they only say “sorry” or “im joking” when you start crying. edit: im really sorry for all the people who have experienced or had a similar experience to this 🙁
I can relate to this a lot actually. My guy bsf says I'm ugly and flat then he's like "I'm joking" but wut he says is rlly rude and it make me more incurre abt myself more and more bc ppl at my school already call me fat and over weight. But the more he does it the more it hurts and he's calls me mean names and most of them are abt my looks and appreciate. A lot of this shit hurts and some ppl JS don't rlly understand or can relate to it but most real friends would never do this so JS to say is "never let anyone bring u down love yourself for who u r and if friends calling u names or be mean drop them there fake leave them behind u."
This really hits hard i play with my best friend online almost every day and now for some reason shes been telling me to go away and she said she would unfriend me and it made me cry and now she never plays with me but whenever she says those things she always says "i forgive you 😊" but it still makes me cry when she says it. :(
Guys even tho u are skinny doesn't mean that u have the worst day ever it depends on the life that are lord give beauty doesn't make happiness always keep yourself safe ( this video made me cry because my bff always say that to me..) I hope this helps
Because i was hated by everyone and kept being called gay because i dont punch and never do something bad and my freind made a prank about dumping me that made me cry 2x time and he was freinds with my enemies i was annoyed and never left alone... 💔💔💔
"Friends aren't real until they make you cry, or hate yourself. Friends are real if they dont make fun of you, or not leave you." -my dad Rest in peace father. Fly high..
The fact that I forgave a lot of my friends even though they made me cry/hurt me a bunch of times that proves that I don't want to lose my friends and don't have much Edit: I think I'm done with my fake "friend" y'all
I get you, I have one funny friend, that skinny shames me, but not the other " friend " my funny friend and she her " 1st friend " made terrible jokes .. like, " that's why you're parents hate you" and when I joke about our friendship " they say, " oh your annoying " , " you have no friends "
Reasons To Keep Going 1. to make your parents proud 2. to conquer your fears 3. to see your family again 4. to see your favourite artist live 5. to listen to music again 6. to experience a new culture 7. to make new friends 8. to inspire 9. to have your own children 10. to adopt your own pet 11. to make yourself proud 12. to meet your idols 13. to laugh until you cry 14. to feel tears of happiness 15. to eat your favorite food 16. to see your siblings grow 17. to pass school 18. to get tattoo 19. to smile until your cheeks hurt 20. to meet your internet friends 21. to find someone who loves you like you deserve 22. to eat ice cream on a hot day 23. to drink hot chocolate on a cold day 24. to see untouched snow in the morning 25. to see a sunset that sets the sky on fire 26. to see stars light up the sky 27. to read a book that changes your life 28. to see the flowers in the spring 29. to see the leaves change from green to brown 30. to travel abroad 31. to learn a new language 32. to learn to draw 33. to tell others your story in the hopes of helping them 34. Puppy kisses. 35. Baby kisses (the open mouthed kind when they smack their lips on your cheek). 36. Swear words and the release you feel when you say them. 37. Trampolines. 38. Ice cream. 39. Stargazing. 40. Cloud watching. 41. Taking a shower and then sleeping in clean sheets. 42. Receiving thoughtful gifts. 43. “I saw this and thought of you." 44. The feeling you get when someone you love says, “I love you." 45. The relief you feel after crying. 46. Sunshine. 47. The feeling you get when someone is listening to you/giving you their full attention. 48. Your future wedding. 49. Your favorite candy bar. 50. New clothes. 51. Witty puns. 52. Really good bread. 53. Holding your child in your arms for the first time. 54. Completing a milestone (aka going to college, graduating college, getting married, getting your dream job.) 55. The kind of dreams where you wake up and can’t stop smiling. 56. The smell before and after it rains 57. The sound of rain against a rooftop. 58. The feeling you get when you’re dancing. 59. The person (or people) that mean the most to you. Stay alive for them. 60. Trying out new recipes. 61. The feeling you get when your favorite song comes on the radio. 62. The rush you get when you step onto a stage. 63. You have to share your voice and talents and knowledge with the world because they are so valuable. 64.Breakfast in bed. 65. Getting a middle seat in the movie theater. 66. Breakfast for dinner (because it’s so much better at night than in the morning). 67. Pray (if you are religious) 68. Forgiveness. 69. Water balloon fights. 70. New books by your favorite authors. 71. Fireflies. 72. Birthdays. 73. Realizing that someone loves you. 74. Spending the day with someone you 75. Opportunity to create meaningful and lasting relationships. 76. Potential to learn, grow, and evolve as a person. 77. Joy and happiness in the little things. 78. The power to inspire others. 79. The ability to create art, music, and other forms of self-expression. 80. To explore different cultures, traditions, and ways of life. 81. To make a positive impact on the environment and help protect the planet. 82. Experience the joys of parenthood and raise a family. 83. Learn new things and develop new skills. 84. Create a legacy that will outlive you. 85. Being wrapped up in a warm bed. 86. Cuddles 87. Holding hands. 88. The kind of hugs when you can feel a weight being lifted off your shoulders. The kind of hug where your breath syncs with the other person’s, and you feel like the only two people in the world. 89. Singing off key with your best friends. 90. Road trips. 91. Spontaneous adventures. 92. The feeling of sand beneath your toes. 93. The feeling when the first ocean wave rolls up and envelops your toes and ankles and knees. 94. Thunderstorms. 95. Your first (or hundredth) trip to Disneyland. 96. The taste of your favorite food. 97. The child-like feeling you get on Christmas morning. 98. The day when everything finally goes your way. 99. Compliments and praise. 100. to look on this moment in 10 years time and realize you did it.
I have felt this with my friends as I just moved to a new school. We all bully each other but sometimes it seems like that actually mean it, and It makes you feel so sad to think that your “friend” hates you and bullies you with actual intention to hurt. You truly feel alone and sad after that, and usually, your friend tries to be like “Oh it was just a joke, what you can’t take a joke?” and you know that that know that it hurt you, and they’re trying to fix the problem by making a joke or just bullying you again like, “If you can’t take a joke, then why are you here?” And if it’s a friend that you are very close with, then it hits even more, especially when your other friend does nothing about it and says he’s “neutral,” but you know he silently agrees with with your other friend. You just want to sit in your bed and cry your heart out, and you wallow in self hatred every day, and no one notices it and you don’t want to ask for help because your friend will just bully you for that too.
The fact that classmates are worst than these type of people who say sorry after hurting u…. I mean they just… They just…laugh at you when ur sad/crying 😢
That is so true, especially when it is your friend/best friend. It just hurts inside, and they don’t even realise it. Edit: firstly, thanks for the likes and secondly, what’s with the comments???
yea all my friends did that to me i made my self believe it was all a joke and just went along with it but i started to realize they were not joking and now i have no friends
This is so relatable, someone who used to be my best friend does this, he started bullying me for popularity and he says it's just a joke everytime but it still hurts Edit: I feel sorry for the people in the replies, I hope it gets better for yall
@@banjobenjifr man same happend to to me with someone who i thought was a friend. Funny enough I confronted them about that when they pissed me off. First thing they said to gaslight me was "its not my fault u cant handle a joke". Its harlarious that pointing out every feature about someone everyday and making them feel bad is such a joke😒😒
I cried when i saw the title of the video😢 because when i was little people at my school called me fat and shut up your fater then your friend and my friend also called me fat and stupid and dumb it really hurts me and my feelings💔 so whenever someone calls me fat i start to cry😢 and i dont know why im crying now🙁 and when my "friend" called me fat i cried and she said im sorry and so i thought i was fat so i always covered my belly and i always wear shirts🙁🥲 and my sister calls me fat ass and fat b!tch so i just "smile"🥲 but im just trying to hide my tears... And my brother is always kind to me i really trust him and appreciate him for defending me🫂❤️🩹 thats all 🥲 have a great day guys and thank you for reading this❤️🩹
The issue with this situation is that no one cares until they are forced too, your always going to get insulted but it's never realized that you may have low self esteem and can't see those insults as as a joke. No one will ever show sympathy unless it's shown that your sad so much that somone can finally realize that they can't help but be sad by things that are meant to be a joke, Btw thank you for reading this and I hope you can relate and understand what I said in this comment
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The "ur skinny " thing is its the worst when they say are u sure u ate and for the "ur face" it feels insecure and lastly the "ur st*pid" joke feels like ur not perfect or smart and it makes u feel like a d*mb @ss sometimes hope u understand how life is sometimes,..❤
I try to hide my emotions and cry myself to sleep at night that’s why I have took a knife and almost started cutting myself and had suicidal thoughts I honestly was looking for ways to die I hide my emotions from my friends so they don’t know the cruel past I have also I almost died once and I wish I did it wasn’t that long ago
Fr my bestie said something when I did something not a lot of people can and then she started saying “I hate you now” and kept saying “I want to be on the blue team” like we never met☹️
@@Chiyoheart-Yt Trust me so many persons that i love said to me a lot of things, A LOT, and i just think "He get mad, i'm not that" it's easy to fell in depression i just don't let words get me it's not hard c'mon
Remember people,hurting someone is as easy as throwing a rock into the sea. But you never know how deep that rock goes Edit - Credits to the Arabic Legend as it's (according to one of the replies) a quote from it. You learn something new everyday XD
This is so true because they make fun of me like 2 of my friends do and it's got to the point where I can just cry when I'm alone. Then they say sorry, but they don't mean it if they meant to do it or not, they would still not really say sorry. The only time I would say something when they do something stupid but otherwise I would not, and I would just want to have fun and most of the time it's about my height and other things about me. And I still stay somewhat calm but if it gets too bad, I will use violence. I don't know what I did wrong to deserve this I think I'm a good friend overall sometimes I would say something, but I think they know I'm joking. This took me a long time and a couple tears to write thank you for reading if you did.
This actually happened to me with my bestie, she said lots of horrible things and i ended up body shaming myself and calling myself ugly for the next 2 years 😅
"real friends aren't supposed to break your heart they are supposed to help you pick up your heart piece's" -a wise person that probably never said this😅-
@@JJlovesNature- to my fake best friend... I HOPE YOU FEEL WHAT I FELT WHEN YOU SHATTERED MY SOUL! They only said it's a joke Jokes... Yeah yeah sure... Jokes.. are supposed to be funny....
exactly my friend is like this he is always doing this and we had a hockey tournament at the school gym and if you win you get a coffee cup and im not good at hockey and he is always saying that i suck at hockey plus he calls me named all day like midget and stupid its annoying plus he does it every day but he always makes up some stupid reason that its a joke plus when i make something he never looks at it as good he always points out the little imprefections and when i ask him nicely to stop he says Your being so whiney
And also if they know that they anger you, some KEEP DOING IT (My friends dont abuse but they sometimes do things that angers me like making fun of me, my sis or someone etc.)
Yep that's me i'm sometimes insulted i hate how i look i hate my body i hate my life yet i wanted to like die and rest but...yet i'm still suffering no one is giving me a hug?😢
I can relate to this because my toxic parents. they will use these kinds of hurtful words and then when i cry or get stressed out they say that im acting like a little girl or being gay and that i should be a man and that should stop crying. Then they would compare me to my cousin saying that they learned how to do maths in my age :(
Same thing here but i dont cry on the outside but inside im crying because they have been my best friends for my entire life and they won't apologize even once
Sometimes best friends insult each other and make fun of each other, but if they keep doing it to you and it doesn't feel funny anymore, they are not you're friends man.
Girls boys, ladies gentlemen, if you need to let it out and talk to someone, I know it’s hard to easily trust someone over a screen but I’ll listen to your pain and I’m here for you
@Mrjeep380 They didn't say that they know you, they're just trying to say that you can let it out to them like you can talk about your problems online and they're trying to say too that "It's hard to easily trust someone over a screen" and that maybe true, but it is your decision if you want to let it out to them or just keep it.
In todays society man cant let out anything othervise theyl tink of u as weak most men grow up lonely bc of childhood trauma it stays in ur heart forever.❤
happended to me when my friend killed me in my Minecraft world and then said sorry but didn't realize that I cried everyday and his words didn't affect my depression and it never will
I went through a weird time I was lonely and a girl wanted to be my friend so I said yes one year later she had two more people playing with her and started to make me think I was cared when one day I was writing stuff with her when I started writing how bad I was treated and they didn't care about me only if I had taken the little jokes as a warning I wouldn't be sad but I didn't care about it but one day I found a boy ( I'm still friends with him)I was swinging with him and they (the girls )came up and said a bee or a wasp was on my head knowing I'm allergic to stings from bees and wasps I got so scared I couldn't breathe and panicked and froze shocked when I fell almost skining my finger off and they laughed and laughed making fun of me so I said I hated her so she acted like the victim so she wrote a note saying how funny it was and how I shouldn't care about it and let it go even though she knew how bad her actions were I didn't say anything and became scared of girls fearing I would betrayed so my feelings changed to soft and sensitive and weak I also went through a girl which said I was trying to k1ll her when I wasn't now I have friends but they're all boys so girl jokes are always said to me but it's fine for me and them.
A sorry won't fix the damage you have cost me. An 'I was just joking' won't reverse the pain that your words gave me. Nothing, and I mean NOTHING can change the irreversible scars that you gave me.
Yea, my Friends called me Monkey and wanted to joke about launching a bomb to a city where i live near and calling the people in that city Monkey, and sending gif with Monkeys dancing and under the gif they wrote: average "people where i was Born" dancing. Saying "don't worry i was joking" Is useless
"This made me shed a tear,cuz people can be so heartless they hurt ppl for fame but they make a wound that cant regen for eternity.." -a guy who tries to not hurt peoples feelings Edit:I'm sorry guys but uh This is the most likes i got in comment,ty I can delete the edit
as a person with a sensitive friend, i always have to watch what i say. i have to soften up when around them. i love them and i want them to feel good about themselves because 'joking' around with them with insults will only make it all worse
I am a sensitive person but no friend of mine care about me except two of my friends but they obly care a lil I hope someone like you come into my life
Stop that actually made me cry so hard because people always joke about my face my skin color and my wait and it hurts in the inside so much but I just have to smile about it and act as if it didn’t shatter me
even if it’s a joke, like “oh ur so fat” “loll pig” “man ur so skinny when i hug you, you should eat more” “ur ugly” when the person takes their word, they start losing their self. when you lose ur self, you don’t know who you are anymore. even if it’s a joke, they take it personally, even if you say sorry, it still hurts. better not to say it at all :((
