Hey guys, please give me song recommendations for another playlist, i know my channel is usually fairly negative, but I know it brings the few people who watch comfort. Also, thank you all for the support on this shitty channel, means a lot to me. I cant believe im 15 now, i made this when i was 13. Anyways, please reply with some songs for a new vent playlist if youre interested, i would like it to be unique, with the help of all you wonderful people! x
Only type of playlist I haven't seen is the crazy depressed type, which I technically am. So if I could recommend a playlist type, then thank you. If you do make it, maybe add Cotard's Solution? Thank you.
I have like 5 pages in my notebook of sad songs, but it’s almost midnight here, and I’m tired, so I don’t want to get up, but I will write some songs that I remember "Listen before I go" by Billie Eilish "Romantic Homicide" by d4ve I think "Here with me" again by d4ve I think "Memories" by Conan Grave "I love you so" by the Walters "Lights are on" sadly I don’t remember who wrote this "Cry" by Cigarettes after sex "Someone you loved" by Lewis Capaldi "Cardigan" I don’t remember who wrote that "Fourth of July" Sufjan Stevens "Past lives" by Sapientdream "Sweater weather" by James Harris "Somewhere only we know" by Keane "Freaks" by Surf Curse "Again" by Shiloh Dynasty "Notion" the rare occasions I got lazy maybe I will end writing this tomorrow. Sorry, today 🙂
Well, I don't know if you still read the comments, but I'm going to write a text about this playlist and others that I found on RU-vid in the same style as yours, they help me a lot in knowing how to continue the way I am and never giving up on something, you know, I know that It seems silly but music helps me a lot when I think about things that are out of the ordinary and in my case with your channel, even though I discovered it today, it helped me a lot and made me think a lot about everything, I don't know if it improved my mental health much, but it improved a lot. little thank you very much bro some ideas for songs/albums to put on your youtube playlists: some songs by bonda (a Brazilian album by a youtuber) and for the record I'm Brazilian and some by Mac DeMarco I know you put some on I don't think I can identify much but it's a good idea that's it I guess goodbye until another video sorry for the long text
@@pissandballs123 what about water hhmmm? Stay hydrated and it may be past or current issues ur dissociating from or people tell you that their lives are worse but y o u are important and so are y o u r problems no matter the size treat yourself like a friend bc you're mine ^^ ❤
it's scary how relatable the thumbnail is. i feel like im just being overdramatic and im just being ungrateful. i feel like i should be happy and here i am, having mental issues and struggling
Hey... everybody is entitled to their feelings... it doesn't matter how much or how little it seems... if it hurts... it will hurt, you are you... do not compare yourself to others, if you're so uniquely you... If you're sad, don't blame anything... that is about you, you're not the problem... *Hugs* I love you, my guy. so chill out, and rest.
You dont have any problems. Theres nothing wrong with you. Its just the world around you, that seem to have a problem. You are perfect the way you are, and dont need to change, stay strong out there!
yeah.. it keeps me up at night knowing ill never get anywhere in life.. they tell me just because im a teenager and i may like the color black but. whenever i say something about being sad they say its just a phase ill get over it instead of asking what the problem is. thats one thing nobody gets.
Dude fr my life ain’t bad, it’s just my thoughts are messing me up. I’m the most positive person on the outside because i try to be like that mentally as well but i just can’t go on a single day without a thought of doing something stupid, i have my life planned out already, i have friends that love me, i got everything going for me. My ex had broken up w me around July and i can’t seem to move on from that mentally. FYI, she was my first gf (i’m 18), i gave her everything and she never treated me w much respect if i’m being honest, there should be no reason why i still care about her, i should be glad that i’m not w her anymore, every single day i want to message her but i know that’s simply not smart, i wish the worst for her, i don’t know what is going on in w me. No one in my life knows how negative i’ve been to myself mentally, i just wish i had someone to comfortably talk to in person but at the same time i know they’ll say that my life doesn’t sound bad. My life is not that bad, but i can’t seem to know why this feeling is here.
Hey it's okay if you don't want to, but honesty this was so relatable in a way. I've been struggling with my mental health for a few years now, besides the fact that I have two caring parents that love each other, a bunch of sweet friends and I get good grades. Not a single soul knew, not even my (only at the time) boyfriend. A few weeks ago I survived a suicide attempt, and not even five days after that my boyfriend broke up with me, even though he knew I was at my lowest. Thanks to that though, I met someone who genuinely makes me so happy, and really has helped me through a lot these past few weeks. So I just figured I'd put up the offer. I wouldn't mind adding you on some of socials if you need anyone to speak with. It's honestly been helping me so much to have that person in my life. And your situation just reminded me a lot of my own, so if you're comfortable enough, feel free to lmk.
Tbh it hurts when ur crying or venting then someone says that "I have depression and anxiety and I'm stressed I get bullied so much" it's like they're flexing :/
@@Frozenfruit63Same. Whenever I try to talk to my mom about my issues, she always says she and my dad had it worse. I mean, yeah. I'm sorry for what they had to go through. But we're not from the same generation and the world has only become worse.
When I was young I used to speak my feelings out annoyingly . As I grow up . I just laugh it out . People think I'm crazy . But I'm just sad . Don't be annoying . But as well . Have someone who is willing to listen and make sure u listen to him as well .
Not knowing your favorite color seems like such a silly thing to be upset about... but that's not the upsetting part. The upsetting part is realizing you don't know anything anymore. "You know yourself better than we will do." Well, guess I'll never be able to find answers. I say I love purple, but I really don't care. I really don't know.
its not that I dont care or anything i just struggle to pick one that would seem the most relatable to the person asking me so we have smth "in common" and i cant say anything because ive thought of too many things and i best that can come out is a blend of words incoherently the best reaction i get is laughter so its ok
@@Silly_emi Yeah, that too. Or just deciding you like something someone else does even if you don't actually like that thing. I know doing that has caused me my fair share of existential crisis.
Even the color part is true.i always say i love purple but i feel like i just made something up for people asking my favorite color and it's not real.cuz i don't know the real one :(
i i have the same exact feelings i always say purple but is it really purple i mean its mot glack clack isnt a color its not ehite for the same reawonwm just purprle but is it neone purple pastel purple maybe its not purple at all maybe its lilac maybe sandalwood
timestamps (for those who need it) 0:00 - 3:46 // no surprises by radiohead 3:47 - 7:14 // telephones by vacations 7:29 - 10:33 // i can't handle change by r.o.a.r 10:35 - 13:21 // i bet on losing dogs by mitski 13:22 - 18:39 // space song by beach house 18:40 - 22:12 // ykwim by yot club
HII TO EVERYONE WHO SEES THIS!!! IM DOING A LOT BETTER. STILL STRUGGLING A BIT BUT FEELING LOTS BETTER. I MIGHT BE FINALLY GOING TO SEE A PSYCHOLOGIST. 💕💕
Stuck in 2 worlds of positivity and negativity and only torn apart to be in both but never 1 brings a possibility of anhedonia which is a type of depression
I literally dont HAVE my favourite anything. Its like everything has become indifferent and meaningless :/ The worst part is that my life is going pretty "well" I guess?
Lord i don't even know my favorite food anymore- do i like pizza? do i like spaghetti? i don't know anymore...i also don't know my favorite flavor of drinks.. but i do know my favorite soda is Dr pepper!
this is silly to say, but i want someone that will talk to me and check up/care for me like a parental figure, even if we are the same age I just want someone to care for me, my parents never really did and i think my friends dont like me anymore i feel alone almost all of the time
Hey how are you doing You're doing great, trust me I can tell that you are strong, brave, smart, and absolutely gorgeous, and you can do it I know it's hard but you will survive and live and find someone who can truly be there for you, I'm sorry they aren't here now and I wish I could comfort you but I can only try through our screens Keep trucking along and it will be ok idk when but please keep your head up
Hey! i know im late, but ive been in the same position as you and although i dont know you, i will try my best. Hiya champ! how was school today? Ah, something stirring up today? .... dont let it discourage you, youll do so much better next time. Remember, life isnt about perfection, its about developing yourself as a person. Enough of the negativity. What did you do today? .... WOAH! thats amazing! your amazing! Thats what im talking about! What an amazing thing you got/did! Honestly, you worked hard for that, and got it! Now why dont we have a little chat? ... Tell me about your day. All the ups and downs, the lefts and rights. Tell me what might be troubling you, or maybe something your proud of that you achieved today! is there a sport you do? an instrument you play? or maybe even just a hobby you enjoy! Tell me everything, whatever makes you happy. ... I hope to learn how to be as good as you one day! hard work sure pays off, doesent it? Now, how about you go get a drink of water. A big glass full, and a small snack. My favorite is crackers and cheese, but you can have whatever you feel like eating! ... Great choice! Ill add that to my list, and give it a try. Now, what i want you to do, is just take a moment, and close your eyes. find a playlist to listen to, and just forget about all your worries. Take deep breaths, and focus on the music. Envision it in your mind, here ill give you an example: 13:48 Your running in a field. each step you take, flowers of every color bloom underneath you. As the sun sets, a comforting warmth overcomes you. a gentle dappled sky of purple and orange reflects off the pond which you now reach. Why dont you try? ...... (Remember, theres always someone out there watching over you. Although it might not be clear at first, i will always be here for you. Even if i dont know you, i understand you. I understand the situation your going through, and the comfort you need. Take care of yourself champ, have a great rest of your day/night!)
Honestly, it's okay to not know your favourite colour or to not even have one. We all lose things every now and then, part of the fun is finding them again. I didn't know a thing about myself in the deepest depths of my depression and, once I started recovering from my you-know-what attempt, I realised I knew nothing about me. Learning about yourself is one of the nicest parts of slowly getting better, bit by bit. You don't need a favourite colour to be a kind, loving and worthy person. I still don't even know what my favourite animal is but I look forward to the day that I find out :) I know it's easier said than done but keep your chin up - it might feel like you have nothing but you will always have hope and hope can change everything :)
My life is not that bad its just i dont know i fell so ducking empty. Nothing makes me happy anymore i can't enjoy things that i liked in the past. I when i cry my mom ask me why im crying. I dont know i feel stressed and just overwhelmed. I don't know what to do anymore
Not depressed like most of the people here, but God I wish I had someone to vent to. Everyone around me loves to talk about their problems, but I don't want it to seem like me saying "my problems are worse." because they aren't worse. I have it way better than my friends. But even if they're not as bad as my friend's problems, it still hurts. I feel like everyone trusts me but I can't trust anyone else in the entire world. I only have one friend that I would ever be comfortable venting to, but she vents to me about being the therapist friend and I could never add that stress to her. This feels inescapable and I wish I didn't have so much of a problem with trust. I've been in highschool for a whole month and a half, and I still haven't made a single conversation that wasnt small talk. Everybody there already has close friends, everybody there has someone to go to about problems. I'm the only one sitting alone at lunch, watching everyone else laugh and have conversations, while I sit there listening to songs that are like these. Everybody that I know has a closer friend, I'm nobody's #1, I'm never the first choice. Even last year when I had a friend they always picked anyone but me. I tried to be their partner for projects but I was never fast enough. I don't know what the hell is wrong with me but I hate myself for it. Then my brother pokes at every little thing I do, he makes fun of me for struggling with friends ,hes telling me to stop eating so much when I'm not even overweight, he makes fun of what I like, and then when I get upset my mom said he is right and "just trying to help me" her okay I wasn't aware that making fun of me for not having any close friends at school would magically make me have friends at school! Wow thanks for actually nothing. I don't even remember really much of anything from 1st grade to 7th grade, but in 8th I met the friend mentioned first. She's great. She's the only friend I feel like I can truly be myself around that isn't online. She actually made me laugh and smile, when in 7th I just remember planning my suicide and feeling like I was watching everybody around me from a different planet, but now i don't want to really die anymore. She makes me feel like a human and not an alien that everyone was forced to be around. But I'm scared because she talks about how her family is talking about moving to Mexico. Without her Id be alone all over again and go back into that cycle. I don't want to feel like I want to die, but I don't think that I'd be able to see that if she left. Before her I can't remember much, but I remember some. I remember always being bullied, tripped, having balls thrown at me, and they even made making fun of me into a game that everybody but my one friend participated in. Yknow what the teacher said? That I was lying and it wasn't happening. No adult believed me nor did anything about it. And my friends wonder why I never trust anyone enough to open up about it. If the teachers actually did something my life would be so different. But no, had to ignore it. Now look at me, having one truly close friend that I don't even know will stay with me.
I understand how you feel. The bullying, the comments, the second choice option, everything. I don't know if you'll ever read this, but just so you know that everything that you're passing through is temporary. You said yourself: "not depressed like most of the people here" and you addressed that your problems aren't worse, if you think like that then it's okay, but my advice is not to label them too much because you'll end up bottling up like you did here. Things eventually get better. You will always find an escape, a distraction, anything that gets you out of your bad situations, to the point that you will get used to the evil of this world. And the fact that you made it this far just proves how strong you are, and I'm proud of you for making till here. Anyways, I know that I'm one year late, but I just wanted to tell you this. I don't know how your life is and how are you right now, but I hope that you're okay. And if you're not, you will be. Trust me.
@@Jamesonn404hii! thank you so much :] Since I commented this I've gotten many more close friends and people that I feel comfortable talking to! It definitely got worse before it got better, but I'm glad I held on ❤ It's so weird seeing how much better my life has gotten since I left this vent here, it truly puts things into perspective 🥺 Thanks again for your kind words, it truly means a lot to me
@@Noo-My-Only-Weakness-Dying Knowing that you are doing okay makes me happy, I really mean it, cuz I didn't expect you to read my comment haha. Take care of yourself. ♥️
The image is so relatable, but that’s the bad thing It’s like “why am I sad? Other people have bigger problems, having to find food for your family jus to survive, having to run away from a abusive family.” All my friends have worse lives than me but I still feel so bad, my family’s amazing, it just feels like “am I overeacting? Am I just being selfish?” I’m not even depressed but when I lay in my bed at night and just think about my life it hits harder than it should. All my friends have other friends I’m just like a replacement for each of them I’ll always try to partner with them but somehow they already have other friends, I’m too young I’m about to leave elementary school(6th grade) but I still am afraid of the change, I know there will be a bunch of popular girls but they are still kind, how I know that? I know them but I’m not even their #1 friend, it kinda feels like I’ll never be anyone’s #1, my parents, my siblings, my friends, heck, even my grandparents. They always get to be someone else’s #1 but I’ll just be taking up space. I raised both of my younger siblings *and* maybe even parents (they’re not messed up or anything, they just are kinda Karen’s and are needed to be put on a leash, in a loving way like I’m trying to protect them from getting hurt) one other thing is my friends don’t even tell me anything, I know abt their horrible home lives, I could never be as strong as them to go through what they’re going through but in my friend group it works like this, there’s 6 people and three of them vent to each other abt their problems(they are the ones who mostly have the most messed up lives) me and my other friend(L) just have each other to count on(not that we can’t count on the others) and we don’t even have any *real problems* the four friends(M, J, T, and Lu) always tell each other their problems, I feel like they think that since me and L don’t have a messed up home life that we won’t be trustworthy. It’s like I get that M, T, J, and Lu are depressed and shi but me and L would still like to be their friends, we won’t get a chance to prove that we’ll be able to listen to them if they don’t tell us. I’m not trying to be selfish and mean, I’m really not but I just wish they’d trust us more. L and M, the closest in the group to me are each other’s best friends and I always get left behind, I’m not like “would trust with my life” close with the others in the group and besides they are kinda perverts and racists so I don’t like them As much but I still like them so I’m kinda stuck. I’m fr no ones number one:(
CREATOR PLS PIN: Time stamps!! 0:00 No suprises --Radiohead 3:46 Telephones --Vacations 7:15 I can't handle change --Roar 10:35 I bet on losing dogs --Mitski 13:22 Space song --Beach House 18:42 YKWIM? --Yot Club
the best part abt these playlist's is that no matter how u feel when u put it on it will still make u feel sad on the inside even if everything is ok. Then your thoughts get to you and u start thinking abt your life. You begin to realize a lot more abt ur self and start to rlly become sad. Then u listen to multiple of these kinds of playlists and the crying starts. Then you sit alone in ur room hopeless feeling an insane amount of pain and usefulness. Then u read the comments while listening to the music in the background feeling a bit better abt yourself and then move on w/ ur day.
alright, a little vent here- I don't know what am I gonna do in the future anymore, it's always the same routine, there are slight moments of less pain, but I do always feel tired and empty. Just wanna feel good again y'know
Little vent that I didn't even intend to be a vent lol: I'm honestly blessed to be able to say that my depression is the best it's ever been. However, I still have bad moments, bad days, bad nights. These kinds of playlist remind me that it's okay to be sad and it's okay to vent, even if it's just to yourself. Right now I'm in a rut - I've felt really bad the past, like, 3-4 days. I'm just falling back into some of depression's tricks really. I've been back to thinking my life isn't worth much and that I'm not accomplishing anything. I haven't become the person I always wanted to be. But then, I sit back and I look at myself and have a think. I may not be x, y or z but I am the closest to happy I have ever been. I stayed up so many nights sobbing to the moon, praying for nothing but happiness. It took years but now it's in my grasp yet I'm ungrateful. I have to remember sometimes that, though I'm not some social big-shot, I have done everything I set out to do for myself. I still worry about people's opinions and judgement of me and that has always been my downfall but, when it comes down to it, I've achieved the one thing I cried and cried over for so long. I am just a bit scared to be honest - I don't want to live a "normal" life where I work 8 hours a day, come home to a family I hate and sit up at night in regret. I want to be happy and I am but I'm not happy by other people's standards because I have very few friends and very little money to my name. In a way, other people assuming I SHOULD be depressed actually makes me depressed. I never knew that other people would end up being the biggest obstacle in my happiness - it used to always just be me getting in the way of myself. Life's never easy but it always figures itself out in the end, I suppose.
HOWD YOU KNOW IDK MY FAVORITE COLOR ANYMORE??? im a person terrified of change, and for as long as i can remember its been green. i feel bad changing it, idk.
I rlly like pink but i hate the fact that i doubt myself so much that i genuinely start to think that ill never achieve anything great and die as a nobody anyways, wbu?
the image is relatable af 😭 but really, I think that's only because the world itself is imperfect. our life may be okay, but the world is still crumbling away around us, and the more we realize that the sadder we get.
ughakmsd its so comforting to see people going through the same thing as you. Ive realized recently, I really dont know anything about myself. Im scared. Who am I if I dont even know, I try so hard to put myself under a label even if I know I should just stop and accept myself. No one ever understood me, so maybe if I understood myself, it'll get better.
this feels like that moment when someone easily changes subject when you were talking about something you love but it doesn't even surprises you anymore
Hey there What are you doing here so late? Can’t sleep? Ah. Coming to cry in the middle of the night. I get that. It feels nice to do that, so I understand. Take all the time you need. You know, I just happened to find you stumble upon the video where I’m taking a break. Wanna sit down for a while? Tell me about what’s bothering you? Oh, don’t worry about me. I don’t find you annoying. I wanna be here for you/ I’ll try to help as best as i can. I wont judge you. Everyone has their own story. Ah, that sucks. I can’t begin to imagine how you must feel. You’re so tough for getting through all of that. I’m so proud of you for not giving up. Of course I understand. One broken soul to another. I just want to remind you. No matter how hard it gets, please stay strong. Take care of yourself. You can’t go into a battle already wounded. You can’t wave the white flag without trying your hardest. This will all be over soon. And hey. If you ever need to take another break, I’m always here. Helping people is my specialty. They always find their way, one way or another. You can come sit down with me any time. I’ll try to lend some advice, or just an ear to listen. And if this is your last time visiting me, I’m proud of you. My job is done. Go take on life with all your energy, and remember that you have one soul always cheering you on. You’ll always have my support, I can’t wait to see the great things you’ll achieve.
Im crying at this. Its literally midnight im crying and I was just about to think about ending it. This comment genuinely made me feel so much better. Thank you.
@@CheesyFan Omg I am so happy this helped please please please please please please please please please please please please NEVER end ur life for this random girl on ur screen
lol to be honest, everything about me is fake. I make stuff up for people to like me better, I honestly don't know what I like and dislike anymore. Internet ruined my past-self's innocent.
I have apologized every second of my life for existing and when i finally tell people about my feelings you are mad that i didn’t tell you and imply that i am ungrateful and that’s why im miserable, acting like i have NEVER apologized just because i value my friends, the people im comfortable around, more than you. i still feel bad hearing you cry and saying that i hate you, because i didn’t want to hate you mom. i feel bad hearing that you miss me, even though im in the room across the hall. im so sorry
I don't know but this song really tells about my life story. I feel so tired of my life because my life is filled with people who shouldn't be in my life. I'm really tired mentally and physically.
I personally would say ‘well my life isn’t that bad’ but it is. My father physically and mentally abused my family when we lived with him. He would throw things at me and my brother, and would yell at us all a lot. Then we discovered that he does heavy drugs. We also found 12-13 knives scattered around the house, most of which weren’t even ours. Then we left him and my mum filed a restraining order for 5 years and a divorce, but father wouldn’t sign the divorce papers since he would say ‘you’re taking my children away from me!!’ to my mum. We moved 4 hours away from him, so I lost all of my contact with friends. Then later that year I turned 10, and.. well… father forgot my birthday… he didn’t call or message for my birthday, not that I would have really cared anyway. Then we moved into a house with a step family, but it turns out some of the step siblings bullied me, and step father was greedy and cheated on my mum. So we left there, and moved into a new house a bit further away from there. The old step siblings would still bully me at school, and we also lived in a really sketchy area with a lot of drug dealers, so we moved again. This time we moved 4 hours away again I think (short term memory loss kicking in here), so I lost my old friends from my old school, but I made new friends there. But at this school I got fat shamed every day, with kids calling me a ‘fat whore’ or a ‘fat bitch’ and other incredibly mean names, and I was 12 then. Then after that year we got kicked out of our home because the real estate agent didn’t like us, unfair I know. So now we moved 2 hours away, and that’s where I live currently. Since moving I lost all my friends, again. But I still have one friend from my old school, her name is Mikayla and she’s a really nice friend. Well, now I don’t do school, because school gave me extremely bad social anxiety, so now all I do is just sit in my room and listen to music, and I also turned 13 a couple days ago on the 28th of September. And now my father finally signed the divorce papers, but the only downside is, because my father was abusive, my brother (16 almost 17) picked up on it and used to abuse me a lot last year, he threatened to kill me twice, tried suffocating me with a mattress, and would throw things at me. Well, now he doesn’t hit me anymore but he still yells at me a lot if I do things wrong. And I got an amazing girlfriend yesterday, and I couldn’t be happier that I got her. Oh and, on my birthday, it was my first birthday that I hadn’t cried of sadness, since all of my birthdays end in me crying in my room. But this year that wasn’t the case. I also got to call my ‘father’ and tell him about how much of an asshole he is. And now, I’m depressed, have really bad social anxiety, and have only 1 real life friend. My girlfriend lives across the country sadly, but I wish to meet her as soon as I can. I love her so much and I hope we never have to separate. Bella, if you see this, I love you so much and please never leave me, you are the best girlfriend I’ve ever had, I don’t care if the people around you are homophonic, I will never leave you. Well there it is, that’s my life since I was around 7-13, I hope you have a lovely day, and quick note: music is my best friend :)
the image is me, after surviving another day at school where I'm an outcast. boys from my class bullying me, and the girls don't even talk with me... I have depression and anxiety. I'll start the high school in september, and my parents say that I should get over my old class, but it haunts me and I'm scared of this new class.... I'm scared I'll be alone for another 4 years...
This reminds me of when I was younger and too broken to remember all the actual bad things that happened to me. I would lay in bed feeling like my life wasn't so bad. Not until I got older I remembered. Oh shit my life is bad! I don't know if remembering such things is equating to healing. I feel more insane and ready to redact myself than before especially since now that I'm back in school I have realized the extent of my loneliness and how unrecognizable I am. Granted I entered without anyone (sort of). But it hurts to see everyone immediately have friends and speak to each other. Especially when this summer sucked for me because I lost my only close best friend who was online of 4 years who could care less of me now. To be honest they always had, I just never noticed how easy it was for them to move on. I blame myself for that... Even if they lied to me. And I wonder if I should really accept such loneliness, it's been so long and I'm just so attention starved as a human. It annoys me because I don't want to bother others. And I speak a lot as well when I meet people online or not online that I bother them anyways. I'm just annoyed of being a ghost everywhere I go. At the same time I can't imagine what to do if I finally was noticed. It really has been so long... I still don't know my favorite color. I think I just like having none. And I'm fine with that.
I've never commented on a video where i enjoy some music and vibe at, however this time it felt like I had to. First thing first, the cover can't be more relatable...a loving family and siblings, relatives are all close and nice people and my friends are kind hearted. Still, it feels like I'm all alone. Like I'm far away from everyone and can't he understood. It changed for some time however, when I met my online ex-girlfriend. She was all I cared about and I pictured a life with her everyday. We had to let go due to our different culture and it's really hard, for both of us. I'm here thinking again that I'm alone even though life's not bad at all. Whoever made it this far into reading, I hope you know that life has lots of ups and downs. Once you think you've hit rock bottom, then it can only get better than that. When the day comes, that you've gotten up, you'll realize how far you've made it. And to the girl I love the most, maybe our paths cross each other and the life I've pictured with you will be one day reality.
Welp, seems like a great place to vent: Everything in my life just feels that is perfect, a perfect family, a perfect friend group, everything is perfect around me, but the only thing that I feel ruins that wonder is me. I feel like I am a burden, and if i say anything I'll just make people worry, I don't want anyone to see me anymore, and I want just to yell at the sky without worrying anyone around me. I love my mom and that's why I don't want her to worry about me. She has much more beaoutiful things to see than me. They have two better sons they should see, not me.
Hi! I don't want to bother you or something, but I saw your comment and I wanted you to know that you're not alone in this. If you ever need someone to talk to, I'm here for you, okay?
I can't go a single day with out telling my self "why am I crying my life is great I have it better then a lot of people" not realizing that I don't my life sucks I can't go a day with out crying,without telling my self I am not ugly, I am not fat, I am not a failure,mistake,stupid, and I can't forget the comments that I get about my body because I am lager them others so I am "fat" and all the comments about it I just want life to end very short I want it to end right now
my mom wants me to see a therapist again. i had one last year, but it didnt help at all and it only caused me to be stressed over what i should or shouldnt say. i lied about not being suicidal, i lied about not doing self harm, and i lied about being mentally stable. now, my suicidal thoughts have become worse. even though i got the most amazing friends and boyfriend, my mental state is also getting worse. i dont want help, it doesnt work anyways, i dont want to tell my stories to a person who i dont know, it makes me uncomfortable. my friends are better therapists than the professionals. i feel like my life isnt that bad, and that i have no reason to feel this way. my attachment issues are so bad that i cry when i cant talk to my boyfriend for a day my school is making me feel even worse because i got told today that i might not stay in the same class as my friend, which is the only person i have in that school. i hate everything and i want to kms but i cant, and i feel like its not worth it
I like playlists like this because I can't hear my crying which just makes me cry more. The picture is so damn relatable, because for the longest time, I thought I was just overreacting because I'm sensitive, but then I remember how isolated I feel with my family along with other things. Sure, my life isn't the worst, I had friends who had it worse, but at the same time, I feel fucking terrible
That's a good question. Why am i sad. Do I deserve to be sad because there are people right now fighting for their country dieing. Some are forced to fight. So why. Why am i so useless like this? Why can't I just do anything. I'm a terrible sister big sister to my sibling. I can't even get over a small thing I couldn't even win her anything for her. She doesn't deserve someone like me with anger issues. No one does my mom didn't have to have me I should've died in her stomach like I was supposed to. Why did i have to be born into this hell I hate life who's with me? Sometimes I wish I didn't stop myself from drowning the the pool. I wish I stayed there. But my friend will be left alone after. I can't leave him alone or my family. I don't even care about myself I just want my family to be happy I just want them to have a good life without me existing I'm just useless trash crying in the living room. I'm just extra weight on my mom's back. I wish my grandma on my mom's side killed me I wish I died faster I'm scared to die but I want to do it. At least do it fast so I don't feel pain or do it slow I don't know anymore someone help me I'm in extreme stress my mom said I can talk to her but I don't think i can trust anyone anymore I don't even know myself anymore I hate people I hate everyone I just wish I died and no one cared so I can die without people feeling sad. (Sorry I vented without permission I just wanted to let that all out there might be spelling mistakes I type fast when I'm upset or sad. Bye
i mean i don’t think my life is necessarily bad i think it’s just me and the fact i feel so alone and don’t get that same love back as i give to others, i think i’m mostly the problem and i just feel so sad all the time because deep down i truly hate myself ontop of the stress of school and life,
idk why i feel like this, i have a cool dad and a sweet mom, i have friends that likes me, i have a boyfriend that loves me so much, and my life is not bad, but somehow i feel empty...
Everyone has already said it, but the picture is very relatable. I have amazing parents that provide me with more than most children get, ask for my opinion, and care about me a whole lot, a sister and a brother that I have a pretty good relationship with, all the food I could ever need and more, music lessons, a comfortable living space, materials for my (very few) hobbies, internet, more clothes than I actually wear, the ability to do a, or even multiple if I wanted to, sports, and yet I’m often not happy. I don’t think I’m sad very much necessarily, but I feel.. off, disconnected, unmotivated, bored, empty, and robotic. The title is also very relatable. If you asked me what I enjoy doing in my free time, I’m not even sure if I would be able to answer. Maybe talking to my siblings, but they don’t often want to do anything with me that I would actually.. like doing, if they actually want to do anything with me at all while at home for more than 20 at most which is quite unusual. I don’t really blame them, I am very annoying, picky, and rant a lot, but I do wish they would include me in their online activities or take some time to talk to me when the screens are available every once in a while. I haven’t known my favorite anything in years, and I don’t even know how to describe my own personality. I have a tiny spot on my wall for any note from anyone that says what they think my personality is just to contemplate the difference between what I see and what they see. I don’t know who considers me a friend or who I consider my friend anymore either. And then I go and rant to a random internet post where no one will see it and I end up making my life sound so much worse than it actually is. Since I’m already venting and probably no one will see this, why not add some unrelated stuff? Currently my dad thinks I’m friends with these two girls in my class when I don’t think I am and I think they think badly of me and we barely talk and I don’t know how to make him understand that they actually don’t like me and I’m not just feeling that way because I’m sensitive. I guess I gave him the impression I’m the past that sometimes I overthink what people think about me, and I do sometimes, but they pretty obviously don’t like me very much and as I said, don’t talk to me. I have no doubt that if I told him that, he would say something like “they are good people and they have no reason to judge you” and that would not help me at all. If you are not future me but actually read this, I commend you. If you are future me, I hope you got past that point and feel less lonely. God loves you.
Sometimes its just the chemicals in our brains. Nothing is really that bad for me, and yet, if i think about it for too long, things seem much worse. The only thing i can do without telling anyone is try my best to stay distracted. And I always wonder if a medication would make it less difficult, but I probably wont ever get the chance.
hiii, umm I just feel like.. I no longer recognize myself in all aspects I’ve lost all of my “ favorites” I feel like a stranger in my body? Nothing feels real I struggle maintaining any kind of relationships with anyone because I’ve isolated myself though I don’t intentionally do it I just.. don’t care for the things that I used to, not in the ways that I used to. I just don’t care anymore and that worries me:(( but umm I do hope it gets better for you all, I’m rooting for you!
honey, reach out. Because if you die, you won't be able to. Reaching out is always the best option. I know it hurts, I've been there, and it *will* get better.
I always don't know what to say when people ask me about ' what I like ' or ' what's my favorite ', I don't know, I don't know who I actually am, if I'm kind, bad, selfish, stupid, smart, I just really don't seem to know anything about myself, and sometimes it pains me.
I was just so happy with my friends. I didn't deal with my problems at all. I just forgot about them because I was surrounded by friends and happy. But now I haven't been able to see them for a long time AND IT'S TERRIBLE, I'VE RETURNED TO THE STATE I WAS IN A FEW MONTHS AGO. I just eat everything and hate myself for feeling bad. I think I don't have problems and that makes it worse for me. I'm fine compared to others and that's why I hate feeling bad. I feel like I don't deserve the right to be sad... And every day I convince myself of this... But I feel so bad....
Its funny how I look back and there isn't that little kid I see smiling anymore. Its just the wide eyes of my younger form, staring at me in disappointed as I fail once again, despite being the "gifted kid".
ive been feeling so eugh lately so i made a silly lil list here are some reasons to stay alive for those who need it..just know you have so much to live for, not to be corny but it's never worth it trust me. it gets better The chance to heal from past traumas. To see the person you’ll become after overcoming hardships. To give life meaning even when it feels meaningless. To find hope in the darkest times. To discover your inner strength and resilience. To experience the rare moments of genuine joy. To create art that expresses your deepest emotions. To support and be supported by others who are struggling. To be a source of inspiration for others who feel lost. To experience the healing power of time. To find beauty in the smallest, unexpected places. To hear stories of survival from others who’ve made it through. To make peace with your past. To understand that your feelings are temporary. To find solace in nature’s tranquility. To witness acts of kindness and humanity. To learn that it’s okay to ask for help. To find your way back from the brink. To see how your story unfolds. To realize you’re not alone in your pain. To feel the warmth of human connection. To seek forgiveness and forgive yourself. To discover that healing is a journey, not a destination. To witness your growth over time. To experience moments of clarity amidst the confusion. To see the light after enduring the darkness. To understand that pain is part of the human experience. To discover the depths of your own compassion. To find purpose in helping others who suffer. To experience the peace that follows a storm. To realize that your story matters. To find comfort in shared struggles. To know that your existence impacts others. To understand that it’s okay to not be okay. To seek out new perspectives on life. To find meaning in your suffering. To know that every day is a new beginning. To realize that your pain can make you stronger. To experience the power of resilience. To be a beacon of hope for others. To discover that life is a series of ups and downs. To understand that your worth is not defined by your pain. To find solace in music, poetry, and art. To experience moments of peace after turmoil. To learn that healing takes time and patience. To discover the beauty of vulnerability. To find strength in your weaknesses. To witness the change in yourself over time. To see the impact of your life on others. To understand that every struggle is part of your story. To realize that you have the power to change your narrative. To discover that love can heal wounds. To experience the depth of human emotions. To find hope in the stories of others who’ve survived. To realize that your existence is valuable. To find comfort in the understanding that pain is universal. To seek out the beauty in imperfection. To understand that you are not defined by your worst moments. To experience the power of a supportive community. To find meaning in your journey. To know that your presence makes a difference. To witness the beauty of human resilience. To discover that hope can be found in the darkest places. To find peace in acceptance. To realize that your story is still being written. To understand that pain and joy coexist. To see the world through different eyes. To find comfort in the knowledge that you’re not alone. To witness the strength of the human spirit. To find beauty in the struggle. To discover that you are stronger than you think. To understand that your life has meaning, even in the pain. To experience the love of those who care about you. To find solace in moments of quiet reflection. To realize that healing is a process. To witness the impact of your journey on others. To find comfort in the stories of survival. To experience moments of genuine connection. To discover that you can find joy again. To understand that your pain is part of your humanity. To find meaning in helping others who suffer. To witness the beauty of a new day. To discover that you are not defined by your past. To experience the healing power of self-compassion. To find peace in letting go. To realize that your story can inspire others. To understand that life is a journey, not a destination. To find comfort in shared experiences. To witness the beauty of resilience in others. To discover that your existence matters. To experience moments of profound peace. To find hope in unexpected places. To understand that you are not alone in your suffering. To witness the power of forgiveness. To find meaning in your pain. To experience the joy of being alive. To realize that your story is worth telling. To discover the strength within you. To understand that you are a part of something bigger. To find beauty in the journey of life, even in the darkest times. Experiencing the beauty of nature. Discovering new places and cultures. Making new friends and deepening existing relationships. Watching a sunrise or sunset. Listening to your favorite music. Eating delicious food. Laughing with loved ones. Reading an inspiring book. Learning new skills and hobbies. Helping others and making a difference. Falling in love. Achieving personal goals and dreams. The excitement of new experiences. The warmth of the sun on your skin. The feeling of accomplishment. Seeing your favorite band or artist live. Enjoying your favorite hobbies. Celebrating special occasions. The comfort of a warm bed. The smell of fresh rain. The joy of giving and receiving gifts. The love of family and friends. The beauty of art and creativity. The thrill of adventure. Finding your purpose and passion. Enjoying the changing seasons. The satisfaction of a job well done. The joy of pet companionship. Exploring new technologies and innovations. Enjoying a hot cup of coffee or tea. The wonder of space and the universe. Creating and sharing your own art. Watching your favorite movies and TV shows. The smell of flowers in bloom. The sound of waves crashing on the shore. Experiencing different cultures and traditions. The thrill of trying new foods. The joy of cooking and baking. The excitement of travel and exploration. The peace of quiet moments. The joy of gardening and watching things grow. The beauty of the night sky. The fun of playing games. The comfort of familiar routines. The excitement of holidays and celebrations. The joy of dancing. The comfort of a good hug. The satisfaction of learning something new. The peace of meditation and mindfulness. The joy of writing and expressing yourself. The excitement of sports and physical activity. The beauty of architecture and design. The joy of making others smile. The wonder of science and discovery. The excitement of festivals and fairs. The peace of walking in nature. The joy of collecting things you love. The excitement of concerts and live performances. The comfort of home. The joy of reminiscing about happy memories. The excitement of planning for the future. The peace of a good night's sleep. The joy of surprises. The satisfaction of solving a problem. The excitement of meeting new people. The beauty of a well-written poem or story. The joy of working on projects you care about. The fun of exploring new apps and games. The satisfaction of making something with your own hands. The joy of teaching and mentoring others. The comfort of familiar scents. The excitement of discovering hidden gems in your city. The joy of giving back to your community. The peace of a quiet morning. The excitement of receiving good news. The beauty of well-crafted music. The joy of attending social events and gatherings. The excitement of making plans and setting goals. The comfort of nostalgia. The satisfaction of being yourself. The joy of seeing others succeed. The excitement of new beginnings. The beauty of a well-kept garden. The joy of sharing stories and experiences. The comfort of knowing you are not alone. The satisfaction of completing a challenging task. The joy of living in the moment. The excitement of learning about history. The beauty of wildlife and animals. The joy of positive affirmations and self-love. The peace of a quiet evening. The excitement of celebrating achievements. The beauty of colorful sunsets. The joy of exploring your creativity. The comfort of a supportive community. The satisfaction of making healthy choices. The excitement of overcoming fears. The beauty of handwritten letters. The joy of finding peace within yourself. The endless possibilities that life offers. Remember, reaching out for support from friends, family, or professionals is crucial. Your life is valuable, and your struggles are part of what makes you uniquely you. ik this is corny asf but wtw
Thank you for this, it literally made me cry like twice over lol. It might have actually helped me, it's one of those nights, i might have figured everything out.
"Bad times only mean better times are coming" - me If anyone needs help with anything just lmk I can talk w you or listen. whatever you need, whenever. :)
I've listened to this playlist for a long time now and i still couldn't really build up the courage to comment under any video.. but i've been asking me this dumb questions for a stupid long while now. Why do i feel the way i do? Why do i feel like everything i do is worthless? And to be honest, i don't know. I'm trying to be the happy since i felt depressed for the first time ever. I'm known for being the "happy friend" and the one who cheers everyone up and take care of everyone, .. except myself. I like to be that kind of person but.. it's only on the outside. Everytime i'm starting to feel happy there's something that instantly pushes me down again. I got the best brother i could've ever had, my parents (even if they don't really love eachother anymore or arguing and just living in the same house for abt 7 years by now), i still love them. And i have my girlfriend is the best person i've ever met. I've got everything i need and yet there's still something that feels like it's missing but will never be found. I'm 18 atm and depressed since i turned 10. I know why, i know how but i don't understand why the feeling is still there. I've been to therapy twice and they could never find out what's wrong with me or why i feel the way i do. I don't think that it's ever going to get better to be fair. I know what nice moments are, yeah. I really enjoy the time with my gf but everytime i'm alone i'm just being dragged down and don't want to do anything except laying on the ground or just starring into the nothing. I'm beyond my limits and it's getting worse each day. I've done stupid things too yeah, it doesn't really matter to me anymore tho. but all i want to say is that no one is alone. There are people out there who can relate to you, know what you've been through, can brighten your days or just be there for YOU when you can't bring up the urge or energy to help the people you love. It's okay to try and repair yourself. It's okay to relax, it's okay to get help, it's okay to even just do nothing when you don't feel like doing anything. Let those people help you that want to help you. I know that it can be hard to excist or just be yourself. I've made the mistake and never let those people help me who really want me to live and love me. I felt like telling you this cause you deserve it. You show trust to other people and i want to give it back before it's to late. Maybe we can be friends one day, but most likely we'll never see each other, stranger. But hey, my heart will be open to anyone who stayed strong for way to long and needs a break or isn't feeling well. For YOU Take care, live yourself and maybe even try to find something you show interest for. Even if it's hard and feels like you don't deserve it, you do deserve it. This 1% of joy can bring you more smiles then you could've ever imagined. I love you, friend in this big world. Thank you for being here.
I hate when I tell someone about my past and they just say “real” like being hung upside down by my ankles by my dad to stop me crying is “real?” My mom not liking me unless she’s had alcohol is “real?” When my dad pretended to murder me in front of my grandparents and mom that’s “real?” Me crying over the smallest things to the point I cry everyday is “real?” Me not having anything but the “ghost “ in my room Gloria there to comofort me when I think about relapsing is “real?” Me genuinely hating everything about me is “real?” my mom threatening to kick me out when at the time I was 10 is “real?” My “friends” in fifth grade CONSTANTLY left me out or ganged up and made fun of me is “real?” Idk whatever
