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PREGNANT AT 19! - My Story of Being a Young Mom 

Brittany Xavier
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@adub8119
@adub8119 4 года назад
Anyone else here from TikTok?
@korinnagarcia
@korinnagarcia 4 года назад
A Dub 🙋🏻‍♀️
@lenasalahaddin
@lenasalahaddin 4 года назад
Yup
@monayca6749
@monayca6749 4 года назад
Meee
@mimituico
@mimituico 4 года назад
I doooooo
@kyaharris6124
@kyaharris6124 4 года назад
Exactly
@mariajosezacariasperalta2530
@mariajosezacariasperalta2530 5 лет назад
i got teary eyes, particularly because of Anthony being so okay with you having a kid, and embracing being dad :) Jadyn is beautiful kid, you have done it great, badass!!!
@EsraaBassiouni
@EsraaBassiouni 5 лет назад
I love how honest you are in this video
@heyhorinshi
@heyhorinshi 5 лет назад
This was the realest thing I watch in a long time
@brittanyxavier
@brittanyxavier 5 лет назад
❤️❤️❤️
@kesinekaur8049
@kesinekaur8049 3 года назад
Wow my story is exactly the same, we’re the same age, I had my son at 21, met my new partner 2010, we now have a daughter and she’s 8. Life is funny we think we’re alone in this but so many of us are experiencing the same things.
@taylormatchett
@taylormatchett 5 лет назад
I also always assumed Anthony was Jadyn's dad as they seem so happy together. Would love to see more videos like this discussing your personal journey! I have followed you on RU-vid/Instagram for the awesome fashion inspo but I also love seeing content with Jadyn. She's so cute and seems so kind, probably because her mom is an awesome role model. Happy Mother's Day!
@aimeecordeirodias1568
@aimeecordeirodias1568 5 лет назад
I had no idea he wasn’t her biological father, or that you were married, I thought you were the kind of person who wouldn’t want to get married
@brittanyxavier
@brittanyxavier 5 лет назад
Aimêe Cordeiro Dias originally never wanted to get married! So funny how different life experiences can change ur views
@nadiagraveran3289
@nadiagraveran3289 3 года назад
I can’t believe Dua Lipa has successfully hidden a child from the world this entire time... 😳🙌🏻
@ioanniskoukas9971
@ioanniskoukas9971 3 года назад
Lol em this is not Dua Lipa...
@nadiagraveran3289
@nadiagraveran3289 3 года назад
@@ioanniskoukas9971 I was being sarcastic because of how much she looks like Dua Lipa lol
@jillgilbert5115
@jillgilbert5115 5 лет назад
Wow that must’ve been so hard. I’m in college right now and I couldn’t imagine having a kid now. You really are a badass, Britney 💗
@savispice23
@savispice23 5 лет назад
Jill Gilbert Same I can barely handle college only having to take care of myself😫😂
@brittanyxavier
@brittanyxavier 5 лет назад
Jill Gilbert haha aw thank so much!
@LayneFable
@LayneFable 3 года назад
YOU'RE STUNNING
@sailormoonXx
@sailormoonXx 2 года назад
I got teary eyed I had my son at 19 too but was pregnant at 18 at graduation. I was so scared I wouldn't know what to do but now I'm proud of myself and my son and now I'm 24 weeks with my daughter at 24 :) thank you for being an inspiration to me and others 💗
@lindafernandez7697
@lindafernandez7697 4 года назад
I got pregnant at 19 as well. I’m currently working and going to college while my 8 year old follows you and Jayden on tiktok 😆 We love watching you guys! Thank you for sharing and being my inspiration.
@lovelytan2692
@lovelytan2692 4 года назад
Linda Fernandez same sis
@g-6-
@g-6- 3 года назад
why does an 8 year old have tik tok 😃
@greciamedero2808
@greciamedero2808 4 года назад
My mom had me at 19 too. I’m 26 and she’s 46 and people always think we’re sisters cause she looks really good and young
@mariakap4226
@mariakap4226 5 лет назад
Wow! I follow you on instagram for a few years but i never searched your back story or something, i just really liked your content. These years i never even thought that antony is not jadyn's dad. You have an amazing family and i hope to inspire single moms with this video, to not give up! Much love
@brittanyxavier
@brittanyxavier 5 лет назад
maria kap aw thank you so much!!
@digitalshiro
@digitalshiro 5 лет назад
Thanks for sharing! I have been following you for years and when you mentioned Jadyn was your daughter I was so thrown off bc I wouldn't have expected that! Everything happens for a reason - your fam inspires me!
@brittanyxavier
@brittanyxavier 5 лет назад
A lot of people are lol Aww thank you :)
@shraddhakochar9830
@shraddhakochar9830 5 лет назад
When you see beautiful pictures on social media, you don't realise what goes behind. Really amazing and inspiring. Thanks for sharing.
@lav30714
@lav30714 2 года назад
At first i assumed that you were a lowkey victoria secret model or something like that 😅😅
@ashleysiebes
@ashleysiebes 5 лет назад
My Mom had me at 20 as well! I think the bond is so special and I’m so grateful for all the hard work she had to put in to provide for me. Jadyn is so blessed to have you!! Thank you for sharing your back story, it’s beautiful!
@mw5425
@mw5425 5 лет назад
I love watching personal stuff like this, it’s motivating for me as a uni student and also kind of humanizes influencers that I assume have perfect, privileged lives
@brittanyxavier
@brittanyxavier 5 лет назад
MW aw love hearing that! Will be sharing more again! :)
@juliagmonty
@juliagmonty 3 года назад
You seem like such a strong, kickass woman, your parents should be so proud
@juliannatrure
@juliannatrure 4 года назад
This is a beautiful story. I’ve been following you for a while and did notice Jadyn didnt look like Anthony so I was super confused but I love the part where you said when you introduced yourself to anthony you didnt give a damn what anyone thought that you had a child. So many women try to cover up who they are and I loved your confidence for that. 👍👍👍
@3aaas7
@3aaas7 5 лет назад
One of the things I like most about your IG are your family insta stories.
@brittanyxavier
@brittanyxavier 5 лет назад
Anel Salas aw so good to know thank u!
@anatjub
@anatjub 4 года назад
Ok I thought Britanny was 17 or 19 the first time I saw her on TikTok 🤯
@michelleberenice
@michelleberenice 5 лет назад
Lol.... I was one of those people that thought Jayden was your sister and your parents would make you baby sit her when they were away or something. It wasn’t until I started watching your RU-vid videos that I realized she was your daughter. This video was really good, honest, and sincere. Thanks for sharing!
@rayannemay9572
@rayannemay9572 5 лет назад
I’ve been following you for a long while now and I’ve always been curious about your family dynamic, it is really inspiring that you shared this with all of us. Maybe this is too personal, but does Jayden ever see her biological dad or is he not in the pic? Much lovee
@flozy5275
@flozy5275 4 года назад
I think it’s really amazing how on board your family was, without the support of your family and those that willingly took care of your daughter would’ve made school and a job sm harder but you did so well, honestly you seem like an amazing mother!!
@miikmak9049
@miikmak9049 4 года назад
You look like dua lipa
@oliviag7590
@oliviag7590 5 лет назад
Loved this video! Your clearly a beautiful person inside and out. Really loved hearing about that part of your life, especially as a young person myself and questioning what I should be doing and what path to take especially after finishing university. Love your channel so much!!!!
@achikuy9148
@achikuy9148 5 лет назад
Thank you for sharing. Love your authenticity. Happy Mother’s Day!
@brittanyxavier
@brittanyxavier 5 лет назад
Thank you!!
@monayca6749
@monayca6749 4 года назад
This story is so inspiring, even though I’m 13 I learned something from her
@daisyd3535
@daisyd3535 5 лет назад
I love this video!! glad you got to share your story about Jadyn, happy Mother’s Day ❤️❤️
@MirandBeauty
@MirandBeauty 5 лет назад
I love yooooouuuuu so much!! i feel really connected with you, god bless you guys!!! ❤️❤️ Happy mothers day ❤️
@brittanyxavier
@brittanyxavier 5 лет назад
MirandBeauty aw thank u! :)
@dela_ruthh
@dela_ruthh 5 лет назад
It was so incredible to learn about your experience of being a young mother! You are truly an exceptional person and it's amazing to hear about your resilience and love through this story. Thank you for sharing!
@nameavailable987
@nameavailable987 4 года назад
Single mom here, definitely insecure about it but this helped a million times
@Parmsi
@Parmsi 5 лет назад
Awwww this just melt my heart! I love you guys! Such a great family! My mom went through almost the same thing when she had me at 20 years old. Happy Mother’s Day beautiful ❤️❤️
@brittanyxavier
@brittanyxavier 5 лет назад
Parmsi so amazing! And thank u :)
@torybergmann3971
@torybergmann3971 5 лет назад
Been following you for awhile and I never put the ages together. Truly incredible how your plan was thrown off but instead of giving up, you refocuses and decided to set an example with everything you did for your daughter from a young age. Honestly incredible.
@Aspasela
@Aspasela 5 лет назад
Good for you Brittany! I think you have done such a great job with Jadyn. I wonder - is her biological father around at all? Do you split your time with her or does he not want to be involved. Regardless you do you - happy Mothers day!
@Kammie2123
@Kammie2123 3 года назад
More of the “real life” content!! So amazing to know the woman behind the glam!🖤
@haileybrynn6182
@haileybrynn6182 5 лет назад
Such a boss mom. All I can say is I’m not as big of a person as you are and I’m so in awe. What a goodie mom. Such a hard worker. Wow.
@maramkraida1481
@maramkraida1481 5 лет назад
It is awesome how you spoke truly and realistically about your experience.
@brittanyxavier
@brittanyxavier 5 лет назад
MARAM KRAIDA thank u!!
@AM257.
@AM257. 5 лет назад
This story has made me inspired by you even more, thank you for sharing Brittany 💞
@brittanyxavier
@brittanyxavier 5 лет назад
Thank you for such kind words ❤️
@PRINCESSCHIVLOG
@PRINCESSCHIVLOG 5 лет назад
Exactly dear,you plan your life,but one can't predict what happens. Motherhood is not easy at all,but there is joy dat comes with it,when u look at your angel in your arms. You are a strong woman Brittany❤️
@antoninat7027
@antoninat7027 3 года назад
Hi I subscribed + I followed you on tiktok and Instagram and I love you and your whole family, your such an inspiration to me. I really need a new phone because mine is old and broken. Ilysm 💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗 and also I made the effort to comment on your EVERY VIDEO!
@evareyes664
@evareyes664 5 лет назад
I grew up in Glendora too!😂
@majesticlioness9763
@majesticlioness9763 3 года назад
I turned 21 literally not even a month before I had my first baby & I was not with the father anymore,he actually told me that “it wasn’t his” I was like WOW,really 😠 so when I was 6 mo prego I moved to San Diego with my older sister & that’s where my son was born..And my pre-pregnancy bod was a size 5 jeans & I’m 5’3” & my son was 9 lb 5 oz 😳 And that San Diego heat was at 103 to109 during my last trimester so I was miserable.. But I wanted this baby so much & I didn’t care what this pregnancy was doing to my poor tummy”I got super big stretch marks” but it was all worth it & I started calling my stretch marks my tiger stripes,I earned every one of them.. But when I moved back to my hometown,my son was 6 mo old & I thought I’d get in touch with his biological & let him know about his son & he told me that my son looked Mexican,that I went and got pregnant in San Diego & he looks nothing like him.. He is so ignorant saying such things to me,like I was already at 6mo when I left home but I just said to myself, Cool we don’t need you in our lives cuz I been doing it on my own from day one & will keep on raising my son by myself..Now,my son Anthony is 26 & I also have 5 more children and they are my WORLD! I think your an AWESOME MOTHER and you went thru a lot too but us women are STRONG & when it comes to our babies there’s nothing stopping us from doing all that we do for them..Your Daughter is Beautiful, you & your daughter remind me so much of my 15 yr old and I.. I’m so glad your hubby Anthony came into your lives,your family is BEAUTIFUL (doggies included) 💗
@momdeuse
@momdeuse 4 года назад
I have now 33 and my older kid almost 13. I wanted her so bad so no accident at all 😅 And I really kind of feel the same way you do. I found your account on Tiktok and followed because you remind me of us. The funniest moment we had I think it was with my mom (she had me on her twenties too) when in a supermarket a lady ask her if she was breastfeeding and she said « no I’m the grand mother » . Kisses from France 🇫🇷 ♥️
@autumnaddison5008
@autumnaddison5008 5 лет назад
Did jay change her last name when you guys got married?
@brittanyxavier
@brittanyxavier 5 лет назад
Autumn & Addison once I started going by Xavier she asked to too- it was really sweet. She had my maiden last name
@alinprom
@alinprom 5 лет назад
thank you for sharing. not everyone are brave like you
@luzbelenlf
@luzbelenlf 3 года назад
SHE LOOKS JUST LIKE DUA LIPA
@caitlintarrant5636
@caitlintarrant5636 4 года назад
Wow, your outlook on life is so inspirational!
@marrinasmith7246
@marrinasmith7246 Год назад
19 is not a crazy age. I got pregnant at 21 my friend got pregnant at 20 and we are both fine. If you are 18+ I don't understand why this generation acts like that's crazy young. I'm only 22. But I wouldn't had considered myself super young at 19 either
@autumnaddison5008
@autumnaddison5008 5 лет назад
Love this story and the bond between you and jadyn, and Anthony and jadyn!! Do you guys plan on having any other kids?
@brittanyxavier
@brittanyxavier 5 лет назад
Autumn & Addison maybe! He never experienced the newborn stage so I think that would be fun- in a few years if anything
@ABC-ts4wq
@ABC-ts4wq 4 года назад
I just finished watching a video of a 15yr old mom from her RU-vid channel and then brought me this channel, and I literally laughed when Brittany said “i was so young” “I got pregnant at a very young age” 🙉🤯🙆🏻‍♀️
@tylerlaughlin2042
@tylerlaughlin2042 2 года назад
Im loving your all gold chains on your neck line big fan of them special gold herringbone necklace
@aleenaregi9821
@aleenaregi9821 5 лет назад
I'm a new follower of yours on instagram and I had my doubts cuz you look really young. Now that I know your story I'm really happy for y'all ! You are really inspiring and strong.
@brittanyxavier
@brittanyxavier 5 лет назад
aleena regi aw thank u!
@annaruth1057
@annaruth1057 Год назад
When did Anthony adopt her?! Love y’all’s story.
@lilyjanowitz4136
@lilyjanowitz4136 3 года назад
Hey dua lipa
@susanacardenasss
@susanacardenasss 4 года назад
I would love toknow how you started your blog? Maybe some tips on how you managed to makeit grow + having a kid.
@janknitshooked7031
@janknitshooked7031 5 лет назад
Glad you shared this ❤️
@amandamsanchez
@amandamsanchez 5 лет назад
Love!!!! Ugh you’re the coolest.
@PRINCESSCHIVLOG
@PRINCESSCHIVLOG 5 лет назад
Hi Brittany,new family in your house,we met at ADA'S DELICACY live stream earlier today,just stopping by to check your content,and I wish to have you too in my family soon.
@lilyforeman5389
@lilyforeman5389 3 года назад
not only have i subscribed but i have also liked the video and turned on notifications! I have the Iphone 5se and its very broken. This iphone 12 would mean the world. Plz notice and enter me in the raffle. Wow my fingers hurt from typing this in on so many videos haha!
@bebe3770
@bebe3770 3 года назад
Hi guys, I met you thanks to TikTok and now I am a huge fan of your RU-vid channel. I subscribed and hope to win the iphone!
@pennywhite34
@pennywhite34 Год назад
I just found your page and was watching some of your old videos. Your backstory is similar to mine so I can really relate. Thanks for opening up and sharing. We all know what happens when people assume…
@Andy-nc3np
@Andy-nc3np 3 года назад
I think prego at 19 isn't bad a lot of woman get pregnant at that time. But I think what people get confused with is cause u look young. U literally haven't aged u are a beautiful gem and so is ur daughter. As long as yall happy its all that matters
@janaandonoska2099
@janaandonoska2099 4 года назад
That is not that young, you were over 18 and that meant that you were an adult. Plus some people have kids at 14 or 15 .No hate i love you💜💜💜❤
@skibusia7
@skibusia7 3 года назад
God kept his promise He gave you througt that passage you mentioned in the other video. He restore you and blessed you with a good husband and life. Best wishes!
@jjajangmyun92
@jjajangmyun92 4 года назад
wow. don't know u rlly, just went down the social media rabbit hole. but i have so much respect for ur journey.
@savispice23
@savispice23 5 лет назад
I’ve always been curious in your family story! Thanks for sharing, you’re such an inspiration! It’s just been me and my mom since my mom was pregnant lol and I could really relate to that special relationship you talked about. Happy Mother’s Day!
@brittanyxavier
@brittanyxavier 5 лет назад
Savi Spice aw so good to hear thank you!
@lilyjones86
@lilyjones86 3 года назад
I knew she was your baby..but honestly I think because I can relate. I am 34 and my oldest is almost 15 ❤
@TheJeenbeen
@TheJeenbeen 3 года назад
Am i crazy? But doesn't she look like dua lipa?? 😂😂
@control_alt_delete4894
@control_alt_delete4894 3 года назад
I love your vids but the filter over them is really throwing me off. You don't need it!
@ElizabethTran
@ElizabethTran 5 лет назад
Really loved this video! I started following you about four years ago, and I always love your relationship with Jadyn (as well as Anthony's relationship with her)! It's so heartwarming!
@autumnaddison5008
@autumnaddison5008 5 лет назад
This story kinda shows how things happen for a reason, because if you never had Jadyn and changed your mind about being an attorney for her sake, you would not have ended up with your career today and doing what you love with a beautiful daughter
@clairenichol
@clairenichol 3 года назад
I LOVE you story. Mine is similar, I had my son at 22, and it’s just been us all these years. I do resonate. It’s really beautiful to see your family now :)
@kelseywilson4170
@kelseywilson4170 5 лет назад
Thank you for sharing! You’re such a great mom! 💗
@belmarierivera2361
@belmarierivera2361 4 года назад
Hey girl I have a 13 and 12 year old son and I am 29 about to be 30 in August 22♥️♥️
@eunicesueanne
@eunicesueanne 3 года назад
she is the CUTEST!!! so lucky to have a best friend like her!
@turtlexhappyturtle8840
@turtlexhappyturtle8840 4 года назад
I’m 12 and my moms 29
@susanacardenasss
@susanacardenasss 4 года назад
Thanks sososo much for sharing! Im about to become a mom and I'm super excited but nervous about time managment and how am I still gonna be able to pursue my dream while having my baby. So inspiring, thanks
@jessicamclennaghan3614
@jessicamclennaghan3614 3 года назад
you're such a strong women and the bond you have with Jay is everything💕 you have built the cutest little fam with Jadyn, Anthony and the pups🥰 love your videos Brittany xx
@pamelameyer3046
@pamelameyer3046 3 года назад
You’re beautiful and your family is beautiful!! Much love and blessings your way 🤍🤍
@NicoArtLife
@NicoArtLife 4 года назад
Thank you for sharing your story. It was really great to hear more about you. We have had a little correspondence on IG about your outfits etc- which are always impeccably styled :) What I found particularly interesting about your personal journey is that you didn’t see yourself having a family or married- and I have to say, I felt that same way. Then we had our daughter, and everything changed. I also worried too about a child changing my life- which if I’m honest she did, but I was happy with the change and I tried hard to keep my own identity throughout which I feel is important as a woman. My Daughter is my best friend- we are so close and it’s amazing to have that relationship. Again it was great to hear your journey- IG: @Nicoartlife 🤗
@lilyjones86
@lilyjones86 3 года назад
You put this out there perfectly. This is exactly how I felt too and how I had to navigate too. It's not easy at all but they truly are blessings ❤
@gabriellarosen2158
@gabriellarosen2158 4 года назад
haha this is funny becasue i randomly watched this and mothers day was yesterday! and today is the day you filmed this but in2019
@andreasspp
@andreasspp 5 лет назад
Now that you posted this, I was wondering.. what about your parents? Do you visit them?? Does Jadyn has a relationship with her grandparents?
@lizabettmir
@lizabettmir 4 года назад
I think that 20 is not just such a young mother in contrast to 16 years for example.🙄 I don't want to offend anyone, but 20 years most of the people are already quite adults, so it's good that your daughter was born at this age. Perhaps if not for her appearance you would be a completely different person now. You are well done that you work and do everything to make you and your child happy, not everyone can be such a parent☺️😻😻
@CL-fs3kt
@CL-fs3kt 3 года назад
Nowadays 19/20 is still considered young. Surprisingly
@profmj7630
@profmj7630 Год назад
Thank you for sharing your story as a young mom
@cycywanyeki
@cycywanyeki 3 года назад
It's the lashes for me..😍
@rajbaee7517
@rajbaee7517 5 лет назад
I love you brittany ❤️❤️❤️
@ooollgaa
@ooollgaa 3 года назад
You remind me of Frida
@lynne4865
@lynne4865 4 года назад
Beautiful story, I got emotional. My Mum had the same start and she worked her butt off for us. Mums are the best.
@jennascottscott4488
@jennascottscott4488 2 года назад
Awe Britney she so adorable
@Kammie2123
@Kammie2123 3 года назад
More of the “real life” content!! So amazing to know the woman behind the glam!🖤
@Postmarome
@Postmarome 3 года назад
Would love to hear more or a series on your experience as a single mother. Thanks for sharing this.
@salvianacarissa1419
@salvianacarissa1419 3 года назад
you are such a strong woman, love you brittany!
@debbieyanta5753
@debbieyanta5753 4 года назад
Thank you for sharing everything in your past.. I also wanted to say that watching Anthony talk about becoming a Dad and the entire video, it was watched with tears in my eyes. His feelings and thoughts he shared were so honest. I appreciate you both sharing parts of LIFE. Loved the How you got started videos and even though I'm old enough to be your Mom, I enjoy everything your blog is about. Fashion has always been important to me, fashion has no age barrier. Love you guy's.
@cindyting7558
@cindyting7558 5 лет назад
Your story is so inspiring! Thank you for sharing that. Just out of curiosity, what made you decide to become a fashion blogger after working in a marketing firm? Did you regret not pursuing your dream of becoming an attorney?
@pamelameyer3046
@pamelameyer3046 3 года назад
Your are inspiring, thanks for sharing your story. ❤️
@lovable8066
@lovable8066 5 лет назад
Does Jayden sees her biological father?
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