For Indians it's not about budget.... it's about relations.....we make connect with even our househelp and subordinates and they with their family is invited to every occasion
@@rubayaafzal2658 how come I'm hateful here....i haven't used any derogatory remarks about any person , community or cult......where I live it's the scenario and that's what I said in most respectful and simplest way possible......it might be you who took it as hate comment and even YT hid your comment.....and personally I have never seen someone marrying their nieces.....but you can't see above comment.....for you it wasn't hateful towards a particular country...... isn't it called double standards?
@@harshanahar she never said her country is the whole world, she didn't know about marriages in other cultures and was curious, we need to learn to coexist and not be so mad at everyone all the time
ek traf ke card jaate itne to.....i remember we were short in cards even after printing 200 we ordered another 50 so that last Tak bhi kam na pde and actually pure gye 😂😂😂
@@amrish1316 we are only middle class people...... But in India it is like a tradition that the marriages are big mostly. The main marriage all the arrangements are from the bride side and the reception is given by the groom side. U spend about 3 lakhs in food for 1000 people with lawn and every other facility like the decorations and all.
@@shafaquekhan8805 Dude how is that possible? We have a wedding coming up in the family in like 5 days. The groom and bride did not want a lavish wedding because they just simply don't believe that it's smart to spend a lot in weddings. In 2022, at least, they just booked the lawn only for 3,00,000 and another 3,30,000 for food for about 350 people. The decorations cost about 2,50,000. Obviously there are other costs associated with clothes, jewellery, gifts, band, host, make-up, beauty services etc. No dowry is ever made to or by my families. We are highly against it. So despite of all this, we have to pay at least 3 times the cost for simply food, venue and decorations for literally one day. Also we did our research and this is approximately how much it would cost no matter what how much we looked for different options. You are quoting a price that I find impossibly cheap and that too for 1000 people.
@@himikr1895 see here is the difference we booked the lawn for about 70k..(may be the city difference) Then we definitely didn't spend anything for the decorations...may be some 10..20k maximum.. Here i m not at all including the expenditure on clothes, jwellery, haldi and mehndi function. I m just talking about the main function of 1000 people. We don't appoint some lavish hotel for food. We actually give local people the contract where they cost per plate...which is around 300 per plate depending upon ur menu, it can 350 or 400 too.(they gave us a discount bcoz he is known person and has been handling many weddings from my family) Trust me we had brilliant food at the wedding 😍😍😍 We don't spend anything on the entry of groom or bride. It's all just simple and to the point.
@@himikr1895 Its not impossible, 3 lakhs - 5 lakhs is enough for a marriage. If marriage is happening at a temple or in your home. 2 times food for 1000 people along with other expenses like invitation, dresses 5 lakh is enough.
Yes. it seems difficult for her to understand that a certain side of the world is brave enough to invite all people they know on their life's most special day....
@@kstar1489 it is very serious knowing she's a horrible person and being outted by her former employees. he even got cancelled i think when her past acts caught up lmao.... it is not only for laughs, that's just who they're as a person.
@@aaryakulkarni787 they aren't right. In India we forge relationships. We have homely ties with our neighbours. We aren't practical beings, we invite people home and offer food to even a stranger who visits. We are hospitable. Our culture is such that we invite people on our big occasions because we value relationships.. not just the close one. We are not Americans where even relationship between parents and children is practical. It's suited for them, not us.
@@aadtie5633 well wedding is a wedding, I don't want some random dude to crash my wedding just for the food. Don't wanna be hospitable to people who don't value you. A big No!
Unlike western marriage invitation cards, Indian invitation cards mentions YOU ARE CORDIALLY INVITED WITH YOUR FAMILY & FRIENDS.. When you take your friend or any other family member to the function, normally the host will be pleased instead of annoyed..
From ME, i attended my 1st indian wedding in Kenya. At least 1.5K people.... we couldnt even hear the ceremony, even seeing it was like from 50 meters away. Food was amazing as expected.. Was a very unique experience, and overall very impressive... this was over 20 years and i still remeber it vividly.
I thought she had 200 people because of covid restrictions 🤣🤣 who invites only 200 for their wedding!! So many relatives must have been upset with them
@@parthmudgal9270 it's normal here and they are those people whose functions we attend so it's not fair we go theirs and not invite them but nowdays it's also becoming common to invite few and do wedding in some other places or destination wedding
@@papaji2068 it like.... ye hamara roj ka sa kaam h... Jitne logo ko jante h un sab ko bulana hota h ... kon bataye inhe.... These are the people who prefer per person per house....
My wedding had 1300 guest, 1100 from my side and 200 from my husband's side. Only 3 of my friends I had invited remaining all were invited by my parents.
I know her name .. Because she also done bts interview and i watched it too...but I don't like it.. I asked her name just like her how she was speaking full of sarcasm 🤷♀️.... . Thanks for replying though☺
We gave a 2000 invitation for my brother's marriage and the catering people lost count after 2800 people who were dining. The only thing people say "ok its enough" is food. People's blessings with a satisfied heart and hunger is all it's for.
Host saying 200 is alot and here in my marriage 2500 and plus people came 😅 . Here in India even this amount of people came but still some says they didn't invite us like at time of my wedding their are one of wedding of my relatives like not close relative but some went to that wedding whoever close to them and they apologize to us that if that wedding was at some other day then they were definitely attended my wedding 😂. It's normal here
@@IrsidaSheshi In India most of them have their own lands mainly in town areas or in their villages so most of them prefer weddings to be held in their villages if this many people are going to be invited so theres no problem in grathering. it does feel like a small concert cause everybody dance and sing it's fun though .
@@deeptimurmu6039 We do the same in Albania, but definitely not 2500 people. There's only 3million in all of Albania lol. We also have three day weddings and I think in the old days it was like a whole week. Three days with your family and three days with the groom family. It is fun and always a beautiful thing for the community too cause we give candy and other sweets to the whole village when someone gets married. I would love to attend an Indian wedding. I am assuming it will be even crazier than ours lol
@@IrsidaSheshi you must experience our wedding style it's really very crazy 😂😂specially when groom comes to take his bride with his male friends and brothers (which we call barat) like whole roads get packed up with people dancing crazily their heart out😂like they dance whole night
Yes we have booked big hall where 3000 people can adjust usually here such big hall are available for wedding but we have to book before a 6 month and their also option like we have big farm or some big place in village where we can do this . But we have to invite all people who we knows since it's our culture if we forgot someone even they were not so close it considers disrespectful for them that's why invitations is always prepared and managed by someone who can take responsibility and also I don't about other states (I think it should be same) but for Maharashtra it's always groom have to send important invitations by himself and for bride it should be her father aur someone old in family And for other invitation can be send by uncle aur any other close relatives also. And for managing gatherings their always some close uncle who given task to manage guest and food serving . Their always work will be divided among family.
Hahaha! recently in my aunt's wedding there were almost 5000 people and now whenever our relatives meet us they sorry to us for not attending wedding 😂
For an Indian wedding, 200 is actually less 😅. In my brother's wedding there were around 800-1000 people. It's just that our families are very big and connected. Ellen should do her research of other countries and their culture as well 😂
Americans need to understand that not the whole world follow their culture Priyanka is absolutely right it's very common to invite 1000 people at an hindu wedding.
Love that about their culture. I was once invited to the wedding of a person's (whom I had met at a shop) daughter. At first I thought, what would the daughter think, I haven't even met her? Then I meet her and she straight away says, "You should come to my wedding!"
my parents invited 2000 relatives during my wedding and I am not a celebrity.. just normal ordinary family.. and that upset my mum coz she can’t invite her 5th & 6th cousins family as my Dad said 2000 is enough..
Prianka is such a respectful person. I really admire her. After I saw this programme my thinking about Ellen totally changed. She was trying to put Prianka down whenever Prianka said anything.
Turkish weddings usually host around 600-1000 people. Our wedding had only 150 guest due to covid and I’d also say it was super intimate. It’s just a cultural thing
I just got married My wedding had around 800 people Out of which 300 were family from both sides And I had 5 days festivities Day 1: Mehndi Day 2: Juroon Day 3: Reception Day 4: Wedding Day 5: Grooms side reception
We had 250 over for just a housewarming ceremony 9 years ago Now family has grown so much more And in marriage you need to invite a lot of people Now we have to invite my cousin's in laws and relatives too So it goes on adding up after every marriage in the family
I m just an ordinary girl having 70 people in my engagement. My wedding have 500 people and walima with 250-300 people in native place. Then I have to give party to bombay friends and the office friends in boisar.
@@anjalijoseph7164 it's my life ...... I can speak whatever I want n kid , if u have so much prob with this then why u writing about ur family publicly ??
I had 40 ppl only because of corona time or it would have been 500 min. Escape B) . It was better than having random relatives in a big hall. Just had close family on a cute lawn.
In asia its so common that we have big family. My dad has like 10 siblings and my mom has 15 siblings not gonna include their child and granchild. So its common in asian wedding to have like thousands of people come.
Ellen people like U..plz u should travel to other countries also.. oh no no atleast study about that.. there is also a other cultures followed by people who do not follow American culture..i don't know y these people mocking Indian about guest in weddings
Yes it's TRUE indian weddings are so beautiful with so many rituals we perform so many traditions foreigner can't really understand My wedding we invited 2000 people even we missed so many and just invited most imp people
In Kerala, At first , we book a hall with a seating capacity of atleast 1000 PPL . And then also, once the ceremony begins u can see PPL standing in the corridors struggling to see wats happening on the stage, cuz not only d seats, bt there is no space to even stand inside the hall!!! 😂😂😂 We knw hw sad the families were wen the govt restricted the number during the pandemic 😇 But thts wat we are!!! Our culture... For us, wedding is a national celebration. 🔥🤭
O please even my family has a Jeweller because if we are buying jewelleries from same person we get a lot of preferences and discounts and trust me i am from a very middle class family !!
@@JanyaK obviously i am not a celebrity so i don't need them but she has been a celebrity for the last two decades so having a family hairdresser is a necessity for her and her profession
