What this man is saying that if not for the plastic surgery he would have gone to Laos. Ladies if a man truly love you for who you are, he would not turn you into a doll.
I agree with you 100% because all he said was about beautiful women only! If she didn’t have the opportunity to fixed herself, he would definitely be gone for a young looking woman a long time ago!
Why do these Hmong men talk like they stay slim,full of hair and stay strong the same as when they were young. Men must not look at themselves in the mirrors ever. We women don't do that to our husband as we get older..only men do. Learn to love your mate unconditionally as you get older
Maybe I missed something...I noticed most of the comments are criticizing the husband for being shallow. I thought his message was to help, love and pamper your wife whenever necessary instead of seeking another women. Plus, his own wife was the one that insisted on the surgeries. I think he's saying, a man should use his money on his wife instead of wasting it on another women.
It’s his way of his “approved” authority for her and how great of a husband he is for all letting her to have the procedures, otherwise ya know, he’d eat on the outside because he’s only obsessed with looks only. Shows the IQ of this man.
I applaud you for speaking the truth about the majority of men's mind. Your look is what attracts the eyes first. Your inner beauty comes second. It's sad but true.
Hmong women- please don’t do plastic surgery just for your husband to love you more. It is not fair for any woman especially Hmong woman . If he loves you regardless how you look after birthing his kids he should still love you that’s a true love. Plastic surgery is only a temporary beauty and it will fade away as you age and so if he loves you because of your plastic surgeries, oh boy! That means you are going to keep doing plastic surgery for the rest of your life to obtain his love in you? Forget it!!! This title isn’t suitable for this man’s description. This isn’t a true love in their marriage. It seems like this woman has no option in her marriage because he makes all the options in their marriage. Sorry for you guy!
When you really love someone. That person doesn’t need to do all that plastic surgery to please you. You should love all of her wrinkles and fat. That’s real love ❤️
As a pair wife and husband, no matter how each may looks in the future, we should love and appreciate each other. No need to change with plastic surgery we should still love and respect our wife for how they look.
Ua tsaug rau tus nus no koj tau qhia peb cov txiv neej hmoob kom lawv tos taub yog vim li cas peb cov poj niam thiaj li yuav ua tau zoo nkauj vim cov txiv neej yuav tsum tau pab peb thiab
THIS GUY IS SO SHALLOW AND SELF SERVING. ITS ALL ABOUT HIM AND HER HAPPINESS IS ALL ABOUT HIS HAPPINESS. This guy needs to know that happiness is more than SKIN DEEP.
Koj kom koj tus niam tsev kho nws tus kheej kom zoo nkauj rau koj yog li no koj yuav tau mus kho kom koj tus kwv loj2 nws thiaj g xav mus sim cov txiv neej sab nrauv vim Yog nws zoo nkauj npaum koj hais nws yuav nrog koj nyob g ntev os tus me txiv tsev, I believe in making myself beautiful for my husband but what you did I beyond the rainbow, Not healthy when you have to keep fixing it
These small minded men, all they think about is how their wife looks throughout life. Don’t waste your breath to tell stories of small minded people. It’s called nature and the cycle of life. Life is not based on looks in the long run. It’s how you lived and loved in your life and if you completed your purpose. Men always think they are perfect but there are so many things we’d like as our dream guy too - muscles, wide shoulders, head of hair, solid abs, tall, great personality, funny, has money...can they fix any of that? Beauty is not only physical but it’s who you are as a person.
Agree.. all they do is complain about their wives.. well what about them.. I'm sure they just as fat and ugly too... if I get all fixed up I wouldn't want a fat short ugly husband by my side.. lol
Cas muaj ntau tus neeg yuav hais li... thaub no os. Nyias muaj nyias kev xav na, txoj kev xav no los yeej zoo kawg rau tiam tshiab no mas. Ua dab tsi, yam twg los yeej muaj qhov zoo qhov phem od
Koj yuav kho npaum li cas los yeej tsis kav, tsis ntev ces yuav lwj yuav puas thaum ntawd koj haj yam yuav nyuaj siab tuaj. Qhov yuav kav yog koj lub hlwb, txoj kev xav, thiab koj lub siab. You just need to learn how to accept the reality of aging...learn how to love your wife unconditionally es yav laus luag thiaj hlub thiab tu koj. Eat healthy and take care of self for personal hygiene are important.
I think it’s great that you want your wife to look beautiful but I hope you keep up your looks too! She better not be all slim and beautiful but you having a beer belly with wrinkles!
Women are beautiful regardless of their shape and size. This dude set such a horrible example for his daughters and his nyab. Looks is not everything. Love should be unconditional not fake plastic surgeries.
Wife is 44 and already went through so many surgeries to stay pretty. What's going to happen as she gets older and older and plastic surgery can no longer fix? Nothing is more beautiful than what nature gave us and growing old gracefully!
Poj niam zoo nkauj, txiv neej zoonraug leej twg los yeej nyiam yog muaj siab ntshaw ua xav kho kom zoo nkauj zoo nraug los kav tsij ua kom tau raws li lub siab ntsaw mog muaj mob los yog yus txoj hmoo xwb
I can relate to ths story. I hve t had any plastic surgeries but kuv tus txiv yeej zoo li tus brother no xav thiab yus yeej yuav tau ua zoo zoo nkauj mas nrog nws mus ub mus no ib yam
Don't be full of yourself about your wife's beauty cause sometime when a woman is beautiful she will cheat on you. Cause of her beauty she will feel confident and think she's all that and will look forward to other men
Omg, women shouldn't have to go under the knife just to keep their husbands. How disappointing. This dude said if his wife isn't pretty and have a hot body, he would have cheated on her. How superficial are u? Don't claim that u really love her when u only love her beauty.
Koj yog 1 tug txiv tsev zoo tshaj plaws li. Koj yeej hais yog kawg lawm os. Koj tus poj niam muaj mhoo heev li. Yog cov txiv tsev txhua tus coj li koj xwb ces lub ntiaj teb no yeej tsis muaj los kua muag iab kua muag daw ua luaj no os mog. 1 txhia poj niam los yeej muaj2 plhus es pheej tos luag lawb taj laj tag mam mus teeb khoom thiab ces nyuam qhuav ntxim thiab tiam sis feem ntau yeej yog cov uas tus txiv tsis pab ntau xwb. Zoo Siab uas tseem muaj tej tug txiv tsev zoo2 li no thiab.
Take care of yourself ladies in a natural way. Plastic surgery is only good atm, its good now, but every 20 years when you have to replace the implants, it gets more and more complicated. They don't think of this. By the time you 65, Depending on your health at this time.. high blood pressure, sugar levels etc.. you either have another implant or strip it off and you have no breast like a man.
Agree. Plastic surgery leaves scars, which is uglier. I see some Hmong women that aged beautifully without plastic surgery. It all comes down to taking care of your health by eating in moderation, good skincare, and being active.
Beauty is subjective. Whatever is beautiful to you is considered ugly for others. Look good for yourself, don't bother trying to look good for other people bc there are a lot of ungrateful people out there.
@@magicalunicorn5853 I agree and I doubt this dude looks good! LOL. I've dealt and dated both "ugly" and "good looking" guys with ugly hearts and they're both bad, period. "Ugly" people with ugly hearts are intolerable to look at. "Good looking" people with ugly hearts would get a pass but not for long when they start to lose their looks or if the ppl in their lives start to lose their patience when it comes to their BS. At the end of the day, inner beauty would always win! Self-care along with a healthy lifestyle is attractive! The lifestyle this dude promotes is just superficial and fake like his love towards his SO.
It is very sad that we live in such a superficial world. If you're a man, you are measure by your capability. Once you no longer can make the money or you become disabled your partner will leave you. If a woman, your worth is only base on your physical look. Best just love and take care of yourself as much as possible from now on. Unless your parents, no one will love you unconditionally.
Am I suppose to applaud this guy? It's sad that you could not love your wife the way she is, the real her, not the fake her... Really? About how nasty your wife's nails and toes are, that just tells me she's lazy and doesn't care much for yourself. It's a waste on money if she continues not to stay in shape but just wait till next needed surgery. I laugh at this story.
My husband is somewhat like this guy, he prefers beauty's over anything else but he won't go the extra miles such as doing the dishes or cleaning the house so I could do my make up.
Yg lawm o niam lau kj hai yg tiag2 li o kv tu txiv ntaum hlau nw zoo nraug kawg ta sib ntaum lau no nw g tu nw tu kheej lm e nw g zoo nraug lm kv g nyiam li lm o yv ua ca no pab phia kv o
Cas es lawv pheej yuav muab peb cov poj hlais npaum ub npaum no thiab pheej yuav kom yuag xwb thiab hlub es ua cas lawv twb rog2 zais2 plab thiab es lawv ho tsis hlais lawv thiab. Hlub tiag tsis zoo li cas los yeej hlub tsis need mus hlais. Puas li no xwb ces txhais tau tias nws los yeej pauv tsis ntxiv cov txiv tsev phem to thiab.
Don’t know why y’all criticizing this guy. He’s encouraging his wife to look good for herself and himself. At least he didn’t leave her because her body naturally changed due to pregnancy and age. Plus, he took care of her postpartum and during her surgery recovery stage. 🤷🏻♀️ Men should learn from this guy.
Kuv thov qhuas koj os tus nus kuv hnov niam ntsuab teev tham txog neb lub neej mas koj yog tus txiv neej hmoob uas xav tau zoo thiab coj zoo thiab hlub koj tus poj niam heev es kuv qhuas koj os tus nus aw.
Glad this husband pamper his wife. As long as they love each other and accept each other. They aren't cheating on each other. He may be shallow. But... the wife is ok with it. And she wanted to do the surgeries. And he took care of her through it all. To each their own on this subject.
Such a wasted time story. I love my wife the nature way, not plastic surgery. Feel sorry for those women such as the wife on this story who HAVE to go EXTRA miles such countless times to put makeup, painful plastic surgeries just to satisfy her man or men.
AWOMAN...!!! I think you are the very few men who are actually REAL men. Most are txiv dev only wanting a trophy wife to show off to the rest of the world. You’re definitely a keeper..!! 👍🏻👍🏻
Tej zaum koj vwm loj heev lawm os Kwv tij..laus lawm ces kawg yuav phem tuaj lawm xwb..yog neb tsis txawj laus li no ces hais li koj hais ntawm ko kuj yog thiab mas kwv tij
Vuag, kuv poob qab lawm dej heev.. tsis muaj lub nco tias yuav tha tshuaj li os. Nrhiav npluas noj npluas haus xwb. I believe love is not about looks. Especially after so many years and so many children together, let alone the male also age as well. And yes, the new dish is always better.
I don't see anything wrong with this story but an inspirational story. It's better to communicate and tell his wife what he wants instead of cheating on her. Plastic Surgery isn't the best, but it works for them and keeps them happy. That's all it matters.
Hello May. I love your stories and in my opinion you are the best story teller ever.. Please before beginning the story could you give us the title because my hmong's reading is really bad.... i can understand it but reading is really complicated for me. Thank you so much.. a big fan from France 😘😘😘😘🥰🥰🥰
Koj yog ib tug txiv tsev zoo kawg tiam sis koj muab qhov zoo nkauj saib loj nrhau heev lawm. Yog yus hlub ib tug tib neeg lawm ces nws txawm zoo li cas los yus yeej yuav hlub. Es koj twb laus lawm thiab... yog koj tus poj niam kom koj ua surgery es koj puas kam ua mas?
Yog li koi hais tus kwv tij, aib thaub no vwm loj tiag2, tsuas yog paub poj niam zoo nkauj xwb, yog luag laus dab tuag no ces txawm yuav coj luag mus kho, aib thaub no tos li lawv tias yog noob tsis zoo no los vim nws txoj kev xav yeej txawv kiag ne.
Peb ib txhia poj niam tsi yog tag nrho nyiam2 cev yiag txias nyiam zoo nkauj nyob ntawm tej tug poj niam txawm tus txiv kom ua zoo2 nkauj no los poj niam tsi kam ua zoo nkauj tab mas ntawm kuv nav...kuv ntshaw2 zoo nkauj txawv yuav ua tag nyob 3 hnub tuag lawm los yeej txaus siab rau qhov yus zoo nkauj kuv yug los ua ib zaug neeg xwb kuv ntshaw2 zoo nkauj
This man is correct. You women in here admit to yourself you want the same as what his wife got. Beauty is what all men wants. So be nice to this guy who’s telling the truth. I respect what you said in your story
Haha cov txiv neej hmoob uas nyiam zuaj mis yas os you are absolutely crazy, poj niam zoo nkauj tsis yog coj mus ua nawb, yug los li cas yuav li ntawv nawb ua mis yas ib ntus xwb mon cancer lawm nawb ib cov mis yas twb tuag tag lawm
From what I’ve seen in comment section: when the lecturer gets lectured 😂 By all means, you better look good like a mes nraug suav if you preach about how your significant other who is willing to go under the knife for you to make you proud. I’ve seen nothing wrong with plastic surgery but I think it’s time for you to promote a healthy lifestyle for you and your wife. Y’all both sound insecure. I’ve met Hmong women with body dysmorphia before and it ain’t a cute look on anyone bc they become ugly with all the work they have done and they lose everything after their men leaves them for someone younger and “hotter”.
