She’s going try to shove this marriage down us and Dennis’ throats by any means necessary all because she’s trying to save face and prove The Factory wrong
samahj ... yep she did try to tell her, but most women have on blinders if their mind is set to get that man, they figure they will deal with the truth later, thinking that they can change em, big mistake Porsha, he keep telling you he’s not going to be commuting for two hours back and forward to his businesses, I don’t know how y’all going to work this out, we shall see
samahj Hate to ask u this but can u plz tell me what kanji been telling her bc not been able to see few episodes... thanx if u can and have an awesome day!!
I think she is just desperate to have the successful husband & family cuz thats what women are supposed to have in her head. U see what she put up with in Cordell & she would still be with him had he not filed for divorce 1st. And a few yrs ago she was trying to give a random guy a contract to get her pregnant
@@falidisu2139 did you see anything in this comment "attacking" Kenya? Infact most of these comments are about how dumb Porsha is being to stay with this man so what are you even talking about?
I feel like dennis was probably overweight and unattractive all of his life, so now that his success attravts women he wants to partake on what he missed out on his entire life. PJ was unplanned, meaning he didn't make the conscious decision to become a father. It just happened. Having a baby doesn't mean hes ready to leave all of those fast women behind.
Agreed and typical hetero woman. Way too many put up with anything and wonder why they get the shitty end of the stick. He cheated and she still took em back and was sleeping with em before the they even went to counseling she’s apart of the problem.
Therapy sucks for husbands. The counselor knows that therapy is usually the wife's idea and everything has to be the husband's fault or the wife will keep shopping for a therapist until she finds one she likes.
@@MonarchPoolPlaster I guess that could be true. What does your statement have to do with this situation? Dennis cheated while his partner was pregnant. Is there an honest excuse for that?
1:46 "I think once we kept going to counseling, it came to 'He did it because he was selfish and that was something he wanted to do." That came out of PORSHA'S mouth in this very video that you just watched and are now commenting on. So how is it that you think you're telling her something she doesn't know when she already said it? All of that hate in you that's just mad at her for having a man when you don't is clouding up your ears. Try to lose the envy and focus on what's being said.
I don’t think it was as much an excuse as it is something that impacted his decision. At the end of the day, it is ultimately his responsibility for making those decisions that led to infidelity, but relationships require work by both individuals.
@@droosyg252 Yeah, so what he's saying is that when Porsha was at her lowest mentally & physically, that's when he decided to cheat on her. Dennis' decision to cheat is a reflection of who he is. Trash, basically.
Yes indeed! I agree! Porsha said it in a nice way that some times it is as simple as they cheat to cheat! But she said it so quick that I don’t think people caught it! But Dennis is crap and does not deserve Porsha
@@Srpskiiiv in my 50 years of life experience I have never witnessed a relationship recover completely from infidelity. The resentment the betrayal the doubt never ever goes away and leads to a miserable life. Just my opinion.. .
Knowing that we don't live w them and see their everyday.. But I don't know why her or Kenya need or want a man so damn bad, that everything gets ignored. Personally I'd rather be by myself then to sit here and explain my relationship. Suppose to be enjoying it, not defending it.
Wendy Lucas EXPECIALLY Kenya... she use to talk so much shot bout having a man for a while and then gets divorced like 5 min of marriage... feel kinda bad bc I think Kenya can be a good person... but plays the villain and tries to be so tough for the show... I truly believe she has like a protective shell over herself... least she had a BEAUTIFUL baby out of it bc Mark is no good and the way he to her on last episode wonder if he will even be a good dad? Also I love Cynthia feel bad for her her to bc she need to toughing up bc she to nice lets ppl walk on her... like Nene they were super close and not no more... but Nene treats her bad and Cynthia really wanted her friendship back... and i hope she finds a man soon!!
D Michelle She said it wasn’t deep, but then went on to make it deep. And then sat there like a fool and agreed that the postpartum depression had a part to do with it. She truly is an imbecile smh
Captain Manda I just read that some blogger named Tasha ( I believe) says Dennis wants her to sign a pre-nup... fat as Google says porsha worth more... u think this true?
I think Porsha just wants him to be a family man because she wants a family so bad. I think she is fooling herself and don't want to accept the truth when it hits her in the face or someone tells her He knows she might walk away but she will come back. I pray i'm wrong for her sake.
Nene is very full of herself “I don’t start nothing with these girls. They start with me. It’s them, not me”. Accountability is not a strong suit of hers.
Lynette Weeks yes and to me she went from the old Nene trying to fight to down right messy. I used to like her but now i fast forward whenever I see her on. You supposed to have so much going on for yourself however only thing you focus on is how the other ladies move. And is it me (in my Funky Dineva voice) every thing she says about the other ladies, she is doing herself. Nene is the poster child for playing the victim.
Well @hotchedtojuice (btw you name is hilarious 🤣) her spitting at anyone warrants a beat down. Just my opinion. But Kenya has definitely pushed her share of buttons so that’s a bad example. As far as the production staff yeah she was out of line with that one.
She's fooling herself. She is in very deep denial about him and his cheating. And Tanya is enabling her with her own stupid comments agreeing that it is because he never had a woman like Porsha 🙄🙄This is not the last time he will cheat. He will do it again and again because he knows he can get away with it. One thing about Porsha is that she would not cheat on him. Too bad she always picks the wrong guys. A cheating dude is not worth any material things he can buy you.
Well it's like the blind leading the blind! Tanya been engaged to a man for 7-8 years, no plan for a wedding or this baby she wants. What else can you expect?
@D Michelle Oh stop with that nonsense as if Kandi did something wrong trusting Kim, she didn't go broke behind it so she's fine, it was the principle.
Yep. Know a man that cheated for half his marriage and was happy with his wife. He said the same..he cheats because he wants to, he know it’s wrong but as long as he takes care of home and his wife doesn’t find out it’s all good.
your ex never lied. and they also cheat because we make it too easy for them . there is always a women willing to cheat with them and always one willing to take them back .
Ronnie Williamson I love Porsha, but she’s a fool if she thinks that her and Dennis are going to last. Their foundation is weak and they never really got to know each other before embarking on the family/engagement journey. Besides Dennis is one of those forever bachelor types. He’s going to act like a good little man for the time being but he’ll be slipping very soon because I think that deep down he doesn’t want to be tied down to one woman.
I swear every time I see Dennis, I’m just like really Porsha? This was the only available man? She could’ve left him with them them chicks that he got tattooed on him.🤷🏽♀️
GIRL SHUT UP THAT MAN DIDN'T TAKE COUNCILING SERIOUSLY BECAUSE YOU WERE STILL SLEEPING WITH HIM BEFORE, DURING AND AFTER THAT INCIDENT. HOW CAN HE SEE HOW SERIOUS YOU ARE WHEN YOU ARE STILL GIVING HIM ACCESS TO YOU. HE IS STILL CHEATING.
I think the difference between Kenya’s relationship w/Cynthia and Nene’s is Kenya knows how to apologize. I can’t recall a time where Kenya shaded Cynthia and when called on it didn’t apologize
Melissa Walker right, & Kenya will listen to someone else’s point of view & is basically honest & knows how to communicate with other people. Nene does not know how to communicate; she has to get nasty, mean, holler & yell.
Melissa Walker but how many times does a person have to keep apologizing for the many times you keep shading your friend? Nothing against Kenya just wondering, because if I had a friend and I noticed they kept shading me I'll look at them different 🤨😒
Porsha don't care!! Rewind back she was the same with Kordell. Girl, just lie in front of your door and get used to him walking on you. What kind of example will she show Pilar? It's along road better strap up!
I don't even get what Porsha likes about the man. He's nothing to look at and I'm sure she can meet richer men. He has NO personality. Seems like a dimwit to me everytime he's on camera. Porsha's gorgeous and funny and successful. And then this funny looking beetle cheated!? I just don't get it.
Porsha slow. He cheated bc he wanted to, bc he didn’t respect his relationship, because that’s who he is. Kandi tried to warn her but she thought she was hating. Dennis uglass used to being able to play women. Porsha didn’t stay away long, cheaters don’t ever wanna feel like they don’t have the upper hand, that’s the only reason they beg for forgiveness and want to be back in the relationship , that allows them the upper hand.
@@quayhaim3552 Hey lady. I meant "new" in qoute because she is putting on a facade that she is strong and an intellectual but we all know she is still as gulliable and insecure per previous seasons. I was being facetious.🤭
You really think someone who was making millions upon millions would embarass themselves on reality tv? Lol, yall really act like Kandi was this HUGE multi-millionaire because she was a songwriter LOL hilarious! She wasnt! She got on RHOA and THEN capitalized off of that
Sandra Jean you’re tight she did capitalize But she was already a millionaire before coming on the show.....NeNe didn’t put her on. That was my point, Marlo pointed out that NeNe put them on, I disagreed with that.
@@shirajai Nene definitely didnt put her on because they didnt know each other, but a millionaire? Not too sure about that, in the early 2000s what would have made her a millionaire?
Shai Jai Kandi weren’t no millionaire before this, that is why she came on the show and she wasn’t even first pick. She only got the job because Tiny turned it down and referred her. Millionaire 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Porsha is so cringey with standing by Dennis. Some women really desire the idea of marriage, kids, and the perfect life, that they will stay with someone subpar just to say they "have a man". It's sad really.
I know right .. It really sad what women would put up with just to have a man. They are afraid to be alone which is absolutely nothing wrong with that. I rather be alone than in a relation ship being cheated on and disrespected.
I dont think she just wants to say she has a man, I think Porsha really craves love and wants to love someone as well. She wants to be happy and find someone who will work with her as her partner, support her, spoil her, but also understand she can stand on her own. She wants family and love and when she believes she's found that she gets attacked even when it toxic. This is just imo... she's a cancer and so am I. A lot of her actions remained me of myself.
Keila Medina Miller girl hush ! After 10 plus years she had ONE scuffle on TV! She told them NOT to film her closet and they were going to anyway. She had a right to get upset
Hotcheetojuice she ain’t put her muthafucking hands on Porsha stop that lie !!! We didn’t see the choke, you a Kim fan too? TRIED to spit and ACTUALLY spitting is two different things TRY AGAIN troll
I believe The character difference between Nene & Kenya is that when Kenya does wrong she apologizes. Nene never apologizes sincerely. She always try's to blame others to justify why she did wrong.
@Lainesha Henry So after you’ve apologized for something, you were perfect afterwards? Honestly, there’s a massive difference btw Kenya and NeNe. Kenya knows what she is on the show and plays it well. However, outside of the show it’s obvious that Kenya is a good person and admits when she’s wrong. Even though Kenya and Eva didn’t get along at first, Eva said Kenya called her almost everyday to make sure Eva had everything she needed while pregnant. Every opportunity Kenya gets she praises Cynthia and Kandi for being amazing business women. However, NeNe is the same miserable woman off the show as she is on it.
8:17 And even when we all found out that Apollo and Phaedra lied on Kenya, it was Kandi and Peter Thomas who told EVERYONE that Kenya deserved an apology. Then Phaedra went on to lie on Kandi and tell Porsha that Kandi planned on drugging her and committing sexual assault. Saying that Kenya and Kandi aren't real friends is like saying Nene and Marlo aren't good friends. Well...
I could see it in the episode when she told Dennis she was pregnant. He was surprised but also had that "oh shit" reaction. They moved too fast and she should have listened to what her friends were saying. Now that she has PJ ( beautiful baby) they can co-parent just fine. They're both great parents. You can't force a marriage. Everything Porsha ignored in the beginning is still there. Let the cards fall where they may.
Kelli Danielle yes! I was like I can’t be the only one to see he wasn’t genuinely excited she was but not him. That scene is always embarrassing for me to watch
She ain't learn nothing from her previous marriage to a DL man. Constantly blaming herself or how she contributed to him stepping out... Wtf? If the roles were reversed, he'd be gone and never look back.
Kenya and Kandi - joking, laughing, complimenting each other. Marlo and Nene - criticising and calling people names, complaining, disagree whether Nene has got Marlo's back. It's clear which friendship looks positive and real.
Nene is REALLY intimidated by Kandi!!! To think Kandi advocated for Kenya to come back? She really believes from the deepest of her guts that Kandi is powerful(which she is!) and it doesn’t give her sleep @ night. Sad!
Nene takes herself way too seriously, this isn’t a competition or contest. No ones thinking about u like that nene and U DO think ur the big dog u constantly say ur the queen of the show and felt threatened when U THOUGHT Kenya was trying to be the “queen” when rly she was just being herself. Nene’s too old to be acting like this
Nene says Kandi is in an alliance but the clips they used Kandi stood up for Cynthia both times. Kandi even wanted Kenya to forgive Nenes fake apology. Nene being the self proclaimed HBIC is driving her crazy
Kandi keeps her alliance in check. When she sees Kenya has crossed the line and making their alliance look bad is when she spoke up. But if you saw most of her after shows, you’d see how she rationalized Kenya’s foul behavior and at the very least giggled/laughed it off.
Porsha sounds delusional. She doesn't realise she's not even in a real relationship. Those flash backs of her purposely ignoring the red flags are embarrassing to watch. She thought it was all funny, now look at her.
She’s afraid to admit that she picked the wrong man because that would mean that 1.Kandi was right all along and 2. She’d have to find someone else. Southern women really stress the important of marriage so hard, especially being married to the guy who fathered your child even if he’s a dirt bag
Nash _ I feel that NeNe and Marlo has crossed the lines with each other and that’s the only thing they have in common. Nene supports Marlo and not a “ sugar daddy”
Throughout the seasons, Marlo has typically been a crass, 💩starter... It's hilarious seeing her sit here all kumbaya with these "diplomatic" comments... Sis tryna get that peach!😂😂😂
This is the product of jumping in bed with a man u dont know to have a kid ... she needs to build her self esteem up & get a grip on reality... Dennis belongs to the streets PERIOD. He's not husband material & she will keep fighting to get him to be something he doesnt want to be.
Nene is a narcissist. Shes projects onto others what she herself does. She has alliances that's why she cant believe Kenya has genuine friendships with the other ladies.
Valeria Moseley Kenya doesn’t have any genuine friendships on the show. Kenya is strategic and is ONLY befriending Kandi because Kandi begged producers to bring her back. Kandi thinks Kenya is her friend, but Kenya has ulterior motives.
Lala Steele I can post when and where I please. Apparently, you’re reading every comment if you can see my posts. Mind your business and get your life.
@@taraallenturner3485 Go back to the last after show and listen to how Eva talks about Kenya, and they weren't even close on the show. Now think about why absolutely no one talks about Nene the same way.
Porsha is lying same way she was covering for Kordell. Hope she gets counselling and leaves. But she’s stubborn and lies to herself that’s why she’s so dishonest to other people. She struggles to face reality. Hope she finds healing
She needs a lot of time alone w nature&pour her heart to GOD..GOD is awesome..I believe the right man is out there for her...&stop settling w somebody doesn't care about you&ur feelings...Porsha i hope u r listening to ur intuition.U have a beautiful daughter to raise...be a better example for her.nothing wrong w co parenting.
Nene calling Kenya a villain when she was a a villain for 8 seasons straight. Kenya was sooo wrong with the cookie lady but nene was trashing her friend on live tv for no reason some years ago .
Quay Styles umm and they had reasons to!! It wasn’t just out the blue!! She burned bridges with every one of them! What does that have to do with “forming an alliance”?? And whatever I’m definitely not going to condone Nene’s bad immature, non remorseful ways and actions and the turn around and play victim behavior! So if that’s a hater? Than I guess I am smh lol
Black women Stop thinking that just because you have a child with a man that it reassures you have security or a relationship! IT does not! Have higher expectations for yourself and the men that you sleep with because the signs were evident and they were there.
Porsha is submissive in relationships compared to when shes single, when she single shes the life of the party, shes fun and fiery but when shes ina relationship she is meek and agreeable. She tries to be what the men want her to be, she dosnt understand that if the man ain't shit to begin with, it doesnt matter what you do even if youre the best wife on earth, they will still do what they want, so she might as well just be herself and do what she wants
en cee I’m a Cancer too like Porsha and have felt a lot of her tribulations . Especially , during the same time as her I was carrying my son and there was another child from another situation brewing too . I had soooooo many signs and because of my personal ways I’ve been really truly learning to show my cards and stand firm . Thank God for growth and time I’m about to be 28 and takingggg my time and learning me .
I think her sadness is related to her postpartum depression. You have to remember she started filming in the middle of that. I would imagine having the whole world viewing you at your most vulnerable time is hard. You can put on a tough face and still be hurting on the inside.
@ pinky love - I remember the season after Porsha's divorce; Kordell complained 2 Peter Thomas about Ms. Diane being 2 involved in their marriage & poor boundaries.
erikverikv Kenya did the exact same thing! She instigated snake gate, which was none of her business. She talked ugly about NeNe to Marc, who basically told her she was the issue. Marc stood up for NeNe because he knows Kenya is a liar and an instigator. She talked about NeNe in most of her confessionals. The only times Kenya didn’t talk about NeNe was when she was ruining Marlo’s event, telling lies about Marc, and meddling in Tanya’s and Paul’s business. Kenya was even on social media making posts about NeNe.
He should have, but he didn’t! So, if we drop everyone that made a mistake we’d be moving on for life. We fall short everyday, some worse than others but nonetheless people need to be forgiven. However, they need to understand the consequences of their actions.
I love Porsha but her man isn't worth the committment that she is willing to povide. It just seems like she is doubling down on a bad decision. The things that Kandy had been telling her at the beginning seems to be coming to pass.
Essex123 456 She was there asking Kandi and “The Factory” to back off, trying to fight Dennis’ ex while being pregnant, and engaged in some pretty cringeworthy blissful ignorance. I don’t care for Nene, but she gave her great advice when she said to get to know this man some more before you say he’s the one. What college did he go to? Now look at where she’s at.....Egg all on her face 😔
I feel you but what is she moving on to considering she's in Gaylanta? We gotta stop acting like there's a plethora of heterosexual, financially stable black men out here. Fact is, the pickings are slim, smh.
I do not mean to be THAT person but um... excuse me? lmaooo I have grown to like Porsha a lot but the excuses she gave for Dennis made my head hurt. Obviously, they have something that works for them & I'm happy for her if that's what makes her happy HOWEVER whatever reason he has for cheating is irrelevant & it shouldn't take him breaking you down to a place of vulnerability for him to understand that esp after having his child ?? maybe that's just me though 😬
She's trying to save face. She probably got pregnant during the first date and she tried to spin it and it's blown up in her face. Everyone warned her but she thought she wasnt gonna get cheated on...
Didn't Porsha start dating him last year when filming for the show started. The crap that comes out of her mouth stinks worst than what comes out of a horse. SMH, cause I like her but she knew who he was. And she rushed into pregnancy and a proposal.
Ronnie Williamson I don’t think she rushed into pregnancy, she happened to get pregnant and she was dating this fella and I guess she thought that they could make it work. Now the engagement was definitely rushed! Just because you’re having a baby with someone doesn’t mean that you need to be engaged/married or even in a serious relationship with the person. I don’t think that they will last unfortunately. But I’m sure they’re going to be great coparents.
Ronnie Williamson I agree. I think she thought that maybe she could be THE ONE that could change him from a player to a partner. He most likely was telling her everything she wanted to hear but that just gave her such a false sense of security. I adore Porsha and I so want to see her happy, with or without Dennis but I hope that they could co-parent amicably.
@@Muffinga pregnancy is a choice my dear. She could have prevented it if she wanted to like all the other men she didn't get pregnant for. She rushed in and now expect him to fall in line. No foundation was established
She Radiance it’s funny how nene, the main one that always calls ppl lapdogs, is so adamant that someone being a good friend shouldn’t be viewed as a lapdog 🙄 she’s such a hypocrite
& it wasn't 3 seasons ago Porsha was basically Begging a Man with kids for a Child with No commitment. Now she's All About OUR FAMILY, but We don't Live together
Porsha has low self esteem, she can see Dennis don’t want to be married, he is not ready to commitment, stop being so desperate for a man, Dennis is the wrong man he don’t want u like that u just like all the other girls to him!!!!!! He is a cheater and u can’t change him, girl move on!!!
I agree with you 1000%. Not saying women who don’t look like her should take mess, but baby, I would not be settling with a body and face like that. Porsha can get any man she wants and I just hope he makes her happy in future.
@Niccii 2Tiimes You have misunderstood me. All people with goodness within them deserve true love. I'm just saying that Porsha is beautiful, seemingly both inside and out and therefore should never settle. My self esteem is in the right place and I have God to thank for that. Take care.
@@taraallenturner3485 So you think getting cheated on while pregnant with animals is better than a husband holding his family down and minding his business?
Valeria Moseley has any of that been validated? Is there any proof of these allegations? Furthermore, Todd doesn’t have to cheat. He can just bring the woman home because Kandi is a willing participant.
PSA : women don’t ask enough questions actually.. questions vs interrogation are two different things 😄 Don’t be scared to “push” a man away by simply asking questions
Because Kenya is a snake.. Nene is a type of person that will tell you the truth and sometimes it's hard to hear the truth when you got a whole bunch of yes man's in your ear..
@@Mad_Beefs Ken has disrespected nene marriage,she talked about this lady on every chance she get all you heard from ken speaking about this whole season is nene nene nene nene. Now it comes out that all of them got an alliance to exit Nene outand then she tried to turn on Porsche and say oh I got receipts because you wanted to alienate Nene out not just nene Phaedra, Marlow, vivica Fox, her bestie Cynthia Kim fields who did nothing to her, the girl is just dirty.. and you know it...💯💯💯💯
@@indiam4008Girl, I hope you didn't hurt yourself with all the reaching you just did. Nene at the Season 7 reunion came for Ken. Ken clapped back with let's about you flirting with Peter.
Lily In The Valley I agree with you that they all do the same things to each other. Also, I feel that Kandi is neutral; she doesn’t take sides unless someone is wrong. I’m not to crazy about Kenya because she did a lot of shady stuff like the cookie lady and the drum line and bringing her hair products to Marlo’s wig release party, flirting with Phaedra’s husband. Oh yeah and how Kenya tried to shade Marlo at her husband’s charity event when she had her two nephews. I noticed that throughout the seasons that she’s been in that she would instigate and bring up other people’s business when they would all be together eating but gets mad when someone do it to her. Oh yeah and I didn’t like how she put Cynthia on the spot asking all those questions pertaining to wine. I like all the others but not crazy about Kenya...
@@Juanique2707 I could not have said it better... You hit the nail on the head. She's very disrespectful to say the least. Do you remember how she flirted with Phaedra's husband. He was wrong too. Kenya is that chick that you have to ignore as long as you can. She seeks reactions because she's so empty inside. Its unfortunate but she is such a lost person.
Marlo is Nenes lapdog. The only thing she does is ridicule Kenyas infertility issues, marriage issues, And parental abandonment. Ironic because Marlo has no mom, kids, or husband herself.
Marlo is still talking about kenya then wonder why she crash that damn wig party. Kenya wasn't even on last season and marlo was always talking about her.
Sadly, everyone was on good terms. And kenya admitted she did that, for revenge from the mom comments. Past season. But really kenya dont like marlo. And that's okay she just needs to realize nobody wants to steal her friends.
Lies, they were never on good terms. Marlo at cythina's gatherings said that Kenya has water in her bottles and that Kenya didn’t have any real products. Kenya then turn around and crashed Marlo’s wig event to hand out her products . Stop lying on Kenya