I was married for 21years my husband at that time move in his side chick in our home in Jamaica, And told me I have to live with it, I divorced him, changed my job never knowing that I would find a real God fearing man. Married again best man I ever met life is wonderful, Blessings
Jaye you could do this!!! My husband left me at 24 with a 2 month old baby and a 3 year old toddler and he never looked back....Today i have my own home mortgage free, and he's calling me everyday to make back up with me....THE DEVIL IS A LIAR AND HIS MOTHER A THIEF!!!..... You could do this !! God got you❤
I am a Jamaican who has been living overseas for over 40 plus years. Went through stuff similar to you but worse. I am single and retired now with 2 vehicles and my own home. When I got divorced, I got no child support. I am not interested in the public stuff. I would like to be in touch with you privately if possible. Believe me, you are in a good position, you can easily reach the mountain top and be victorious. With God, all things are possible.
@@jayesparkle girl you’re the realest!! Do whatever needs to be done for your baby girl and yourself!! Believe me when I tell you she’s a blessing. She’s making the pain much much easier.
He's a serial cheater ..They have no conscience; a leopard cannot change its spot...You are not a doormat...Never allow a man to treat you like dirt and keep forgiving him...He WILL never ,ever respect you
My dear men tells you they don't need you in a lot of ways and this is one of them.The hurt is real but sweetheart you gonna look back and Thank God for your trials.Rem there's pain in Purpose.
He's not even an attractive man, dust off and pick up yourself. You make him feel relevant. His family is just like him they're racist, RUNNNNNN AWAYYYYY
@juliettebarton8467 You are correct when I was watching Jaye telling her story, it came to my mind that Alicia Kim's story is somewhat similar the only thing is that Kim seems to be be under some NDA as she cannot address her situation with her fans. However, it's her personal business if she doesn't want to talk about it with her fans. In Jaye's situation I am really sad about it since they have a child that it could affect. In my mind, I am thinking if Tim really love his wife he should fight for his marriage, but if he's satisfied with the situation as it is what can I say. I am happy she is pampering herself as that lifts the spirit.
@@marjorlecharles5138he will not fight because being a serial cheater is what he truly is. He don’t want to stop so he is relieved for his marriage to be over so he can cheat in peace .
Let me say this. I am very proud of you for handling this situation in the right way. Plenty of women can learn from you. It's not about whiling out & destroying his property It's about getting even by becoming a successful and independent woman. You go girl xx
You are beautiful no need to return to Jamaica except for vacation or when you want to. Remember there are other states in the USA with Jamaican communities that would embrace and support you. There are you tubers too. You and your daughter are in my prayers. You are strong and hardworking. Move on don’t look back, don’t live in the house with him as he will still be in a clean well put together home and when you cook as a Caribbean queen you will offer or leave him food. Yes get the hair done, nails done God has something better in store for you❤❤❤
Don’t ever feel like a failure. This too shall pass. I got married when I was 21 and divorced when I was 24. I held on for while because I was afraid of the unknown. Now I’m 31, and If I knew then what I know now, I would’ve walked away even sooner. I’ve been nothing short of blessed. Wishing I’d walk away even sooner. God has blessed beyond what I even imagined. He has better plans in stores for you. I promise.
Man's rejection is God's protection. You will look back at these things and tell God thanks for them happening. I've been where you're and the past comes back knocking my advice to you is do not go back to the past leave him in the past because a leopard doesn't change it's spot
@@jayesparklejaye take it from me and Marcia, I'm going through the same rejection right now since February prior to that I've been rejected 5 times and we Jamaican like to talk about try to make things work, he will not tell me the 6th time, I just found out that rejection is God's redirection. Look up NARCISSISTIC BEHAVIOUR and you'll see Tim right there, they NEVER CHANGE❤❤ CRY IF YOU HAVE TO BUT NEVER PUT YOURSELF DOWNAND YES YOU NEEED TO GIVE BACK THE SILENT TREATMENT. AND DON'T LEAVE THE STATE, NOR LEAVE THE HOUSE TO THOSE REDNECK
Hello my dear. I have been through what you are experiencing. I will like you to promise yourself that you will not become a bitter woman and NEVER speak ill of your partner for your daughter to hear. She will see him for what he is in due time. Stay blessed.
Hi jaye I live in the UK was married and my husband had one child outside our marriage I forgave him and then he had the second from another woman I divorce him then had to bring my girls up 2 girls on my own I am 75 years and my girls are married with they own families, I worked at the Royal London hospital in xray bought a house with zland in Barbados God bless me and he will bless you too stay strong
Jaye pick yourself up. Don't say you want to return home. Be resilient. I see you as a young strong woman. Stay and work it through. Prayers are up for you. Your family is supportive of you. Pray and watch God work.
You are soooo right, continue to do fun things, book a facial and look forward to it (it keeps your mind occupied), schedule a day to bake a cake, walk around the mall (but leave your wallet at home, just a few dollars to buy a snack), ALL woman have had a heartache and recovered and so ARE YOU ❤
Even though I was drawn to channel for family reasons I am not leaving. I am here to let you know it is well. God is with you take every challenge with God ahead of you. Live with faith! You will look back one day and smile. Everything for a reason and people come and go for season or a reason. Blessings and favour on you and your family !
God had a lot in store for you ,continues to trust in God a cheater will always be a cheater as long has you are here am here,i admire how you kept your home pray and watch God work.❤❤❤❤
Jaye trust me I been through the same thing and was hospitalized due to high blood pressure. I woke up one day and realized my children needs me more than this man do and got myself together. Going to church has really helped me and I wouldn’t have it any other way. I’m praying for you and your daughter the fight back will make you stronger.🙏🏽
Jaye I have watched you guys since you started your life's journey to your marriage to the birth of your beautiful daughter I went through the samething am still living I had a son with my husband and outside of our marriage he has 4 children and who knows how manymore but the good thing is he let our son knows his siblings so they all are happy to know their big brother , his sister said she is happy to have a big tall handsome brother am happy for them my husband is friends with me on WhatsApp but that's all am not going back with him even if he ask me we are not divorced yet God has been good to me , I have my own house and I don't have to depend on him or no one for anything thank God. I got over it and you will be also God always God us I support you 100%
Jay remember the baby she's smart she picks up everything and can get depresse too don't let the enemy steal your joy you are young and so is your marriage this is a trial for you through Tim keep pressing don't fail Nevie
Jaye best know that God makes no mistake and at this point he’s just WEEDING your Garden for all your beautiful flowers 💐. No depression here in the MIGHTY name of Jesus 🙏😘 love you babygirl
My Jamaica girl remember you came from Jamaica an independent girl ,so don't worry yourself you are the one who turn Tim into a man.He only wanted the experience
@@jayesparkle don't just hope , Tell yourself it will get better !! I have been watching your video from you were in Jamaica and you work hard and make things work .
She cannot brooks with someone who wants to be with other people. She cannot stop him and if he won’t stop for her that means they should. It be together. He is still looking for something else.
Jaye, I'm here for the long haul. Your life is NOT falling apart...you've just hit a speed bump. This too shall pass. No need to apologize for feeling down. You're doing the right thing by taking care of yourself. If you take care of yourself, you'll be the best you can be for your daughter. This is a time to start planning for you and your child's new future. It'll be challenging but, remember, God doesn't give you more than you can handle. Just Keep talking about it that'll help you get through it. Keep close with your support persons. So looking forward to when you get to the other side of all the pain. Glad you're going into therapy. Hopefully you get the right therapist for you. You have a good heart so great things are ahead for you. Jaye, here's a joke, the weight loss you're experiencing is known as "the breakup diet". Some people put weight on but some take it off during stressful times. Jaye, you need to use a humidity control spray on your hair, that'll help keep your hair from getting so puffy. Your hair looks awesome! Looking forward to seeing the mother's day pictures. Thanks for sharing. Much ❤.
I love you Jaye! My heart goes out for you as a sister, a single mom, a friend I’ve never met! Girl I have been here from the beginning and I’m here to stay, pray with you! Lift you up on your down days, laugh with you and be happy for you on your happy days. I know life happens, however I admired your union/family. And always wished the best for you all. However God knows best at this point. Be encouraged. He will never leave you nor forsake you. Keep trusting him. He got you! You got this girl!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤. Last weekend I was so heartbroken for you. It’s like I got the news from a relative🥲 or a close friend . Just know you have people out here attached like real family/real friends who will be here no matter what. God will renew your strength daily girl. Trust him🤗🤗🤗🤗💐💐💐❤️
Jordan I know you put a lot of time and energy in your marriage and of course you are going to be sad but is the other person feeling the way you feel ? Do what you have to pull yourself together and take it one day at a time . I love the mommy and daughter dresses . You're going to be better .
I can’t know how they really feel because if all that time and effort that I was putting and counseling and being told everything is good , I can’t continuously believe that when the actions don’t align with their words. Thanks much taking it one day a time
Jordan you can do it as a single mom, ive been raising my daughter from the age of 1yrs and shes about to be 19yrs in December just think about you and your daughter right now you are a strong black woman❤
We are on a journey and not everyone can travel that journey with us.Some people will discourage you, some are doubtful, some people will pretend to be with you but listen we are praying for you. God got your back my daughter. Love you and Neve
Jaye huggggggs. You will be fine. Grieve and move on emotionally and soon enough physically. Give nev a big hug from aunty Marty. You are ambitious and strong. We don't know what the future hold. So we leave Tim to God and trust God will guide and keep you . Dont rush anything. Only one person has changed in your life Tim. Life goes on . Nev needs to live ,grow ,learn, etc. So stick to her routines, talk to her in small bits about the situation. As far as i see you spent ,and do the most for Nev. Girl God got you ,your youtube family got you. You started a life in US dont give it up. Remember whats best for Nev. Now you can move where you want to. Just get legal advice and dont allow Tim to take away Nev. ❤❤❤🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲lean on Family n friends to keep you grounded. Protect yourself. Stay in the law. Continue your youtube, don't tell us everything , be wise careful. Again Jaye you will be fine.❤❤ you did nothing wrong you were trying your best it didn't work at least not in this season. God knows the plans ,learn the lessons hon and let God .
Girl we All av our Battle Scars..... I am no exception to that, What keeps me going is knowing that GOD NEVER Closes a Door, without Opening another 🙏.... Take ur time to process, and in doing so PRAY and watch the Next Path reveals to you.... Cry if you must, But Remember that you're Perfectly and Wonderfully made.... Stay Blessed and strong for yourself and most importantly for Niveah... Love u hun, And this Subcriber aint going anywhere ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Child of God, be strong in the Lord. One thing for sure is that God will never leave you or forsake you or your daughter. I am praying for you both also praying for your husband because we have to pray for those who hurt us. I am feeling your pain. I hate to see you cry.
Jordon you're in my prayers i am your 73 year old grandmother here every disappointment is an opportunity God will give you the strength to carry on dont give up baby girl Gods got you and your daughter be strong for your daughter time heals all wounds i love your channel keep up the good work
We love u girl we not going nowhere ❗️❗️I’m a Jamaican living in America most of my life and we stand with u . Keep ur head up stay strong queen. Remember his lost not urs 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
Girl , if you line up a 100 ladies, about 95 of them ,can tell you about their story about, the hurt they have gone, through with men... this too will pass... years after you are going to look back ...and thank GOD ❤
IT'S HARD NOW HON, BUT REMEMBER JOY COMES IN THE MORNING. YOU'LL BE FINE HON I'M PRAYING FOR YOU DEAR I WENT THROUGH THE WORST WHEN MY SON WAS JUST 3 WEEKS OLD THERE WERE DAYS I FELT AS IF I COULDN'T GO ON BUT I FIGHT ON WHEN I LOOK IN MY SON'S LITTLE FACE ❤🙏
You are doing a great job. I dont know you but God had led me to your channel and you in some way are inspiring me. God is with you and he will continue to bless you and take you through this journey. Your are such an amazing human❤
Jaye, as an experienced Jamaican woman, who has experienced many things you need to stay independent. Don't let anybody tell you otherwise. He is emotionally jealous of you because you are independent, NOT simple-minded, have low self-esteem, or lack ambitions. You are an intelligent and resourceful and dedicated mother to your child. I am so glad you didn't have any more kids. Sell the house and don't leave any debt behind. He is going to bankrupt your credit. Get rid of that house out off your credit. Otherwise, that is how he is going to destroy you. You can trust and believe. Get an attorney to see where you stand with your credit. You need your credit in America. No question ask. As soon as you leave, he is going to stop paying the mortgage. He is privileged based on the way it is, and you get destroyed for being ambitious. No matter what they do to women of color, we still get the blame. Who do you think you are not taking his emotional and psychological abuse. See what they are doing, MEGHAN MARKLE and Prince HARRY. THEY drove her to suicidal ideation. Harry took her out with his son, and 4 years later, they are still trying to destroy her financially and psychologically.
My little sister , I admire your strength. The father will not give you more than you can bear. The love of God will not take you where his grace won’t keep you. You are an exceptional good human being and a Mom . His loss not yours.
Listen j he has done it once he Will never change,he Will keep on doing it,draw a line to that,dont leave your home,you both have your daughter so therefore he must honour that responsibility and pay….once they make a mess They Will continue doing that…..be strong even though you Are hurting
I’m glad to see you and about just keep a heads up. It’s not the end of the world we all been there but I’m so glad to see you back.. he was playing house with you all along and that’s the hardest part of it. He have you as a wife and he’s out there messing around if you want to leave us single life so go why married you and have you at home and playing playing around, come on man come on we have a moral, where is the moral? Where is the loyalty girl? I’m here for you as a mother just trusting God do not stop praying just pray. Pray my daughter pray
Jay, I didn’t realize I was watching and didn’t even subscribed. New subscriber here. One of my new favorite quote paraphrase “It can’t rain everyday, sun must shine.” Keep posting and I will keep watching. God will never fail you 💕🙏🏽
Why he did what he did,I believe it is almost impossible to marry and survive within a family if they don’t like you,my first serious relationship was like that they made me feel like I was second class citizen on his moms side like I was nothing & unworthy. So sad but I am still hopeful I do not not like divorce😢
Jaye you are an amazing, talented young woman. I have admired your approach to life. You are wise in keeping yourself motivated and in high spirits. I have always thought that you can do marketing for different products. When you get products and you do your presentations you sound and look like a true professional like you have been marketing products for thirty years. Just a thought of admiration I wanted to share with you. May the Lord shower you with many blessings. Love, prayers and blessings.
Not sure about that. But women who put up with that behavior teach that behavior to be tolerated. She didn't like Jaye working. She wanted her solely dependent on Tim. It seems she wanted Jaye's independence stripped away because then she'd be solely dependent on Tim and stuck putting up with it. This is why men resent women who are educated, make their own money because these women have less chance of tolerating their bullshyt.
I could not remember you page name but God is good because I found it by accident. Since I am behind but interpret that you are no longer with your daughters father. Your page was very encouraging. Keep your eyes on God..When people leave your life they did you a favor. I've been thru a lot and one day you too will say thank God🙂
Be Strong And Keep Loving Yourself And Your Daughter. Be Financially Stable 🙏🏾 You Cannot Take Your Daughter To Jamaica Without His Consent If You Don't Want Him To Drag You To The Family Court.
You can build a new home for you and Nevi. Your subscribers are here for you. Cry if you want, but find something to laugh at as well. You’re doing great!❤❤
I’m praying for u, my young sister. I went through something similar to your. Yes speak to someone it will help, prayer works also. I’m now raising my daughter & son by myself, but God is able to keep you.
J sometime we keep holding on and hoping not knowing that the best is yet to come I am someone who is speaking from experience after 29 years of marriage and to God be the glory. I am so happy that I let go and let God we love you we’re standing with you and we are praying for you. God bless you.
We love you Jaye ❤, be strong! Many of us can relate, we all have a story. God got you, we’re praying for you and you’ll overcome in Jesus name 🙏🏽. U.K. Subscriber 🇬🇧, will always watch your lovely vlogs.
Trust God, He has a plan for you. Remember always that He will never leave you neither forget you. Girl your ordained husband is waiting for the right time. You are beautifully and wonderfully made. That day will come when you will back at this season and laugh at it...
Jaye in Jamaica they say don't throw up yourself for no man,they don't worth it. You are beautiful girlfriend , continue with your program and be happy 😊😊. Let Nevia see the best part of you.Fix up yourself and go out sometime. We Jamaicans are the best. We know how to pick up ourselves. Nevi is important you will see the turnaround. That man is not for you he was just using you. Trust me.
I totally understand Jaye. You're a strong black Jamaican woman.....it is extremely hard for anyone to completely break us. We may fall but we rise above it and we soar like eagles. You and Nevy are protected by God ❤❤
Girl go on a solo date and have fun and also with a few close friends. Do something out of your comfort zone. Your young and you only live once. But be modest while you're at it. God blessing you got this.❤
Jaye, I did start watching because of your interracial relationship, HOWEVER, you ARE your channel and unlike him, I won't desert you. 😉 ❤ I love seeing you smile again! Rose is an angel! Jaye, please stop saying you look a hot mess. You do not. You look like the beautiful strong woman that you are.
Be strong . You are a child of God. God got you. Put your daughter and your happiness first . You will be ok. You are a great mother and an awesome wife and person. Don’t let him steal your joy. 🙏🏾❤️💐
Time for you to visit Barnes and Noble’s book store give it time,focus on keeping mentally healthy… And absolutely keep busy, Journaling those feelings and emotions will help…
Jay we love you and we Jamaican stand by our people we will never leave you no matter what. My very first time commenting but i always subscribe to your channel ❤❤❤
You are only human and as a mother to a daughter your feelings and emotion is all over the place you have a young toddler and you never expect this to happen to you at this moment so we all understand people checking in on you just to see how your coping and your weird your headspace is so it’s not a bad thing to check up on you Don’t pull them knows where they’re not supposed to poke it but girl you’re doing so fine and I’m proud of you. Keep it up.
