I'm 46 he's 42 I met him at work and I recently was involved in a motor accident a few months ago now I found out hes married lied to me and I found out he was married when his wife followed him to my home and since then he allowed her to harass me and I cut him off immediately . I wish him the best and for the wife I pray for her as well . . . I'm focused on my recovery and I'm looking forward in my journey of these lessons.