Actually, when the other video came out, I thought it was just for a show, and they would end up not talking with each other anymore. But when I checked their Instagram, I was surprised to see that the popular girl was following her, and so was she. It feels really genuine. Both of them are beautiful in their own way
Ahh the sexual harassment that comes with being pretty is seriously disgusting. Do those guys not realize they're being creepy? That they don't have a chance with her when they act like that?
@@NunyabusinesssaI feel like in asia in general they really don’t care about harassing girls etc. They hate feminists and we all know why. Honestly some guys might be more normal with women but most of them just do what they want and think nothing is wrong.
Eh that's always going to be a thing on the internet, best you can do is ignore though the gender dynamics are bit different. For men, it's when they're higher status like a popular singer, for women, it's the attractiveness scale since each gender values different things. The more irrelevant a man is and the uglier a woman is, the more invisible they will be. You get the weirdos out but at the same time you end up lonely too. I think a balance is the sweet spot so mid people have it best lol.
It seems to me that Yujin doesn't have many female friends and is enjoying the bonding time she's been having with Jiahn through these videos. I know they follow each other on their socials, so I hope after all the Giggle shootings they remain friends.
Idk correct me if i'm wrong her friends from highschool were fake they only be friends with her during that time after graduate they not even contact her anymore idk correct me if i'm wrong.
@@Deeznat69they weren’t exactly fake but they did misunderstand her personally and didn’t really think to ask how she was feeling in the moment like the whole “I’ll take your lunch tray for you” thing was probably out of kindness but they never really asked
@@Deeznat69Most ppl lose contact after high school, it’s more common than staying in contact imo, especially if you stay at uni full time and don’t go to visit your hometown. I’ve also had a lot of friends delete their social media and change their number since it’s been a few years now and I can’t contact them easily at all.
I'm not sure if I'm right , correct me if I am. In one of those giggle videos the popular girl had said that many girls would call her a pick me for being around guys and and some girls would get close to her so that they can indirectly get close to guys she's friends with.
I just feel since she’s really pretty often times pretty people don’t have genuine friends since the friends envy. It’s more common for pretty girls to not have a lot of girl friends since yk and often have more male friends.
Idk why but seeing the girls laugh at the guys trying to flirt and they compare their differences in their phone it just made my day. Seeing them be genuine and enjoy themselves
After watching the video, I feel like at first glance people may be dismissive towards Yujin's (girl on the right) problems because we all think that she's pretty, popular and even has a nice personality so her life must be great. But after hearing from her about the sexual harassment she faces (seriously, back off, creeps!), I realized that I was unfairly judging her. Just because someone's life seems like the perfect package doesn't mean it is. I, for one, wouldn't want to be bombarded by creepy phone calls and texts from random strangers or to go through each day wondering if people like me for whom I am or for my face. I relate more with Jiahn (girl on left) and her experiences, but that doesn't mean I get to undermine Yujin's struggles.
Yeah it's bad that there are creeps like that. But many would rather have creeps and be pretty with all the perks than being ugly with no creeps. Also many girls do get creepy messages even if they're not pretty, so it's not really about being pretty but a small percentage of men that are out of touch (incels/creeps).
@@asqsawdaw9304 tbf its korea so its not a small percentage of men. i havent lived in a lot of countries so maybe my opinion means nothing to u but i faced the worst sexual harassment in korea. i know that as a foreigner i will be targeted more than a korean person but imo sexual harassment in korea is on a different level and even the things that korean girls find normal is very wrong outside of korea. before i went to korea i also thought it is small percentage of men bc u know there r creeps everywhere. but after seeing this side of their culture i really feel bad
@@asqsawdaw9304 It's usually those who don't get a lot of attention think they'd rather get chased, and people who get a lot of unwanted attention think they'd rather be left alone. I guess people aren't great at appreciating what they have.
@@asqsawdaw9304 Hmm, I don't think so. I believe you are undermining the severity of sexual harassment. It really messes with your brain, makes you more insecure, and many people look down on people who have faced sexual harassment. I don't think we should compare and contrast being "pretty" or "unpretty". Each side has a different perspective, equally bad and good.
@@asqsawdaw9304I would suggest u better rethink about this 😅. Seriously there are cases of creeps or stalker to the point where they are delusional/psychotic that they follow the ladies wherever they go, send them nude/sexual pics, and even break into their house. Do u really want to have these kind of 'perks'? 😅 I would rather have no one pay attention to me at all rather than being constantly anxious n worried if somebody is following me everywhere
I relate to Jiahn so much when she said she prefer taking pictures of other people than herself. I am the kind of person who loves to take pictures of people who means to me most, but mostly i take pictures of the sky and the sunset. Taking pictures of myself never gives me the same satisfaction as taking pictures of other things, its not that im insecure and embarassed, it is just what makes me happy and I currently made it a habit now. 😅
This is so true, i realized this during a time I had to delete some photos for storage. i found how most of my pictures were my classmates,friends,family, or me with them; I cherish the idea of capturing moments with others than capturing moments where I feel pretty hehe
Very true , My camera roll recap option came at the end of the year and it was filled with pictures of school notes 😂 nothing else Throughout the whole year I didn't take a single pic of myself. Not saying I'm insecure , it's just too awkward tbh.
I tuink they meant like unpopular by not being known by alot of people at your school, The popular girl probably has alot of friends and is probably known by most people at her school? Idk
It is, but that's her current life. What they mean by unpopular is her life in middle school (if I remember it correctly), like how she was always bullied and being the castaway. You should watch their previous interviews, I think that'll give you a little more insight to the meaning of unpopular here.
alright but can we talk about how they just handed each other their PHOTO ALBUMS like if someone got into my photo albums..........they'll just see anime guys and random food pictures......but like this is just such a SWEET DUO it's so genuine and it's just beautiful.......... 😍
This is so relatable. I have women’s body in cute clothing too bc I’m an artist, a absurd amount of pictures of my dog, n screen shots from tik tok lol
right? i could never hand off my gallery like that... the thought of someone seeing all my photos of idols and pretty pinterest girls makes me shudder.
I hope they became friends after all this, they both seem so kind and supportive of each other despite having different experiences. They look way more comfortable interacting in this video compared to the first video!
Great experiment by giggle! It shows that popularity doesn't define a person. Everyone has unique interests and personalities. The phone swap is a eye opener to how diverse or similar people's lives and social circles can be. Let's remember that popularity shouldn't determine anyone's worth. Embrace individuality and kindness in our interactions. Kudos to both girls in the video! #BeYourself #EmbraceDifferences
I actually cried when she said she likes to take pictures of her friends rather than herself it’s like as same I felt same as she was telling my story listening to her 😭😭😭😭
Yujin reminds me of Karina of æspa, she's gorgeous. Jihan is down to earth, genuine. I'd love to see these two remain friends, as they have a great dynamic.
"you take their lovely moments and you carry them in your phone" is such a sweet sentiment. it makes you wonder how many of your friends have pictures of *you* that they took for you, not with you, and haven't deleted it because it means something special to them.
When the girl on the left (Jiahn*) talked about preferring to take photos of other people instead of herself I felt that, it's the reason why I mostly take pictures of food but never of myself. I have an entire album dedicated to food XD. Even just now I was trying to buy glasses and took a photo of myself wearing a pair of glasses with new frames (because I can't see without my glasses lol), and when I looked at the photo I just felt so... disgusted with my own face. I could pinpoint a hundred flaws in it and I deleted it immediately. Edit: *I had to go back to check how to spell her name! Edit 2: Also Jiahn finding out random stuff on her phone is so relatable 😂 because I also don't check my phone often. Sometimes I vanish for days and my messages all pile up.
your beautiful i really promise that i hope you realize soon that everyone was made beautiful in their own unique way. even if probably a lot of people told you this, its just - its just the truth, cause everyone is beautiful including you, your flaws make you really unique
you know growing up i realized many "flaws" i was blaming myself for were actually some ordinary and natural features of many people or even unique for my own self. I mean i really found out that the hatred i had was so unnecessary and there are many pretty people with the same look on that parts i was so insecure about. I know we are not always happy with the combination we got as a whole (and i do still get insecure about many things) we do get affected by the society's mindset that are already based on beauty standards but if we think about it beauty is so subjective that almost everyone have their own take on it, although it's not that original sometimes. but really we don't have to think about it the same! there's beauty within many shapes and patterns and colors, there's beauty on uniqueness so why not ourselves and how different we happen to be? i hope you realize that soon that the so called flaws and ur overall face, popular or unpopular, neat and defined or not, 'pretty' or not, are natural and beautiful not disgusting.
i literally have hundreds of cloud pictures in my gallery and no pictures of myself. but recently i noticed if i play with the colours etc. on the photo a bit i actually look flattering, my camera just captures light and colours horribly
I relate like I do take selfies but I really don't like getting pics from the back camera clicked and it sometimes really makes me sad like say I went out somewhere with my friends, I'll always take their best shots and if someone asks me, I refuse saying that I'm fine, it's fine. Trying to get over it slowly. :') I can't even look at my past pics without cringing because I don't like my appearance and it's just sad, lol. Here's wishing we both overcome our mindset ❤
I have a friend. I know her for 13 years. When we met we were 6. We used to call her nation's crush. She is really beautiful and talented. Recently she got into med school. Every boy wanted her as his girlfriend. I mean why not. She was topper, smart and beautiful. She used to talk with boys as friend. But when they proposed her she rejected them by saying I am not ready or not interested. But then they started accusing her for giving wrong signals and using them. Beautiful girls have their own hardship and struggle.
Yeah, while ugly girls who reject guys or express discomfort with harassment and catcalling are told that they should be “grateful of getting any attention.” The struggle doesn’t come from being beautiful. It comes from being a woman. I was ugly when I was younger, and got pretty privilege later, and the people did become much nicer and patient with me. But I received harassment, unwanted attention, and being accused of leading people on regardless of whether I was ugly or pretty. I was sexually harassed both when I was ugly and when I was pretty, except when I was ugly, the guys just brushed it off as “it was just a joke!! You should be happy we gave YOU attention!!” IThere are SO many advantages to being pretty and it’s honestly hurtful to see people continually shut ugly women down by saying “well pretty people have it hard too!”
FOR real is almost as if girls needs to be cruel for them to no missundertand ... But i Guess also like that they Will SEE what they want "she is playing hard to get" 😅
Jiahn has a very refreshing personality! I feel like that alone is very attractive, more than looks which can often only give you just a good first impression
Interesting. It's always great to look at yourself from an outsider's perspective. Often you find things you need to work on, and also a lot to be grateful for. What caught my attention was the unpopular girl explaining away her lack of self-pictures as her liking to take more of others. If she digs deeper on that, It's more likely her insecurity with her looks that might be the actual reason. I mean sure, there are people who don't like taking selfies but if your gallery has such a vast desparity between your own and others esp. when there are potraits of others. That says something. I did go through a period in my own life dealing with that. I'm a decent looking guy, was never completely out of shape but I lacked confidence. Mostly cos of my vision issues (made me crosseyed randomly, was mocked for it growing up), and I also didn't have anything I was particularly good at or could be proud of. So throughout my teenage years, I was camera shy. My gallery was always full of nature pictures and mostly other people. I never wondered why, and just assumed it was just me being a natural introvert and my reserved, serious personality. Only in recent years, after learning about psychology and listenning to a lot of podcasts and books about confidence and self reflections, I went back and dug into myself. I realised that back then I was simply afraid of being mocked further If a picture/video happens to catch me crosseyed. And over the years, more insecurities got added to it. "I'm not as good looking as them, not shredded" etc to eventually convincing myself I just like taking pictures of others. To save myself and my pride from having to admit I'm not normal, my eyes weird some people out, or worse, earning me pitying gazes. And that, it all makes me more ugly than the average guy. I overcame it all gradually once I found things I was better at than most of my peers. Started working out, built my body confidence, started to feel better about myself and before I knew it, I started to have more pictures of myself. Still not a fan of selfies but I am usually included in the frame. Unlike back then, I don't go out of my way to avoid being photographed. The nature pictures though, is still a majority. Found out I just do like nature a lot :) For people who are going through something similar. Just find something you're good at. It could be something as insignificatly simple as you being the one who can draw the most realistic faces in your peer group/family. Just pick something you feel is worth getting good at. Then find time everyday to practice it, even 10 minutes. If you miss a few days, just get back to it. And in just a few months to a year, you'll be decent at it. Very likely better than most people in your immediate surroundings. Believe me, once you have just one thing, one skill you can be proud of, something you put genuine effort for and earned. That confidence, there is nothing more empowering that that. And that confidence will give you the confidence to try a slightly harder skill. And on and on. For me, it was just having the biggest collection of english sayings and idioms on a notebook because well, no one else was into such a "weird" thing. That was me at 11. By 13, I was scribbling my own immature thoughts. By 15, I was the best poet in my circle, cos again no one was into it. By 20, I was the most proficient english speaker around, which was finally something everyone wished for and needed. (fyi English is my third language) So yeah, start where you can. Everyone starts somewhere. Keep stacking those small skills and achievements. I love how Alex Hormozi puts it: "You don’t become confident by shouting affirmations in the mirror, but by having a stack of undeniable proof that you are who you say you are. Outwork your self doubt."
What I dislike about this video is probably because of the title saying unpopular vs popular. We already have enough comparisons in life lol. But what I do like about this video is to show how both sides got along and genuinely chatted a good conversation. I’m actually so happy to show both sides are equally important in life. It shows balance and most importantly they’re goddamn positive with each other. I’m here to say screw looks and unkind words. Even though unkind words may be true, using in a bad way to say it. Those people aren’t any better from the typical bad guys or gals in life. Those types are just encouraging it. That’s why I’m here to just appreciate those 2 wonderful people up there because they are both super amazing. ❤ And I’m sure you guys are amazing too. ❤️❤️❤️. Good morning/day/night to you all strangers of the world 👏👏👏
As someone who had both experience (the unpopular bullied student and pretty popular student) It truly really hard to find a real female friend as "popular and pretty" girl. Because most girls have competitive heart. Some girls find it hard to be with me because they're not confident enough with their appearance and some who confident with it always trying to compete about it. So tiring. The one I always hang out in my "popular" era was someone who also popular but has different style with me. So when people compliments me, she was like "ah, she is their type. Not because I'm uglier than her"
Hahahaha me too, i start to have female Friends when i got FAT, i Guess they didnt find me intimidating anymore xD .... I GOT Noew a thyroid metabolic issue i'm not longer s size, i'm L, now i have more female Friends that i Even had in My life, honestly i prefer them that all the attetion i had from males before, they all pretend to like me as a person, wow i was SO special, Unique but the moment i got FAT all this people that praise me start to mock me 😢, told me to dieta, told me not to let myself go, as if i wanted to get fat due to My hormonal inbalance ... Men are so shallow i Lost all My male Friends ...weird RIGHT 😂
@@AyAReI00 lol the men are indeed like that. But girls are the same. The female friends that I trust and still in touch until now (I'm in my 30s now) was the one who became my friends when I was "nobody". There was also one time that a guy who suddenly chasing after me (like crazy, he even changed his department because of me) after I turned popular and even asked "why I never saw you before" which is funny, because I actually was a part of his circle before.
@@AyAReI00Me too. When I got fat, all the guys interested in me or would interact with me stopped interacting with me. To them I slowly stopped existing! In my experience, makes inside and outside my family are very shallow.
i love the way their paying attention and be humble to each other. i mean, not every people will happy to do useless conversation but look at them ... seems comfort and appreciate all the words that spoken
Meanwhile my gallery: 0% photo of myself 5% photo of me with my family and with my friends 5 % random pic/screenshoot 40% screenshoot about anime, comic & movie 50% idols photos
I have noticed the more popular you are the less genuine friendships you have you’d think being unpopular will be the loneliest but being popular and having no genuine connection with others really sucks.
wonderful interactions and shared stories between people from the same area but totally different lived experiences, love to see it. what i don't love to see so much are the popular girl's lips and eyes (triggered a moderate uncanny valley response). south korea would benefit greatly if one of its most popular idols sparked an anti-cosmetic surgery movement (in my irrevelant opinion).
After watching this video, I’ve come to realize that I’m not the only person facing insults and harassment because of my features and weight. I can say that I absolutely relate with this girl and I love the fact that she opened up about her past. I don’t think I can ever tell someone about mine. I’ll just break down crying infront of them and I don’t like to look miserable in front of someone 😭😅
It’s really sad to see how even the “perfect” ones get hurt as well, jiahn doesn’t deserve this you two are so pretty and cute too! Hope you all the good luck and keep your head up and be proud of urself❤❤.
Basically anyone has their own unique struggles. I just finished 9th grade and I had a female classmate. Our class considered her very pretty, and the delinquents would often talk about her body and how badly they want to do "stuff" to her. I sat between the delinquents, so I would often hear what they're talking about.
Tbh I didn’t care for this concept at first with the 1st episode but now I’m so obsessed with this series of the 2 of them😭I really enjoy seeing how they interact ❤
This is sad…either being Fat or ugly you’ll still get bullied. Being skinny and pretty you get harassed. This world is so cruel☹️. Not even perfect atp.
Nice to see them back in a video (recently watched the previous one with them!) and them delve deeper into their lives/issues. They're sitting closer to each other and are both more comfortable. The last video I saw a lot of comments saying Yujin was faking being nice, her life isn't bad compared to Jiahn, that she's ungrateful for being beautiful, along with other stereotypical assumptions/sayings. T_T I love this.
Just stumbled on this thanks to the lovely algorithm. Wasn't expecting to like this so much. Yujin, at first glance it may seem you have it all; but I am sure you go through so much more for having the spotlight fall on you. Mental, emotional turmoil. Bearing it can get heavy :( I've gone through some of it, but not to your extent... 😔I can only wish you wouldn't have to go through the stalking (CRIME. How can nothing be done about it?? IP address, etc.???) As a fellow woman I just want to say I am rooting for you always. There may not be much within our power to counter outside forces, but vigilance always helps.
Let me summarise this fast : People who are perceived beautiful get a pass on a lot of stuff that ugly people don't. Both can have bad experiences but it's clear who you would rather be if given a choice .
@@deathmaxineBut when it comes to grape , harassment , beauty is not a thing here . The fact is that a girl was harassed/graped that should be enough for you to feel bad for Yujin