It's true when considering the mountainous amount of stories of these relationship failures and being the victim of sociopathic nature. Have respect for yourself, gentleman, and go for a fresh start if you dont have offspring.
Yeah- anytime I hear stories about step parents and step children and dating someone with kids I just think about how hard that must be. It’s different if you are older- but if you still have young children I think it’s just a no- go. There’s so many variables that you will have no control over and a lot of drama that will end up impacting a guy if he ends up getting involved. It makes me sad to hear about people getting divorced or kids that don’t have parents that are together. It’s difficult and confusing for the kids and makes things so complicated for any other party that gets involved. I’m very apprehensive to have children because I fully understand what kind of responsibility comes along with it- and you want to be in a good place before going down that road. Also- I would really want to make sure I was fully aligned with my partner because any bad decisions will end up having likely negative consequences for the kids. Haha- it’s just a whole lot easier to not even get involved with any of it. I feel like if you find the right person then it can all be positive and good- but so many people seem to have children without really having a solid foundation with their partner.
