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At the School of Life, we’ve pioneered a new form of Meditation we call Philosophical Meditation, designed to help with anxiety, sadness and a lack of direction.
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“Even though our minds ostensibly belong to us, we don’t always control or know what is in them. There are always some ideas, bang in the middle of consciousness, that are thoroughly and immediately clear to us: for example, that we love our children. Or that we have to be out of the house by 7.40am. Or, that we are keen to have something salty to eat right now. These thoughts feel obvious without burdening us with uncertainty or any requirement that we reflect harder on them…”
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@TheBurg229
@TheBurg229 7 лет назад
I have to walk several miles to and from work. I use that time to sort out these questions which helps me from going crazy. Though sometimes I do it out loud and I'm sure people think I'm legitimately crazy.
@varganhell5438
@varganhell5438 7 лет назад
You are not alone, I do exactly the same)
@TG47GRG
@TG47GRG 7 лет назад
Capt Char dude i talk to myself before a big presentation or an exam and it helps so much! definately you are not alone. appreciate it!!
@sleep3417
@sleep3417 7 лет назад
Capt Char when i'm not in a hurry i think about a lot of things. including some of these questions and alot of random, pointless but fulfilling things. i do talk to myself, but only when i'm alone, otherwise i just mumble.
@matthewsamuel1029
@matthewsamuel1029 7 лет назад
Capt Char, I go for my morning nature walks almost everyday! its my top priority :) and you are not crazy, it will actually keep from going crazy lol I sleep well, I have no stress, not as anxious anymore, and hey I am not fat anymore lol Walk 20 miles a week. So I am with you on this brother, and think aloud!! or sometimes use music.
@TheVic331
@TheVic331 7 лет назад
Hey man, its been proven in many ways that walk (or any type of activity) helps us too! Socrates used to take walks during which he talked with others/was giving lectures, he believed that walking while talking helps to clear out the mind. I would say that connecting philosophical meditation and walk is the best option. Dont care about what people might think. Brb, I need to find a synonym to a word "walk".
@o_deabanana4355
@o_deabanana4355 7 лет назад
these mini docs are low key changing my life.. problem is I love them so much that I binge watch like 7 in one sitting and I don't allow myself enough time to sit and digest properly the lovely advice and content they provide :^(
@theschooloflifetv
@theschooloflifetv 7 лет назад
Thanks very much - and take them slowly...
@jenna8515
@jenna8515 7 лет назад
I try to do one a day during my study breaks as a treat :)))) love them
@o_deabanana4355
@o_deabanana4355 7 лет назад
great idea! I love them too! Hope they keep churning them out, though I imagine it's quite a bit of work
@o_deabanana4355
@o_deabanana4355 7 лет назад
Absolutely. I also sometimes re-watch a day or 2 later if I feel I haven't held on to enough information
@simpleforthesimple
@simpleforthesimple 7 лет назад
We are sharing daily vlogs of spiritual inspiration and adventures, check us out if you want more advice and content to digest!! :)
@Joe-bn9fz
@Joe-bn9fz 7 лет назад
To read the Meditations of Marcus Aurelius is another great way for self meditation.
@Wingedmagician
@Wingedmagician 7 лет назад
Or create your own "Meditations" book. His book was meant for him, yours will be custom made. You could start though by adding the prompts you see in this video.
@user-ds4gs7xl2s
@user-ds4gs7xl2s 4 года назад
I usually listen to Qur'an recitation and it gives me lasting peace
@Joe-bn9fz
@Joe-bn9fz 4 года назад
As a Christian, I listen to the Bible. So I understand you. God bless you, brother. Alhamdulillah إسميل واشيره
@user-ds4gs7xl2s
@user-ds4gs7xl2s 4 года назад
@@Joe-bn9fz God's peace and blessings be upon you too brother
@MarioDGDG
@MarioDGDG 7 лет назад
Unthought thoughts.
@Wingedmagician
@Wingedmagician 7 лет назад
Johnson Sepp it makes sense.
@danielr3522
@danielr3522 7 лет назад
+Leonard Ney The phrase *does* make sense, I think, though I can also see how it might appear to be a contradiction in terms, so I'm just trying to explain it for people who might be struggling to make sense of it.
@botondszilagyi6999
@botondszilagyi6999 7 лет назад
It makes sense as such (if you open yourself to the poetry in it), though thoughts not thought through would be a clearer way to say this.
@ThePsychothearapyExperiance
@ThePsychothearapyExperiance 5 лет назад
@@danielr3522 no
@feli6277
@feli6277 5 лет назад
Un-Ford Ford's.
@dena180
@dena180 7 лет назад
I always have unconsciously done this. But this last year, with the help of psychedelics and getting to altered states of consciousness with meditation, i changed drastically. I lost 60 lbs and i got better at school, i started working out, i clean my room regularly now, and i cook all my meals myself. But sadly, the extra time I always spared for rethinking everything in life, wasn't always there. And i lost a big portion of my enthusiasm and happiness. Though i still know for a fact that i am not the same person i used to be, i also believe i'm much better than the old me could ever hope to be. So if some philosophical meditation is what's missing, then i'd gladly make up room for it in my daily schedule. Dear everyone, you are strong and smart and unstoppable. Dont waste your life, take control now. Next year, you'll be happy you did this now.
@Hayatiiiiiiiiiii
@Hayatiiiiiiiiiii 3 года назад
so psychedelics could really help? did u take it on your own?
@atypical_moto
@atypical_moto 7 лет назад
I try to dissolve stressful thoughts by remembering how insignificant it is. I ask, "will this kill me?" and so far the answer has always been "No". Then I hear Eric Thomas' voice in my head saying "You ain't gonna die cus you feel a little pain". And then I get on with my life. Philosophy helps a lot too. "For fate the willing leads, the unwilling drags along." -Cleanthes
@ocamtille9114
@ocamtille9114 7 лет назад
Kenny Rodger that's the noah elkrief method
@atypical_moto
@atypical_moto 7 лет назад
bamischijfje123 No, I'm correcting irrational feelings. We get caught up in things and stepping back and seeing how silly it is to get emotional about most things, dissolves negative feelings.
@atypical_moto
@atypical_moto 7 лет назад
Ocam Tille I've never read him and I know about it so I don't think it is originally his idea. Most of this stuff was written about in Ancient philosophy. I highly recommend reading from the Stoics. Marcus Aurelius and Seneca covered these ideas quite a bit. Nothing wrong with a fresh explanation though. I might check him out.
@user-dr6rt1ji3l
@user-dr6rt1ji3l 2 года назад
Fate leads the willing; the unwilling it drags. You might have also seen some variation of it, such as Fate leads the willing and drags along the reluctant. Originally this was written by the Roman poet Seneca - ducunt volentem fata, nolentem trahunt, if you want the Latin version.
@mayankimmortal
@mayankimmortal 7 лет назад
Fuck yeah. Do "intellectual loneliness" next.
@antonk6359
@antonk6359 7 лет назад
Just read Dostoevsky.
@mayankimmortal
@mayankimmortal 7 лет назад
Anton K currently reading notes from underground
@mayankimmortal
@mayankimmortal 7 лет назад
Charles Dickens ok
@mayankimmortal
@mayankimmortal 7 лет назад
***** I know
@mayankimmortal
@mayankimmortal 7 лет назад
***** no need, man they'll do it when the time is right.
@jamessteele7102
@jamessteele7102 7 лет назад
The basic point is to set aside some time for thinking and reflection. I disagree with the proposed questions because we should let our minds decide the issues but I know from experience that when I just sit for a half hour and let my mind go wherever it wants, I feel much better for the next day or so, and I sleep better, too. Modernly we move so fast mentally and have so many distractions that we forget to give ourselves a "mental massage."
@minhdinh4802
@minhdinh4802 2 года назад
Very interesting. I shall try your method.
@GreenredProductions
@GreenredProductions 7 лет назад
Our thoughts control us... always thinking about money and success... but science already proved that happiness is in communication with others, spending time together and so on. Sadly, today we live with tools that create perfect space to be alone almost all the time. We communicate using technology instead face to face. Sometimes I think that the best meditation is being with someone you enjoy being or simply doing some activity that you like.
@highwaytothesun
@highwaytothesun 6 лет назад
no doubt a lovely thought, I'm all for face to face communication but perhaps a bit too broad of a definition of what meditation is.
@giantsquid2
@giantsquid2 5 лет назад
I agree with you totally. We need other people more than we care to admit.
@nikolaimaharaj2319
@nikolaimaharaj2319 4 года назад
That's exactly what I want to do but I can't find people to communicate with or they eventually end up leaving me, I just end up lonely often and it's out of my control
@unicronprimus7450
@unicronprimus7450 3 года назад
And then pandemic says hello.
@MustafaKulle
@MustafaKulle 7 лет назад
Very true. Writing down your thoughts is the ultimate catharsis. Keeping a record will help you understand yourself better. Thank you School of Life.
@eleanorscott9855
@eleanorscott9855 7 лет назад
God, I love this channel.
@gabrieltavares8406
@gabrieltavares8406 7 лет назад
I cannot begin to express how grateful I am that this video was release on this moment of my life.
@ZombieDragQueen
@ZombieDragQueen 7 лет назад
So, are you trying to rebrand introspection as "(Western) philosophical meditation"? The point of meditation is detachment from the self, not immersion in it.
@ZombieDragQueen
@ZombieDragQueen 7 лет назад
***** An admirable but difficult task. You should do a follow-up on what to do after you've articulated your anxieties on paper. It could otherwise just spiral further down into anxiety, lying sleepless over these revelations, like "So I wrote that X was mean to me not because he's a bad person, but that he might be controlled by alien brain parasites. Does that say something about me? If so, what? And is it a bad or good thing? I used to like dill crisps, but now I don't. Am I being controlled by alien brain parasites who wage war on dill, their mortal enemy?" Questions leading to answers which raise even more questions.
@JS-zh6pw
@JS-zh6pw 7 лет назад
+Stefan B. you really missed the idea of all this and I don't think you understood what they were asking/saying
@ZombieDragQueen
@ZombieDragQueen 7 лет назад
a very bored person It's possible. How did you interpret it?
@TheNeilDarby
@TheNeilDarby 7 лет назад
"The point of meditation is detachment from the self, not immersion in it." That is only true if your definition of self is the mind, aka the "forms" of mental experience. Opposed to the awareness aka the "space" in which the forms are seen. In Vedantic traditions, this aware "light" that illuminates thoughts and the rest of the dynamic mind, is considered to be the Self. In meditation the goal is to simply abide as this Self. This is often confusing to westerners because this awareness isn't an "entity" so much as it is a kind of "knowing emptiness."
@ZombieDragQueen
@ZombieDragQueen 7 лет назад
The deathless face of the unborn mind. Yes, that is what I meant by the "self" since, as you pointed out, in Western culture that's what we perceive to be the "self"; a collection of our conscious cognitive activities.
@JimmyDThing
@JimmyDThing 7 лет назад
Meditation is absolutely a useful tool, but I would say that you're better off trying to release your hold on the mind. Let go of the mind. A great tool for that is to focus on the breath until you let it go. "Notice your mind working. How it plans for the future and visits the past. Notice those thoughts and set them aside. Turn your attention to the white light that is your breath."
@JimmyDThing
@JimmyDThing 7 лет назад
Fighting strengthens it. Fight through being an example.
@pocketfullofshellz
@pocketfullofshellz 7 лет назад
I practice Buddhist and Vedic meditation daily and while this is essential, it is a very different tool compared to philosophical meditation. Mindfulness and zazen can empty our mind, but it can't intellectually solve a problem or anxiety through logic - it achieves a similar result, but it lacks the rational thinking that philosophical meditation holds dear. The two are very different but equally important.
@marcpelletier1366
@marcpelletier1366 7 лет назад
No self, no problem!
@simpleforthesimple
@simpleforthesimple 7 лет назад
Alexandros what Vedic meditation do you do? We practise chanting! :)
@marcpelletier1366
@marcpelletier1366 7 лет назад
If you're going to abuse an organ, choose wisely (:
@PrincessLinhLayla
@PrincessLinhLayla 7 лет назад
This is what I have been doing instinctively my whole life. I was the kind of child who would constantly ask adults the question "WHY" , and when I was met with an answer I would ask even more questions because I could not stand unknowing . When I grew up I couldnt rely on "adults" to answer my questions anymore this habit stayed, so I always did this meditation in my head, to question and seek answers to every problems I have. However in the recent years I have been too caught up in everyday stress and issues that somehow I lost this habit, thus losing my will to learn, my ability to understand myself and even if I do understand something, I could no longer express them in words. Until I found this channel, and since then it has become my daily reminder to never let the pressures from outside mess up your internal peace and intellect. :) Thank you for your great work :)
@GamiCross
@GamiCross 7 лет назад
I did this to myself a few years ago and it was the absolute pin-point moment my life became better.
@bielasp
@bielasp 3 года назад
Hey mate, i know it's a 4 year old comment, but if u still have this account, how it was for you? What did change?
@GamiCross
@GamiCross 3 года назад
@@bielasp It let me organize my thoughts better and to realize I needed to train myself to think several steps ahead about the consequences of any actions before acting
@bielasp
@bielasp 3 года назад
@@GamiCross that's deep, i really need to try this style of meditation, u still doing it till nowadays ?
@awqa4486
@awqa4486 7 лет назад
watching this after i watched some porn, this is amazing
@mrboobiesrider9212
@mrboobiesrider9212 7 лет назад
I feel you bro
@user-us1fx9gm2z
@user-us1fx9gm2z 7 лет назад
Ignacio Rodríguez Hahahahahah!!!
@awqa4486
@awqa4486 7 лет назад
this is funny since im trans, but yeah he totally did!
@kiamberblake5212
@kiamberblake5212 7 лет назад
It's funny how I just got done writing in my journal and I come on youtube to see this new video. I really love these videos. Thanks for sharing :)
@love_exegence
@love_exegence 7 лет назад
Philosophical meditation is only temporary relief from our suffering. Eastern meditation is an antidote.
@BeaFaubryOlivera
@BeaFaubryOlivera 7 лет назад
Lovely ideas, I might actually use this myself. I feel that a good addition to this might be "What went well today?" To get a sense of how direction in one's life isn't strictly something to aim for in the future, but to hone our senses to detect signs of it coming into fruition in each day.
@AskTorin
@AskTorin 7 лет назад
This came at a rather perfect point in my life. I thank you, SoL, as I have done many times before :)
@arete7884
@arete7884 7 лет назад
I use to meditate everyday for a year but i found it wasn't enought , practising zen meditation troughout the day is far superior core confidence,great focus ,performance in everything increased ,great energy , mostly minimal anxiety and i have a pretty severe anxiety disorders and many more benefits, i found say one of the best benefits would be clarity of what to do in life in the next few months or years.
@SibleySteve
@SibleySteve 4 года назад
School of Life is best thing on youtube for anyone who strives to live the words of Epicurus or Marcus Aurelius. Our struggle for Truth, Beauty & Wisdom is real. Reading Camus, SK, or Balzac is so medicinal. All I need is my garden, some cheese and this youtube channel.
@Survivethejive
@Survivethejive 7 лет назад
There is an eastern equivalent. A text from the Pali canon described how unwanted thoughts can be likened to the rotting carcass of a beast, that, when draped around the neck of a young person, would naturally evoke disgust or even horror. From a position of lofty disdain, one then dismisses the unwanted thought as unworthy of oneself. One method described to achieve this is likened to the way a skilled craftsman will use a thin wedge to create room for a larger one, so too must each component of the thought be broken down, similar to the method in this video, until its entirety is revealed as contingent, temporary and therefore from the perspective of the noble man, disgusting and unworthy of him.
@Wingedmagician
@Wingedmagician 7 лет назад
Survive the Jive nice
@simpleforthesimple
@simpleforthesimple 7 лет назад
We are not our mind... we can recognise these thoughts but understand that they are temporary and separate from our true self
@MondoJon1
@MondoJon1 6 лет назад
Completely agree and will go further to point out that the techniques described in this video have parity with pratyahara -- crudely translated as "sense withdrawal" -- the 5th limb in Patanjali's treatise on yoga. This is an important bridge to meditation, not meditation itself. Indeed, it's hard to imagine prolonged, effective and consistent meditative absorption without this ability to analyse and put distance between the senses and their mental and emotional disturbances. In that context it's a great video and I will definitely bookmark for friends who are comfortable with self exploration in a secular context. I'm also compelled to mention a pratyahara technique whereby conscious thoughts are used as bait to fish for the unconscious thoughts underlying them. Brilliant!
@priestofaphroditecosmetolo6274
Western philosophy is more practical and in my opinion preferable because it helps us reach ataraxia through the practice of stoic exercises: To imagine the worst possible scenario, being conscious of our death daily, and plato’s view that we may see how little our problems are. I find eastern philosophy to be vague, it uses examples and stories which are open to many interpretations. It also does teach much forced suppression of negative emotions, western thought teaches us to purge it through catharsis. My recomendations would be Marcus Aurelius which I consider the Buddha of the West, except he had a far greater impact on my life and admire him far more, for Buddha abandoned his position, Marcus embraced his emerorship selflessly to become the first and only philosopher king to have ever lived and an example to all. I recommend Seneca, Epictetus, Cicero, and Epicurus. As well as of course other classics of the West such as Plato and Aristotle’s works and Pythagoras and his golden verses and mathematics for the soul and daily keeping of a journal to self scrutinize oneself. Also our equivalent of yoga is the discipline of the Kalos Stenos ( you know it as calisthenics) or beautiful strength, a practice which emphasizes the western thought of patience, perseverance, and stoic practice of indifference to pain, the beautiful strife, an art form believed to come from Herakles himself.
@williamchamberlain2263
@williamchamberlain2263 6 лет назад
Think you missed the point: this is about exploring and integrating and accepting, not rejecting.
@oberstul1941
@oberstul1941 7 лет назад
There were so many good ideas in this video that my mind came.
@milk4you1200
@milk4you1200 7 лет назад
These videos are so helpful. Thank you for everything you folks post.
@nathanmacdonnell9796
@nathanmacdonnell9796 4 года назад
I've internalised this long ago when I first saw this video. It has been a guiding force for me. Thank you.
@Cristobels-Green-Boots
@Cristobels-Green-Boots 7 лет назад
Alain -- you are my heart's delight!🙏
@jackmiller9926
@jackmiller9926 4 года назад
Pause and do the audit as the video goes along, it feels amazing! Really feels like clearing the wardrobe of thoughts and sorting them accordingly before placing them back for you to deal with. Creating order out of chaos is called magic, but make sure you have enough balance and control so you are not consumed by the very chaos you set out to create order from.
@Eta_Carinae__
@Eta_Carinae__ 7 лет назад
I swear I saw this video a while ago.
@dusakm
@dusakm 7 лет назад
There is another video of the same name on the channel..
@dusakm
@dusakm 7 лет назад
Cheers from Olomouc :)
@ishadawaher-bakhos1048
@ishadawaher-bakhos1048 7 лет назад
Yes, it's another guided meditation with one of the ladies of School of Life; it's rather nice too.
@nucleartest530
@nucleartest530 7 лет назад
Stoicism is the philosophy that keeps me going. This is just that and I love it!
@sallykirkstephens8415
@sallykirkstephens8415 2 года назад
The gentle clear soothing voice of Alain helps too
@reinettesylfgreinar365
@reinettesylfgreinar365 7 лет назад
Eastern philosophy has a wide variety of meditations. So many that I won't bother trying to list them all, however some of them actually focus exactly on this. I find it interesting because you have reached the same conclusion for meditation as Eastern philosophers, but by following the Western path. One reason why that is interesting to me is that you've basically reversed the progress that led to the form of meditation you described at first since that is, for the most part, the Westernized (and simplified) version of the Eastern meditations more comparable to what you describe as Philosophical Meditation. It's a good vid and great advice, thank you for it.
@jaykhandwala5533
@jaykhandwala5533 7 лет назад
Captain Ithinari can confirm
@chrispecta
@chrispecta 7 лет назад
although the origin of this so called western philosophy is the east
@licandres01
@licandres01 5 лет назад
There is so much background on each section of the propessed meditation, it process a lot of material I've been consuming on anxiety management, power of thoughts and mindfulness
@carbono12videos
@carbono12videos 7 лет назад
The other video on the same subject, with a girl discussing the same idea, was so nice... I would like do know why aren't we seeing more videos with her.
@chupes231223
@chupes231223 7 лет назад
She was hot
@carbono12videos
@carbono12videos 7 лет назад
***** Thank you, so glad to read that!
@jodicompton5561
@jodicompton5561 7 лет назад
I saw that earlier video, too. I suspect the reason they re-shot it is that so many commenters seemed utterly distracted from the message by the sight of Dr. Roxburgh in bed (she is rather easy on the eyes). Same idea holds, though. I took up philosophical meditation and do it every week, now.
@carbono12videos
@carbono12videos 7 лет назад
Jodi Compton I think you are right. And something else: some important ideas are too good to come up only once. Re-stating things is sometimes even more important than bringing up new ideas - that most times are not even that new...
@danielbeke951
@danielbeke951 7 лет назад
Her voice is one of the most pleasant I ever heard. I don't know what is the exact reason she is not in the videos anymore, but I really hope its not the comments because that would be a really bad response from SoL .
@satnamo
@satnamo 7 лет назад
Everything is in the mind, with our minds we create the world. So everything can be change with our mind. With earnest effort, discipline and self control, let the wise man build for himself an island which no flood can overwhelm. Tathagata
@RiverDogRun
@RiverDogRun 7 лет назад
Surprisingly, my mind is quite clear and my conscientious is clean. I can't really think of anything anxious or upsetting at the moment. It does help that I have a pretty open personality, and I share what's on my mind with almost everyone. I am also naturally introspective. I sort out my inner closet regularly since I was young.
@palcsoke
@palcsoke 7 лет назад
This was so blissful. I've noticed the beneficial effects immediately after the practice.
@mmv3547
@mmv3547 7 лет назад
I needed this.
@suhailasabah425
@suhailasabah425 4 года назад
I loved how Arabic translation is so precise! thanks a lot
@moralebooster8437
@moralebooster8437 7 лет назад
Wow. I've been trying to hash out my unthought thoughts for years through journaling, but I couldn't seem to cover everything. I needed a format like this one. Thank you SOL! 💋
@nikokaapa
@nikokaapa 7 лет назад
I prefer your first version of this video, but for the record: You philosophical meditation approach has really helped me in anxious situations.
@ocamtille9114
@ocamtille9114 7 лет назад
it's amazing how you express in words what i know on an experiencial level.
@TheMrIndividualist
@TheMrIndividualist 7 лет назад
This almost reminds me of Lacan's thought that symptoms are words trapped in the body.
@tmalonso
@tmalonso 7 лет назад
the meditation that can be completely explained or expressed in words is not the constant, eternally unchanging and true meditation ;)
@karimam1275
@karimam1275 7 лет назад
Definitely one of the most interesting & useful videos ever issued by your channel! Thank you !
@rroseselaklee6844
@rroseselaklee6844 7 лет назад
I started doing something very similar over 10 years ago - writing questions to myself and then contemplating possible answers. I numbered each one and i'm up to 2000+ now. It has, without doubt, been the most useful mind tool to apply to the problem of 'trying hard to remember all the useful/useless stuff' that was making thinking such hard work for me back then. I now say that i don't really know what i think about something until i've written it down. Great video - i hope it helps lots of people.
@matthewwoolhouse3829
@matthewwoolhouse3829 7 лет назад
This takes me way longer than 20 minutes.
@Leon-pn6rb
@Leon-pn6rb 7 лет назад
that is better see it as a one time-time investment in yourself
@lalaithan
@lalaithan 5 лет назад
It took me longer than an hour the first time I did it but quickly got faster the more I practiced it. Usually your thoughts will become more precise (daily or weekly) and less broad (an indeterminate time before you started this) which is easier to write out.
@cinnamonthecat9661
@cinnamonthecat9661 6 лет назад
for me personally, i think this can be beneficial to me and even my significant other. sometimes i have a hard time with figuring out what i actually want, so sorting it out and acting as if someone were giving me advice really really helps. i've also recently wanted to be more compassionate with people, and i think one thing that will help me is reflecting on why people do the things they do. this helps me be more empathetic and understanding with people, and i think that's really helpful.
@scentsoftravelmeditation
@scentsoftravelmeditation 4 года назад
I have meditated for a long time, but this is one of the best videos I have watched to date. 💙 Thank you.
@kanameitsuki8130
@kanameitsuki8130 7 лет назад
So a lot of the commenters here completely missed the point. This is simply a method, perhaps more effective, of clearing out your thoughts and truly understanding them. As opposed to relaxing in meditation and not trying to unpack why you are feeling the way you are
@gustavoh.schulmann9390
@gustavoh.schulmann9390 6 лет назад
but the purpose of meditation is to detach from thoughts(the mind), only then you can know who you really are and go beyond suffering caused by the mind
@SjorsHoukes
@SjorsHoukes 5 лет назад
There is a clear misunderstanding in a lot of people that meditation is meant to be, as you say, relaxing. It can be, but that’s not the purpose. In eastern meditation you have to sit upright and be alert to your body, breath, and any thoughts that pop up. That is why many bring it up here as a better option, because it encompasses much more. The exercise in this video is more pragmatic and less concerned with the ‘true self’.
@memc4903
@memc4903 7 лет назад
I use both "types" of meditation. They really do complement each other quite well, in my opinion. It's just a matter of trusting yourself to know when you need to empty the mind and when you need to unwind and understand the tangles that have formed there.
@smilingontime
@smilingontime 7 лет назад
YOU MAKE ME FEEL WONDERFUL.. you should know that
@Wingedmagician
@Wingedmagician 7 лет назад
You don't know how much this video helped me. Thank you.
@joang.g.6709
@joang.g.6709 7 лет назад
This video deserves to study its content! Thank you!
@radhagupta5770
@radhagupta5770 9 месяцев назад
this is so great, i practice this every week. School of life is a movement towards better well being, not just a company. I love the app too!!
@avidreader2316
@avidreader2316 7 лет назад
could you guys please do a video where you narrate these questions in a guided meditation style?
@arhabersham
@arhabersham 7 лет назад
The three large questions: What I am currently anxious about? What I am upset about (and with whom)? What I am currently excited, and ambitious about? Wonderful exercise
@luizgomes4307
@luizgomes4307 7 лет назад
I loved the idea. That's what I was needing, many thanks!
@juliusfinkas
@juliusfinkas 7 лет назад
This helps immensely!! I usually only do the first part in the mornings when I am most down because I don't have time for the others, but still, it's really reassuring and comforting. Thanks for the content, it's outstanding 👍
@ismellrudolph
@ismellrudolph 7 лет назад
The thing that freaks me out about memory´s is I´m 20 years old now and for me to recover every memory I´ve ever had over the past 20 years it would take me another 20 years just to think about those things
@3pleFly
@3pleFly 7 лет назад
Don't worry, you'll get to it. Think about all those people that discover themselves only at the age of 40, or 60, or those that choose to never go into themselves.
@ankurama42
@ankurama42 7 лет назад
I'm 20 and it doesn't work like that. Try to focus on the present and current environment.
@drtomoe123
@drtomoe123 7 лет назад
ismellrudolph you could recover them within a year if you really wanted to. stop limiting yourself and you can do it.
@mariagarza1269
@mariagarza1269 4 года назад
I loved you for this video. This is exactly what I need right now. You are heaven sent. ❤
@empathylessons2267
@empathylessons2267 7 лет назад
Interesting idea. What would you suggest for individuals who have figured out what the root of their stress is and still experience the symptoms? Personally, I believe learning and thinking about OTHERS' suffering is key to reducing ones own stress. We can accept our problems and allow ourselves to suffer, but when recognizing how much everyone suffers, we can feel better about having an imperfect life.
@arunkrishrockzz
@arunkrishrockzz 7 лет назад
Some things in life means a lot me and I lack the vocabulary to put them in words. So I compare it to equally important things that had happened to me. Your videos mean to me as much as the laughter of my most favorite woman and the conversations that I've had with my best friend. You are my Savior Alain! :) ♥♥
@xyttra
@xyttra 6 лет назад
I discovered this by myself one time when I was smoking weed. That time made my severe depression go away for a whole week!
@regianecostadahora5463
@regianecostadahora5463 6 лет назад
Thank you school of life
@genn.623
@genn.623 6 лет назад
Stoicism is strong here I love this channel so much
@goejoe
@goejoe 7 лет назад
Just found this channel, amazing! My favourite new channel.
@jwdkamran
@jwdkamran 7 лет назад
would you recommend doing this with your partner in the form of discussion/interview? would it be better (if comfortable) or not?
@TG47GRG
@TG47GRG 7 лет назад
Jawad Kamran especially if you have a significant other
@Mr_Creasy_
@Mr_Creasy_ 7 лет назад
i think thats a great idea!
@ashitasehgal453
@ashitasehgal453 7 лет назад
one of the most beneficial and substantial youtube channels i have ever come across- thank you for this :)
@vaibhavjain3234
@vaibhavjain3234 6 лет назад
just did it. helped me connect with my feelings more strongly. felt like bliss.
@kunaiblade64
@kunaiblade64 7 лет назад
I am so grateful for this video. thank you so much, I will always be a fan
@alicedotkay
@alicedotkay 7 лет назад
I'll be trying this out today. Have a feeling this is going to help a lot. Thank you so much!
@alexdiaz1492
@alexdiaz1492 7 лет назад
This is already reassuring. best video of knowledge by far in my day.
@gordonrbarnes
@gordonrbarnes 7 лет назад
What a great tool to help us understand our own minds. - Thank You
@franciscoalfonso4824
@franciscoalfonso4824 7 лет назад
Thank you..... this video puts me back into clearing and putting order with the thoughts coming in out of my mind.
@PeterMuskMusic
@PeterMuskMusic 7 лет назад
im practizing this particular meditation.. also aother kinds... but this one too... its great ...
@Ferelmakina
@Ferelmakina 7 лет назад
This is the best video I've watched in a looong time
@azanyahyisrael101
@azanyahyisrael101 4 года назад
The best thing about this meditation is that it gets rid of all the head noise
@flaviu7064
@flaviu7064 7 лет назад
School of Life, I must thank you deeply for your lessons. You clearly have the gift of teaching. Could you make a video about family or parents? Misconceptions, the lack of communication, in what way we should strive for a functional family. I would gladly watch the video if you create it. Thank you very much. Keep making a difference!
@AshuSinghthealkiddo
@AshuSinghthealkiddo 7 лет назад
This is the best one. Cheers !
@user-pe8cu1vs6d
@user-pe8cu1vs6d 4 года назад
Thank you so very much. This is just right for me.
@gerrit4526
@gerrit4526 7 лет назад
Thank you!
@quyenkelly9
@quyenkelly9 7 лет назад
great timing
@user-us1fx9gm2z
@user-us1fx9gm2z 7 лет назад
I will certainly try this. Thank you.
@shk9002
@shk9002 7 лет назад
this is a good part two to the episode on what our minds look like
@felixlarssonrudfeldt1523
@felixlarssonrudfeldt1523 7 лет назад
Wow, personally this has been the most practical video you have uploaded so far. I have been needing something like this for dome time now without know how to make it into a physical action and what kind of questions I should be asking myself. Truly great work. (I do not know why, but I am a bit jealous of you for coming up with this, I guess that is just one of many things I have to work with.)
@IlluminatedLIfe
@IlluminatedLIfe 6 лет назад
Very zen, thanks for sharing.
@bingoberra18
@bingoberra18 7 лет назад
Very good breakdown of three simple yet effective steps to calm down. You should make a "calendar" type note book with enough space for each question.
@k0mmunicat0r
@k0mmunicat0r 7 лет назад
Another master piece !
@sanketpaudel1239
@sanketpaudel1239 3 года назад
Beautiful!
@amirehosseyni
@amirehosseyni 7 лет назад
OH MY GOD ! Recently I had this experience of having a head full of cement ! I couldn't pin point it and couldn't find a way out of it ! This is very very helpful to me , thank you a lot for these practical videos school of life .Thank you !
@ghiggydelrosario2590
@ghiggydelrosario2590 7 лет назад
great guide thanks!!
@blujoker5400
@blujoker5400 7 лет назад
is thinking that clearly really a good thing. as far as i know we never really know what we want, all we look for ends up being unsatisfied.. why not just stop thinking? why not forget your ambitions and act only on your instinct. isn't that more pure.
@arielkapah445
@arielkapah445 7 лет назад
Such sound advice
@dzanegulles
@dzanegulles 2 года назад
The flashing lights low reception perfectly describes what it feels in my head when I've got lots of thoughts running in my head every second.
@Nitephall
@Nitephall 6 лет назад
Thank you so much for this video. My journaling has been stifled, robotic, and arid, resulting in my simply not doing it anymore. But on the evening after watching this video, a vertitable fountain poured forth from my pen, or rather my fingers. Its like before I didn't have the right or the proper skill to put my real thoughts on paper, but since your video gave me "permission" to do this, the thoughts and impressions just flowed. I was quite surprised actually. Psychologists always talk about the problem with our thinking, but I've never thought that what I do most of the time could be called thinking. Thinking is something philosophers and theoretical physicists do. What I do is exactly what you describe: get lost in a cloud of undefined gloom, in a static of unthought thoughts that short circuit my brain and cause my limbic system to work overtime. I'm at the mercy of what I haven't clarified for myself. Of course it's not always easy to tease out exaclty what I am thinking or feeling, because my subconscious is a hell of a lot smarter than I am. That's why I'm also doing dream analysis.
@universesson2007
@universesson2007 7 лет назад
Great, I will start right now.
@MackTheTemp1
@MackTheTemp1 7 лет назад
I do like the metaphor of the cupboard of the mind.I usually love these videos, but I'm not terribly impressed with the three questions in this one because it's so narrow. I like the idea of rationally formulating the right set of questions and meditating on then recording them. The mental audit is another great metaphor! Know yourself by walking round the tree one step at a time.
@TheLucasisawesome
@TheLucasisawesome 7 лет назад
Love this, very necessary
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