Poob Npe Poj Ntsuam Ris Npe Poj Nrauj. 1/4/2024 

My Hmong sisters, regardless of status, NEVER date a man who asks you to give or loan him money. Ever. How any woman still finds a man remotely attractive after that is beyond me. Set your standards a little higher.

Doesn’t matter what ur life or history is. It has nothing to do with them. People loves to gossip but they don’t give the chance to know that person first. They’re entitled to their own opinion to judge a person because it’s only rumors. You are getting famous for being a story teller and people who doesn’t have a life are trying to bring you down. But don’t allow them to. Glad to have you as a greatest Hmong story teller. Thank you May!

If my husband and I had a great first marriage like yours, I would not remarry. I would keep his memories alive and just love the children. We can date for company and don't have to remarry. This guy is too evil. What did he ever do to earn the wealth you had? People need to sign prenuptial in these types of marriages. You lost everything in such a short time. You should have just bought a water dispenser and set it right next to your bed. That would have solved the concern you had about having no one to bring you a cup of water.

This is why you need to get life insurance. Doesnt matter how young you are. A lot of young people think they’re not gna die soon, so they dnt bother to get life insurance. You nvr know whats gna happen.

Niam Ntsuab Teev aw!!! Cov niag neeg uas hais hais thiab cem cem koj ces twb yog koj hais koj cov neej neeg muaj muaj kuab thiab hais tau zoo zoo es lawv ua tsis tau li koj es lawv khib khib thiaj li lam tau lam hais xwb mas

People, PLEASE, PLEASE, and PLEASE buy life insurance policies for u, your spouse, and your children. It's not that expensive. If u can't afford the expensive ones, u could always buy terms. Anything is better than nothing. It's not fair to put financial burdens on your families bc now they have to come out and ask the public for help. If u have a job, u can afford life insurance policies. Term policies are very cheap.

Sister, I hear so many stories like yours. We as older ladies need to be more careful of our hearts. Men aren't like they seem anymore. Enjoy life and love yourself and your children first.

Kuv nyiam mloog koj cov neej neeg hais zoo kawg os.

Kuv nyiam koj nyiam li neej neeg❤

Even if I hear bad rumors about your past, I don't care I still love listening to your stories.

Niam ntsuab teev aw txhob tu siab os cov neeg uas pheej coj yus mus hais rau ub rau no ce twb yog khib khib yus rau qhov lawv ua tsi tau li yus ua naj

Niam ntsuab teev aw koj ua zoo lawm os leej twg hais li cas los tsis tau care txog vim twb tsis yog yus os

Let the haters hate. If you don't have haters, you ain't going anywhere. God bless you and your family

Hmoob people, get yourself/spouse, kids life insurance. At least from your work place. Buy the policy that you can afford only, you dont have to go up to the hundreds, even at 30k is good, something is better than nothing.

Zoo siab rau koj os niam Ntsuab Teev, cov neeg uas hais yus yam tsi muaj tseeb ces yuav tsi mob yus, thiab ib qho yus tsi yog pab neeg ntawd ces cia yus nyob 6 pab uas ua zoo xwb ua tsaug 6 koj txoj kev hais lus qhuab qhia 6 3 tau mloog

If you're going to remarry, be smart about your spouse's life insurance. It's never money for you to waste with a new love interest...unless you don't care that they spend and run. Make it clear that any money you share with them will be money you both earned together. Plus, make prenuptial agreement regarding your properties. If they protest you protecting what's yours, their egg is exposed.

Tue niam tsev, tshob tus siab mog. Karma won't get hin but will get his children especially the ones supported him to divorce you. Lesson learned.

We understand you want your peace. But if it was me, someone says something so bad like that about me, I will come out and tell my life story. The guy says, what he say it’s the truth. You say, it’s not truth. Now we don’t know the truth. A lot of people look at you like a good model but now many people say, they don’t know because they also know you and your husband now both married before you guys met.

May, I love listening to your stories. I admire you so much, thank you being such a great role model and inspiration for all Hmong women around the world including myself.

Sister tsis k lawv os, hom neeg hais yus vim Yog lawv khib yus xwb. Kuv yeej muaj ib txhia neeg zoo ntawv thiab. Vim lawv ua tsis tau li yus ua, neeg nyiam yus dua tsis nyiam lawv. We are here to support you sister. Keep doing what you do, neeg khib yus ces nws mus tsis txog twg

I was thinking…wow! Finally! A one hour story from May!!! Nope 😂 Story starts at 20:25 Don’t worry about what other people say about you May. Those people have too much time on their hands.

Someone once told me if you don’t write your own prenup the government will and ain’t nobody trust Uncle Sam. If you’re left with money or asset you need to protect them. If your future spouse loves you they should have no problem with signing the prenup.

niam lau aw nyiam koj heev o tsi tau pom kj lo mloog koj xb twb kaj sb lawm

Sister May, just ignore those negative people and their gossips. You know you and the people who are close to you know you then it does not matter. Just keep up the good work you do!!! Love listening to you telling stories everyday!!!

Koj yog tus hais neej neeg zoo tshaj!!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 Txhob care care lawm os niam ntsuab teev. Tag kig kuv tseem xav noog koj hais neej neeg nawm!!!!! I love your story ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ Koj tug fan nyob fab kis teb

Yog lawm os mog

Kj yog tus pham xwb os me vivncaus, yus muaj tub muaj ki, tsis cia yus tej nyiaj, vaj ntse rau yus tej tubki eś, chim no kj thiaj plws tes, hlub kj txoj kev nruam kawg

You are correct! Live in peace ✌️

Kuv mloog mas, kuv tseem chim tshaj koj lawm thiab os sister, nrog koj tus siab kawg li os.

Be smart.. sign a prenup. But trust me, easy come, easy go. Karma will hit him

Yeej tsis muaj ib tug zoo tshaj yus tu tav. Tu ib txws hlub yus. Hlub yus thiab yus cov me nyuam zoo tshaj.

Koj hai yog kawg o ntxhob xa ntau o niam lau me

Niam ntsuab teev, qhov zoo txhob teb. Vim koj teb tias dag tsis muaj tiag, yuav ya rau lawv hais ntxiv qhov tseeb tuaj. Txhob teb zoo dua

Niam Laus May! Peb hmoob yeej siab phem os. Feem coob ces yuav yog peb txhob ua neej thiab ua neeg zoo tshaj xwb! Yog yus ua zoo tshaj luag ces yeej raug neeg hais peb tsis zoo thiab muab yus coj mus tham kom nro suab npe phem xwb. Yus yog neeg zoo ces tsis k txog li mog. Yeej meem ua li koj ua xwb nawb mog! I am here to support koj thiab os!❤️❤️

Ab cas peb cov viv ncaus uas txiv tuag tag es tau nyiaj ntau ntau es pheej qhia yus tej nyiaj rau cov txiv dev nas lawv txhob ntseeg cov txiv tam sim no lawv tsuas need nyiaj xwb os 😮

Tos thaub ko tau ua yawg nrauj los nws yeej phem nws thiaj li tau ua yawg nrauj, nws tsuas xav tau koj cov nyiaj los ua nws tug xwb, thaum nws tau koj cov nyiaj tag lawm ces nws thiaj ua thaj lem2 li ko rau koj, hlub yus tus kheej thiab ma los, cas zoo li nej yuav hlub lwm tus ua ntej nej hlub nej tus kheej na.

When will our Hmong sisters learn. Of course, if someone aiming for your money, then he will pretend to love you all his mighty to make you fall for him. Put it this way, if someone really loves you, he will not ask to put his name in your accounts. He has everything planned well beforehand. He just used your son's wedding as an excuse to leave you. He sure hit the jackpot

You says it well May,,,sometimes it's hard to just ignore it but , you says it all...wonderful words..

I guess best way after your spouse pass away is not to remarry. The other person who come into your life just want your money.

It's sad when haters have to put other's down in order to make themselves feel better. Keep up the good story May. I'm glad and proud of you. Have a bigger heart not to respond to those negative folks. That is what they want you to do.

May don’t mind these haters! Keep being you, continue to tell stories.

Koj hais yog lau

ku.txhiia tsab vwj ok ❤❤❤❤❤😊

May, hope you donate to the family of the fire since you seem to be well off.

Cov yawg nrauj yeej tsuas yog los kaus poj ntsuam nyiaj xwb tsis yog hlub tiag2 txhob ntshaws txiv lawm mog es yuav muab peb cov nyiaj rau yawg nrauj thiab yawg tsuag siv ces xum muaj rau peb cov me nyuam si tas los zoo dua mog.

Vim yog noj yuav yuav rab diav pw yuav2 rab ntsia noj xav yuav rab rawg pw nthis xav yuav rab ntsaws ne.

Lesson learned! Thanks for sharing.

You are the Hmong best story teller ever. Forget about those toxic people. Continue your journey

Kuv tsis totaub hais tias uacas yuav xav yuav txiv ualuaj no Li thiab. Yus twb muaj nyiaj txaus siv lawm nyob Ib leeg los yeej tsis ua lucas li loma.

Niam ntsuab Teev, peb cov hmoob ces Leej twg lub neej zoo tshaj lawv ces lawv Txhob txwm rhuav yus xwb. Txhob cia tej lus phem ntawv txo yus. Keep doing what you’re doing. Let people talk all they want. You’re doing great

Ever heard of prenuptial agreement? It's the best way for widowers/divorcees if you have NO trust.

Very true. Is important to have life insurance. Is not just for the elderly like some people think.

Niam hluas may kaj tsij pw tsaus2 zog xwb tsi txhob tawm ib los lus mus rau cov neeg es xa hais yus qhov phem kom nws xa tias nws ua tau khib yus mob yus no nas ❤️

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Lady u should have stayed single. He was only after ur money.

May....li cas los kuv tseem nyiam koj heev os .

Ua tsaug koj qhia koj zaj dab neeg rau peb os.

Hmong people do not understand that sometimes silence is gold. You see celebrities ignoring negativity all the time?!? Rumors are rumors. Unless you hear it yourself from that person, don’t be so easily gullible. If you say the world is flat.. sure whatever floats your boat. Leave May alone!!

I'm So Glad For Millions Of These Stories! I Would Never Ever Re-Married Again Ever ... If You Have Money, They Used You, If You Don't Have Money, They Use You For Being Stupid So They Can Control You .. Thanks For Everyone's Story!! Imma Die Alone Because Good Hearted People Always Get's Treated The Worst!! Being In Peace Is Better Than Being With The Wrong One & If He Is Not The Right One For You The Family Is Totally WRONG Too!!! These Men Who Get's To Be With Someone Who Has Money Is Lucky But They Always Blew It Because Their Intentions Isn't Good!! Very Sad, Why People Are So Cruel When It Comes To Money!! They Don't Deserve To Prosper, PERIODT!!

Kuv nyiam kj heev li os niam lau me

You women come and listen to May stories all the time but you never learn from the past stories 😅😂

Good lesson to learn for the future.

You're right. NOT all people listens to those negative rumors and stories because I don't..never even heard of such things. The greater goods always beat the bad.

😢 qhov kos tiag qhov peb nyob twj ywm tsi yuav txiv dua thov kom nej nco ntsoov tias nyiaj tag hnub twg kev hlub tag hnub ntawv yus yug ib leeg nyob ib leeg tuag ib leeg txhob mus rau txiv neej tsim tiam no txiv neej siab phem heev lawm yuav tsum xyom ntse txhob ruam vim txoj kev hlub mloog txiv tshiab liam tiam no tsim

Leej twg yuav hais li cas los kav liam os luag yeem hais ces yus yeem ntse xwb thov vaj tswv foom koob hmoov zoo zoo koj os mog

Keep up the good work may vang!! I listen to you everyday . God bless you and your family. Happy new year to you❤

Never share you fiancé earned by you and your ex to any man/woman. You never know what is truly in their heart and plans.

If they falsely accused you, you can take legal actions for defamation of characters.

Viv ncaus aw nws lam hlub koj kom koj ntseeg nws xwb tiag2 mas nws twb yuav npaj kaus koj li nyiaj os yog ib tug neeg xav hlub yus mas yeej tsis hais txog nyiaj mas thiaj yog hlub yus naw! Hos tus es pheej taij ua npe nrog yus tej nyiaj ces nco tsoov tias nws twb npaj kaus yus xwb!

Niam Tsuab Teev, ua neeg nyob teb ces txhua2 nywj keeb haiv neeg yeej muaj tus phem, tus rhuav tshem, tus khib, thiab ntau yam ntau tsav. Tus zoo ces yeej meem ua zoo. Txhob tag kev cia siab. Kuv yeej hnov cov ntawv tas lawm, txawm kuv tsis tau paub neb personally los kuv yeej paub tias neb yog neeg zoo thiab muaj lub meej mom thiab txiaj ntsim los ua tus qauv zoo rau peb.

The lady in the story should have a prenuptial agreement before marrying the 2nd Husband. All Hollywood stars have prenups so that if they get divorce later their money and properties stay with them.

Forget about these people that talking about you. They are just mad and jealous that they are doing good for yourself.

Cov niag poj ntsuam mas yeej liam tshaj plaws vim txoj kev khaus nkaus nyob tsis taus xwb nawb mog yus txiv tuag lawm tseg tej niag pob nyiaj luaj taub hau yus tsis xav noj vim yus txoj niag keV khaus xwb ib tug poj nrauj yeej paub hais tias cov niag yawg nrauj yawg ntsuag yeej siab phem yuav luag txhua tus poj nrauj yeej tsis lam khaws yooj yim cov niag uas ntshaw2 txiv tshaj plaws yeej tsis xaiv hais tias yog neeg phem Los yog neeg z😮mam khaws ces yog tib co niag poj ntsuam xwb thiaj li raug yawg nrauj qab choj kaus tag li xwb yeej ua tsis tau ib leej niam zoo pub rau tej me nyuam kiag li ua rau tej me nyuam poob ntej muag tag xwb tsis tsim nyog ua neeg nyob lawm os lawv

Tsis tag quav ntsej cov lus ntaw vim cov neeg phem no tsis tseem ceeb vim lawv hais lus zoo li dev tom kom lom zem xwb o. Vi ncaus aw rau2 siab rau yus neej txhob qaug zog nawb mog muaj cov coob2 yog cov zoo tseem txhawb neb o me vi ncaus.

I enjoy listening to how you tell your stories May. I try to listen to other story tellers but they aren’t neutral like you. So I come back and listen to you again. I love that you don’t let rumors bother you. Listening to you speak, you know so much better not to fall to their level.

We Hmong women need to know about prenuptial agreements especially when we are left with life insurance money and decide to remarry. Most divorcee Hmong men these days are looking for easy targets to scam Hmong widowers of their life savings. Peb cov poj niam hmoob tsis txhob ntshaw2 txiv thiab ruam ruam txog qhov ntseeg cov neeg siab phem qab choj no es yuav muab yus tej nyiaj mus rau. Yus tej nyiaj yog yus mus yuav txiv tshiab kav tsij muab ua yus tej me nyuam npe los yog ua ntaub ua ntawv cais kom meej meej tseg. Pab koj tu siab.

Ua ca e hmoob meke lo txog tim nplog no e nim tsab siab zoo ca lo mloog niam ntsuab teev cov neej neeg hai txog hmoob meka ma tu cwj pwm qia neeg tiag22 li kv mloog xwb kv twb ntxub lawm os ca hmoob meka tseem muaj ib txhia txiv neej qia2 neeg npaum no thiab na

Hmoob ces yeej zoo li no os

Vim tshaw tshaw kev hlub

Koj hais yog tshaj li lawm os sister May

It’s ok niam ntshuab Teev no one is perfect being human. As long as yus peem peem yus lub neej zoo lawm ces tsi k cov kihib khib yus.

Lol😂😂😂 koj dag li dag

Niam Ntsuab Teev, let people talk as long as you know yourself and your family. Just live peaceful, and forget rumors. God knows what's going on.

Niam ntsuab teev aw tsis txhob K K tej lus uas luag yuav hais li cas los xij peem os. Ua neeg nyob ces yeej tsis muaj leej twg yuav paub yus zoo tshaj li yus paub yus tus kheej li os. Yam yus tsis tau ua muaj los yus thiaj li paub tias tsis tau muaj yus ntseeg yus xwb. Hos tej yam yus ho ua tau muaj li cas lawm los yus tus kheej thiaj li paub xwb. Ua neeg nyob cov sab nraud lawv tsuas lam hais li lawv xav xwb.

Wow may you are a great speaker❤

So sorry you have to go thru drama , I just want to let you know I enjoy listening to you everyday

เป็นเรื่องธรรมดาคุณเปนคนเปนคนสวยคนชอบมีคนลิสญาก็ต้องมีคนชั่วๆ มันแรงกว่าคนดี

Tu niam tsev tsis tau txog caij npam os....koj saib ma txog hnub npam ces koj yeej yuav pom maj mam npam rau koj saib hos.....

Omg, woman!! I feel bad for her but you cant trust random loser with sweet words. Those words are thorns only! Ahhhh.

Dang..

Nej cov es lub neej niam nkauj txav qaib txiv nraug txav noog sib sib hlub es Nej thiajli maj maj ceev ceev vim xav tiam kev hlub yuav zoo li tus qub. Zaag nuav tsis zoo le zaam ub.

hais yog txhaj li og niam laus .kuv los kuj nyiam koj txoj kev xav heev vim kuv tsi nyiam thab tus ub tus no leej twg tsi muaj hauj ua xav muab yus hais ua dog ua dig los nyob txin ntawm nws tej zaum tus ntawm kawg laj lim txwv ym lawm thiaj muab lwm tus hais hais mus tsau qhov tsi zoo yus nyob txij qhov yus pom zoo ua txij qhov yus nyiam uas yog txhua yam zoo zoo thov kom neb ib niam txiv thiab neb tsev neeg txuas ntsib kev noj qab nyob zoo mus ib txhis 👏👏👏👍👍👍👍👍❤

May, you are a classy lady for not being like those people who are causing these rumors. How you handle all the things thrown at you are always on point! Yes! Don’t let those things even bother you. You’re doing a great job at your storytelling. Happy New Year to you and your family May.

You don't deserved the money. You are not meant to be rich. It's a lesson for you for life.

Hais 6 poj ntshuam thiab cov poj nrauj ob co no poj ntshuam xub tau txiv vim poj ntshuam muaj nyiaj ces cov txiv neej no lawv nyiam thiab g nyiam los xum xaiv poj ntshuam 6 qhov lawv yeej paub zoo 2 hais tias poj ntshuam tau nyiaj ntau 2 ces lawv yuav pw noj pw haus raws li lawv lub hom phiaj lawv tau xav tseg lawv cov txiv hmoob xaij maiv no ces yog txiv kub txiv kaus lawv xwb tus niam tsev aws koj txhob tu siab 6 txiv neej hmoob uas koj tau yuav ib zaug ntawd kev npam yeej muaj xwb g tau txog lub caij npam xwb muaj ib hnub twg ces tus txiv neej siab phem no yuav rov qab hu koj xwb 2 os

Don’t worry sister. Karma will get him one day. Just watch.

That's why mekas pple have pre-nuptial agreement to protect their money & properties.

Take your chances

To May If it’s not true what they said. You should tell your story up in the air because when you don’t. Most likely it’s true what people think you have something to hide. Just wanted to let you know that you should be consider about it.

Koj ntse tsis npaum niag yawg nrauj siab phem ntawv os pab hlub koj kawg li os