be around 90,000. There are definitely people there with money.

Awesome much better with the two microphones

They make excuses not holding your hand by saying I'm not affectionate in public..im shy..hehehe they will say...but it's b.s...they are embarresed to be seen with you...time to let em go and move on preferably to an older more mature woman..not a young one

Always appreciated

Very informative video👍

Good channel

Geo and Paul,good morning That's so sad to hear that our fellow Filipinas taking advantage to the goodness of expat guys. Red flag when a woman you talk everyday suddenly stop talking to you and suddenly she message you and tell you she don't have data or load or whatever reason she has.please don't full into it.

Good job guys

This is the best video that I have come across so far regarding your analysis, observations, perceptions, evaluations, and thoughts about these women. However, how do you rate someone who doesn't possess a Facebook because that person doesn't believe the way people utilize and use Facebook? Sometimes it can do more harm than good! Privacy and all! Outstanding job, you guys!

Here is a suggestion if a girl gives you her Facebook and you realize there's only like three or four photos on it and then she you see that she has the other Facebook account with thousands and thousands of photos I know for a fact that she's basically just trying to show you only a little bit and not her true self

Extremely worthwhile info here! and this, from a guy that's been to the Philippines, Malaysia, Thailand, Indonesia. Congrats

I have found that Filipinas whose primary goal is to extract money from foreigners don’t think they are doing anything wrong. Standard operating procedure.

Gio good day with your friend! Am sad about your topic! In behalf of all ladies have good moral characters, sorry your bad experiences from ladies here in the Philippines. I thank you both for the topic that can have learn lessons many people out there so, am not saying am perfect, but thank GOD that my grown up need to carefully understand what are going on... Thanks to both of you!

The background noise there is really distracting- you have great points- but the noise is difficult

Enjoyed this video. What city is Paul sitting in , where all the attractive ladies keep passing by?

Paul’s roving eyes...😂😂😂👍...not trying to bust him...but it’s funny watching....he’s like the rest of us....😂

In my researching of the situation there I have decided to wait until I retire there permanently and have settled in to a rental before I look for a keeper. That way your there and can start the long term courtship phase that’s required/recommend to find a good woman. You will most likely be scammed if you go online, on holiday, or only there temporarily. When they know your going home for a long time and they have their love ❤️ hooks in you, your vulnerable.

8:54 : Don't need dating sites, there's a beauty right there

Another red flag that often gets overlooked is the OFW workers asking for that "help." Over the past few years I've been asked quite a few times by them. One other red flag that I almost forgot about is that when you go there to visit them in the Philippines that they don't want you to come to their home Province or City and they will say they will meet you in Cebu or will meet you in Manila. Of the red flags that was discussed in this video it was definitely her face being buried in her phone when we were together the first time that I went there. My personal advice is that if anyone wants to bring a Filipina back to their country, which I'm from the United States so I can only go by what happens here, is that before anybody does it they need to get online and search the V.A.W.A. I've seen this personally happen over the past year to someone so this is how I know about it. It just so happened to have been the sister of the Filipina that I met. She got the K-1 visa to come here. The man that brought her here on his first and only visit there to the Philippines to meet her she refused to have him come to her home City and they met in Manila which was nearly a 2-hour flight for her. So when she got here to the USA yes they got married and then two months after they got married in the middle of night somebody came and got her. The guy contacted me because he knew of me cuz I had been there to meet that girl sister. Then that is when he told me that after she left she messaged him and told him that she was filing that V.A.W.A. and will try to file for permanent residency on her own. Now she's with a different guy here and he's a commercial truck driver and she rides with him to hide from immigration because the guy that brought her here after they got married he never did file for the adjustment of status to become a permanent resident here. So guys if you're serious about bringing a Filipina here to the USA you need to search that.

This one was a good one for sure ! You guys nailed it 100% . If she’s from another country and she acts like an American that’s a red flag !

But most foriegners were attracted to those red flags😄

looks a great place

Hey Guy's. Another great video. When meeting in person and dating a so called Good girl, do they typically get intimate pretty quickly or does it take many dates. Seriously would love to know

Hello 👋 Didn't know if you knew it, but there's tons of back ground noise.

Why would you want date online got meet them in person just asking to be scam.

Excellent video guys .. finding Filipina gf on dating sites is a beautiful feeling too lol .. turning off data and missing for hours no word also good 😒 hard when ur far away got no friends in her province also coz u only got her word to believe 🤔 cheers 🥂

my bad i though i sub u G man.....got ya now....

Couldn’t agree more with everything you said guys.. we have also made a video covering this topic online dating red flags with my British husband. I love the test part. I always knew men would like testing women as much as women would like to test men. Many times I passed those tests though.. LOL

Hi sir Gio I'm a new subscriber..I saw your video about Bayawan first when you are at the Paunay Market with that balut challenge with your gf Ging. You have enteresting topics and find my self subscribing. Ging looks familiar to me thuogh.

Really appreciate you gentleman!! Thank you for letting us American, foreign men know what to look for. Just wanted to add something here, and that is the Filipina who will pretend to be single, but in fact she's married or has a living boyfriend. This type of Filipino will squeeze and scam men for money, and will continue to lie all along about her husband, that she swears she didn't have. This actually happened to me. One thing I have learned (the hard way) is never send them money 💰 A good Filipina who is really interested in man can wait for you to come to the Philippines to meet you before they start asking you for money 💰. If they ask you for money right away that's a Rad Flag!!

Sounds like Paul has found his Unicorn! A 2022 wedding perhaps? :)

Love me AND my family ‼️

Paul.....i see how it is there 3 beautiful lady walk by and there goes the train of thought......lol.....hope to make it to that country as soon as it opens......

You mentioned multiple FB accounts as red flag. So how do you find if she does?

Love the red flag about putting the money under pillow👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿. I will try this one

Still following you Pau

Asking Paul about relationships is like driving down a one way street He always only sees one way. He’s dissecting to the extreme and when you do that you’ll always find some flaws. It must be nice to be perfect like him except when he gets distracted like a dog in heat lol. I stopped watching his vlog a long time ago

Bowntown in the house!!

Before chatting online are good ten years ago😊 it works for me, now it's hard to find the real one, maybe out of 50 only 5 will succeed so maybe meet them in person thru friends of friends,that's a big factor in looking for the real one. Hope everyone meet their soulmate, Gio and Paul gives you a red flags so listen to them🤩🙏🤞

Gio - As you know I been through it 3X! Even with the red flags us guys are attracted to stunning beauty, and most of us are not so cheap that we will not send our babe $100.00. The biggest problem is us guys have something that is called HOPE. The bottom line is you need luck, some smarts but most important is not to rush into a relationship, and never loose your HOPE!

Hey great videos I wanted to mention to you on this video here When you 1st introduce your friend there if you look on the road you will see a guy going down the street on a motorcycle and then he just disappears into thin air it is weird check it out !

I signed up to the free Christian Filapina site. They ask an indirect financal question. How long will it take to be able to afford a trip. I made the mistake of saying I could come now. I was like bait in a shark feeding frenzy. Being an old homely man, I am sure it is my looks that attract them. I don't think so. Another interesting thing is you have to upgrade to chat on line. When I checked the price it was twice as much as it is listed elsewhere, ($250 for 3 months). When it came time to verify my email address, I chose not to. Hopefully they will just delete the account

Next time you do an interview try to find a more quiet place to do it.........................I know it's hard to find no roosters or loud motorbikes in PH , but it would make it more enjoyable to listen to what you are saying............IMO

First time here got headache back noisy

I came of age in the days when a young man got his dating advise from his father. My father would sit me down and say " Son this is how it is " THEN my mother would pull me aside and say " Don't listen to your father "🤣😂🤣

RFI's (Red Flag Indicator's) as I like to call them.

Hey Gio. Where were you on January 6, 2021?

I don't believe in online dating to much of a risk going on dating sites and see when they join the sites and they been on there for months or a year that's a big red flag...

Hey guys!.I'm watching here of u guys.. And listening all those thing u say about red flags. About those financial problems. It's up to u guys if u give or not. Me as Filipina I don't really ask.. Because I don't like to ask or begging for something if my boyfriend gives then I accept it that's it. I just only love a person who cares about not only me but also my whole family.

Good test. The woman suggests a purchase. I ask would you pay that price if you were alone ? She says no. I say then why would you spend my money so indiscriminately.

So easy to get distracted by walking cuties! Tough life 😂

The phone thing on a date is universal....

How many Mia’s are there ?

Is there no quieter place to do videos like these?

Paul I see you wear Sun Glasses,so Mia can't see what your looking at ,head moving everywhere LOL

Nice conversation...i laugh at the "do cheka cheka" thing.😅 this mr. Paul do a good observation keep it up. Hope you find a good filipina if you still don't have one.

great video guys! so true and definitely put her through some "S*#t" test if she's legit, like the money under the pillow test, that's a good one.

Agreed lol. A Filipina in a bikini is always a red flag 🚩 if you see that in their FB profile pictures or on RU-vid, run 😱🏃🏾‍♂️😳

Many, many Filipina's have numerous social media accounts. They will have one for each guy. They will only show you the ones they want you to see.

thank you guys , i got some really good info from you guys, i am talking with a girl now from the Philippines and so far so good, but yes i got some tactics, to help me make sure she is a good girl, she is from the province and lives with her family, which includes her dad and mom, she has never ask me for money, but she says she her cell phone connection is slow and she has to load data , but she is not working at this time, so i don't know how she has been paying for the data, but we have only been talking to one another for 10 days and yes, she has came out with the, i love you already, we have been talking each day and then she says her battery on her cell phone is getting low and has to recharge it an most of the time, she responds to me like really slow, do to her connection speed, ok thank you again.

Basically, you guys online are wasting your time. Just playing Russian roulette. Just get your plans to go there to meet . I got rid of my profile. Was truly a waste of time. Even the ones that weren’t that attractive was playing games. Ughhh!

There are a lot of educated, well mannered ,independent filipinas who have raised their children without any man on their side. I raised my 13 kids as a single mom ,thank God im a filipina I have a Loving God ,a loving family,a loving friends who prays and ask about my welfare. Only by the grace of God I have raised them. There are many like me but its gonna be looking for a needle in a haystack.

NOT A SMALL PERCENTAGE !

The best advice I can offer after the 6 years I've been pretty happy here is to follow your gut instinct

I have been experiencing ALOT is... My child has a Birthday coming up and I would like to buy a birthday cake for him/her.. Or my my child/children's father left me for another.

It is interesting that you and Paul look at girls with bikinis with disdain.. I thought men from the west have a modern outlook and men from the east are the conservative ones... the fact is men and women from the east are more open to bikinis girls in this 21st century.The point is how a girl carry herself while in a bikini.. is the most important.oh, I may be wrong, but Paul seems to have a chip on his shoulder with women..

Interesting conversation. The test method you suggested, money under pillow, money for clothes and how she spends money is interesting methods. You include more of these shit test in your part 2 :)

Paul, come on man. Time to retire that shirt bro lol

Yes like a superhero mentality but not all filipina are the same just as you have mentioned. Yes, yes I totally agree most filipinas are conservative will not show a lot of flesh in the open. Education is important to us, check how she treats people,family,parents you will be able to tell of how you will be treated.

Is it a red flag if she chews tobacco & drinks Budweiser?

we were together 4 yrs before marrying she is and was my soulmate she still is my bestie pal

I was looking on Facebook for a few years for a Philippine woman. Have been burned a few times! I am now in a 2 year relationship with one who had only Philippine friends and family. Now I’m involved with her and her family! And I requested video FaceTime with every one of them! And it has happened!!! We even do Facebook chat when the boys are in school and I have talked with her boys teachers. Just be careful guys

These red flags are all the ones I had to learn the hard way. A good scammer has a dedicated social media account she contacts you through that bypasses scrutiny and portrays a 'simple' girl with close family ties, sweet modest pictures , a small group of friends, travel only within their province etc. Of course they have other accounts with made up names which she keeps secret that are open to foreign men by the thousand , sexy pics, parties , wild girls nights, selling online products etc . It's my view now that western men like myself who are ingrained as being visual fall for the girls looks first and foremost and all logic and rational goes out the window. A scammer can see that and will take full advantage by living a double life.

avoid angelicity red flag for sure .someone's they love that red flags